The bride's best friend wants to dictate what she's going to wear at her wedding and he will not bow down to anyone else's opinion. Catch Say Yes to the Dress on TLC - Sky 133, Virgin 162, BT TV 323
She doesn’t have much of a backbone. She said her fiancée “wouldn’t leave her alone” so she relented and started dating him. She needs to get a grip and stop letting men run her life.
@@solitairedoll I noticed that too. Kind of terrible to me, when guys just think no means yes- pretty toxic. Like, leave me alone I'm not interested does not mean keep pursuing... That's when I end up blocking, deleting and if had to- restraining order- creepy.
Chance is not a friend. I am guessing that she met him when she was in a state of insecurities and weakness, seeing about how she said her groom wouldn’t leave her alone and that’s why she probably met Chance. Chance is someone who I can see is a confident, “unique,” bold person. Something that she wasn’t. So now that she’s been able to get her confidence and that she’s finally able to stand tall, Chance I can see hates that. And that’s why she keeps trying to bring her down. With these words and insults, he’s trying to keep her dependent on him. He’s a narcissist. He wants her to depend on him as a friend. And when he doesn’t get his way, he throws a tantrum which makes her feel she HAS to give him what he wants. Toxic friends are hard to get rid of, but if she doesn’t, it’s gonna be one BIG co-dependent mess. 🙄🙄🙄
I don't believe Chance is confident or bold at all. Narcissistic folk are super insecure and that's usually the act they put on for everyone because they don't want people to see their insecurities.
Uhh if your talking about the beginning then that wasn’t rude lol , the “are you ready “ part was kinda funny, or maybe it’s because I’ve *actually* been around many people like this.
@@mourningst5r Eh, I'd find it funny if they were friends or if he hadn't rolled her eyes at her after she said it. Maybe that's part of his character but if someone I didn't know talked to me that way I'd just walk away. I find it disrespectful to talk to people in that tone/manor, especially when they're providing a service/helping you. Though mind you I work retail and went to a private school, so respect was drilled into my head.
@@mourningst5r facts , i thought that part was kind of funny 🤣 but other than that he was being an asshole other than that part too bad he didn’t mean it in a funny way 😭
“Let’s see..........I don’t see Chance’s name on the seclude today” 😂 “Ahh look at that Chances is having his bridal moment too bad he’s not the one in it” 😂 you gotta love Monte 😂
*SHE* is not indecisive. the bride would have found a dress already if her so-called “friend” didn’t have something bad to say about every dress *he* didn’t pick
@@stevekima8881 Well, it shows how superficial he is...continued saying: '...as long as she is pretty...'. Well, if that is the measuring standard, he should leave the room , like yesterday. Pissed me off so much!
I know, she seemed apprehensive in general, when she said her and her fiance have been through so many trials and tribulations that she can't see herself with anybody else I kinda wondered what those trials were about.
Because the show requests that potential brides bring someone controversial, if possible, in order to up the drama. There have been brides who went on record to say that producers deliberately asked them to bring family members or friends that they have issues with or haven't spoken to in a while. Hence why you sometimes see mothers or fathers being trotted out where the bride admits to not having a good relationship with them and the parent is controlling or downright monstrous to their daughter. If the show always had a supportive entourage it would get boring very quick for a number of people. Why do you think the show Bridezilla was so popular? People need a polarizing character.
@@annejeppesen160 Maybe they get a really good fee plus a discount from the store that's being advertised here, and they can use that to pay some of the dress, or get a more expensive one than they otherwise could.
Watching these clips has reminded me that we shouldn't share important moments with everyone. Some of these people the Brides picks to go with them to choose their dresses are rude, inconsiderate, toxic, disrespectful and insensitive. When it's my time, the only approval I will seek is my own and if I love the dress then that will be my dress.
no we dont...we dont have toxic people who drain the life out of like dracula in our lives...if someone doesnt bring something to the relationship that is positive then you dont need those people in your life!!!
I really like the dress she took home, It does screem her name. I'm also glad that Chances finally thought of his bestfriend and how she feels other than himself.
