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BLACK MEN PREFER WHITE WOMEN?!?! // MIXED BABY FETISH 

Toni Bryanne TV
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In this video, we're getting into the raw and the real! Why do black men date white women or non-black women and put them on this pedestal? Why do some white women date black men? Why are black women less likely to get married? Yes, we are getting into ALL OF IT!!! If you like this video don't forget to LIKE, COMMENT, SUBSCRIBE, and SHARE!!! Let's get the discussion going in the comments!!!
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@ToniBryanneTV
@ToniBryanneTV 3 года назад
I’m confused as to why it’s only black men that missed my whole point when I reiterated it several times. From what I’ve seen, there are white people, black women, and very few black men who understand what I clearly stated. I said that it is absolutely okay to date who you want if it is based off of love. If you are trying to wash away your race or fetishize another, that’s when it’s wrong. I don’t know how much clearer I could be lol. The victim mindset has to stop! We need to learn how to listen with our ears and not our mouths and not getting so easily offended. I am open to a conversation, but it can be respectful without you bashing myself or black women. Nowhere in this video did I disrespect ANY group and I made sure of it to avoid the mess. Before you comment please make sure you watch the entire video my loves and be respectful or I will gladly block you. Thanks!
@42NORRIS
@42NORRIS 3 года назад
True but some the most colorist people I've met were black women? Some black women will call a black men self hating if he just looks at a non black woman, yet these same women will move mountains to completly hide their natural african hair under straight artificial weaves and wigs to resemble the hair of women of other races(sometimes the wig or weave is real hair) or straightening their natural hair with heat and or chemicals, yet that's somehow not self hating, talk about cherry picking. If you point that out,to one of these women most.likely you'll get an eye roll and a "that's different!". What you're saying about black men dating white women is true in part with some men. But you're not being accountable about black women's fault for this which are: being a baby mama,being obese or overweight, Bad attitude, being attracted to pookie and ray ray and thugs while completely over looking nice stable accountable men who would make good husbands and fathers often until its too late.
@sakpase88
@sakpase88 3 года назад
The pushback come from you calling out bm lol. I mean you can say things that sound good but at the end of the day your calling out bm and probably feel a certain way about us and i doubt the same energy is towards bw who date wm and put them on a pedestal. Seems like it's acceptable one way 🤷🏿‍♂️🤷🏿‍♂️
@ToniBryanneTV
@ToniBryanneTV 3 года назад
@@sakpase88 baby date who you want😂 just don’t disrespect black women while at it. It’s childish to say “what about...??”. Are we speaking about black women? Let’s learn to take accountability and address the black men (because that’s who this video is about) who are disrespecting their own. And let’s be clear, mostly positive feedback has come from this video lol.
@sakpase88
@sakpase88 3 года назад
I'm just stating why they are some pushbacks. I know this topic about bm and how its just us lol. We all how most feel when they make these type of videos and this is RU-vid so it is just bm who fetishize and put other races on a pedestal 🤷🏿‍♂️
@ToniBryanneTV
@ToniBryanneTV 3 года назад
@@sakpase88 end of the day, I absolutely love black people as a whole. I think it’s important for us as a race to hold each other accountable in order to grow. This video was not intended to bash black men, but instead have a conversation. If you don’t fit into any of the points I made, you shouldn’t feel offended.
@thedynasteadivine
@thedynasteadivine Год назад
My ex has this fetish with mixed babies. He would always send me post of cute but clearly mixed babies. Once I realized they were always mixed I started to question what he really wanted. Because our genes def would not produce a mixed child. Needless to say we broke up and now he’s back to dating non black women, go figure.
@yesibot.2051
@yesibot.2051 11 месяцев назад
I’m glad you caught that. I would have not been comfortable getting mixed baby pictures when he knows our baby won’t look that way. We don’t need that in our lives ❤️
@sub-negrodacryomancer7372
@sub-negrodacryomancer7372 2 месяца назад
Smart man. 💪🏾
@UwUarchy0
@UwUarchy0 Год назад
This is fascinating as a white woman. I was always told not to bring mixed children into this world because they would only face hatred from both sides. I've been watching a lot of your videos, and the way you break down racism in our society is incredible !!! Thank you!
@Bradley202
@Bradley202 Год назад
@@marbles9176 yes there is. stay with your own god damn race.
@mariahjasmine2276
@mariahjasmine2276 Год назад
As a mixed female, I can say..that's true.
@JKyRei
@JKyRei Год назад
As a lightskin, I get hated all day.
@beast9125
@beast9125 11 месяцев назад
Yes. I think people should not race mix
@Star_angelY2k
@Star_angelY2k 7 месяцев назад
sameee@@JKyRei
@maisilva5966
@maisilva5966 2 года назад
This is so sad 😔💔 I'm a brown skin black woman and It's just sad because melanin is gorgeous, dark chocolate skin is absolutely gorgeous, really extremely rich, beautiful and glowing. All skintones are beautiful and its sad that colourist exists. Fortunately I haven't experienced colourism and I hope darker women can come to love their glowing skin.
@revekat2053
@revekat2053 Год назад
Chocolate skin? You mean brown skin?
@JJ-mr4vv
@JJ-mr4vv Год назад
Um chocolate?
@krossrose5416
@krossrose5416 Год назад
We do come in all the beautiful shades from the darkest to the lightest skin tone, all our black is beautiful, and if these Blk men cannot see the beauty on our tones, and despising their Blkness then let them move on over the the pale dried skin women who age drastically after 19 they seem to melt due to the Sun! Good riddance to bad rubbish!
@sumdaqt2091
@sumdaqt2091 Год назад
I agree with you
@benjaminholland4081
@benjaminholland4081 Год назад
Hopefully since men from your race fetishize everyone but you!!! Don’t forget to help contribute to black privilege
@dionnerss
@dionnerss Год назад
that white girl fetishizing black men tiktok made me extremely uncomfortable 😭
@SkyDior1212
@SkyDior1212 Год назад
She made uncomfortable 2 😳ur not alone
@peetgikeri5245
@peetgikeri5245 Год назад
If sex is the end goal.. BM don't give a fuck
@dappergents3743
@dappergents3743 3 месяца назад
​@@SkyDior1212why because she likes black men smh She didn't say she love black women's Yall crazy
@SinSA210
@SinSA210 Месяц назад
So... emasculating a bm in public is uncomfortable too🤫😏
@sdneytaco2226
@sdneytaco2226 3 года назад
Why do bw waste thier time thinking about men who dont want them??🤔🤔 Smh
@ToniBryanneTV
@ToniBryanneTV 3 года назад
Valid point!!
@ronnienorford256
@ronnienorford256 3 года назад
That's a lie because black men are not a monolith of people. When there are billions of black men in this world
@divinesistahood7516
@divinesistahood7516 3 года назад
Everything is still fresh. Some are just realizing the reality of the community/BM. Give it a couple more years and a lot of us will finally learn to stay on code and ignore.
@rellza856
@rellza856 3 года назад
@@ronnienorford256 well serious black men who were raised in a black loving house may love black women not everyone understands the point of black love
@osazuwaogbeide1540
@osazuwaogbeide1540 3 года назад
because black men are the only group that can keep there existence goign duh
@bailaescanito
@bailaescanito 2 года назад
I've noticed that other races don't bash their races opposite sex but black people on both sides do say negative comments about each other. It's like a bitterness. I also noticed a lot of white women, or non black women who date black guys will do their baby hairs and talk different and I just kinda side eye a lot of white women who date black guys because I feel like they're trying to be something their not. I fell in love with a black man only Latinos (my culture) before him I was with and its amazing but it makes me notice things I never had before. I'm so tired of seeing white women date black men and talk shit about black women such a pet peeve like why you with a man you don't wanna love and marry you gunna have to face his mama and sisters. I think people are so obsessed with mixed babies because of social media and love has kinda been pushed aside by humans for sex, money, status. A lot of people are users and not givers... I also feel like white women try so hard to look mixed or Latina that they want a mixed family to make them feel more "color". I've met bm &bw who want a non black partner because they don't want their child to be "darkskinned" or go through what they did... it's pretty messed up and sad self hatred. But it is what it is. 🤷 Just gotta find that person who loves you broke and balling. True love is overlooked nowadays I know what it's like to want to be with your own race and fantasize. I always wanted a Honduran man so my babies could be just like me but I'm grateful for the man I met and fetisization is lowkey toxic. Bw don't need a bm that puts them down it's racist, they're are so many bm who have mad respect towards bw and all women but they're not the ones you see on TV atleast not the majority. Just remember it's a lot easier to find a man like Travis Scott than it is to find a Denzel Washington.
