Bonnie Hoelline Has Beef With Nurses | Leaves Important Information Out | Cries Too Much 

When she said “it’s rude to film people in public” I FREAKIN CACKLEDDD

As an RN…. She is a disaster patient/family member. Ever think that her freaking out is what caused the kid to freak out? Nothing escalates a patients emotions/behavior more than family members like this. And no RN would get up and leave like that, it’s called patient abandonment.

I'm an RN and I can tell you - nothing irks us more than a patient/family telling us how to do our jobs.

The different nurses and doctors coming in and asking the kid how they got hurst over and over is a tactic. They are checking to see if the story changes or gets suspicious in case the child is being abused. By snapping at this nurse and telling her she doesn't need to know how the kid got hurt this lady 100% is now on some watchlist for them to keep a closer eye on her whenever she comes in with a hurt kid. She just fast tracked herself to a CPS investigation.

“I don’t want to cry in front of Lincoln, but I will for the internet “ 🤦🏼‍♀️

The amount of times she has been to hospital with her kids for stitches is INCREDIBLE.

Honestly the nurse was probably ticked that she brought her kid to a extremely busy ER for a suture removal. ERs are overloaded. You could of gone to your pediatrician to remove them, not the ER. Especially if she had an attitude to begin with. Worked in an ER for 5 years. Ticks me off just hearing this story.

As a nurse, I can’t imagine the immense pressure of working in a busy ER, trying to prioritise patient care (emergencies, life threatening emergencies, pandemic) & mommy vlogger presents (when she could have attended planned care elsewhere). This allegation is at least a disciplinary action with the language she is using. It’s very sad to hear this content from Bonnie. 😔 It’s horrible to be yelled at when you are trying your best. Sometimes care isn’t up to scratch but go through the correct channels to complain not make it your vlog content. TY for covering this Josh.

I wasn’t angry: yelled at a nurse. I respect the nurses: tells them how to do their job.

Do these kids have no doctor? i don't get taking your kid to an EMERGENCY room to take them out, that's where they put them in and then you follow up with your doc. At least that's how it goes around here.

The most normal thing ever is a medical professional to ask you what happened. Why would she say that's not her business? That's exactly her business!

She filmed it and is not showing it. As a family vlogger, THAT MEANS SOMETHING. Theres no doubt in my mind that if she wasn’t embarrassed about what she said/did that video would be up.

I’m a trauma nurse practitioner. She is the type of patient we play Rock Paper Scissors for to see who has to deal with her. Josh you took the words right out of my mouth at 8:20 😂 Also, why is she going to an ED for stitch removal? That’s usually done as an outpatient with a pcp bc the ED is for, you know, emergencies. Plus gotta love it when a non-medical professional tells us how to do our job and I guarantee she had a bunch of comments along the way she was leaving out to set the scene and attitude in the room. Also, EDs right now are chronically understaffed and overworked, I am absolutely positive she said enough to piss off whoever was dealing with her and made it 10x worse to begin bc that old saying about being nice to those who take care of you bc they have the ability to make the experience better or worse for you is true. If I were a nurse coming into help and got snapped at by a Karen, sorry, FU, sit there and think about what you’ve done. They also probably went and snagged plastics (plastic surgery md) bc that’s legitimately their specialty, and by that point they said “we’re done, go deal with Karen in bay 5.

THe nurses probably HAD to ask about how it happened to make sure it's not abuse. Every time we took a kid to the ER, we had to explain what happened to them at least 3 times to make sure our story stays the same.

You have no idea how many rounds of rock/paper/scissors are played in the ER when people like BH walk through the door... 🇺🇸🇺🇸🇺🇸🇺🇸

I had a run end with Bonnie that was so horrible I blocked her and her family off all my social media. She did this one video about some clothes she bought. I wanted to purchase the sweater she had. I made the HUGE MISTAKE DM’ing her asking where she got it from. Her response to me was this, “What do you think I have time to do that. You will have to find it yourself.( just so you know the video was a fashion show of clothes ) I replied the reason I contacted her was because I was going to an event in my husbands memory. He died he was a Peace Office and passed from a shooting incident. She made me feel all warm an fuzzy. I never bought anything because I got so upset. 💔

"people who film people in public is really rude" IM SORRY DO YOU NOT DO THE SAME

Isnt this the family who had a "fan" come to their door??.. .. These vloggers need to be gone already. ...and she cries too much and uses that to escalate the situation with her child.

