+randyfletcher86 It's fantastic advice. If a picture is worth a thousand words, living a day must be countless. No amount of words could make Bill Burr truly understand the situation and it's factors or even the people involved 100%, so a personal and clear decision without the influence of a dick sometimes gives the best answer. It's also important to note that much of human progress has been driven by this insane and lustful force.
Like Bill said, there's this thing that could crush an empire 5 minutes or less and you think it's your friend. Our dicks are dreamers and a lot of times they dream too damn big.
Ladies and gentlemen, Bill Burr. He's got the wisdom of a Japanese Sensei in an American bar, wrapped in a Bostonian accent, delivered through the internet. Bravo, Bill... you nailed this one.
*"Think back when you were a kid and you thought about meeting the woman of your dreams, is that how you imagined it ?"* The best advise I've ever heard, genius and Bill probably didn't even notice.
+LastAvailableAlias I heard that they also have a predilection for nascar and rhinestone trucker caps. Good thing that Nia seems confident and doesnt need to prove herself.
The average 28 year old American that goes to work long-term as an English language specialist in Japan is typically not some alpha horndog, let's be real. They tend to be sensitive and lonely. They want meaning and romance. This guy might have given YEARS of his life away to this woman, serving as nothing more than her sidepiece, an accessory to this messy and depressing thing that is her life. But he realized he wanted more, and could maybe still find something more. I respect his decision to do what was right for him. Even though I totally would have smashed that.
Translators make minimum wage. They are are dime a dozen. Lots wrong with a roll in the hay. Years ago, I lived in NYC. I had several room mates - one was a Japanese woman. She had an attractive married japanese woman who came to stay for visit. Since my roommate had a small room I joked to my roomate "hey Kumi can sleep with me tonight" - she laughed, but then her married friend came to join me in my bed that night. Maybe its a Japanese thing.
Having affairs is pretty common in Japan, and sexless marriages are at least somewhat common. I really respect this guy for not doing it, but I would understand if he did go through with it. It's too bad, but that's how it is out there. That's one of the reasons why their sex/porn industry is so huge. Prostitution is legal as long as it is within certain districts (every major city has a red-light district) and prostitutes work in licensed businesses. There's also "host" clubs that are for women,which are basically male escorts who are paid to hang out, drink, talk to, and basically act like a boyfriend (but hosts don't have sex with their clients, surprisingly, considering how much money they make). The sexual dynamics in Japan are pretty screwed up and its sad, but it has a lot to do with their culture/social expectations
@@perrybb2 It is expected that you have a side chick(s) in Japan. Marriages are mostly solely a business partnership, that’s it. You generally don’t even live with the person you’ll marry prior to marriage, and you don’t wait around in non-marriage limbo. You get married shortly after meeting each other. Then you both go your separate ways, spending long long hours at work. Office affairs are the norm there. I’m half Japanese.
Japanese is not that are to learn. Best thing to do is get the fact that it’s “ridiculously hard” out of your head as that’s an initial barrier. My daughter loves anime so as all the good parents do, I stayed up late for a whole month teaching myself Japanese & now I’m in a position to be able to teach her the basics & more. Start with hiragana, then katakana, then kanji. Japanese language is a lot easier to learn than people think. Anyone can learn it but you can’t if you’re telling yourself it’s impossible.
Mad respect on dudes part. I would have told her straight up "go get a divorce and explain to little billy why you split up first. Then we'll talk". If theres even a slight chance of them working it out, ill wait it out. Maybe im too empathetic.
He made the right choice there. don't break up a family with a kid. If she's not happy let her grow a pair and divorce her husband. That family gonna come to an end, that doesn't mean you have to be the catalyst.
Come on now Billy Dickbrain, Japanese language is flat as fuck and relatively easy to pronounce. It's the grammar and syntax that gets super complicated.
Best to cover your ass. Don't get yourself involved with other people's relationship problems, especially coworkers. If it's someone you meet online or something, and you don't have any normal contact with them, then that's different; but people connected to your personal or professional circle are trouble.
What I heard was it’s not cheating if it’s purely physical. According to some t.v. show I saw a decade ago about japan. Like, it was common practice for partners to solicit sex workers.
midevilmonkeyterd Depressing as fuck if you let it be depressing. Learn from his mistakes and make the best out of a bad situation, that is always really the only option. Feeling bad will solve nothing but actually make everything more worse as you are miserable, in order to succeed you always have to see the light in order to stay motivated.
midevilmonkeyterd Dude there is literally no way for me to determine a double meaning out of your comment haha. There is no need to calm down because im as calm as can be hahaha.
***** The culture is far too different from America. You will always be the foreigner there, no matter how well you speak, or have integrated. Japanese society is racist towards anyone who is not 100% ethnically Japanese. I am a tour guide for Japanese people and am referred to as a "foreigner" in my own country. I could go on and on, but to keep it brief, myself or my children would never be accepted, to be employed I would owe my company my life and never see my family, and the rights I get to enjoy as an American, are almost nonexistent over there.
+Andrew Leatham that same self-obsessed inner voice in the japanese is the same reason why they have/had way too many salary men worked to death, (suicide commiting) samuraris, a declining birth rate where ADULT diapers outnumber the babies, so many desperate women, a persisting isolationist attitude, etc. you see obsession in every single degree that your head can turn
@@arleatham I feel you. I'm Japanese, but grew up speaking english as my first language. I understand the Japanese people a bit more now. The reason why discrimination is a big part of the Japanese people is because of their strong idea of "good manners" and "common sense". Japanese "common sense" and "good manners" has over ridden natural human communication. Anything that doesn't fit in is feared and most often rejected(though secretly admired). ...btw, i think there's still hope tho...for all of us.
Did a year of college in Japan and I gotta say, I’m not sure how non-Japanese-speakers have fun there. No one speaks English unless you’re in the very center of each big city. But fun fact, the best Japanese women are the ones who don’t speak English. 日本語喋れる外国人はいつも喋れない人より楽に日本に生活できる 🤙🏻 喋れないと外人ハンターしか付き合えない Learning Japanese was tough, but a fair price for being able to (imo) properly enjoy the cleanest safest and most beautiful island nation on Earth
Sexless marriage in Japan is the norm from what I know, basically it boils down to this, the dads in Japan overwork themselves into an early grave to the point that they can barely return home, some of them even sleep at work and their managers see it as a sign of dedication to the work force, women if they work experience the same thing I would assume but some are stay at home moms for sure, it’s neither the guys fault or the woman’s fault their marriage is sexless but if one party has enough time for look for people on the side it communicates bad faith. If he fucked her or not consider this, when you will overwork yourself to that point she will do the same to you as the she did on her husband because she considered it an opportunity and an opinion.
reading hiragana isnt that hard really. many symbols are just 2 letters combined and many of them are somewhat similar to some english letters or they can remind you of an object. Like the letters "mu" looks like a cow, or "ki" looks like a key etc. now understanding it is something different lol
im at 4:20 and by now ive figured out, she knew what she was doing with the whole expensive cab routine, nvm missing the last train. id like to see bill bring this up in the next 6 minutes. if not, we can blather about it in the comment sections :D address me so i can read along :D