@Mmoselle1983
@Mmoselle1983 2 года назад
Agree 100% and it’s sickening. It’s self loathing and self hatred. Lowest form of hypocritical coward mess if you ask me.
@barrytelesford5265
@barrytelesford5265 2 года назад
people forget that diversity brings compromises and understanding. freedom allows people to take paths which may not be forthcoming in rigid societies. for intelligent creatures human beings can still be really dumb about many things. we have every opportunity to be really advance beyond this rock but because of foolishness we are here discussing these things.
@Missmurder8905
@Missmurder8905 Год назад
Women like that are clearly insecure… to me women need to spend less time putting against one another, and more time lifting each other up (no matter how/what we identify as), it’s so petty and immature.
@Missmurder8905
@Missmurder8905 Год назад
Or blowing over the fact that if they have a daughter she’d be a (mixed) black woman. Smh
@shimmer4771
@shimmer4771 Год назад
You made some valid points. However, many other races experience this. Many Asian women have put Asian men down or say Asian men remind them of their brothers. I have heard a few Asian men say Asian women remind them of their mothers. It's weird. Do what you want, but please refrain from degrading anyone in the process. It's not only disgusting, it's very messed up. Plus, you won't win in those situations. The relationship/marriage is bound to fail. You can't succeed if you have hate. ❤
@animeforlife5200
@animeforlife5200 2 года назад
I feel like the mixed baby fetish is secondary to just liking lighter skin fetish.
@Son.1
@Son.1 Год назад
Yeah that’s why when the baby doesn’t come out as they expected they treat the child worse it’s terrible
@angelsky6574
@angelsky6574 Год назад
@@Son.1who ever does that to their child does not need to be a parent cause that’s just sad
@shimmer4771
@shimmer4771 Год назад
​​@@Son.1 I heard of a guy like that. He said Filipino women bear more beautiful babies for Black men. All of his children, except the oldest 2, are dark skinned. He favors the oldest two the most. Just sad.
@spaghettimonster5650
@spaghettimonster5650 4 месяца назад
What is wrong with that? I want a light skin kid myself. So i al definitely going to marry a white woman.
@mr.illusive3376
@mr.illusive3376 3 года назад
Colorism is real in the black community and it's quite sad, depressing. Mixed fetishism is quite sickening 😕. My late mom and grandmother fawned over my nieces/nephews alot because of this. I'm not that dark myself, but witnessed to many times people made fun by fellow black people for African features and for darker skin. I have personal issues with black people on a cultural aspect and hope it can get better one day where there's an actual "black community" like was had in the past, sadly the greatest example I can point to would be black wall street. I'm not pro black myself and never would be. I personally have no preference in regards to race, but If I can find a woman that looks decent like you, articulates herself well, carries herself respectfully, our lifestyle mesh well together, and she happens to be black then great 👍, I'm in love at that point 😉.
@zay_gzs5635
@zay_gzs5635 3 года назад
Racism among black people getting real
@zay_gzs5635
@zay_gzs5635 3 года назад
@@sonyamonroe9216 yes sorry colorism
@Missmurder8905
@Missmurder8905 Год назад
I notice it a lot in the Hispanic culture as well (I’m married to one)… like seeing Dominicans vs Puerto Ricans or PR vs Mexicans, the shit they often say about each other… like dude y’all are Hispanics. Or being mixed, but presenting one way over the other. As “you’re not _____ enough”… it’s BS.
@julias2855
@julias2855 Год назад
@@Missmurder8905 Yes! I get judged for being darker. For not trying to be lighter. I love my summer color & try to keep it year round. It’s a lot of the older generations, especially from Mexico.
@shimmer4771
@shimmer4771 Год назад
​@@julias2855 Sad how we're treated based on physical factors we have no control over. It's horrible.
@fatuxa9739
@fatuxa9739 Год назад
My white coworker don't even hide it she keep saying how she want a mix baby but hate blackwoman because her ex husband married a younger black woman But she try to act like ahe don't and it just in my mind
@genovasquez8361
@genovasquez8361 Год назад
I think it's more to the story .. probably how she was treated.
@pimpnamedslickback7780
@pimpnamedslickback7780 Год назад
good for her. I dont blame her
@meeshilin7453
@meeshilin7453 6 месяцев назад
​@@pimpnamedslickback7780 oh shut up and just say you hate your darker skin. You're obviously a Boondocks fan so I'm just gonna assume you're a black *boy* who most definitely hates themself or relates to Uncle Ruckus on a level.
@Stillunbothered
@Stillunbothered 4 месяца назад
Ww are so jealous of bw it’s sickening it is not our fault we look better, they are mad their men want black women more, here’s my bottom line the white woman and white man are cursed by God for all their evil why tf do blacks even ever want to be with their enemy?
@ohkay1976
@ohkay1976 Месяц назад
That’s awful but this happens ALL the time on the opposite side, I know too many black women who hate white women solely bc they were cheated on with white women.
@shar1202
@shar1202 3 года назад
Black women please withdraw your love and support from these non producing men. 😀
@MCloud-vf6xl
@MCloud-vf6xl 3 года назад
You know to get advice for or from people who have had a silver spoon in their mouth for generations is a joke. You have covered this world like a virus and you have infected every culture you have come in contact with. Then you tell those of said cultures "get up and do now that you have been infected by me". Arrogance in its truest form.
@telldatruth
@telldatruth 2 года назад
The black women is the lease sought out women on the planet so If we don't choose you ...then.....
@telldatruth
@telldatruth 2 года назад
@@Dreaahh what do you mean it's proven and well known ...not even close to any other race of women. There are countless studies online or anywhere else. This is not my opinion it's a matter of fact
@telldatruth
@telldatruth 2 года назад
@@Dreaahh What... mam I'm happily married to a black women who I love.... You can't debate proven facts
@telldatruth
@telldatruth 2 года назад
@@Dreaahh Just reread what do you think you know about my life and what makes it wasteful. 🤔
@marlonadams8053
@marlonadams8053 2 года назад
Everyone is so focused on dark skin and white skin. People are missing the big picture. LOVE! If you love someone regardless of race or color, that's all that counts. If your a Black man with a White woman and your both in love, then I say God bless you both!
@tereallneal
@tereallneal Год назад
Change and Repent 🙏🙏🙏 Jesus Is Coming 🙏🙏🙏✝️✝️✝️
@blacklyfe5543
@blacklyfe5543 10 месяцев назад
It's dark skin vs light skin not white skin wtf is white skin? There's different shades of brown and light.
@truthhurtsohwell05
@truthhurtsohwell05 8 месяцев назад
it isn't love if its a fetish.
@spaghettimonster5650
@spaghettimonster5650 4 месяца назад
​@@truthhurtsohwell05womp womp. You black women are just mad you are going to end as single moms. Impregnated by some prison fella or black crack dealers
@DerikMarquez
@DerikMarquez Месяц назад
@@truthhurtsohwell05yes, and? You aren’t wrong but what does that have to do with what she said
@user-ws2nq7nk4o
@user-ws2nq7nk4o 7 месяцев назад
I am black and I love black women
@marchellewilliams3239
@marchellewilliams3239 2 года назад
Thanks for the video Toni! And it needs to be said. My commentary is below! It's about this our sisters like you speaking out!
@brookecarson7626
@brookecarson7626 3 года назад
a lot of stuff i hadn’t thought about before... this is the content we need to hear,, very well said!!
@ToniBryanneTV
@ToniBryanneTV 3 года назад
Thank you Brroke!!! It is definitely a deep rooted issue. Once again interracial relationships are not a bad thing, it’s the fetishization that comes from it or the sole purpose of creating a mixed child.
@brookecarson7626
@brookecarson7626 3 года назад
@@ToniBryanneTV It’s crazy how much of that we see day to day.. I’m glad you’re bringing it to everyone’s attention!!!
@ToniBryanneTV
@ToniBryanneTV 3 года назад
@@brookecarson7626 thank you!!!
@treestree
@treestree 10 месяцев назад
i’m sick of the fetishizing!! i had a friend who would only date black men and would be proud about having “jungle fever”. Furthermore, I once encountered a black man (while i was underage) who told me it would be hot if my dad caught him having sex with me 🤢🤢. Needless to say, i distanced myself from both and i suggest others do the same when it is clearly racial fetishization.
