Bride's Mum Spends Over $15,000 On Wedding Invitations! | Say Yes To The Dress: The Big Day 

Not really great parenting to give your child so much and teach that total indulgence is to be expected. What if her new life includes hardship and privation at times, will she know how to cope?

@@louiseclarkashburn6664 she was studying for exam. Priorities sir!

I studies for exams while raising a child, doing a clinical internship, and doing household chores as usual. That’s not the point I was making. It is their money and the choice as to how they spend it is theirs. I just think spending so lavishly gives both bride and groom an unrealistic view of life. That is such a hard act to follow.

@@louiseclarkashburn6664 Good for you! But let's be honest... Her mother spent 15000$ on invitations... What kind of "hardship" you imagine her to have in future? She will have staff for everything. Instead of being a rich useless trash she is focusing on creating her own identity, which is a good thing. I see daughters fighting in this same show about the dress their mother chooses. Meanwhile she had a whole wedding planned out by her mother but she didn't say that "it's too tacky" or "I don't like the color of the napkin guests are wiping their mouths with". Being an Indian all I can say is that that's in the culture. We see emotions behind the things, we don't like to hurt our parents and we take care of them even when they are old. Even when they re bedridden, that's what good kids here are supposed to do (and I am proud of it). I don't know about her, but I have many dresses my mom bought for me that I don't like much, but I still wear them just because I want to see her smile everytime I wear them. I think the person is talking about that kind of "parenting".

No thats their culture lolz kids milking parents till they die and parents loving to be in control till then:p

Ha ha😄 Thank you I am from India.

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@@crabbearyscottage9899 yes, you guys weddings are colorful, vibrant. I can’t get enough of the dancing. Don’t even get me started on your wedding dresses. They’re soo extra 💯👍🔥

@@Sweetgirl25 I love seeing traditional wedding outfits from both the brides and grooms plus the jewelries and makeup. Everything is just so unique and beautiful.

She really should plan luxury parties for a living.

I guess beauty is in the eye of the beholder, because I found it rather tacky

amen

The bride clearly loved it, the groom was happy as well and a lot of this is cultural. So yes, I totally agree. It wasn't to my personal tastes but the mum did a phenomenal job. She nailed it for this occasion!!

Really? I thought 'what a joke' them comparing themselves with royalty🤪 looks like a circus

That punctuation almost made me have a stroke

@@annieroydube Stop being extra and dramatic. Smh.

@@annieroydube wow, you're not like the other girls, are you?

@@nocloutchasersundermywatch Wtf? I don’t think you understand in what context you should be using that expression cause it’s completely irrelevant here but go off😂

Why would they not be proud??

You could fund a small world country with what was paid on this wedding, however, I would be so stoked to attend. It looks so colorful and so fun!

@@dcmc7383 your statement is futile . People spend their hard earned money on what they want to do not what others tell them to do .. That mother might have been dreaming abt her girl's wedding ever since she was born .how can you blame her for luxury. Dude she is having the Luxury because she worked hard for it ..

@@Swatinchaos Hardly a futile comment - just a observation

@@dcmc7383 Thats true. In India we have all kinds of marriages. I have seen people spend their life time's savings and I have seen simple weddings which bride and groom fund themselves. It depends on how rich you are or what your family wants. There are some rich people who go for simple weddings as well. It's just a personal preference.

I really couldn’t understand why she was stressed her mother was doing everything for her her invitations her dance clothes how reception hall her wedding venue what does she do she is truly blessed to have a mother to do these things for her.

Thanks for providing some backstory, explains a lot.

Also tell me who selected her big day lehenga bcs its horrible

@@silkyshahi9884 her mother designed it. She’s a designer.

@@ndisfoshiz see i do not want to sound harsh but its not good ....

@@silkyshahi9884 oh no I 100% get it. It’s ok

Watch weddings from African if you wanna see some beautiful weddings and traditions. Nigeria Ghana Ethiopia Mali Cameroon/ Congo just to start

Well said. Your comment needs to be near the top so people see it.

Agreed. I hope the Channel get to see your comment

Yes we need to be inclusive

You can adjust any device you watch this on to use closed caption

@@august19621 unfortunately, it still doesn’t always work. I’m hearing impaired too and I struggle a lot too.

You are so right!!!

Mum probably enjoys being a housewife❤ who has time for her family

I cried at the end! (I need a hanky!) Romantic, exquisitely breathtaking! This couple are going to have really beautiful children!

