@nihilisthomecooking000 I prefer working out at home too. I find it’s difficult to deceive myself by saying I’m too busy. Gym time isn’t going out it’s just picking up heavy shit putting it down and repeat
"I consider myself somewhat intelligent" I started laughing even before Bill. LOL I knew what was coming the moment I heard, "I consider myself..." Only, I shouted "...an IDIOT!"
They keep another guy lurking in the background all too often. Never get in a relationship with single mothers. Never cohabitate unless you're married.
Been with a similar kind of partner. They can't be who they promise to be or do what they promise to do. They can only be themselves and look out for their own happiness. Sometimes at your expense. You can be as selfless as you want to be, and as your love drives you to be. They don't have to return it in any amount. They have no obligation to you. You can cater to them while tolerating unhappiness for years. Waiting for them to treat you right. The moment they feel unhappy with you, they can decide you're not worth tolerating unhappiness for. Doesn't matter how long you have been together. They will secure a rebound, a new place to stay and have all your mutual friends on their side while still pretending to be with you. All the while you are still trying. When you're alone in the end, all you have left is yourself; reflecting on all the times you chose to betray your happiness for love. Everything will decay and change with time. People will change, come and go where life takes them. The one relationship that will be with you to the end is the one you have with yourself. That's who you shouldn't betray. And it's hard. It's hard to feel that you can only be your best self when you can go home to someone who loves you. It might even be true. And then it's even harder to choose yourself when the person you love, the person who brings out your best, doesn't choose you.
when you first meet your bf/gf, theyre awesome. they seem to be perfect. its only after about a year or year and a half when they can no longer hide their crazy from you.
Scorched earth. To get rid of a sociopath you have to nix everything you have of her, and you need to remove any way she can contact you or find you. It's difficult with social media but it can be done. Once you move on you will feel great! Look back and go how the hell was I ever with that!?
She got caught and got scared so she played victim and kicked the guy out. Im willimg to bet that during those two weeks, she flirted and went out with the guy and maybe ducked him too but that psycho mentality of not feeling the thrill of cheating anymore made her want the dude back to repeat the insanity.
"...but that psycho mentality of..." Maybe her side guy finally got a clear look at her craziness, and vanished. Oops! Time to reconcile with young guy she kicked out, before he comes to his senses and starts thinking with his head.
If you want to date someone who is older, the best way to vet them is through social media. Because when they get older, you'll find as you shop around, the warning signs given that age starts turning up in their headlines! And to those who will take whatever they can get, if she posts "My kids comes first" you deserve what you've got coming! 😉 So take it as more than just a hint and the only easy way out before the first date! Right there you can tell right away that's as good as it's gonna get in the relationship. So if you don't want to be that kind of drone, there's your lesson learned free of charge!
Give a woman everything and it ruins her. She didn't earn a damn thing. None of it is the result of her hard work, talent or effort. She cannot appreciate the value of something that she didn't lift a finger for. If you love her, support her struggle, don't just obey her whims.
She's gonna brake up with him, after he reaches 33 years old, as the age she was when she got involved with him. After she ruins his life she's gonna dumb him
I went through very similar shit, plenty of red flags but atm I'm trying to make excuses for her (ie her mom died when she was young so give her a break) but eventually she had me taking her 2 year old daughter to gymnastics, cooking dinner and helping however I can...then she dips randomly while I was at her house and gets plowed and shows up with another dude as I'm sleeping next to her 2 year old since I put her to bed. Fuck that memory. Sociopath to the max.
Bill you are a great comedian, and I love your caustic humor. However, regarding advice, where I agree this guy needed to get the hell out of Dodge, you placed most of the emphasis on the age difference, instead of the lack of character of this woman. Just in regard to age, if a man is 10 years older I wonder if you would view that aspect of it the same way. There are plenty of older women out there who are beautiful, elegant and have the benefit of having lived, learned, and have experienced things in life that have enriched them as people. That being said, I think anyone, man or woman who is 31 and goes after a 21 year old is wrong, much less the many 50 to 60 somethings that do this - sorry, but generally men.
I couldn't get through the whole story - too annoying. I got up to her staying out overnight. So he must have been home watching HER kids!? It's not your fault you love someone who has zero respect for you. It is HOWEVER your fault to let someone continue to treat you like crap and be the free babysitter. She's treating you like crap because you allow it and she knows there's been no consequences for previous shady behaviour. Run, go and don't look back. As for feeling guilt?? For what? That she won't find another sap - shes obviously showing you she can live without you, and doesn't give a toss while you were still in the relationship! Guilt that you couldn't possibly meet a decent human being? Be single, enjoy life for a bit. You have lost perspective and your self-respect.
So, no one is commenting about this guy picking up and reading this woman’s text messages. I agree with Billy on the advice but if a gir I was dating was rolling through my messages… no.
in 2001 my brother's girlfriend broke up with him for over a month her daughter told me her mom spent lots of time with her ex husband her daughter's dad then she wanted my brother back he wasn't even through the door when she told my brother that she was pregnant I told my brother he should've turned around & ran my brother made his girlfriend's daughter drop out of school at 13 years old because he was mad that she got caught fooling around with a boy at school now my brother is living with her daughter while my nephew & his mom live out of state my brother's a TRUMP SUPPORTER pretty much explains everything
Glad I am single, there is no way in hell I would put up with anybody looking at my text messages, that would be a one way ticket out of my life. Seriously childish bullshit. I did not listen to the whole “blurb”, I am not a fan of soap operas or middle school drama.
Ya know... she might be a certain type and has a bad track record but the guy also was his own issues and is a certain type. He got with a women 10 years older, divorced twice and has two kids. No way in hell you can convince me that the guy doesnt also have a problem to want to deal with all that. He chose that. I'm sick of all these dudes complaining and hiding behind the whole " I'm such a good decent man trying to do the right thing". You get dumped and cheated on because you're a stooge. 9/10 the red flags are there and humans ignore them because the chemicals are surging, they're desperate or they're infatuated. We have to take everyones word when they write in but some of these dudes are just lousy them selves and its easier to blame the other person. Theres always two sides to the story.
Always date a year younger than you so you are seen as the mature , stand up one in the relationship. Unless you’re a piece of trash . Then get you a girl with some kids.
Sorry but I am not at all convinced she cheated. But I am convinced he's a weak man looking through phones. I mean sure, get out because of the age difference, but grow up. Looking through people's phones and throwing crazy accusations is weak behavior.