@maisilva5966
@maisilva5966 2 года назад
Some beautiful dark skin women: Kelly Rowland Brandy Aya Nakamura Iza Gabrielle Union Moesha Ludmilla
@sharons5221
@sharons5221 2 года назад
Moesha is brandy......
@miaadhaora4399
@miaadhaora4399 Год назад
Adut, Duckie, Naomi, Lupita too
@naturalnaela
@naturalnaela Год назад
Not Moesha 😂😂😂😂
@Imadeyoumadddd
@Imadeyoumadddd Год назад
@@miaadhaora4399 my wifeeeeeeee Naomi
@Imadeyoumadddd
@Imadeyoumadddd Год назад
Terms
@GiveHerFlowers
@GiveHerFlowers Год назад
I love the unapologetic uplifting of black women. ❤️💐.
@danebeexher4399
@danebeexher4399 3 года назад
why is it African Americans are the only one talking about this?
@hanokokun9246
@hanokokun9246 Год назад
There the only one noticing this issue
@Stillunbothered
@Stillunbothered 4 месяца назад
Why are u even here?
@danebeexher4399
@danebeexher4399 4 месяца назад
@@Stillunbothered ask yourself that and u you find your answer.
@amhwellness624
@amhwellness624 10 месяцев назад
I’m so happy you spoke about this❤
@officialtmpwavesmedia8753
@officialtmpwavesmedia8753 2 года назад
Peace & Light. I feel you mamacita 🤞🏿💙
@TLH21109
@TLH21109 2 года назад
I'm glad you came out and spoke on it someone had to
@SapphireIsrael5
@SapphireIsrael5 10 месяцев назад
So true! When I was in elementary school black kids used to compare who was lighter and if you were lighter u were considered more pretty and as someone who has 👩🏽‍🦱 skin colored mom and a 🧑🏿‍🦱 skin colored dad I faced tone of colorism when I was kindergarten my dad picked me up every black kid was like “who’s that he’s dark”,My mom is Puerto Rican,and my dad is Haitian also since my skin color 👩🏽‍🦱 in the winter + fall I am treated much better in the winter then in the summer here’s why like yk how you get darker in rye summer u get a tan + spring since my skin color in spring and summer is 👩🏾‍🦱 and my skin color In the winter and fall is👩🏽‍🦱 I can tell you I’m treated way much better in winter then summer,I’m not a mixed baby my mom is Afro Latina,I’m Afro Latina as well,also straightening ur hair to look more white is common in my elementary but if had curly 4C hair you were considered ugly,and since I have 3c-4A ish hair And my mom has 3C and 4A ish hair just know that all skin colors and hair types and more are all so gorgeous🫶🏽
@steelovision5256
@steelovision5256 Год назад
Insightful breakdown , thank you !
@teearrawright2549
@teearrawright2549 Год назад
All of this is true it’s so weird when I’m out at a park and a YT women walks by with a black man and they look so hard in my direction as if they feel threatened and grab the man tighter 😅I’m looking like girl bye I don’t want him Funny thing is when I’m out with my man I get strange looks from dark skin guys due to my man bring German and black
@pimpnamedslickback7780
@pimpnamedslickback7780 Год назад
You'e never left your house that's not true
@DESSEII
@DESSEII Год назад
​@pimpnamedslickback7780 Oh yes it is... I'd my experience with it to back it up. I had a black man and his Hispanic wife come into the Cafe where I was a cook to order some food. They were nice to my white coworker but indifferent toward me. Once they saw that I was the cook they said I made them uncomfortable and left. Then, the black man made a phone call to my boss trying to get me fired. He said I made his wife feel uncomfortable and tried to poison their food because I was jealous. None of that happened. I was in tears. That man hated black women so much that he tried to get one(me) fired from her job just to spite her. It does happen. Maybe YOU should leave the house more.....
@DESSEII
@DESSEII Год назад
​@pimpnamedslickback7780 I'll add another one. I have had BM&WW couples sit in front of me. The bus was empty btw and it was an Artic(a long bus) at that. They chose to come all the way to the back where I was and would look at me from time to time. I also had an ex turn his white girlfriend against me. I didn't know her from Adam but the things she said to me that one day is the same shit a self-hating black men say when degrading us.
@pimpnamedslickback7780
@pimpnamedslickback7780 Год назад
@@DESSEII I've had old people come next me and look at me. You people sound crazy. People looking at you doesnt mean they're trying to brag about their relationship to you. 99% of people on this planet only care about themselves.
@pimpnamedslickback7780
@pimpnamedslickback7780 Год назад
@@DESSEII so in that story he never mentioned once anything about Blk women maybe he was just a dic and didnt like you
@citrinestone6884
@citrinestone6884 3 года назад
The fact that yall can like posts saying were the most disrespected, yet, bash this woman for her honest opinion....
@MultiDiceman
@MultiDiceman Год назад
88% of Black men who are married, marry black woman, of that same married demographic and those who make 6 figures or more choose to marry Black women. A new study just came out that showed all Races of including Black men overwhelmingly choose their own on dating sites whereas women of Color, including Black women choose white men -The Dating Divide by Jennifer Lundquist. So while your point still stands Black women seem to be more implicit in the "white desirability" model or should i say the "hypergamy model" and their perception of it through the lens or race than anyone else.
@pimpnamedslickback7780
@pimpnamedslickback7780 Год назад
Thank you for showing the truth
@markelraya10
@markelraya10 Месяц назад
That’s a lie. You can look at Hinge and OkCupid studies. Only 37% of all BM on dating sites choose BW.
@ronbey7376
@ronbey7376 3 года назад
You a real one for this.. Everything you said is on point. I love my melanin rich women don’t want anything else. It’s sad to see the self hate and degrading mindset some so called black men have. It’s a much deeper rooted issue that needs to be addressed in order for us to heal. I hope one day that’s possible and we can get over this Eurocentric idea of what beauty is. Btw your incredibly beautiful sis keep doing your thing.
@ToniBryanneTV
@ToniBryanneTV 3 года назад
Very true! This is way deeper than you think. Thank you so much and thank you for watching! Much respect💚
@ronbey7376
@ronbey7376 3 года назад
@@ToniBryanneTV for sure Empress.. keep up the good content.
@ronbey7376
@ronbey7376 3 года назад
@@cynicalskeptic4517 you got the attention you wanted.. anything else?
@shimmer4771
@shimmer4771 3 года назад
A black man can prefer other races, that is his choice. But, to degrade or bash your own race isn't ok. Let me tell you, Black men marry who you want. I have even heard black guys say mixed babies are better... again, this only applies to some, not all.
@rellza856
@rellza856 3 года назад
I would never mix with the descendants of Neanderthals and colonists let alone something with zero melanin
@lc8671
@lc8671 3 года назад
Well done. Great piece. The psychological terror is real!!!
@erebus728
@erebus728 3 года назад
6:08 Oh please. That woman meant EXACTLY what she was saying. She dates black guys cause she is a narcissist and black men treat her better purely cause her ethnicity's look is en vogue at the moment. I hate when people try to say "but that's not what I meant" when it clearly was and now she embarrassed.
@tinacampbell6227
@tinacampbell6227 3 года назад
Talk about the American Nightmare the Black American Nightmare. The majority of their sons and daughters married outside of their race. So what was once on stage as beautiful handsome black men. The Next Generation are biracial or racially ambivalent looking and their children have even less phenotype and genotype of black people. We literally witnessed a black family being Whited out before our very eyes. This is a black American Nightmare When I was a little girl watching The Jackson 5 all five Jacksons were visibly black men.
@bcbro142
@bcbro142 3 года назад
Guess what white people think it’s a nightmare also when you interbreed with black so wake up! We are the only race that could be actually watered down and out breed!!
@Millylala
@Millylala 6 месяцев назад
Sorry, but Tyger Woods is not black
@maisaanmohamed1267
@maisaanmohamed1267 2 года назад
My family never had any black or dark colour skinned people in our blood line for dacades and if you see us you would think of us as vampires at my school I am told I am a vampire cuz of my pale skin and my family have extreme difficulty tanning so we avoid the sun I started to date a beautiful black girl couple of years ago and she loves my pale skin she said I am beautiful which is a compliment I loved getting from her I love her beautiful dark skin as well 😍 and she is the most purest person ever. My mom definitely was surprised by her race at first but she loves her now and her family is sooooo nice 🥺 we only been together for 2 years but we and both our family agreed to have us married after our college graduation. And I want to have beautiful healthy mixed kid's and have a beautiful happy life with her sooo badddd 🥺❤️
@crazymike1706
@crazymike1706 3 года назад
There's a lot of theory in this video, but I wish there was more practice. Nonetheless there are a lot of good points, but you made several toxic statements
@datheadisonikeupsidedownra7500
@datheadisonikeupsidedownra7500 3 года назад
I needed this today
@izekewillis9515
@izekewillis9515 3 года назад
Not to say you were like this but in school the black girls always talked about how much they love light skin guys and how much they loved chris brown, they called me and my friends too dark for them even though they weren't even light skin lol , from your video you make it seem like black women are totally innocent from us dating outside our race but that's not the case.