How about she be compassionate to the healthcare workers that are overwhelmed, short staffed and exhausted. What the F did she take her kid to the ER for stitches to be removed?!?

Mormon Karen hahahah perfect nickname for Bonnie!!!

‘Is it rude to film someone without their consent’ hit the nail on the head right there

As a fellow RN, I can say that the nurses were probably asking over and over because her behavior made it suspect that this was a childhood accident vs abuse. They’re asking to see if the story was the same each time and if the parent’s behavior necessitates a call to CPS. But also, this woman is a total Karen and they rolled their eyes HARD every time he wasn’t looking. 🙄

Used to watch her when she had less than 100k followers. I thought she was relatable as a mom with kids and her husband worked a lot. Obviously now that’s not the case. Stopped watching years ago.

Why is it when something “dramatic” happens to these RU-vidrs, they “forget” to film it?! So convenient they forget to! 😂 then “explain” what happened and it’s an over the top story ! 🤦🏻‍♀️🤦🏻‍♀️

“You don’t need to know.” That’s the quickest way to get reported to CPS.

Thank you Josh for touching on this and sticking up for us!!!! And you’re 100% correct!!

LOL @ "Like Jessfam at a panda express" definitely going to use this more often 😅

"You don't need to know what happened!".............she says to the mandated reporter.

Oh would ya look at that, another mommy vlogger complaining about not being asked for consent🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄

I can only imagine how many thousands of stitches that nurse has removed in her lifetime and to have this dbag giving her "suggestions"... major eye roll!

This one is on another level!! I imagine the nurses would tell a *very* different side to this story!

I’m a nurse. Children with mothers like this piss me off. If you could do it better, clip the stitches at home. 🤷🏼‍♀️ and why not go to her pediatrician for the removal? ER is for emergencies… 🤦🏼‍♀️

I find it hard to believe that a nurse would ask a patient’s mother to hold the flashlight for her. Most often, parents are asked to leave the room during a procedure for reasons exactly like what was described here.

If you deep dive Bonnie and Joel, they have a super weird relationship. He seems like a battered husband. She definitely wears the pants and runs the show.

Your comments at the end of the video were right on. Loved it. Love your channel and have been on (lurking) all the lives about the Gabby case. Keep going!!👍

The nurse asked how the kid was injured to check about possible abuse. If the parent is aggressive,confrontational and controlling as she clearly was then they will suspect abuse. Her behaviour will have raised red flags and I wouldn't be surprised if a few videos time there will be a "we were checked on by child services". So they should be. If she can do the nurses and Dr's jobs better then why isn't she one?

Watch the" operated on the wrong body part" it's hysterical

Hey Josh, thanks for acknowledging the work nurses do and how hard it has been for us through the pandemic. It's been an extremely difficult time for our profession as a whole, and I appreciate the support!

As an RN...I feel for the staff. She is something else. I had never heard of this family until you highlighted them. I found Ruby absolutely appalling. These people need to be cancelled.

In NZ the nurses ask the child about their injuries as a way of checking for possible child abuse, so pretty much everyone who works with your child will ask. I think they look to see if the parent jumps in and answers or if the child’s story matches parents, makes sense etc.

She Didn’t need to bring all four kids poor daughter is like 11 or 12 and I seen a couple for videos that she stays home sometimes and watches all four of the kids so she could’ve stayed home and watched her two brothers

Whenever we’ve had care in the ER, they’ve always referred us for follow up care in a doctors office whether it be pediatrician, plastic surgeon, orthopedist etc. it could be a Utah thing, but I would not have stitches removed in an ER during a global pandemic.

Just yesterday, I had a very frustarating expoerince, even when I was raising my voice a little, I told the nurses, I'm not yelling at you, it's just that the situation is frustarating. They actually gave me decent advice even if they couldn't help me.

I used to watch her videos. Lincoln is definitely her favorite child. It always annoyed me how she didn't treat her children equally. Lincoln is her number 1 child for sure. She has extremely high expectations of Olivia and their relationship is very toxic in my opinion. Olivia is desperate for her love and approval and Boston is too. It's very sad. It's hilarious that she is preaching for everyone to be kind and understanding to nurses when she was clearly the biggest Karen ever! Such a hypocrite!! Unbelievable!!