Agree...even woke foreigners fail to see that and have a problem when certain indians either want to deviate from their tradition or when they just want to be simple in their weddings

I agree with you that some people want to showcase their wealth. But some people just have a big budget and they want to have fun. Like Indian weddings are fun and rich families like to have fun their way.

Exactly because many back in India was in a low caste in the west they had the opportunity to make something of themselves and make the money they couldn't back home. It's a chance for even the low caste to play royals because they can pay royaly they can show off how their kids are Doctors or in business etc. They could go back to India with western money and get the best for cheap sometimes 😀😉.

@@tanvi5378 but many aren't actually rich but can spring for it just to show off. 🤔as you see her mom got almost everything made In India way cheaper to get done then in the 🇺🇸

I grew up around this more or less and actually got to perform a little dance at one when I was a little girl . I was invited to my neighbors wedding because I knew how to dance( loved bollywood movies as a child still do) little do people realize African weddings are very similar as far as opulence and wanting to show the grand display of wealth and in both cultures BLACK&BROWN PEOPLE LOVE TO PARTY AND DANCE ALL NIGHT .

No god but Allah Islam way for peace and the real monotheism Search for the truth and right way with honest heart And ask him for the right way for his mercy.

@@amany247 bruh

@@amany247 shut up

Stop demeaning your religion like this@@amany247

@@amany247 stop embarrassing yourself imagine being you must be so hard being that embarrassing

Yeah we do, it's one of the most fun things ever (although a little tiring for the bride and groom) the guests have the time of their lives!

Lately a week is normal! But earlier, sometimes it could even take around 3 weeks to a month! We have many traditions and ceremonies, each differ with from where ur from and ur family, but there are a few that are more famous. It’s lots of fun, it’s basically a festival. New clothes get made or bought, the best food EVER (sometimes it’s a show off competition, which isn’t the best thing) but there are places in India where it is done very very low-key. Some people are starting to do smaller weddings as well, but usually as a compromise the reception has tons of people (ofc this differs from person to person, family to family, state to state, and everything). Basically u should totally come to one and then come to thousands. Just an input

I would love to come to one. It looks like lots of fun😅.

@@barbarahofmann2390 no problem, you're invited to my wedding (if I ever have one) there will be hundreds of people who I haven't ever seen in the wedding anyway, it's just the fun of it. You can join in and enjoy!!

Sounds great to me. Especially now. Where I'm at, we're on lockdown because 15 tested positive for covid. I was suppose to move into my apartment tomorrow 😭.

Ikr

Except that there was no 'saying yes to the dress' either on the bride's part or on her mother's part.

You should definitely come to an Indian wedding. I'm really proud of our weddings lol . You'll get to eat a lot, dance a lot and I'm sure you'll never forget it ! 💜

@@belle7087 sounds amazing. I’m totally down.

@@belle7087 true our indian wedding are epic😁💜💜💜

White is worn in grieving for Hindus. So it is not traditional.

Red is traditional for Hindus

@@Veronica-zm9uj come to Tamil Nadu bro😂😂😂

@@Veronica-zm9uj Hindus don't have one culture.

Hindu is a religion not a culture…🤦‍♀️ this is why people call western people dumb.

Yeah we have people we haven't ever seen on our wedding. The celebrations go on for a month! The extravaganza is real man you should prolly visit India once

overrall south asian weddings, we go all out lol

Indian weddings are like this !!😂😂❤️

@@ektanayak1423 Not all. Some Indian parents have more sense. But most like to show off I agree.

@@MrsSlocombesPuddyCat I agree, not all of them.

@@ektanayak1423 No body in India would waste that much money on stuff like invitation cards💀

@@estherselvarani88 there's nothing wrong if parents want their child's wedding to be grand..... The mother earned that much so she wanted a big fat wedding

Money is no object here. If that is what she wants and they can afford it, don't begrudge them. They worked for their money, let them enjoy it.

It's just a personal preference. Would I do that? Nope. For me there are other things that gives me more pleasure than an expensive wedding. But if that's what gives them the happiness, then its none of my business.

Indians are generally known to go all out on weddings so no biggie here ..

Hey keeps small businesses running

💯 agree. I love watching Indian weddings on YT. They never failed to impress me. Beautiful colors and their energies are something I always look forward to see.

Want to be friends? 😂 I'll invite you to mine if I ever get married

They really are amazing. A bit expensive if u let it be. But it's really amazing

@@msimrxn can I get an invite too?😂

@@jovannakrukow5806 omg of course 😂

@@msimrxn 😂

I’m Indian from India n in my culture believe me it’s normal. My mom is planning mine. Of course she is talking my opinion. Nd I know she will do a great job. Something that I’ll remember forever.