@ToniBryanneTV
@ToniBryanneTV 3 года назад
Hey, I def didn’t. I made sure to clearly state that this colorism is an issue in the entire black community, but in this video I’m only focusing on some black men and even some white women. I never said all same as you shouldn’t say all black girls spoke like that. This is a systemic issue. We are taught that lighter skin is the better skin tone, and many of us still believe those idiotic ideologies to this day. Just know you’re loved and date who you want regardless, but don’t X out a whole group just because of 13 year old girls words years ago
@ToniBryanneTV
@ToniBryanneTV 3 года назад
@@josephmusabyimana3557 ok
@ToniBryanneTV
@ToniBryanneTV 3 года назад
@@josephmusabyimana3557 ok
@izekewillis9515
@izekewillis9515 3 года назад
@@Jaspervision777 its all biased , I've seen another black woman on here saying they don't care when it's a unattractive black man dating a white woman then they don't care , but they will be the same ones to tell you color doesn't matter when they date outside their race
@TheDayd111returns
@TheDayd111returns 3 года назад
I have to agree. Black women used to make fun of me for having darker skin and only get crushes on light skin Black men. Black women were self-projecting themselves with self-hate too. Or saying I'm white washed because I talked "properly" was fucking disrespectful. It goes both ways, Toni. Black men and Black women showed hatred for one another. Colorism, classism and racism. It keeps going.
@alectricalexia
@alectricalexia Год назад
Off topic but you're freaking beautiful literally 😍😍😍you should definitely be a model.
@Stillunbothered
@Stillunbothered 4 месяца назад
Translation: I hate hearing the truth so I’m going to deflect
@thearidjakalsshow
@thearidjakalsshow 3 года назад
"Now if I do, mind yo business" lol
@ToniBryanneTV
@ToniBryanneTV 3 года назад
because i never say never😂😂😂
@deneah4641
@deneah4641 10 месяцев назад
Love this !!
@libfuzzy4629
@libfuzzy4629 2 месяца назад
To be honest please just let black men date out many of them hate themselves beautiful black women please leave them alone
@jenni_noura9170
@jenni_noura9170 3 года назад
I gotten men telling me that they want to have children with white women so their children will be more lighter. I would not want a man who wants me for my skin color... Period
@spaghettimonster5650
@spaghettimonster5650 4 месяца назад
What is wrong with that? I want a light skin kid myself. So i al definitely going to marry a white woman.
@maisilva5966
@maisilva5966 2 года назад
Darker skin is so gorgeous
@alecgurney9305
@alecgurney9305 2 года назад
Nah
@divinemitingwi1971
@divinemitingwi1971 Год назад
@@alecgurney9305 yes
@caydenrgarrett
@caydenrgarrett Месяц назад
@@alecgurney9305yes
@Wintersoldier7
@Wintersoldier7 Месяц назад
That’s true.
@Wintersoldier7
@Wintersoldier7 Месяц назад
The issue isn’t their skin tone. They move in a defensive posture and it gets annoying.
@aristidemayembo1916
@aristidemayembo1916 3 года назад
This issue is across all the black diaspora. I’m from Paris, it happens aswell here too I love my black queens I want my son to be as dark as black as me. There is a lot black men who love you . By the way you are beautiful
@marilynwillett804
@marilynwillett804 3 года назад
nope i lived in Europe for years--been to France often--black men want white women. ARE YOU ONE OF THOSE VERY DARK MEN HANGING AROUND THE TRAIN STATION?
@Tudah
@Tudah 3 года назад
@@marilynwillett804 stfu
@Tudah
@Tudah 3 года назад
@@marilynwillett804 your a white girl who wants black men to prefer your race black men dont want white women like you
@Tudah
@Tudah 3 года назад
@@marilynwillett804 you want black men to date white women
@aristidemayembo1916
@aristidemayembo1916 3 года назад
@@marilynwillett804 yeah of course you know much better than me who was born and raised here.
@danasiabryant6710
@danasiabryant6710 Год назад
This really inspired me to be me because black men will hate on black women for dating someone out there race but black men are gonna be the ones why us black women date Hispanics, Asians, and etc. Love your videos girl❤
@quanhonson9746
@quanhonson9746 Год назад
I hope Yk BLK man don’t gaf
@danasiabryant6710
@danasiabryant6710 Год назад
@@quanhonson9746 yea they dont thats why they always in the streets doing drugs and fucking prostitutes instead of being in the house with there kids
@rl.8011
@rl.8011 Год назад
@@quanhonson9746they do💀 I have seen it many times. My friend (she’s black) has a brother who dates other races, but he doesn’t like when she dates other races
@stormstorm7396
@stormstorm7396 2 года назад
If we keep reproducing who's going to reproduce the chocolate little girl or chocolate little boy I'll take that badge of honor
@samuelzih7858
@samuelzih7858 3 года назад
the beat is fire
@ToniBryanneTV
@ToniBryanneTV 3 года назад
Right?!
@Missmurder8905
@Missmurder8905 Год назад
Also, I have the same middle name, spelled the same way too… but do you have a video about Black women preferring white men? I’m curious on the comparison/parallels.
@aymilyoncarter8724
@aymilyoncarter8724 3 года назад
Very well said I love this video , a lot of people needed to hear this
@ToniBryanneTV
@ToniBryanneTV 3 года назад
Thank you so much and absolutely!!!
@uchenna127
@uchenna127 3 года назад
The guys who like white women are going to get with white women. Black men are not obligated to date or marry black women and thus, shouldn't be shamed if they don't.
@JBSkits123
@JBSkits123 3 года назад
@@uchenna127 facts
@aymilyoncarter8724
@aymilyoncarter8724 3 года назад
@@uchenna127 that’s cool baby y’all can date whoever you want but like I said she clearly explained the difference between genuine like for someone and fetishizing ❤️ rewatch the video if you misunderstood thx
@uchenna127
@uchenna127 3 года назад
@@aymilyoncarter8724 I know what fetish means.
@sreejithvenu1954
@sreejithvenu1954 3 года назад
God has given humans only a short time on earth to be able to love ' Maximum love eachother 🙏 NB : no country restrictions
@sreejithvenu1954
@sreejithvenu1954 3 года назад
@Dv Douglas mostly
@flowrepins6663
@flowrepins6663 3 года назад
@@sreejithvenu1954 we humans live a lot and sadistic may enjou the pleasure of inflictin pain. is good
@sreejithvenu1954
@sreejithvenu1954 3 года назад
@@flowrepins6663 That is the purpose of life , Everyone knows everything but does not do each other for others.. .
@damiendaly983
@damiendaly983 3 года назад
jesus we all bleed the same colour
@buddybaker9601
@buddybaker9601 3 года назад
How dare you reply that comment on this video that states are ancestors is shaking in their grave you speak of God but who are you speaking of are you speaking of the fictitious character that you have made up into yourself and your mind are you speaking about this sick twisted bastard describing these scriptures that we call the Bible in today's world see this is the problem our people don't forget who the hell we were and now they dick riding Jesus giving them their heart souls and mine subliminally saying forget the ancestors and this is a absolute fact even if you disagree more black woman or a walk to real black history and they know why they need that melanated babyI am a black man and it's going to break my word so that mean to be with a white woman but I am not going to express myself out anymore black women at this time it's unsuitable or conscience or won't black man
@mpilombayise1996
@mpilombayise1996 3 года назад
The music made me subscribed and you cute 🙈
@ToniBryanneTV
@ToniBryanneTV 3 года назад
Thank you and welcome!!!