Lol when she was talking about the "really little" flashlight my first thought was it is a pen light..nurses almost always have one with them to check pupil dilation etc..I once had a Doctor remove my stitches because the surgical wound was infected - he didn't even tell me what he was going to do. He just literally snipped and yanked them out, so yes it does hurt. There are many reasons why she may have had to pull a little harder than what Bonnie felt was needed. Thank you to every nurse who may be reading this. As a fellow nurse I know how hard you work and how difficult it can be, but no matter what is thrown your way you always respond with dignity, compassion and knowledge. Whenever patients are being super helpful and telling me all the "facts" they looked up online I always think..please do not mistake your google searches for my nursing degree.

Nothing she said sounds like it should have happened in an ER. Why are they removing stitches at an ER, not the gp or pediatrician? Also, why bring extra kids to the ER, during a PANDEMIC????

Hoelline....Sounds like one of those numbers u used to be able to call that cost like .99 for the first 10 mins and $3.99 for each additional min

This woman is just nuts. All she does is cry for any reason. Joel should have her evaluated - then file for divorce 🤣

I had to stop watching Bonnie some time ago, she has gotten so crazy to watch. The boys get stitches all the time and I get it, they are boys, but she milks it for sure. Lincoln does appear to be her favorite, he gets away with so much the others don't. The mega drama of it all did it for me.

The bleeding could have been from the scabs that dry around the stitches!

omg!! the irony of her saying be kind ,as she`s slating a hard working nurse!

I've worked in healthcare. If there has been a certain amount of instances that a family has come in for child injuries, they may be asking several times to make sure stories line up and to note any signs of abuse. I believe healthcare facilities can call defax if they feel like a child is at risk. Not saying it's like that for all cases or that everyone thinks that, but I'm just throwing out a theory here.

At the end of all your videos Josh, I imagine you’re talking to me and only me thank you you’re amazing and I love you too!!! 😂👏🏼😂😂👏🏼😂😂👏🏼😂😂👏🏼😂😂👏🏼

I work for my counties early intervention program. When we see cuts/ bruises etc on a child we ask what happened. We have to. We are mandated reporters. If a parent told me it doesn’t matter and is none of my business I would report them. I don’t care how many times the question is asked. You answer or you get reported.

“It’s not really being productive” why is that so funny 😂😂🤣

She's always annoyed me I remember late last year she kept referring to BLM as "political satire" and just being nasty about the whole movement which speaks so much about her as a person

When you talked about first giving birth... My nurses pulled the baby out me, slapped it down on the table and started taking care of it 🤣 I swear it was like a butcher taking care of a fish. It's honestly ok. They take care of dozens of babies a day.

My overall question, as a RN, is why did she go to the ER for a non-emergency? Like why didn’t she get a doctor’s appointment set up so she’s not wasting precious ‘under-staffed’ resources of the ER. 🤦‍♀️ Because getting stitches out is not an emergency unless there’s a complication.

I’m SO sick of these damn RU-vidrs being so entitled. I can’t wait until family vlogging fails and see what happens to all these people when they have to get real jobs

I can’t imagine crying over everything! I don’t know why you would cry over this lol

Having two confrontations with two different people in a short amount of time…something tells me she might…just might…be the problem 🤨

Her title for the video should have been "Went to ER to get stitches out cos I NEED content stat!". Complains ER is busy and under staffed, but could have gone to her family doc for that. 😡😡 Poor nurse.

It's awesome seeing your channel grow! Thanks for all the time and effort you put in. I always look forward to your videos. Melissa Holman

I cannot stand people like that, that go into places and every time there's a problem they blame someone else even though they are the ones who raised hell. This is so ridiculous, I cringe when I watch her explaining this

I’ve never seen someone cry so much. Literally every vlog

You should see her old videos where she publicly shamed this same little boy Lincoln for his nighttime accidents

Whyyyyy would she bring her kid to the ER for a suture removal…… bring him to his primary, or urgent care. Ugh.

They screamed her address and name. Billing purposes we need to verify its the correct lincoln. Bonnie is a pickle

Sometimes the skin grows over the stitches too much and they have to pick at it to get them out... my sister in law had people reschedule their stitch removals all the time so had that happen a lot. Sometimes scabs around the stitches bleed even though no real harm is being done. Why are they doing it at an ER anyways, that should have been a regular appointment 🤔 don't take up space for people who need emergency care!

"I don't like you & your shirt looks weird." LMFAO!

This is just sad. Nurses work sooo hard!!

