Honestly being in a boat with a bunch of my pretty friends who all told me how hot I am was monumentally helpful in me getting over my breakup lmao. It's so important to surround yourself with people who will remind you how small a breakup might be in the grand scheme of things.
This is a non-sequitur but I had to comment on the nuance & beauty of your daily fashion choices. You truly have a talented eye for aesthetics. Watching your outfit shorts is like watching a mystery unfold. You take pieces that appear (to me) to clash or pieces that, individually, I don’t even like and then weave them into a masterpiece! And you don’t rely on your beauty to sell your fashion sense. Not that using one’s beauty in that way is wrong or less genuine…it’s just that I find it very satisfying that you create these outfits to be memorable on their own. You make them accessible, like, almost in spite of how attractive you are. Okay, yep. I don’t know if you’ll ever read this, Jessica, and that’s perfectly ok. I just suffer from this pathological need to gush over someone when I become a fan of their content. Live long & prosper 🖖
i'm gonna be 24 soon and i've never had sex, i've never kissed anyone, i've never been in love, and i just never did anything dating related. i'm afraid that i'll be 30 and none of that will happen and i'm afraid of being 40 and none of that will happen. i have friends who are going to get married that tell me to suck it up because the single life is great but....how are my soon to be married friends saying that to me? It doesn't make me feel any better 💀 it's just hard for me to grasp still because every single one of my friends are in a relationship yet there's me, a single pringle. My thing is, I wish I can enjoy my twenties with someone I love and who loves me, but now it's almost halfway gone. 😣
Hey don't worry, you still have your whole life ahead of you, don't rush. Some people just fall in love later, you will eventually find your other half. Also have you considered being aromantic? If you don't know aromanticism is experiencing little to no romantic attraction. I'm not saying that you are but maybe try do some research about it. Good luck
@@maggie-gx5cb Thank you!!! And I've actually never considered it because I believe I'm faaar from aromanticism haha I love romance and I love everything that has to do with romance. A romantic relationship is one of the things I really want in life haha.
I got pressured into having sex by my now ex. He was extremely abusive. Im still learning it’s not my fault. Thank you for bringing that up!! I feel like we are pressured to do things and that’s not right. I really appreciate your videos!
How do I get confidence if I am overweight? How do I start to wear things I want to but feel like I'm too fat to wear? And I always feel like everyone else looks good but for some reason I just seem to hate myself.
It starts with self love babe. Positive affirmations!! Talk positively to yourself. It’s okay to give yourself compliments! There is nothing wrong with looking in the mirror and saying something like “hey I look great today!” And make overs !! Switch it up. Change your hair color, paint your nails, buy a new bra and panty set girl! Go out ! Or stay in. Have a drink and have fun. I always feel better after a hair change lol. Give yourself a break. It’s okay to not be perfect. You are beautiful and it’s okay to be beautiful and not look like what others think you should look like ! So be different.
i’ve been following you for a while on instagram and i’m obsessed with your account (you are an icon!!) - so happy you have a youtube channel as well 🤩
Guys PLEASE wait to have sex until you are in love and you’re ready. Being a virgin is something to be happy about and proud of !! That’s something you won’t understand until after you let someone that close to you. Please listen to this advice. Rant over lol