@unappealingundesirable2826
@unappealingundesirable2826 7 месяцев назад
I want to weigh in on the "mixed baby fetish." I am male, Japanese-American, born in Seattle in 1973. In 2012, I married a very pretty woman, who is 17 years younger than me, who is Black/Cherokee/White. We had our daughter in 2013, meaning she's 10 in 2023. We have since divorced, but nothing bad happened between us: It's more like our relationship became "crickets." Had we been closer in age, and had more in common (rather than physical attraction to each other, that we did in 2012), perhaps we would have stayed together. Also, her parents and family have always been great to me, and I'm thankful to them for that. Anyway, my daughter "looks like a younger Mariah Musselman," the daughter of Coach Eric Musselman and Danyelle Sargent Musselman. I know that I'm biased because I'm her father, but I think that she's very pretty. Getting to the "mixed baby fetish:" Since she was 6-7, I've sent my daughter's pictures to modeling agencies, and she has gotten small gigs here and there (advertising girls clothing, school supplies, that kind of stuff). When I was in high school (graduated in 1991), we were like, "Gee, it seems like the Black girls who are considered attractive, are mostly light-skinned," but we didn't want to believe it. Now, the world doesn't even make it a secret. When I watch TV, EVERY Black girl I see on TV commercials, "Looks like she has a White mother." I guess, "Don't hate the players, hate the game," and "I don't make the rules, I just follow them." I just know that, because of colorism, my daughter has a HUGE built-in advantage, as a potential model. Interestingly, for whatever a 10 year old girl's "interest in boys" is worth, she tells me about the boys at school who she likes, and they are all Caucasian boys! And, the boys who like her, are mostly Caucasian and Asian boys! For what it's worth: I'm 5'10", a good height for an Asian male of my generation (born in 1973), and my ex-wife is 5'8" and slim, so I would anticipate that our daughter will be very attractive as a teenager.
@cassandradowns7662
@cassandradowns7662 Год назад
The way that people lump an entire race or culture as having the same qualities is so frustrating.
@lenardogorra613
@lenardogorra613 8 месяцев назад
In our country, Interracial marriage is ILLEGAL. We are thinking of our children's future.. look at US with all this interracial children mostly grow up fatherless and criminals.. #Fact
@melanierobinson4152
@melanierobinson4152 Год назад
Let's talk about it!!!
@42NORRIS
@42NORRIS Месяц назад
It could be because the wealthy successful black man being highly eligible attracts and connects with (non black)women in the new spaces he now moves in. No way am I saying that there aren't black men, who's attraction to non black women, particularly white women isn't rooted in self hate and other psychological trauma that could stem from long ago slavery. Yes those men exist, but to assume every or even most, successful prosperous black men who have a non black girlfriend/wife is like that is simply UNFAIR AND DISHONEST. To "pro black types" interracial dating/marriage is inconceivable, and most incorrectly assume that every black person "deep-down-inside" feels the same way. Well, most humans probably have preference for their own type, however most people probably would accept "high quality" person of a different race if they came along at the right time.
@Marty-sl6vc
@Marty-sl6vc 3 года назад
Hahaha the thumbnail ....our ancestors are shaking hahahaha
@zparkplug2788
@zparkplug2788 2 года назад
holding out for a black man is gonna be painful sis.
@genovasquez8361
@genovasquez8361 Год назад
There are tons of black men who will love her He just may not be a millionaire
@markelraya10
@markelraya10 Месяц назад
@@genovasquez8361all the millionaires are with white women
@aridian7787
@aridian7787 6 месяцев назад
Toni: just some advice from one who’s older and wiser: “brand name loyalty” might be a mistake in this case. Remember, “love is where you find it.” There’s a reason why we have old-sayings like that! In other words, if you meet a white guy who checks all the right boxes, (except that one), give yourself permission to experience something new. You might be surprised! 👍🙌🇺🇸
@raymonds7492
@raymonds7492 3 года назад
She. You are attracted to a person you are really attracted to their genetics which is about them giving you successful offspring so calling it a fetish is stupid. Successful also includes attractive because they will also have a higher chance of procreating if the look good.
@ToniBryanneTV
@ToniBryanneTV 3 года назад
So being with a person from a different race automatically means your children will be attractive?
@raymonds7492
@raymonds7492 3 года назад
@@ToniBryanneTV No but humans do value genetic diversity and mixed offspring are the epitome of it. However if society deems them as more attractive then yes it can be a factor. People will view them as more attractive by default unless the black person is much more attractive.
@EnteleiEchein
@EnteleiEchein 2 года назад
I never heard a white person put any other ethnicity in terms of looks over themselves. Never heard a white person say: oh I want a child that is darker than me, with 3C hair texture, brown eyes. While the other way around you hear and read it often. Even people in India already judge their children after brith based on their skin tone. All around the world people love light eyes and wish their offspring has light eyes and skin. And those European features don't have anything to do with "healthy looking", because obviously every race of humans can be healthy, in shape and produce a healthy offspring. Those "light" features are ACTUALLY more sensitive, light eyes have less melanin and are more sensitive to the sun, just as light skin is more sensitive to UV rays. In other words they don't make you better protected or healthier.
@sabrinathewitchh
@sabrinathewitchh Год назад
GIRLLL TALK YO SHITT!!!😩👏👏
@mrkjsmooth16
@mrkjsmooth16 3 года назад
If black women married outside their race more than black men it would hardly be a discussed topic
@ToniBryanneTV
@ToniBryanneTV 3 года назад
Why do y’all love playing victim?
@ToniBryanneTV
@ToniBryanneTV 3 года назад
@Robert Hicks yeah it’s a big thing because plenty will bash black women while doing it. A lot of black women step out because they don’t feel desired by black men. So please move along with that. I said in the video none of us care when black men step out, it’s when they disrespect black women whilst doing so!
@jadewilliam6653
@jadewilliam6653 3 года назад
How come every time I see a video about black women in interracial relationships, I always see bed***** comments from a certain group of people that are males?
@mrkjsmooth16
@mrkjsmooth16 3 года назад
@@jadewilliam6653 I don't know why other people do what they do lady
@deshawnmiller4126
@deshawnmiller4126 3 года назад
@@ToniBryanneTV both ways and don't Say black men prefer any other race beside black women because y'all had seen some black men who hate black women because most black men prefer black woman and why do black women focus on some black men who don't Care about y'all but be so to give up on black men who actually care about black women .
@theynotlikeus413
@theynotlikeus413 Год назад
my family is white Irish & let me tell u,my father LOVES black women!!!!! he tries to talk to them all the time!! it is so funny with his corny pick up lines!! he will b 72 tomorrow!!🤭God Bless him!!❤️
@lenardogorra613
@lenardogorra613 8 месяцев назад
race matter.. here in our country. Interracial marriage is ILLEGAL. We are thinking of our children's future.. look at US with all this interracial children mostly grow up fatherless and criminals.. #Fact
@Stillunbothered
@Stillunbothered 4 месяца назад
Who gives a dam, gross it that supposed to be a compliment? What beautiful Black woman would want a disgusting old geezer
@vataww06
@vataww06 3 года назад
Where can I find the music? Btw great video!
@ToniBryanneTV
@ToniBryanneTV 3 года назад
Thank you so much!!! Here’s the link: ru-vid.com/video/%D0%B2%D0%B8%D0%B4%D0%B5%D0%BE--ZeMxz9xCcg.html
@damnkevindeaderthanamf3297
@damnkevindeaderthanamf3297 Год назад
I say that there's a upliftment of whiteness being superior in the black community. Black people can try to say no and etc but it shows. Anyways, the closest to white they can get us mix....which is literally half white
@kiarawheaton6725
@kiarawheaton6725 3 года назад
Amen I know it’s true with everything going back down to slavery because for a long time I was really upset and furious with my skin because of what society was telling me but I broke those shackles and I love every inch and every ounce of my black hair and skin and the right man will come for me.
@ToniBryanneTV
@ToniBryanneTV 3 года назад
Yes girl!!! You’re absolutely beautiful!!!! Many women with dark skin unfortunately have to teach themselves to love themselves because society won’t. It’s sad and disappointing, but only makes you stronger my love❤️
@kiarawheaton6725
@kiarawheaton6725 3 года назад
Your beautiful too. ❤️
@khrishb3703
@khrishb3703 3 года назад
listen don't you think black women are with white men too like its not just us black men
@karenmassey8354
@karenmassey8354 Год назад
There are a lot of misconceptions about dark skinned blk women. As a dark skinned blk woman I don’t agree that we think we’re not beautiful - I think we feel like we look gorgeous, however at the same time we do understand that most blk men do not like dark skin. In many cases, how blk men feel does not equate to how we feel about ourselves though, because not everyone is blk male-identified. The simple solution to that is to simply date/marry out.
@shimmer4771
@shimmer4771 Год назад
Be with someone who loves you. Anyway, there's Black men who like dark skin. Sometimes, it depends. I think we're beautiful.