Love this, and can I say I’m a nurse and one thing that drives me insane is When someone tries telling me how to do my job and/or talking down to me. It’s a pet peeve for me I guess lol Great job Josh!

Can you touch base on Elle and Jared?? I honestly think they are hearing what you are saying. Elle is another sister of Ruby and Bonnie… I would be interested in hearing your opinion on them.

"Went full JessFam at a Panda Express" 🤣🤣🤣🤣

Nurses and doctors use asking kids questions they know the answers to as a distraction for the child and pull their attention from the stress or anxiety. Depending on the injury it’s also to check for child abuse. For as many kids as she had I’m surprised she doesn’t get that.

Mormon Karen 😂🤣 oh my that was hilarious 😂🤣

Josh, I LOVE your content, but she has MUCH worse content that clearly illustrates consent concerns and "dramatizing for content purposes". Although I AGREE this does NOT need to be on RU-vid, I can understand her frustration! I was taken to the ER when I was a teen for a blood draw and the nurse kept sticking me because she didn't know what she was doing, and my mom spoke up and said, "you're hurting her'. Another nurse came, and did it in 2 minutes. Easy.

Josh is 100% right about the reaction that would have been the most calming for the child. Hey buddy I know that was tough you did so well I’m so proud of you let’s go get ice cream LOL unfortunately, sometimes there are situations in life that are difficult or unpleasant and obviously as parents you may need to advocate for your child but I do agree that she was blowing this completely out of proportion.

Why did she take him to the er to take stitches out. Doesn’t she have a regular dr?? Then what are they doing with all their $.

I literally can’t go a day w/o watching your content please never stop!! 😂😂😂 it’s the “CHiLLLL!! “ For me

That looks like an evil smirk Barbour...probably for good reason with this woman

Why go and tie up the ER for stitch removal?? Why not just go into an urgent care? A lot cheaper too!’ Geeze!!

😄 Josh!!!! that isn't an elf on the shelf, that's one of their kids. He has his fathers ears :)

We were all thinking it about his ears 😂😂

To all the Medical Professionals in the comments, aka Angels 😇 in disguise, thank you for your service and dedication, especially through COVID Please believe me when I say that this Bint is in the minority, the majority of us have more than one brain cell to rub together and truly appreciate all of your efforts! Especially in adversity! ❤❤❤

ER nurse here. I wasn’t there so I don’t know what really happened. BUT the ER across the country are sooooo busy and understaffed right now and going to the ED to get stitches remove is really a waste of resources. Doctors office, urgent care etc are way better places. We rarely remove stitches in the ED because people don’t come here to remove stitches.

Your videos make me laugh harder than anything else 🤣

See how disrespectful she was with the nurse - "you don't need to know". She one of these people who thinks she knows everything. She will make sure she is the alpha in all circumstances.

Don't make fun of people just because of how they look naturally. I don't think I need to explain that.

So my mom is very difficult to get along with and her talking to professionals reminds me of things my mom would say. UGH. Are we sure the kid wasn't crying because mommy was making a "scene" again?

Omg I’m RN. You are so right.

She's crying so much because she probably knows how horrible she was to everyone at the hospital!!!

I bet she tried to film the whole thing was denied and it all escalated from there.

I'm a first year student nurse from the UK and I don't know if they take stitches out differently in the US but how she was describing the process and tools for the procedure has really confused me. I've taken out a few stitches and it's nothing like how explained.. Also she said that he was complaining it hurt and that then she said he was completely still but crying..then he wasn't completely still. I've had the area bleed when I've removed stitches before sometimes bleeding occurs with the way the stitch was put in or the way it pull to come out I've never cut anyone but I definitely had patients bleed a little. It would be good to get your wifes pov on this video to see if she agrees with the process and tools Bonnie explains

My cousins youngest slipped in the tub and had to get staples and they had multiple nurses come in and ask what happened to see if the story changed, those nurses and doctors being in the profession they are in have to do that and report it to cps if there is any suspicion of child abuse

she literally looks crazy in every pause screen

If she really told us if the nurse did malpractice to her son, then why she not record that? I mean she got camera tho I hope the nurse could sue her for blasphemy

So many family vloggers have their comments off, drives me insane. Then they say come comment on my Instagram! Why? 🙄

I haven’t watched yet, but I cant believe how mean she is to her husband and makes a whole video about it.

She got those crazy eyes