can you trust spiritual youtubers? 👀😬 

Everyone shocked he was cheating on his wife and I’m over here shocked he’s straight. 🤦🏾

Don’t manifest a person…..manifest an experience. Ditch the “specific person” and pray for the experience.

I never take men proclaiming to be 'spiritual' serious, more often than not it seems to be an extremely convoluted way to gain greater access to women.

Damn and he was out making videos about not lusting over other girls ig pics when ur in a relationship and boom cheats on his wife with a 21 year old 😅

I never trust them, something is just always off about the calm and perfect image

No amount of healing will insulate us from ill-intentioned lovers. Healing allows us to better navigate the inevitable disappointment that comes with loving someone. People are disappointing and that's life

Even leaders of churches don’t practice what they preach. Morale of the story is to have your own relationship with whatever spiritual being you identify with and make sure that connection is strong. You can take bits and pieces from other humans but never rely on them heavily we all have skeletons in our closets.

I think it’s important to realize that spirituality doesn’t make you “holy” all humans have urges and drives and we are all capable of “sin”. No matter how much you work on yourself you are always susceptible to your shadow because your shadow is an equal part of you.

Him cheating with a 21 year old is wild thoo

There is literally nothing that can be said to me about anyone that would shock me at this point in my life, I may be disappointed, but at the end of the day a human is still human.

It's so crazy seeing the comments about not really trusting him/his vibe cause that's exactly how I feel and can never watch him despite him having good quality videos/nice aesthetic, something about his words feel off.

I never trust the chill yoga vibe. Life is demanding. I prefer someone pragmatic and a bit high strung

Keep in mind "failure" is also apart of spiritual expansion.❤

I knew it was sketchy when they got together. I’ve been following Gazelle for years before I knew about Hindz. It got weird when her content changed when she first got with him (it used to be more free spirited then she started making Christian content condemning people who have other beliefs ) also boasted about how men who really love women will propose within a year . After that I knew she had met a narcissist or was just going through delusionals. Then her content switched to her being depressed/anxious and I just knew things weren’t going well. Smh glad she is getting back to herself.

“Spiritual “ Communities and the most dangerous because everyone so easily lets their guard down …which is exactly what these entities want .

I was skeptical about how they went on one date, got married, and all of sudden were relationship experts. Not that it can't happen...but energetically, it felt like a social media PR stunt. I figured he was helping her account grow cause it was a smaller account initially, while simultaneously pushing for his audience to re-engage and expand. Tbh....the pics he shows from his past give "hey girl hey!"...if you know what I mean. So I was shocked when a female stepped on the scene with him in the first place 🫠 I think you can trust people...but you always have to go with your intuition on who to trust. Not the persona or facade. You have to practice looking and listening with your spiritual eyes/ears when it comes to ANYONE, not just thought leaders, celebrities, or influencers.

I never trusted that man 😂 My intuition was like NOPE. But then I thought he must’ve been chill just because he was with his baddie wife. I’m glad my intuition knew he was a pos (Update: I was so inspired by Chimdi’s video that I went live touching on some related points. Check it out if you’re interested after enjoying Chimdi’s amazing content!)

The more you heal the more attractive you become to everyone. But the eye of discernment will protect you from a lot of things that aren’t for you ❤

I Actually Stopped Watching Him After Their First Video Together. For Some Reason I Actually Thought It Was My Jealousy. Because Why Was I Feeling Off Towards This Beautiful And Seemingly Happy Couple? I Literally Forced Myself To Watch Them Again- I Couldn’t Finish The Video And I Automatically Disengaged From His Channel- Maybe A Year or So Ago…Now This…I Believe Her Energy Never Lies- But Men Lie All The Time. I’m Never Going To Question My Intuition Again.

It’s actually uncanny seeing him just act like nothing is happening while Gazelle is clearly in pain but still doing the actual work to move through this and doing that self work and understanding.. really teaches us. I learned a lot just from her Twitter.. His latest content is basically like “I’ve moved on because I’m just suchhhh a great person” it’s giving narcissist ngl. instead of actually and deeply self reflecting he’s just moved onto the next girl? And she’s very young… It just shows an extreme lack of empathy on him behalf which is disturbing.