@karenmassey8354
@karenmassey8354 Год назад
@@shimmer4771 I’m sure there are. I personally am not that pressed for a blk man.
@shimmer4771
@shimmer4771 Год назад
I wish the media gave us better representation. Negative stereotypes are wrong.
@spaghettimonster5650
@spaghettimonster5650 4 месяца назад
Dark skin women are just not attractive. Get over it. It is not that deep
@Dom_om_nom
@Dom_om_nom 3 года назад
You do realize that it's natural for people to be attracted to other races, right? Some black men find white or Asian women more attractive, but that doesn't mean that they hate black women or aren't attracted to them. I'm Blasian and I don't see a problem with monoracial people liking people of other races.
@ToniBryanneTV
@ToniBryanneTV 3 года назад
Did I say that? I never did so try again 😂
@Dom_om_nom
@Dom_om_nom 3 года назад
@@ToniBryanneTV Whenever black men date outside their race it's always assumed that they have some kind of self-hate or colorist mindset. My dad's black and my mom's Asian, yet he's not a self-hater or colorist like many thing people like him are.
@ToniBryanneTV
@ToniBryanneTV 3 года назад
@@Dom_om_nom obviously there’s always an exception. No one ever said it’s all black men
@markelraya10
@markelraya10 Месяц назад
@@ToniBryanneTVyou didn’t specify some. And why are you even talking about BM/WW anyways. You’re the least desired. And grab a wig.
@chrisstroud60
@chrisstroud60 3 года назад
I respect your preference but when you say only be with a white man to settle just hurts. What's do you mean by that? If you don't want a white man then just don't settle. What guy would want a women who only thought of them as the last option.
@ToniBryanneTV
@ToniBryanneTV 3 года назад
I don’t think anyone should just “settle” with anybody. I said be with a man that treats you correctly aka don’t reject a man that wants to treat you right just because he is white.
@chrisstroud60
@chrisstroud60 3 года назад
@@ToniBryanneTV just go with what your heart wants. Even if the guy is white and wants to treat you the way you want does that mean you should love him?
@ToniBryanneTV
@ToniBryanneTV 3 года назад
@@chrisstroud60 I don’t understand where the confusion is. I clearly stated what I meant.
@chrisstroud60
@chrisstroud60 3 года назад
@P C not really. I have been with a mixed women before but that's about it.
@GOL_D
@GOL_D 3 года назад
You need to learn about tartaria and, about the moors, the black natives. Most slaves were native blacks not "brought over on a boat". Not possible. (But i guess people dont actually research it now and go of what they remember they were told when they were 9). And also queen cali of california Too few know
@TheDayd111returns
@TheDayd111returns 3 года назад
Sadly, most people don't know that original Blacks came from the Americas, not Africa. They were the original people of this country. Yes, the Kalifian people, the owners of the California gold.
@BammBanjoo
@BammBanjoo 3 года назад
Why are yah always focused on the black men in interracial relationships but not focused on %86 of black men are with black women 🤣
@DolceVita
@DolceVita 3 года назад
DO you have a source for this statistic please? I hear this all the time, I would like to check the credibility of this stat, thanks.
@mamadoulayeniasse8233
@mamadoulayeniasse8233 3 года назад
90*
@mamadoulayeniasse8233
@mamadoulayeniasse8233 3 года назад
@@DolceVita go Google it . It's more than 86%
@DolceVita
@DolceVita 3 года назад
@@mamadoulayeniasse8233 I have tried Googling it and haven’t found it. What’s the name of the organisation who conducted the report maybe I will find it that way?
@BammBanjoo
@BammBanjoo 3 года назад
@@DolceVita check black demographics by black people. You can even check the United States Census, this notion that black men leave black women is stupid.
@jamalgordon8883
@jamalgordon8883 11 месяцев назад
Ashanti & Christina Milian & Ciara & Megan Thee Stallion have brown skin
@MCloud-vf6xl
@MCloud-vf6xl 3 года назад
Let's love who we love!! Make sure whoever you choose is chosen out of love true love!! Pray that that is everyone ultimate goal!
@anti-life8259
@anti-life8259 3 года назад
Nah speak for yourself I respect my ancestors to much
@theshiningblood6136
@theshiningblood6136 3 года назад
No I hate being mixed. I hate it so fucking much. I wish I was just white or just black. :(
@summerfeeling3033
@summerfeeling3033 3 года назад
@@anti-life8259 your ancestors would certainly not have wanted you to continue as a racist.
@summerfeeling3033
@summerfeeling3033 3 года назад
👏
@summerfeeling3033
@summerfeeling3033 3 года назад
@@theshiningblood6136 why?
@rolandraggio1798
@rolandraggio1798 3 года назад
America is become more diverse as a nation. It is healthy to learn about other people, cultures and languages. We cannot generalized and all or mot black men.
@lenardogorra613
@lenardogorra613 8 месяцев назад
here in our country. Interracial marriage is ILLEGAL. We are thinking of our children's future.. look at US with all this interracial children mostly grow up fatherless and criminals.. #Fact
@davidepps3860
@davidepps3860 2 года назад
In reality I'm free and we all are black or white yes black need to grow mentally socially just not but keeping us put down search and find the black or white man or woman you want and you will find stop hating I don't like videos like this no reason to be jealous of no one
@macworld.cantero
@macworld.cantero Год назад
First of all thank you in advance for responding:) I acknowledge you as a content creator which is apart of media /entertainment industry. If Black men in sports/entertainment choose / prop up white women over black women in that culture how do it affect black people?????? The culture of sports and entertainment is not true representation of people. True black representation are Men and Women together thriving not surviving in politics, technology, education, math, science, Medicine and Economics-all throughout history of America past, present and future.
@bluemouse_draws3694
@bluemouse_draws3694 Год назад
(Didnt watch the video yet, but something was just put on my heart to say this seeing the title of the video) I'll never forget...I'm a black young woman and I've always dated outside my race. Was it because I hated my skin color and my people and wanted to diminish it by "mixing"? No. Never. Its just I spent majority of my life mainly hanging around people of the opposite color with a few exceptions because we all never saw each other for color; but for people sharing common interests and getting along. Currently, I'm engaged to whom I believe is my soulmate. I've never felt so loved and wanted and cherished in my life from all the men I've dated in the past. And of course, he turns out to be of hispanic/indian descent (looks white as hell tho lol but not the point). A friend of mine was dating a guy whom acted and sounded black, but was of a lighter skin tone and such. You could tell he hated black women and his own black heritage and fetishized white women. Because when I was trying to have decent conversation with him (despite him and his other friend who was darker and obviously of black heritage o-so-making it clear that they couldn't stand black women for...whatever fucked up reasons and making me feel like shit the whole time), I bring up the fact that my fiancé (boyfriend at the time) was of hispanic/indian heritage but appeared white and his first comment to me was "Oh, so you like them white boys. I don't blame you. You must want them mixed babies too. I wouldn't want a child to look as dark as me neither." I was so appalled and disgusted, because he just assumed I was only with my fiancé for this anti-black agenda and because I self-loathed myself, which is not true AT ALL. I love my black skin, I love my black people-I love ALL people. It took me YEARS to feel confident in myself and to see myself as a beautiful, intelligent young lady, and my fiancé reminds me of that everyday. Because he sees my heart and my soul and fell in love with me for that, as I did with him. Its truly sickening that there are people like that out there in the world, using others in such a way to full-fill some ugly agenda/fantasy. Truly is sad. Alright imma shut up and watch the video now🤣🤣
@epiphanymaplethorpe2592
@epiphanymaplethorpe2592 Год назад
Alright, thank you for this tidbit
@TeeBabyXOXO
@TeeBabyXOXO Год назад
I see what you saying but could it be the experiences you had with those black men be the reason you didn’t feel confident and see yourself as beautiful and intelligent? And that’s why you looked for love and support from the opposite community. I’m not saying there’s anything wrong with that. However, it does sound like you did have a great disdain for black men and essentially the community since you decided to surround yourself with the opposite color.
@Ayana_S110
@Ayana_S110 Год назад
Because black men like to project their pathology on everyone and like to assume black women thinks the way they do about interracial couples. They know what they do and allow in their relationships is wrong and that why they get upset when they see your happier relationship.
