Bride Andi and her fiancé don't want a traditional wedding so they are celebrating theirs on a boat. Catch Say Yes to the Dress on TLC - Sky 133, Virgin 162, BT TV 323
Exactly! Some fiances on these shows support the bride and stand up for her and what she wants. This couple seems to think that the groom should care what she wears - but he's not the one wearing it!
I have seen it the other way around as well. When the fiance isn't there the bride is none stop worried about if the fiance will like it and what he would ultimately want her to wear so she cant make a decision. If I had actually had a wedding I would have had my husband there dress shopping with me. 1) I am agoraphobic so i would not have been able to do it on my own and I do not have many friends who will be truthful with me about how I look in something and 2) my husband then fiance would have made sure I like the dress before he said yes or no to it because it was important that I like the dress more than anyone else. I would not have been able to make a decision without him there though because I respect his opinions and even though the dress was for me he was included in all the decisions for our wedding. We ended up not having a wedding because his father was getting sick. We rushed our marriage and I wore a sun dress and he wore a buttoned up shirt. We got married on the board walk in his home town. his father officiated and his mother was witness. Since then his father has passed and we are very happy that we were able to marry before that horrible day we lost him. We do however want to have a big wedding. Probably a vowel renewal and reception later when we have the money.
And did he really just say he needs to stand his ground since he wants a short dress bc HE HAS TO LOOK AT IT TOO? He's got some NERVE!?!?! And then telling her he doesn't like the flowers, he doesn't like the lace, he doesn't like this or that?! Homeboy can't be serious!!
I agree... On the other hand i just had to think about how most women want to influence the bridegroom's choice for his wedding suit as well. And to me this seems normal, but now i wonder if that is actually fair...?
Lord knows I've seen a bunch of brides insist on what the groom is to wear. From insisting on certain colors (such as matching the bridesmaids or a specific color theme) to selecting the tuxedo. No one seems to get upset when that happens though. I get why brides and grooms have requests for each other, they all want to be happy. What's more important is how they treat each other and share their ideas. I thought the way the bride and groom interacted was a positive example for how all couples should interact when they have differing ideas.
I get what you're saying, but maybe the wild memory is worth more to them than entombing it in a box for the next 60 years. The way I see it, most women will _never wear it again,_ so I don't really see the harm.
Inthia Emu unless you have a “whatever you want” fiancé like i did, he was the only one to come dress shopping with me. Mind Im not a dress kinda girl so i got mine from a department store, £365 and I look back now and think how nice it was. No disappointment here.Don’t have the dress anymore but still have the husband ☺️
This is a reality show. Having the fiance there creates drama! Drama brings views. That's why they can't stay out of the shop. At least on say yes to the dress
Drama, he's paying/helping to pay, or the bride wants him there. There's nothing inherently wrong with the latter 2, but usually the groom interferes too much out of his own interest rather than the interest in making the bride happy
I always find it weird when the fiancés reaction isn't just pure amazement at their bride in ANY wedding dress. I took my fiancé dress shopping because I was super nervous and my family didn't live near by. Every single dress he smiled and I could see the love pouring out of him. He thought I was beautiful in every dress I tried on even though they weren't my style. I was so glad to have him there with me ❤️
Angel Mateo At least two other brides had tried that short dress too. And both of them/or their family hated it. As I remember, one family ran away after trying that on. That's a horrible dress for wedding in my view. I hate it!
To all brides and future brides: the dress is for YOU. You gotta feel beautiful in it, confident, flawless. Yeah the groom's gonna be looking, but he's not the one wearing it hon.
Groom: sees dress Lori: you can't see everything, you have to leave. * puts a veil on * * literally looks the same * Groom: working on his surpise face
Well, it is stupid that she is spending all that money just to trash the dress. Just put a white swimsuit on underneath so you can take the dress off and go swimming after.
@@MsLovestory01 first world problems. Honestly...smh...I'm appalled. Dresses hold such sentimental value and are heirlooms in my family, I can never see treating a dress this badly
@@MsLovestory01 for friends of mine who are doing something crazy like skydiving, zip-lining, horseback riding, etc. at their wedding, they all got a cheap white dress at Walmart or Winners. Their more expensive wedding gown is for the ceremony/reception and then keep.