@@r.b.8018 well as long as she's accepts your opinion I'm all for it congrats by the way!

Probably added in post by the show. They probably didn't want to pay the royalty's for the music that was actually playing

honestly im so curiousssss What was she dancing onn

It's not about wealth. Indians do usually spend a lot on weddings regardless of the financial status. It's the second most expensive things people do after a house. Usually rich people weddings cost more than a house. At my uncles wedding we had atleast 500 to 1000 guest and we ain't even that rich

Both a waste of money. Most people throw invitations into the bin after accepting

@@MrsSlocombesPuddyCat I agree. I had a relative who did e-invitations for the wedding which I think is an amazing idea. The money you can save through that can go into something important, like the honeymoon. But to each their own I guess.

Tiffany young who?? Girls generation??

@@yabanu7927 She was the 3rd episode of "Say Yes to the Dress: The Big Day." Her fiancé's name is Jermaine Cooper.

@@RegularInvader oow okay I thought the k-pop celebrity her name is also Tiffany young 😅

It is lovely to have a ceremony thoughtfully put together. However, the excesses make me sad. I think a nice meal with friends and family at a nice venue is fine. No one cares about so many center pieces, flowers and a horse and a yacht. Their excess show of wealth saddens me. Give to the poor if you have so much.

@@blf6127 - Give your money away and stop worrying about other people's business.

@@blf6127 indian weddings happen like what we see in this video, it's normal

@@Weeping_lover Dear Girl, I do not begrudge you a lovely wedding, shared with family and friends. But if you have so much money for a cruise boat, a horse, extensive invitations you could have spent less on those items and still had a great wedding and donated money to the poor in honor of your marriage. I work at a food shelf, where people get food assist so they can afford to pay their other bills. I want you to pause and look at your priorities. God Bless you in making good choices.

@@blf6127 obviously, you have to set your priorities first, not everyone can afford those grand weddings, I absolutely despise the way this girl protrayed out Indian weddings to some foreigners...this doesn't happen in India at all...no matter how large the wedding is, managing finances is always the first priority.... Totally unrelated to this video, I told you our universal truth about weddings....so yes, obviously , your comment makes sense and mine does too :)

It's still animal cruelty. Horses are not here to have a human on their backs

My sister got married at the boathouse in Central Park and we did have my brother in law on the horse. Pretty sure there was no permit 🤭🤭

That’s typical Indian wedding for u.

Doesn't really cost a million, many people do it

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Thsnk God finally someone saud this. Indian Americans have the tackiest dressing sense. Indians in India dress better than that horror

Finally someone had to say this 😂😂😂 that too for like really expensive one they consider it to be 🙂

I was thinking the same. Even the ones her mom got from India looks so cheap. Who cheated these folks 😂

Hahaha it was all so tacky , they had an amazing budget , wished they had done it more classy . Dresses were awful!

😂😂

Or some random sitar music 🤣

Really I was waiting for some bollywood song😅

I could not care less, about what people do with their own hard earned money. However if they go on a television show that gets uploaded onto YT, I should be able to express an opinion. ......invites were an absolute waste of money in my opinion.....but who cares what I think eh! 😂

I avoid those people. I don't have a lot of money, but I don't have poverty of spirit, which is what these people have. Instead of being happy for the couple, they have to criticise that they spent too much money. It is their attitude that keeps them away from opportunities.

@@MrsSlocombesPuddyCat anybody can look at what someone else spends and say that person wasted money on something.

I was thinking the same thing

NO kidding. I wonder if a brides family is solely responsible for all wedding expenses. And she has a sister too. Does 2nd sister get the same grandness?

I think I spotted a white dress.

Most Indian families save for their daughter's wedding from the day she's born. The entire family also contributes. But it's a huge deal.

I mean I don't think no one should be angry because someone have more then them. We shouldn't be jealous of what other people have. That's not beneficial to you at all. And if people would truly work together in this world, and help one another. Instead of putting people down. We could all have more then enough. But most people tend to be very selfish. Especially here in America.

Their money and how they choose to spend it is really nobody else's business. Indian Americans have become the overall wealthiest ethnic group in America despite the hardships they face because so many of them work extraordinarily hard in school, make smart choices, and thus earn high-paying jobs.

I think it's just a personal preference.

when rich people spend money the economy thrives. Think of the number of jobs this wedding created, the number of small vendors who would have benefitted. This type of spending is good. Also, knowing that they're Indians and therefore immigrants I'm sure that money was hard earned.