@rolandraggio1798
@rolandraggio1798 3 года назад
When it comes to relationships ethnicity should not be the limiting factor. There is only 1 race, the human race. The human genome is the same. Phenotypes may differ but genotypically we are all human beings. If a man and woman love each other other respect each other and share common values and goals that is what matters. Men and women each have their own preferences. Also men and women have the same dating options neither sex/gender is restricted to whom they can be with. If two people love each other and they can build a happy healthy home for themselves and their children that is what matters, shared core values, commitment and integrity are what matters not hair, skin and superficial external appearances. Beauty fades look for shared common values, integrity and respect.
@Non_auro_sed_ferro_recuperanda
@Non_auro_sed_ferro_recuperanda 2 года назад
Nonsense.
@phljawn
@phljawn 2 года назад
I understand what you're saying but when it comes to who's being out loud about it, and put down the women in their own race, it seems to be a black man most of the time.
@karlvann5840
@karlvann5840 Год назад
Outside of your “ colorism “ point this narrative is laced with ignorance and gross generalizations....A lot of ppl can’t seem to grasp the fact that none of us chose who or what we are attracted too..some are wired to be attracted more to those of other races. it’s not due to some nefarious plan.. And biracial couples are equally capable of having children out of love just like anyone else.They are capable of loving and celebrating the beauty of a bi racial child ( as I do my gorgeous daughter) without wanting to steal your genetics lmao and they couldn’t anyway bc that’s not how any of that works 😂..( I’m sorry but that the fucking super weird to say)
@unappealingundesirable2826
@unappealingundesirable2826 7 месяцев назад
I am male, Japanese-American, born in Seattle in 1973. Human nature: Most people don't like it when those of their same race, but opposite gender, date and marry outside of their race. I want to give credit where credit is due: In my experience, Black men didn't seem to mind at all! There was a large African-American population at my high school, and on a number of occasions, African-American male classmates, tried setting ME up with a Black girl! Good-looking ones, too.
@ReviewwattpadbokLook
@ReviewwattpadbokLook 27 дней назад
Did you ever go on a date with any?
@head-like-a-milk-dud963
@head-like-a-milk-dud963 3 года назад
Some of what you’re saying is true but most of it is misleading and has splashes of propaganda riddled through the video. BM dating/marrying ww in large has more to do with their agreeableness and overall attitudes than it does with 4c hair or anything else. BM marry Latinas for the same reason and half of them are just as dark with same hair texture as you. Not to be dismissive of the good points you did make but the majority of us that do marry out ( myself included) weren’t thinking about hair or some traumatic experience my 4x Great grandmother went through. I liked her, she like me, we got along, she supported my dreams and followed my lead.
@raymonds7492
@raymonds7492 3 года назад
And the African American community isn’t a patriarchy. Men will leave a community that they have no control over, or overthrow it.
@head-like-a-milk-dud963
@head-like-a-milk-dud963 3 года назад
@@raymonds7492 The systemic shift from patriarch to matriarch is when the seeds were planted for us to became a dysfunctional community. No sane man regardless of color can productivity operate in dysfunction.
@Jaspervision777
@Jaspervision777 3 года назад
I was always trying to date black women but I was told all my life that I didn’t act black enough,your thesis is flawed stop trying to sound intellectual and pay attention to your afri surroundings and you’ll see the problem
@ToniBryanneTV
@ToniBryanneTV 3 года назад
You sound like an idiot Dick
@Karsielatee
@Karsielatee Месяц назад
@@ToniBryanneTV you’re a true clown
@ToniBryanneTV
@ToniBryanneTV Месяц назад
@@Karsielatee takes one to know one I suppose 🥰😂
@emmanuelsengo684
@emmanuelsengo684 3 года назад
I just got to say one thing Jesus you’re beautiful 🤩
@ToniBryanneTV
@ToniBryanneTV 3 года назад
Awww thank you💕
@idanaimellak407
@idanaimellak407 3 года назад
Thats right
@Spotlighttosuccess
@Spotlighttosuccess 3 года назад
She’s average at Best
@Spotlighttosuccess
@Spotlighttosuccess 3 года назад
@Material Girl she is average
@Spotlighttosuccess
@Spotlighttosuccess 3 года назад
@Material Girl You sound dumb saying that.
@user-vt4zc8oi6p
@user-vt4zc8oi6p 21 день назад
This brought up memories when we were in secondary school me and my friends would all say we wanted 'mixed race babies, all of our crushes were black guys. We went to a girls school so the guys we would see were the guys who lived around our area. Black girls would want to rob us and fight us if they saw us with black guys. It was just how it was back then. I dont know if its changed
@Prophetessdaejaligula
@Prophetessdaejaligula 2 года назад
Deep 💯
@gantzuka
@gantzuka 3 года назад
IF he doesn't have money and date anything but a black woman. You possibly don't care, maybe. IF it's a black man making six figures, oh yeah y'all going to hear them throw shade. Problem is ain't y'all the same chicks that DIDN"T want these dudes in the first place? You didn't want theses dude in the first place and rode every thug in the fifth ward. But the dude you didn't want who try to get with you and make his woman, got a hard hell no. So was he suppose to sit around waiting for you to settle for him? A dude you still don't want but since they made something of them selves you want his money. Cause we sure as hell know you don't want him for him.
@ToniBryanneTV
@ToniBryanneTV 3 года назад
Lmao see I was waiting for one of y’all to come out with this dumb hypothetical situation 😂😂 why would myself OR any black woman want a black man when he has NOTHING to offer?!?! Are you dead serious rn? You’re absolutely right I don’t want him at the point. Why should I or any woman for that matter settle for mediocrity? Some of you men have this weird fantasy of making it big and “stunting” on the women that didn’t want you before. If you have nothing to offer me I’m not having a conversation with you point blank period. It’s called having standards. So you could keep pushing that stale a** narrative. It’s not gonna work here.
@Victor-fj5hy
@Victor-fj5hy 3 года назад
@@gantzuka facts 💯
@gantzuka
@gantzuka 3 года назад
@@Victor-fj5hy Okay quick question. When you look a her thumb. What do all those dudes have in common with each other that they don't have in common with the average black man?
@diouranke
@diouranke 3 года назад
Thug narrative is crap to me, plenty of bw never dated oe pursued thugs, it's also never questioned why there r so many " thugs"
@Karsielatee
@Karsielatee Месяц назад
@@ToniBryanneTV so why the childish video? Why complain about men you don’t want?
@tristainking9329
@tristainking9329 3 года назад
The issue now is now black men are shamed for even dating outside their race by black people. I’ve been told myself I’m a traitor to my race for going out with different race of women that aren’t black so why is that right to shame theme for that and that’s coming from the black community. I’m not gonna exclude a race just because a race but I do have preferences I like white or Mexican. And the argument where u said that black women are the smartest, how come there’s such a high rate of black single mothers if they were “the smartest” they wouldn’t be letting themselves get played so much. I could go on. Just saying that just sounds very egotistical. And I don’t like how the black community will literally disown their own race for marring the opposite race.
@ToniBryanneTV
@ToniBryanneTV 3 года назад
Now you were doing great in the beginning. I think it’s healthy to have conversations like this, but first chance you got, you bashed black women. Black women can’t control how black men or men in general treat them same as men can’t control how women treat them. People are going to do what they want to do regardless so that point is invalid. As for black women being the smartest, I clearly stated black women are the most educated group which is a proven fact. Go look it up. That had nothing to do with being egotistical. Facts are facts. I personally think it’s slightly odd to not like your own race or prefer your own race because that’s what you come from, but I do not think it’s right for you to get bashed for dating who you date if they are non black. Me personally, I am open to date any race. I’ve only strictly dated black men, but I am open to date any race if they have the qualifications I look for in a partner. Also let’s be clear, a lot of races disown their own for stepping outside their race. Black people are actually a lot more accepting of dating outside your race which is why so many do. Date who you date, but don’t bash your own while at it.
@tristainking9329
@tristainking9329 3 года назад
@@ToniBryanneTV I’m not bashing black women or at least wasn’t trying to but I’m just saying statistically the highest single mother rate in America is from black women meaning there’s more black women that are single mothers than any other race of women. And yes ur right u can’t control how people treat u; that goes for any race of people. And I’m not saying black women are dumb and if I came across like that my bad. But I wouldn’t say they’re the most educated cuz to me that’s putting u on a pedestal above every other race of ppl in my opinion. I don’t hate black women I love black women, literally if ur pretty and I’m attracted to u that’s all that matters. I just don’t think it’s right that a lot of black people will shame black men for dating outside their race. And I totally understand that there’s black men out there that don’t treat black women the way they should be treated. And btw I’m not tryna say the entire black community does this. What I’m saying is that there’s a good portion of black ppl who do shame black men for dating other races and yes other races are like that too. But we’ll take India for example. That’s a cultural religious thing to not date outside of their race not really ignorance. So most ppl that do that it’s not a racist thing as to why they shun ppl for mix racing, it’s the culture or religion.