He’s giving narcissistic behavior. Acts all perfect online but in reality he’s one of the devil’s workers

I think this info being public is healthy because people need to know that being spiritual in any way does not equate to being without flaw. Feminines especially need to know that yes even with all the healing work we do on ourselves we still will encounter low brow things like cheating along the journey sometimes. As long as we don’t allow it to make us bitter but better we will be fine.

while clicking on this video i said "i knew it." crazy.

It's also notable that I believe they got engaged really quickly (I want to say on the 1st or 2nd date but unsure)... that's something that needs to addressed in the spiritual community...the idea of instantly knowing someone is the one....sure that can happen but it leads to rose colored glasses and not taking the time to get to know someone. Best to say "wow I met this awesome man and I am hopeful he's the one, let me take my time and watch this unfold" rather than "he is the one and I am going to make it happen bc I just know" ... like girl no...just no...idk maybe it's a mindset shift... I am in my 30s...

I could never finish his videos bc his energy was so draining - the video prob explains why I felt that way. Maybe his ex-wife got heartbroken again not bc she didn’t do enough healing (she did), but maybe her mission was to expose fake spiritual gurus bc there’s SO MANY hidden narcissists today who claim to be spiritual gurus that this topic needs to be talked about more.

I watched and felt he was genuine. I didnt know he was married/partnered though. I dont think it mattered but i am disappointed and feel for her.

I think it’s also scary because a lot of people believe “in themselves” and that what they’re doing and how they’re living is righteous meanwhile they’re hurting people because they missed the basics of the spiritual journey and personal development, which is actually being a good person and sticking to a code of honor

I commented on his live asking if he’d address anything and it was IMMEDIATELY deleted. I guess his new girl is overworking overtime to cover up for him smh. Then if you watch his newest live he said ‘people don’t have discernment online EXCPET FOR the people who watch him, and that his audience has actual brains”. It was very condescending and cold and idk if he can tell that we can all feel his energy.. and it’s very dark. The fact that he’s pretending to be holy and 100% love and light, while lacking such empathy and responsibility just goes to show that a lot of these people are just in it for the views and coins not for the actual WORK, because no sane human being is “naturally calm and love and light” like he claims. Eughhh… seeing that immediately just grossed me out and I feel so bad for Gazelle. I can’t imagine the energy he was giving her while they were together if I felt THAT just off 25 seconds of watching him

We need to speak on these spiritual predators smh 🤦🏽‍♀️ sadly this happens a lot I’m glad I knew what’s up

wait...wasn't he the dude who was all like 'oo celibacy is good'? 🤣😅🙃

This just shows me that I have more work to do in terms of sharpening my intuition because I did not see this coming😂

It’s really sad to see the relationship end this way. I remember her posting a video/reel at the start of their relationship about when exes of partner dm you trying to "block your blessings" by warning you about them and how you should ignore and blocked them. Fast forward to present day and now she’s chatting with his exes discussing his toxic patterns. Very tough lesson to learn. I get how when something amazing comes into your life, you don’t want anything to mess it up but as you mentioned, Chimdi, if it’s real, it doesn’t need to be rushed.

I know a lot of people are saying they sensed something was off w him I DID NOT😭 his videos are literally part of my morning routines, so finding this out almost physically hurt me like whattt?! Great reminder not to put anyone you don’t know under high standards / on a pedestal

I had a feeling when things grew silent. You’re right we’re don’t know the whole story. But this just proves we shouldn’t exalt any human.

Coming across Hindz content during COVID was such a treasurable find, but this relationship was such a red flag to me, especially when they started doing lengthy judgmental live streams about relationships and marriage. Also, his energy in those videos weren't as resonating as his solo videos. I was hoping it wouldn't end in a mess, but...

I really romanticized tf out of their relationship at first…a creative virgo like me, falling in love with a financially stable, popular/ renowned, and spiritually attuned man? Traveling, exploring different countries, food, people and cultures together! My dream! They gave me hope! 😭 ended up being too damn good to be true…Smh. We can’t let the illusions on social media fool us. I absolutely judge people by how they treat their romantic partners, and Hindz ass has been unfollowed/ unsubscribed from.

Celibacy can also attract certain types who want to know they might conquer that and become the reason you break it.

i’m probably gonna make a video about this too on my other channel. because I’ve encounter “spiritual men”, and a lot of them do give off a “cult leader” energy like she said.

