Bride Is Afraid Of Showing Dress To Her Southern Mum | Say Yes To The Dress Atlanta 

“He asked me to hold his beer then got down on one knee” soRRY I WHEEZED-

“She did that to spite me” You mean by choosing a wedding gown she likes for her own wedding?? Tf?

"it not worth fighting over the boots when we will fight over everything"-thats alot of words for" I'm a toxic and controlling mother"

"she definitely doesn't care if she hurts my feelings" Poor thing 💔 the way she laughed when she said that I recognize that coping humor anywhere These abusive narcissistic mothers in this show are always framed and treated like "oh teehee that's just my good ol' southern Mama being stubborn as a mule" No. They're abusive and it's genuinely sad watching how much some of these women just want their mother's support/approval I remember when I was bending over backwards, doing anything and everything I could to earn my parents approval I just wanted them to be proud of me I just wanted them to love me Speaking from experience They don't change unless they want to Nothing you do is ever enough for them But that doesn't mean you aren't enough Because you are Sorry for the random "lecture" on a yes to the dress video But it's honestly insane seeing how many mom's on here are just outright abusive and it's completely normalized

"she came out PURPOSELY with the mermaid" LMAO BYE you're not that important

That mother is lucky her daughter still talks to her. If she’s not careful she will lose her.

The sister was just copying the mother. Looks like both her daughters are scared of standing up against her. That's sad

"She definitely doesn't care if she hurts my feelings" Heartbreaking --- the mom doesn't care about her at all, the mom only cares about controlling her

Hate how when the consultant asks what she's looking for, the mom answers. She wasn't talking to you ._.

I'm glad Lori spoke up. That girl deserved a bridal dress, not just something you wear to a your bridal shower.

The second bride divorced in 2017. She remarried in 2021 and has the cutest little girl. She's the owner of several Chick-fil-A s and was the youngest franchise owner in the company's history when she started out. Much happiness and continued success!!

The contrast between the lack of support from the first bride's mom and the joy in the second bride's dad's face is really stark..I hope they both had beautiful weddings!

When the dad said “her mother would have loved that dress”, Y’ALL I CRIED.. 😭😭😭

Why is it that whenever people call someone in their entourage "opinionated," what that really means is "rude and domineering"? Call a spade a spade.

If this was my mother, I would've cut off contact with her the instant I turned 18. This is borderline emotional abuse.

the mum is literally so egotistical imagine thinking your daughter would choose her wedding dress just to spite you

Why is the mom acting as if she’s going to be the one wearing it? Who cares what you like, as long as your daughters happy and why does she talk with her eyes closed?

Mother is only worried about what she wants.

"she came out PURPOSELY with the mermaid dress" LIKE SHUT UP YOU CANT EVEN FIT IN A DRESS-

I cried for the second bride. There was so much grace in her, and so much love in the bond she has with her dad.

The difference between these two parents made me shake. The Father is a jewel of a man. Lucky, lucky girl.

First bride : afraid to show her dress to her mom Second bride: crying for her mother Yes those two kinds of people do exist in this world

“I specifically said no mermaid dress” Who ever said this was your wedding?

That widower is fantastic. What a lovely kind man. The daughters are wonderful. Good job Dad!

The second bride was so beautiful and her family was really lovely. She picked a gorgeous dress as well

Speaking as one mother to another, Mom, repeat after me: " This isn't my wedding and I am not the bride. I don't get to choose her dress."

The second bride has the absolutely perfect dress, simple lines and suits her perfectly. She is my choice for the best dressed bride on any of these shows.

The bride that had lost her mother was so lovely and her father’s voice was such a radio voice. I could listen to him all day. They were a nice family. A stark contrast to the other family.

I think short wedding dresses can look lovely in some cases, when they're around the tea length/50s style length, but these are absolutely not it lmao, it just looks like a prom dress

"She never looked good in a "fru-fru" dress." Well. Isn't she as supportive as a broken crutch? Also can we talk about the "Hold my beer." proposal? Classy😞

"She did that to spite me" There is the very strange culture among Southern mothers where, if your daughter does anything that isn't what you want, it's on purpose to spite you.

The second story is going to make me cry. And WOW, that dress is magnificent, she looks gorgeous, like a true princess.

That’s why I’m buying my own wedding dress and going to the appointment alone 🤣

This is why we love Lori. She's the voice of the voiceless brides lol

That proposal takes "Hold my beer and watch this-" to a whole new level XD loved it!

Idk why but I like the “hold my beer” He country and proposed to her like that 😭😭😭❤️

The dress the second girl had on was stunning. What a beautiful bride! So sad she couldn't share this time with her Mom.

When you get married you become an independent woman. Start with picking the dress YOU like... not what momma wants. And momma, shame on you for the ultimatum because you are paying! The second brides dress was a whole new level. Those pearl sleeves were everything!

With a mother like that how did this young girl turn out so lovely

Good job, dad, raising such a beautiful, kind daughter on your own. ❤

I love how these mothers and entourages who look like total frumps are so opinionated. That dad in the video is an absolute sweetheart, a great guy and a great dad.

Being opinionated is one thing but the mother was outright rude

The second girl bless her sweet heart. What a Beautiful Bride

When the father began to talk about his daughters mother, boy did I cry

I can't stand mothers who think their daughters are nothing more than dress up dolls they can live though.