@TheKrista5
@TheKrista5 3 года назад
Ok but who made them single mothers
@Victor-fj5hy
@Victor-fj5hy 3 года назад
Then why tf did you mess around with a bum ass nigga to begin with?
@TheKrista5
@TheKrista5 3 года назад
@@Victor-fj5hy have no kids waiting until marriage. Js
@gg_rider
@gg_rider 3 года назад
Does this also affect ancestors of Irish slaves of English, English slaves of Vikings, Germanic and other slaves of Romans, ancestors of White slaves of Arab Muslims, ancestors of African slaves of Arab Muslims, ancestors of Indian slaves of Arab Muslims, and ancestors of African slaves who were enslaved by Africans? Asia had slavery too. en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Slavery_in_Asia Or does this phenomenon only affect Black Fragility? ----- "Hypersexualization of our bodies gets us killed." So is Ava Videl saying there's 8000 Black people murdered per year, average 21-25 per day, mostly in the hood, and White people 'fetishizing' is what's causing this to happen?" Connect those dots. Oh, you mean 50-70 years ago and prior to that, people now decaying in the ground had crappy unsophisticated attitudes. P.S. There's nothing unbeautiful about very dark skinned Black women. That is a thing in yall's heads. Not everyone likes the same type of anything, so dating is finding the right match. This is painful. Gotta go.
@draslovkaclarion5517
@draslovkaclarion5517 Год назад
Are our ancestors shaking because of "thot-culture" "twerkin" and glorification of "city girl" mindsets/only fans?
@repentorendupinhellfire6270
She's already talked about those things in other videos but nice try lmao
@draslovkaclarion5517
@draslovkaclarion5517 Год назад
@Hippin and Hoppin ...the subject matter may change but the underlying issues don't. And I don't try...I do!!! And I let hoes be hoes...
@tjpotts1760
@tjpotts1760 3 года назад
As a black man that loves my Queens. Does it not matter that 87% of married black men are in fact married to black women? I feel like this type of thinking is applied to the overwhelming majority when in fact it’s a very small minority.
@bubbaquotes9682
@bubbaquotes9682 3 года назад
@P C it is
@bubbaquotes9682
@bubbaquotes9682 3 года назад
@P C and what’s wrong with black people loving each other?
@tjpotts1760
@tjpotts1760 3 года назад
@P C www.thoughtco.com/the-top-myths-about-black-marriage-2834526 Check this article Please. Sources sited at the bottom. This also isn't the only study out there.
@tjpotts1760
@tjpotts1760 3 года назад
@P C The media got us brainwashed lol. You can't select a few celebrities and say that's the case for a majority of us when statistics clearly state otherwise. The only people that marry within their race more often than blacks are in fact white couples. Not to say that race matters in selection (To an extent.) Depending on why your preferences are what they are.
@tjpotts1760
@tjpotts1760 3 года назад
@P C we should also unhighlight this comment. Rather we should highlight the comment with the actual facts below.
@wechwech695
@wechwech695 3 года назад
That tik tok made me cringe so badly 🤮
@ToniBryanneTV
@ToniBryanneTV 3 года назад
Sooo badly omg😭 every time I looked at it I rolled my eyes chile
@NostalgicSweetPeaGirl24
@NostalgicSweetPeaGirl24 5 месяцев назад
I’m white from the UK & have two male cousins who have married lovely Jamaican women . One cousin is super Christian with 7 mixed children and the other side is not religious and has two wonderful daughters . I feel like people fall in love with who they want and not every white person dates black people for a fetish but a genuine connection .
@cecelyric
@cecelyric 3 года назад
TALK YO SHIT, BOO!!!!!! PERIOD! We are NOT the weaker link.
@nightshadowsstudios
@nightshadowsstudios 2 года назад
love your hair toni byanne you go girl 👏
@baselinez101
@baselinez101 3 года назад
@Toni Bryanne come on brother and sisters let's forgive one another and show some love .We need to stop this fighting amongst ourself the world is eavesdropping on our comments and love our bickering and devided we are against each other.This is what the world wants us to do because in fact they are jealous and fearful of us black folks.We are the most beautiful,compassionate,smartest,wisest,artistic,God fearing,intelligent and strongest race on earth.They will even confess it to our face.Let show the world who we truly are together in unity and love and forgiveness. Toni you are a beautiful young black queen. Strong and intelligent and you will succeed in what ever you put your mind to do just pray and ask jesus to direct your steps that will give glory to his name and for the betterment of your personal life and your black community. And all my black brother princess God has a special place on earth for us we are unique in our perseverance,innovation and both spiritual and secular leadership we are like guardians of truth and justice over the earth and that's why satan the devil has attack the leadership and self esteem of black men through the centuries. Its spiritual warfare start reading the bible and ask jesus to forgive, cleanse and fill you with the holy spirit so you can pray over your kids and wives like the Jewish fathers do and break off the generational curse off your children.Black men take back leadership of your community that satan has stolen.Win back the respect of your community as a whole with Gods help through prayer .Black woman this goes the same for you we all need to understand that satan hates the black race more than any other .We are the special praise and worshipers of God's glory and reveler of his presence.Case in point all modern music genre were stolen by satan from black Gospel music.That was only one of multitudes of special anointing giftings that was stolen by the devil from the black race including many inventions that weren't accredited to the black community. Black man love your black woman.Black woman love your black man.If any of us date or marry out of our race for selfish reasons then I promise you that this kind of relationship wont last just as equal as it won't last if he or she marries or date within their own race.Trust me Jesus has place this in every human hearts in relationship to expose every selfish motives; he knew this day will come that some will use race as a form of selfish self-centered empowerment .
@PrincessVelaryon
@PrincessVelaryon Год назад
Where I'm from a darker tonned black woman is more lightly to end up with a white man than a lighter skinned blackwomen.
@raymonds7492
@raymonds7492 3 года назад
8:49 that went on for way too long. She’s seen every BLACKED video for sure. Lol
@mzm4344
@mzm4344 3 года назад
ikr
@kaylahbkitty9691
@kaylahbkitty9691 3 года назад
So many dusties and trolls in the comment section how about if the shoe fits then its probably y'all she talking about. majority of y'all are delusional.
@kaylahbkitty9691
@kaylahbkitty9691 3 года назад
Most of these faceless trolls will get blocked .
@shawnmariep
@shawnmariep Год назад
Dark skin Black women's dating pool is limited ONLY if she dates within her race. Black men are NOT by any measure , a Black woman's only option Yes, Black women are known to be the MOST loyal to their race. However , that DOES NOT mean that men of other races don't want her. Considering that when a Black woman DOES marry outside her race, she REMAINS MARRIED, andBlack men wind up divorced, regardless to who he marries, perhaps Black women should consider other options? Why marry a Black man, have his kids and then wind up divorced???? I don't think Black men like women at all. I think they tolerate them but i dont think they like them. I daid what i said
@Stillunbothered
@Stillunbothered 4 месяца назад
I am so glad neo experienced his wife or ex wife racism it’s help these black men see what others really think of them
@bamask8life
@bamask8life 3 года назад
Dear black women and black men date who you want to date your grown nobody has a right to decide who you date but just dont disrespect each other in the process both sides needs to learn some respect cause yall love dissing eachother like that's really petty and it always be the bitter ones hating like grow up
@ryosaeba9829
@ryosaeba9829 3 года назад
Hmm.. Its actually true. I noticed that lots of darker skin men choose lighter skin women.
@ToniBryanneTV
@ToniBryanneTV 3 года назад
Yeah we can’t pretend this doesn’t exist!
@Bulletsblastin
@Bulletsblastin 3 года назад
@@ToniBryanneTV so what that's not a problem lol
@sana.4.a
@sana.4.a 3 года назад
@@Bulletsblastin that become a problem when you always see couples who look alike : blonde men with blonde girls, asian men with asian women but we never see the darkskin black men with the darkskin woman.
@SIGMAMAN69
@SIGMAMAN69 2 года назад
@@ToniBryanneTV But you want to pretend that black women doing the same thing doesn’t exist. You also want to justify black women dating interracial lot by bashing us. Who needs that?
@shimmer4771
@shimmer4771 Год назад
​@@SIGMAMAN69 Bashing is wrong. Those people need therapy.
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