On her IG live she said they weren't married. He gave her a ring to wear, and I guess that symbolised them being engaged but weirdly enough, he didn't wear one. Only her. I find it sad that she was in a situation that required her to call a man not publicly claiming her her "husband"

Unfortunately I picked up on this, Im grateful for the confirmations of my intuition.

Healing and being spiritual won’t stop you from attracting “bad” people. This journey is for you, people are flawed, you as well. I was so happy for her but anytime we jump into Relationships THAT quickly it’s rare they go well. It’s unfortunate she went through it. I feel her pain of betrayal. Men will charm, lie , put in a act to get what they want. That’s the reality. We have to kinda study them before commitment at this point. 😅 You may consider yourself high vibrational, someone else may consider you a nuisance. There are high vibrational people who can do” evil” shit. I’m glad she shared her experience, SO many women have experienced the same thing. I can relate.

I remember I randomly unsubscribed to him one day after not watching his videos for months. he started to give me bad vibes

NOOOO NOT HIM 😭GODDAMMIT

Chile, I listened to his podcast and really liked his channel years ago and then was turned off by him. Something was off. I checked back in and saw when him and homegirl got together and then they started making content together, etc. I was like, something fishy here. Idk. I’m not surprised.

What’s funny is… a lot of “spirituals” don’t believe in being tied down… So I’m honestly really not surprised. These types of “spirituals” don’t really believe in love… they just believe in “going with the flow.”

Scary…..I did 2yrs of healing work to cleanse & rebuild myself from a toxic relationship only to be retraumatized by a male family member in my 30s. There might be a common denominator here…..men are scary

As the ex Wife of another previously famous spiritual leader… I had to learn the hard way. I follow Gazelle, love her vibe… but not shocked about hindz tho.

Y’know, I’ve always felt that there was a dishonesty to HINDZ 😂

I was so shocked when they told their story of how they got together. I didn’t know gazelle before they got together, but I was a Hindz listener. And that story definitely left me looking a little side ways at hindsight it just seemed out of “character” or off brand i should say. I haven’t watched much of him since.

When I first heard this situation, I commented on his page like “dude this isn’t cool” and he deleted the entire comment section

look, as someone who has been through this. it’s EXHAUSTING trying to build up a man. seeing his potential and wanting him to level up. at the end of the day, it’s our fault 😂 as intuitive beings, we know damn well we are being used. but we stay because we can’t accept the truth and want our investment to pay off

I almost feel like our vices create a dichotomy that pushes us to find our light. For instance, Alan Watts cheated on his wife and was an alcoholic. He wasn’t as righteous as a lot of us make him out to be yet we still benefit from his teachings. We can’t assume that anyone is as “healed” as they say. You never know what patterns are playing out in the subconscious. Also the “healing journey” never ends and it’s naïve to assume you’ll reach a point where everything is perfect bc that’s the point of the game called life is to level up and you can’t do that without challenge/darkness

Just subscribed bc WHAT😭. I didnt get bad vibes from him but he did seem too positive. NO ONE has anything figured out and he gave off the "i have the book to life" vibe. Lmao my feelings feel justified

No matter how nice creators and artists may appear, we can't quite know their true personas and intentions from a distance. As an animist, I'm particularly skeptical of those who label themselves "spiritual", "life coaches", "gurus" and such but are ironically more fixated on their outer appearance, having a perfect aesthetic, promoting products, their ego and consumerism than actual growth. I hope his wife is able to heal with time, having trust broken is one of the most painful things.

I’m only coming here to brag about my intuition. I watch several spiritual teachers. But all of them are fluid in their teachings. My spirit has been able to discern every single bad one without fail and I can’t even watch 3 minutes of their content. I stg. I just find myself uninterested in their mannerisms or the way they talk and so I pay almost no attention to them whatsoever and then BOOM some big news comes out about them being trash. Gosh, my intuition is goooooddt. I mean it’s not almost every time it’s every time. That said I’m not surprised by this news. It explains why I could not actually watch any of his content. And I find him extremely handsome. Still couldn’t look at his face or listen to him speak. Neither Jay Shetty or a few others.