The second dress looked SO InCredible on her ! Was Definitely my favourite. It makes me wonder how many other beautiful dresses she missed out on because of this awful "friend"
“i personally don’t care if she’s happy, as long as she’s pretty.” um i would not bring a friend with me if he acts like that towards me and he’s so controlling edit: and idk bout y’all but i think the first dress he picked is ugly as heck
Ygor Cortes maybe not to you bye everyone has different opinions at the end of the day of the brides happy the people around her should be happy for her
He's over- acting his role in a scripted reality show. I can't with stereotypical gay rôles being pushed until the masses ( including some young gays ) believe it's how gays generally behave.
“He wouldn’t leave me alone, so we ended up getting together” 😒 And girl, “trials and tribulations” are not a reason to stay with someone. I hate this whole episode 😩
This girl is so doomed. She's marrying someone who "wouldn't leave her alone" in HS & feels they've been through so many trials & tribulations together. And then OMG, her best friend is CHANCES, an arrogant, spoiled, nasty, rude, poor excuse for a friend?! Girl, you have GOT to pick better people in your life!
@@skylovermc2146 I was in an awful relationship. Like guy was sentenced 30 years minimum in jail, no parole awful. This girl is clearly being manipulated and she needs help. That's why Susan left that comment. Susan is completely correct in her statement. This bride needs to step back and see what is happening- it's not mean to say- it's true. Might hurt for this girl to realize, but she could end up seriously hurt if she doesn't start recognizing these patterns
Ajisen Ramen I know right and he’s not getting married like just let the bride pick the dress herself instead of him picking the dress for her like for real she’s not a toddler lol
3:48 =... He is so used to being in control & dominant of his BFFs fashion to the point he feels the mother & stylist to her style like she's his doll or something...
“I’m at a loss for words🤩.. “ “Rly?!” “My momma always told me if you don’t have anything nice to say..😌💅” I’m sorry Ik he was being pretty rude but that had me ROLLING😭
I agree. I thought he was hilarious. Some of the people in these comments are taking him way too seriously. The bride clearly brought him along to make sure her appointment made it to the show.
i love Monte, like- in one vid, he got 11 women and 1 boy/man to shut up, like how- and he is giving the most best and fire comebacks i've ever heard, when Monte has made a mind set, he completes it, that man needs more credits fr
@@schone5037 ...........he's never going to have his big day so he wants control of her's...........these brides need to learn to leave these "friends" out of the mix..............
you know in spanish we have this saying "con estos amigos para que quiero enemigos?" which is basically "with these friends what do i want enemies for?" and this episode just had me thinking that phrase over and over again *YEESH*
I get so tired of "friends" thinking that being honest/"keeping it real" is the same as being rude. We all need and can appreciate a true friend and their honesty, but he was just too much.
There’s a fine line between “keeping it real” and being straight up rude. Like I can appreciate honesty, but there’s definitely better ways to go about it than what this guy demonstrated. It’s kind of a reoccurring thing in this show too, where there’s always someone who is part of the bridal party who is “just being honest.” When in reality, they’re throwing their weight around and being unsupportive and unbearable. I hate to use the word (because it’s used so often) but “toxic” is the only way to really describe that behavior. Some people just don’t understand that line.
I'm so glad I've been really good with my friends when picking up a wedding dress. I was supportive and told them "If you like it, don't care about what others say. Be you, unique and beautiful." Never tolerated a toxic person who wants to force things down my throat.
I agree he's acting so jealous. He probably has a crush on the groom. The reason he's bringing all the "divatude" trying to sabotage her happy moments.
Monte: Is there anything you don’t like about the dress? Chances: No! There is n... Monte: I believe I asked the bride. Taneisha: What do you guys think? Chances: I’m at a loss for words. Fake cries. My mamma always said if you don’t have anything nice to say don’t say it at all. Excuse me then why are you so rude the entire appointment? Also I love how Monte and her consultant stood up for her and helped her stand up to Chances.