Bride #2’s dress left me speechless. I haven’t seen anything like it. Absolutely gorgeous 😍❤️ and so special

I'm so glad Lori said something. "Cute" like a child is not a wedding dress!!! A person should get the dress they want to wear. Her mother wanted her daughter to look like her little girl still. Parents have got to stop

The first mom is so toxic I feel for the daughter, she’s so sweet. I’m glad Lori made her get the dress she wanted vs caving to her nasty family! The second family was so classy. Ashley crying about how her mom would’ve loved the dress made me cry😭 The dad is a gem along with the rest of her family.

I get what Lori meant when she said the boots steal the show in the short dress. Im glad her mom came around.

When someone talks to someone with their eyes closed, you know she’s going to bulldoze everyone.

That second family….wow! What an amazing dad. Grandma too! Love them.

The dad saying her mom would have loved that dress actually made me start to tear up-

Honestly, I can understand refusing to buy some embarrassing, half-naked wedding dress for your daughter, or refusing to go far over budget…but not objecting to a particular STYLE of dress. That’s entirely up to your daughter.

Laurie did them a favor. The short dress is cute for a teenager going to homecoming. The dress they did get 😍. She looked beautiful.

My heart goes out to the dad who raised his daughter's and still brought up beautiful memories of their mom. He made sure that the daughter was the center of attention even after having a minute

Dear Ashley, so sorry that your lovely mom could not be with you for your wedding. Your dad and extended family seem wonderful and loving. You are a beautiful and gracious young woman, and I wish you all the happiness in the world!

The short dresses don’t look like it’s for a wedding,more like prom! I love how Lori came in and save the day because the main attraction of the bride should be the bride and the dress not the shoes.

The Mom is SO mean and spiteful, it isn't your wedding! How sad she puts down the bride's picks without anything kind or helpful to say. I am happy the bride is getting married and hopefully away from this woman.

the second brides dads reaction to seeing his daughter in that dress made me so happy

I genuinely couldn’t have a reaction like that when you can visually see how happy they are.

The consultant referring to them as ‘these people’ captures what we all felt. Horrible mother.

The bride who lost her mother so young...oh, that just brought tears to my eyes...and her father and grandmother were also bringing on the tears for me

Awww her giggles when she walked out wearing the dresses were so cute 🥺 she’s a sweet girl and deserves better.

"And this is my sister in law, Candice." So thats who Candice is.

This Mom comes out as a jealous Mom when her daughter looks so much better than she ever could.

And here we have one parent who understands parenting and one who doesn't. This father is doing everything he can to make his daughter feel beuatiful and loved. The mother's words are not honest, they're hurtfull.

3:17 I audibly gasped omgggg she looks AMAZING in that dress, it fits her figure perfectly

That mom is lucky her daughter still talks to her !

It's not the mom's wedding. When will these people realize that the bride should wear something SHE loves?

Mom is insane. I hope this woman's fiance is great and they move far away.

the second brides dress is BEAUTIFUL!!

Wonderful supporting family towards the second bride..

The second bride's dress was so BEAUTIFUL!!!!

The moment when the father said that her mother would have picked the dress she’s wearing was so special and beautiful

That second bride is absolutely gorgeous.

i love when she said how he proposed... that was so adorable

Mom !!! You go get married again in the dress you like 😑

I love Ronnie’s spirit! The way she walked out in the dress she chose was amazing! She was confident and ready to say yes!

It was heart breaking to see such a big and genuine smile slowly fall from her face

I can see why she wants to get married that young. This mother is absolutely insufferable!

the bride and her father really touched my heart, such a lovely episode 😢😍

My Daughter is 10-20 years away from marrying anyone, but I’ve already told her that the only thing I’d pressure her about is: ”Will the pics be cringy to you a decade afterwards?” Otherwise I’ll support her choice whatever it is.

Another time where i say:👏 Mom👏 its👏 not 👏your👏 wedding!!!

I can never understand why they always start off with “I don’t want her in this or that” like bro it’s not your day and you should have 0 say in what they wear on their special day.

That short dress looks like a little girl's party dress and she looks about 12 in it.

The second bride is sooo pretty and looks great in her dress😍

The first lady is too pure hearted for a rude and mean hearted momma. The second lady has a beautiful family and is just as precious. Amazing how different those two parents are but still have such sweet daughters.

Boy that 2nd brides dress was a zinger. Loved it!

If I had a mom like that I would have gone by myself. Goodness. WHAT a disgrace. So sad to see this.

Wellcome to another episode of THIS NOT UR WEDDING MOM

Family #2 alteration lovely. The accesory on her hair really makes the difference. 💯 % for sure.

I just picture the fiance just looking around and thinking. Yup, this is the moment. "Hey babe, hold my beer." *proposes* XD

"isnt she lovely" AWEEEE THAT ALMOST MADE ME CRY

My friend got married in a barn wearing a short white dress and cowboy boots and she looked stunning.

The first bride, in dress #5, which she loved, looks absolutely fabulous with that minimalistic veil. It just takes the dress up another notch. The lovely 2nd bride in this video.... I think her dress is one of the most beautiful dresses ever shown in this TV series. It is absolutely gorgeous, and those sweet little cap sleeves are so unique. This bride is so beautiful .

That bride in the middle caught me off guard, didn't expect to cry :'I

I took both of my daughters shopping for their wedding gowns! There were no arguments or bossiness! They both fell in love with the first dress they tried on! I paid for them and we were all happy!! It’s their day, let them get what they want! Within the budget, of course!

IMO brides should go wedding dress shopping ALONE. That way they can get what they want without interference from others.

The southern accent is everything.

It's the ultimate compliment for someone whose mother has passed to hear that she looks like her mother