She posted your video on her Twitter ❤

i used to watch his videos, but eventually stopped bc they just didn’t feel 100% aligned. like you said, a lot of his words were there, but something about his energy just wasn’t.

I watched a couple of cooking videos from him a while ago. I saw him on his live and the energy was extremely different from his videos. That was the last video I watched from him.

I don't even know what to say. I'm shocked and sad. Ironically, I was listening to him because I am going through a HELL of a healing journey.... Comments about "the rumors" were (are) swiftly being deleted. This is how I found this video because I was trying to figure out what was going on. I'm shocked 😢

That genuinely makes me sad. Hope she heals beautifully 🩷

I can definitely relate to being celibate & attracting a covert narcissist after. We may be doing work but when it comes to being tested & coming up on these energies, we really have to watch for the red flags, instead of what we want to hear/see. Maybe more work is needed to be done. I personally left the dynamic sooner than later so it wouldn’t further thwart me off my path. But it’s always possible to come across that energy.

Very insightful. All things being equal, I trust men wayyy less than women. It's so important in general not to deify people. I've gotten some good things out of some of his videos but that doesn't mean I put him up on a pedestal as some guru. He has a daughter who last I heard was a teenager so he is having sxes with someone barely older than his daughter 😬

I know Gazelle will most likely open up more about it and we have to respect her process and healing. She’s very creative so I’m sure it’ll be worth our while and informative and educational. I feel bad for being excited to see what she has to say.. because it is still her trauma we’re kinda using it for our own benefit too. But her choice to be public about everything is actually helping so many people, myself included.. To me, she’s handling it rather gracefully and artistically, it doesn’t feel like gossip either it feels like we’re just being educated on the reality of these apps, our discernment and how certain people can be.. also.. parasocial relationships. As for him… I watched his latest content and idk.. yikes..… I know people say there’s two sides to the story, but watching his last video under the assumption that his posts are just projections of his world, expressed outwardly in his content… he talks about how he’s gone on a path of healing and found the love that he actually deserves, also talking about how he’s finally found the one. What path of healing does one go on while cheating on his alleged wife? And even IF he didn’t cheat, what amount of healing took place from that 1 week span or being separate? In his older videos he also talks a lot about being celibate renewing your energy after a relationship… where is he practicing this? idk I feel bad for gazelle because you can tell she was doing the internal work to figure out how to make the relationship work, with a man who had no intentions of actually marrying her. I would consider that physiological and emotional abuse. I feel like there was an enmeshment that took place n narc abuse and she took on A LOT of his energy and possibly even his ideas and thoughts that we didn’t get to see online. I only say this because I experienced a relationship very similar to what she talks about and it’s like being in a cult. So give this woman grace as she deconstructs a false reality and heals.

And they’re always relationship experts 😂😂😂

i really resonated with the last few minutes where you spoke about the tendency to blame yourself for everything “bad” that happens to you, not wanting to accept the fact that there are forces outside of you that can influence your life. i find that it feels empowering to take radical accountability for everything i experience in life, but also brings on a lot of shame and makes me feel like i’m always doing something "wrong". i appreciate you illuminating the truth that there are indeed things outside of my control, and while it’s helpful to be mindful of our reactions to such things, it’s just as helpful to hold others accountable and be honest about those things that hurt us. really great video!!! 🌟💕

Always tried to watch or get into Hindz but it never stuck. Thank god

i unsubscribed from him a while ago because of his posting frequency so thanks for pointing that out. their relationship also gave loveboming, they got married soooo quick and to each their own but hearing this news it all makes sense tbh.

This is very transparent! It’s truth in “gurus” that are masking and presenting a lie. I wasn’t drawn in by him because I felt like something wasn’t authentic!

I appreciate your thoughtfulness and perspective. I used to follow her on tik tok and they moved really really fast

I never liked that man and I couldn’t tell why. My little ADHD pattern recognition hasn't stirred me wrong yet. 🤣

If someone is spiritual does that mean they're high vibrational? Because I wouldn't say they are necessarily one and the same 🤔. You can be high vibrational without being spiritual but is the reverse true? High vibe people, imo, have integrity, empathy, and are kind. She did admit that she should have trusted her intuition more so there was something that she missed. Hence the never ending journey of inner work.

