Does it mean you’re still in love with her? Or that you’re NEVER going to move on? In this video I explain exactly why you can’t stop imagining your ex wife having sex with someone else, and no, it doesn’t mean that you’re still in love with her. And it certainly doesn’t mean you can’t get over her.
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I’m Rachael Sloan, Master NLP Practitioner, certified life coach, and the creator of Better Beyond Divorce. I've helped hundreds of men move past the shock, betrayal, grief and anger they experience both during and after a divorce, to a place of clarity, calm and confidence. I hope to help you do the same.
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You can’t get the image out of your head… and it’s driving you crazy. I hear this from most of my clients and from many of the men who reach out to me for consultations and support. Usually they say it sheepishly, using language like, “I can’t stop thinking about her being intimate with him”. But let’s be honest. You can’t get the mental image of your ex wife fucking her new boyfriend out of your head… and it’s driving you nuts.
In this video we are going to have a very frank and honest conversation about this particular kind of jealousy. I’m going to help you understand where it comes from and why it is so hard to get out of your head. Then I’ll share some practical strategies for moving past it so you can finally sleep at night.
It doesn’t matter if you felt relatively at peace with the divorce or if you were still reeling from it, when you find out that your ex wife is seeing someone new, the jealousy can flood in with a power that is alarming.
I hear things like, “I’m not a jealous person at all… but when it comes to my wife…” (ahem… ex wife, my friend, ex wife!!) or “I really thought I was okay with the divorce… but then my cousin told me he saw her out to dinner with this guy and all of a sudden I’m a mess!”
Does it mean you’re still in love with her? Or that you’re NEVER going to move on? In this video I explain exactly why you can’t stop imagining your ex wife having sex with someone else, and no, it doesn’t mean that you’re still in love with her. And it certainly doesn’t mean you can’t get over her.
1 ноя 2021