I told my fiancee that if I don't see tears in his eyes on our wedding day when he sees my dress, Imma kick him in the shins (I am joking of course I just feel perfect in my dress is all)
Dude is like „nothing traditional“, if you say the whole time you are against tradition, then why even get married👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻? ?? (I mean do your wedding the way you want, but do they always need to act like they are better or different like the rest, calm down every wedding is different and special in its own way)
The bride: “This is the groom” The consultant and me: uh oh Everyone: agreeing on big dress Groom: no I want tiny short dress Me: this is why you don’t want the groom there ;)
i can understand her wanting him to like the dress. being married is about making compromises and finding a middle ground. i'm glad they went with the two-part dress, it looks lovely on her and her fiance seems like a sweetheart I think
I’ve seen brides jump into the water with their gowns on, forgetting that it’s heavy and flowy . And she begins to go under drowning. Arghhhhh. Be careful brides 🥴
His taste wasn’t very good but I think the fiancé had a point on the short dress. If she’s gonna be trashing the dress then something super expensive and heavy doesn’t seem like a good idea. Just get 2 different dresses one that’s cute one to trash
Unlike other opinionated grooms, who genuinely AREN'T thinking about what the bride wants, I actually really like this one. Jumping off a boat in a giant wedding dress is just a recipe for disaster. Of course he wants a short dress she can move in, he doesn't want her drowning and he's actually thinking about the practicality of the dress. The dress was perfect.
I would agree with this, but he didn’t say anything about her safety or convenience. He was talking about how he had to look at it too and how the dress was for him. Maybe he came across differently than he intended, but that’s what bothered me.
@@bunnyboy3200 she literally said the dress was for him. Ppl are getting mad that he has opinion but she is the one saying it’s ok for him to have an opinion on the one she wears.
The groom was being practical, knowing what they planned to do after the ceremony. Others on this comment section are bashing this groom because they bought into the mantra it is the bride's day and to hell with the groom or the family members and their opinions. I personally have no issues with compromises since a marriage needs lots of it and a wedding is not a marriage. But that is me and other women who believe that the wedding is about the union and making it public to be celebrated by family members, relatives, and friends. It is not just about the bride and it is not her day alone.
Everyone's talking about Colby not being the bride and Andi's makeup, can we talk about Lori's reaction when she said she's trashing the dress? 😂😂😂. I DIIIEEEDD
"We're adventurous people, we've been to Ireland and we go skiing once a year" How boring does your normal life have to be to consider that adventurous!?
in all fairness its her wedding day and shes paying to do what she wants to do with the dress so if thats what her wedding is about, thats what shes gonna do
I get it. You want to look good for the ceremony and the pictures, but you're never gonna wear it again after that. Why not go swimming if you're getting married on a boat? It's not like you will need the dress ever again
Wtf....when she came out wearing the first dress,looking beautiful, he literally stared at her BLANKLY... HELLOOOOOOO ITS YOUR WIFE TO BEEEEEE..... They should have made the guy wear feathers.....
Trashing $2000 wedding dress by jumping in seawater after seems a waste, but memorable indeed. But does this guy going to enjoy trashing swimming in his tux too? Not just the bride, but groom too! Both swimming fully clothed for luck shared, as well as unique wedding pictures opportunity. Taking back to tux rental and explaining its condition would be memorable! May be he buys a cheep one that's trashed swimming in it too?
I agree! Everyone is trashing him for having an opinion, but it's very sensible to want a short dress if she's going to be jumping into water: a long dress could pull you under! I remember how worried I was that my husband would not like the dress; he would say "you could wear a potato sack and i would still love you and want to marry you", but you still want his jaw to drop (yes he loved my dress, phew!). These two actually seemed pretty nice. He never said anything unkind or unpleasant, he just had a different taste and wanted something "special", not just any dress like so many he had seen. I wish them well
Yeah he’s honestly just worried about her!! That chicken dress tho, he did her dirty with that one 😂 there’s other short dresses that will look much better
Omg! Tried to read this without my reading glasses. Thought it said "Biden wants to jump in the ocean in his wedding dress." !!!!! I'm done. Where'd I put those darn things???
Y’all need to stop attacking the guy he’s just giving his opinion he actually seems sweet plus it wouldn’t be safe to jump in the water with a giant long dress I know ppl do that but it can god forbid sometimes end badly
I REALLY THOUGHT about this for a deep second...and for all the women saying he should have no say on her dress....let's flip that for just a moment, and let's say your groom wanted to wear like a bright yellow tux on your wedding day...would you really be like, 'babe, it's your day too, wear whatever." No, you wouldn't. What I do think though is that he wasn't really hearing for the most part what the bride wanted and trying to compromise on a look until the final dress.
Ooooo that man was drivin me crazy!! I just got so annoyed when he said. “ well I have to look at the dress too.” Well dude your not the one wearing it!!!
I am in agreement with Lori. Fiancè should not be there unless they're going to nod and say they look beautiful. You can have an opinion, on which one they look more beautiful in
“I feel I need to stand my ground because I’m nontraditional and I have to look at it too.” Boy, you’re getting married to her, you should like her in whatever she is wearing!
