Contradictory Expectations of some 'Muslim Feminists' in Marriage - Naima B Robert- MH Podcast p2 

إن شاء الله

بارك الله فيك

2:32 The noble sister said a Jawami' Al-Kalim (short statement with a wide meaning) there. May Allah bless her. Narrated Abu Hurairah رضي الله عنه: I heard Allah's Messenger ﷺ saying: بُعِثْتُ بِجَوَامِعِ الْكَلِمِ "I have been sent with Jawami' al-Kalim (i.e., the shortest expression carrying the widest meanings)..." [Sahih al-Bukhari » Interpretation of Dreams - كتاب التعبير » Hadith 7013]

I think you forgot to add your Podcast 11 to your playlist, and you forgot to name this Podcast 12, it was interesting.

@@Ibn_Abdulaziz here's a verse better than your made up useless Hadith. إِنَّهُ لَقَوْلٌ فَصْلٌ ‎﴿١٣﴾ { Indeed, the Qur'an is a decisive statement, (/AlQuran 86:13 U.M.) }

FEMINISM IS A LIE

so husband is your boss ?

@@Rosey-cj2nj no, the hypocrisy is the issue

@@cooljool1 @Mo Kadada yeah that's true. The point of the analogy was, the husband has certain authority for the same reason that the boss has certain authority, but some people smh think that's professional when it comes to the boss, and oppressive when it comes to the husband. But, yeah it was not about who is boss, and who is not, bcoz in Islam, God is the only Boss. God is the one who sets the rights and responsibilities, and No obedience to any creature in disobedience to the Creator.

@@garaad9806 Your husband is not your boss.

KEEP THIS TO YOURSELF. GRATITUDE

@@cemmossi why? Why shouldn't I tell people the best way I found to living a great life.

Amazing family brother

@@cemmossi shut up

Alhamdulillaah. Allah Ta'aalaa grant barakah in your family and preserve you all.

or just avoid them and go for other less demanding ones

Yes she had a such good points same with Mohammed hijab

@@IbrahimKhan-ri6qx ru-vid.com/video/%D0%B2%D0%B8%D0%B4%D0%B5%D0%BE-XIBKRT_XsX4.html open caption pls thanks

Check out Gabriel al romani he talks about this stuff without sugar coating it

@@abde4645 I know ;) may Allah bless him

@@nikiakbari i have already did playlist on both of these. you can check it out. Islam And Liberalism: ru-vid.com/group/PLgrhw8sbiJg0aguMql_QAe-BZ6RnNJu52 Islam And Feminism: ru-vid.com/group/PLgrhw8sbiJg1Vv22K2hmwOCAWGUYGvmvb

Maybe, but at the end of the day regardless of what you alone think, or what your faith tells you to think, you don't get to determine and insist on your worldview!

@@shawnmalloy4339 the irony is that it's the other way around who's insisting 😂 we're here just trying to keep our deen and follow Allah's way

@TheEndTimesAreHere Just go to sleep and don´t bother us.

*woke Muslim feminist

@Bs sS Very Open-minded.

​@@alyzak.8997Muslim feminist * don't try to add new word

I can imagine how difficult that change must have been. From one sister to another, I have a lot of respect. May Allah keep you happy and with ease in dunya and akhira .

@@mohsisohal806 ameen. Jazaakillah khayr sister

@@mohsisohal806 may Allah guide us all and grant us all Jannat-ul-Firdaws and make us Muslim men and women partners in good and not enemies.

@@Diaicy19 damn wow... So u r aware of MGTOW too ? They r bit extreme like the feminist but theu do have some turth but anyway islam has the middle ground n solution. Respect to u alot... ir are rare breed nowadyz especially in west..... I pray Allah keep us in straight path... Jazakallahu khairan

Mgtow people are basically men who don't care about women and mind their own life. I don't think it is as dangerous as feminism.

@Mickey Kwame and which values are these that have 'just' emerged... 🙄?

May Allah help you through this but have you considered having her killed?

Hold on tightly to the rope of Allah brother! (the Quran). And may Allah bless you and help you always.