I KNEW HE WASNT ISH! Omg wow maybe I do have good discernment lol I couldn’t get through ONE MINUTE of his videos

Who's this little girl tho? LOL. Hindz playing himself with that 15 year age gap with someone he gave a job. Using a position of power? Real cute.

I've followed hindz for a while and joined his offline community. Hearing this leaves me with disappointment. While I didn't resonate with Gazelle's content, I couldn't have imagined this would be the reason why I haven't seen her on his channel in a while. Why do men have such an issue with these kinds of things?!

I’m not shocked they are no longer together. I’m not saying miracles don’t exist but when they popped up married after one date I thought “This is either a PR stunt or they were desperate to jump into a marriage”. It’s not realistic to know someone off of a first date no matter how deeply “Spiritual” you are. We are still souls who are going through life living the human experience. Also,not going to lie,I didn’t think he was straight. Then again,men can be more on the “feminine” side also. Everyone is calling him a narcissist but I’m not going to give him that. I don’t think what he did was that complex or worthy of diagnosing. I do think he’s manipulative based on what she said about him online though. He just knew who to target and he has a type,which is spiritual women. I know why but I don’t want to offend anyone and their belief system so I won’t explain. This comment is already long. He preyed on Gazelle and he’s preying on his new girlfriend too. I’m honestly disgusted.

I think the whole concept of this video is interesting because it was months and months and months ago that had my own experience with Gazelle which really put into perspective the fact that this spiritual content creation is merely a projection. A projection of a part of that person’s essence for sure, but not the whole picture. It was seeing Gazelle leave a negative and almost nasty comment on the Instagram of a participant of the ultimatum queer love, that really reminded me that people are just people. No matter how elevated you are, you’re human and there is duality in humanity. However, it did rub me the wrong way, and I ended up unfollowing her on socials. Obviously, this isn’t what I would have wanted for her and their relationship, but part of me isn’t surprised because I realized that a big part of this “elevation” was a façade. And honestly, I never got the best vibes from him.

I am subscribed to Hindz and really enjoy his content. This is very disheartening to hear about, I didn't know he was married. Hopefully this young woman can heal continue to grow from this experience. Thanks for sharing this tea 🍵

This is exactly how I feel as a Christian. Whenever I hear bad new about a pastor or some influencer who’s supposed to be modeling Christianity I get nervous of reading the comments, or hearing commentary of it. Cause I feel like people are going to discredit the whole “religion”on a whole or stop following. I’ve been celibate for 3.5 years and I’ve been working on myself mentally, spiritually, financially, emotionally & physically. Sometimes I think about the future and marriage and if someone cheats on me after all this work I’ve put in, how pissed I’m going to be. It’s low key a fear of mine…but that’s good she’s not blaming herself or giving up on love. That’s the best way to go about it. That experience will help her discernment

lets end this right here...spiritual doesnt mean righteous and or has morals. People always try to conflate what being spiritual is when it's an umbrella term for so many ways of thought. All of which ARENT necessarily built upon the same foundations of morality

thank you for posting this. It led me to read gazelle's blog post which has helped me a lot and opened my eyes, and so if it wasn't for your video, maybe I would have never seen it, or at least, not have seen it today....a beautiful ripple effect, a positive one. we can all learn from each other.

This man is almost 40, has a teenage daughter and is dating a 21 year old 😂 I'm glad my intuition told me to stay away

Not shocked but I can’t imagine the disappointment of supporters that were true ride or dies and really benefited from his platform. Sometimes it’s ok to take the message but leave the messanger.

Crazy reading everyone’s comments because I also could no longer stomach his content around the time that relationship started. Maybe we are no longer able to connect with him because he has served his purpose in helping most people thrive with their creativity. I hope Gazelle is able to move on from this and continue creating pure art.

Proverbs 25:28 “People who cannot control themselves are like cities without walls to protect them.” It’s unfortunate for men like Hindz with platforms that lack basic self control. If you attract men like this, it may be an indication that you are healed in one area of your life, but not healed in others. Staying close to God and surrendering all areas of our lives esp. our romantic relationships to God is a must that many of us don’t do.

So glad you spoke on this!!!! When I found out I was waiting on SOMEONE TO SPEAK ON THIS… not that it’s any of our business but how can you follow what someone is preaching but not practicing themselves??? I was shocked & I know I couldn’t had been the only one…. Plus Gazelle spoke on it but Hindz has yet to speak a word… life is just going on for him…

This is wild. Love how this affirms my intuition is protecting me even without factual evidence. Starting watching his content heavily & slowly tapered off for reasons unknown, just felt an ick vibe. Funny enough, I started watching Gazelle a month or two before they released their relationship publicly as married. That entire video was so cringe and I thought to myself something dark is coming. Especially because they didn’t allow time to truly vet out each other. My heart goes out to her 💛

I think you did a great job of staying unbiased and you stayed clear on your points. I too have had that feeling of “how are they doing the work for so long and still end up in a situation?” ..but that just goes to show that time is not linear and unique to you as an individual, that’s why we all have our own unique heart beat. I agree with her that it’s good to keep dating and to strengthen your ability to connect and to also disconnect when you know the trial is up. The world has become such a social game and it’s like the tv shows we grew up watching have plagued our imagination or maybe people were always this way? Lol

I feel like your next step is simply to sit in and acknowledging that you can have all of the feelings you did, make your content AND express empathy at the same time. None of them are right or wrong. They just are. Also… you reached me and I’ve never seen your page. Subscribing 😉

Well, then, lemme leave a comment to help feed the algo! I used to watch Hindz, but his vibration definitely shifted after a he became really popular, I didn't like him as much, I didn't feel the same authenticity that originally drew me in. 🤷

Well I’m scared now bc I liked him a lot and apparently a lot of ppl have been getting off vibes from him and I didn’t 💀lol. I wish I could read ppl better

I learned something myself while researching spiritual teachers, if your spiritual teacher don’t have a spiritual teacher… sumu ain’t right 😭😭. I seen it soo much.. cux when you get overwhelmed who do you talk to, you deal with multiple people each day, it takes years to get to that level where you don’t need advice while sharing your own advice. Thy needed some elders , I feel like him cheating wouldn’t have happened. I absolutely loved them together when they would go back n forth. I feel for her, so I hope she heals through loving herself and knowing regardless she is enough.

My fyp said for youuuu !😭😭this is crazy because I've been knew something was wrong because she was so angry and he was going on with life per usual. See the problem is when we idolize these people and see them above us ,we should remember they really just providing us with information but they're not our God . Alot of Spiritual men tend to be very manipulative and very narcissistic so we should tred carefully when it comes to them . These are people aswell and sometimes alot of men live by their ego ,so what you see ( or essentially what you're shown ) does not mean it's true . This is his job and he's very much leveraging off of it . Just a reminder what we're shown does not mean they are like that 😃

GIRL THANK YOU IVE HAD NO ONE TO TALK ABOUT THIS WITHHHHHH. SHE'S GOING TO THRIVEEEE AHHHHHHHHHHHHH

Stop elevating men in the spiritual community. That’s where we need to begin.

I love the last point you and your friend were talking about. So deep. This is the first video of yours I’ve seen. Beautiful.

0:44 I knew something was up w Him. This is why I role my eyes at these influencers

It was a red flag when they got married in less than a year of being together. Sorry, folks. This isn’t Disney. It’s real life and the majority of the people rushing into marriage aren’t doing so for the right reasons. It’s a control tactic, not an expression of love. I’m glad she found her way out of it a lot faster than most people do with narcissists. Praying for her healing and stronger discernment. As a spiritual woman, we already have slim pickings so I get why it was easy falling for him. Unfortunately, I’m skeptical of spiritual men because some of them use it as a tool for manipulation. You gotta take your time in getting to know folks. Most people are masking when we’re getting to know them. That’s why I say you gotta go through all four seasons to really see someone before deciding to marry them.

Not me un-following him last week 😅 That 'something shifted' happened and I've been meaning to, I got to it finally. Very interesting 🤔

I remember when you posted about quitting your job. I haven’t been on RU-vid much since then, but I also ended up quitting my job (and several more), and finally feel like I’m being true to myself. It’s great to see your videos again. ❤

Ive tried to watch this mans videos multiple times, he gets everything right on paper... good lighting, nice camera, chill demeanor, etc. But for some reason i could never make it through a full video, something always felt off. This reaffirms what i was feeling