Subhunallah surely you are strong with your Iman with Allah SWT he test whom he loves the most , day of justice will be served and so will yours do not forget Allah SWT love and rewards for his striving servant's

A woman needs the approval of her guardian (mostly her father) before getting married. Who was your wife's guardian? Did your wife's guardian knew she was getting married again?

Rightly said sister but the reward of these sacrifices everlasting, and can't be achieved by being feminist

Yeah read your comment again

what is the problem

And?

@@Chiguiro345 so I take it you haven't watched the video or learned much , it's basically saying women would rather give honour , time and effort to a boss for a bit of money instead of to their families in the household , because they see that as beneath them or below them . But giving all your effort and best years of your life to a boss is ok. Hijab comes off and western morals come into affect also .

@@nasirakhtar1233 exactly. Women today have traded in the husband for the boss.

@@najatbouk4789 you must be a woman with that response , SubhaanAllah can I ask are you Muslim ? Because we were told that women would flock to the dajjal , and men would have to restrain their women to stop them running to Dajjal ,

Mashallah you are right. I was red pilled and Islam has saved me with a more balanced approach.

@@garrettdanielsii2305 in the same boat, especially as islam recognizes both male and female minds and how they work differently so they are commanded different. If both stick to Islam, feminism and red pill are not needed. The problem is the cowardly father generation that doesn't have the balls to lead, teach and enforce Islam in their households leading to these bs issues. The man is the leader and the women is subject similar to the us president and our selves

@@NadeemAhmed-nv2br I would not be so harsh on the father's akhi, because if they do try enforce Islam within their houses the government will come down on those men hard. I know a man that tried to discipline his daughter, she called the police and he was arrested. They have forced us to be effeminate.

@@garrettdanielsii2305 Ma sha Allah akhi Allah guided you and made you balanced. As Allah says in the Quran 'And indeed We have made you into a middle (balanced) nation'. As the other brother just mentioned if people applied Islam in their lives. There would be no need for feminism and red pill in Muslims communities.

@@ninculus3042 btw father forced in wht btw bro ?

Stfu nah, just because ur a mother,sister, or a daughter doesnt mena ur good.

@@nomejest5919 Go say all that to your mother and sisters

Sister you explained the concept so nicely. May allah grant you goodness

your comment makes no sense you claim women should stop trying to be equal and then claim they are far superior.

@Ayesha parvez you cannot say all man and women are equal beacuse we judge people who is better depending on their Taqwa some women are superior to man and women and some man are superior to man and women depending on their taqwa man and women have their role but when It comes to who's better not everyone is equal It depends on taqwa

Missed your presence and unique relfections on twitter brother. Hope you are well.

@TheEndTimesAreHere it's inappropriate to comment out of the context, brother. I'm sure if you're Mu'minin you'd know about that. Al-Baqarah 2:6 إِنَّ ٱلَّذِينَ كَفَرُوا۟ سَوَآءٌ عَلَيْهِمْ ءَأَنذَرْتَهُمْ أَمْ لَمْ تُنذِرْهُمْ لَا يُؤْمِنُونَ English - Sahih International Indeed, those who disbelieve - it is all the same for them whether you warn them or do not warn them - they will not believe.

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@TheEndTimesAreHere You clearly have not read the Quran, you have cherry picked some verses ignoring the context,. Why don’t you do your ignorance a favour and read the whole book perhaps you will have an informed opinion at the end of it. What is your religion/ belief anyway? If you have any proof for your own position feel free to present it and let’s see who’s position stands up to scrutiny 🧐 Those who live in glass houses really should not throw stones.

@TheEndTimesAreHere The angels said, “Mary, God gives you news of a Word from Him, whose name will be the Messiah, Jesus, son of Mary, who will be held in honour in this world and the next, who will be one of those brought near to God. He will speak to people in his infancy and in his adulthood. He will be one of the righteous. She said, My Lord, how can I have a son when no man has touched me?[The angel] said, This is how God creates what He will: when He has ordained something, He only says, Be, and it is. He will teach him the Scripture and wisdom, the Torah and the Gospel, He will send him as a messenger to the Children of Israel: “I have come to you with a sign from your Lord: I will make the shape of a bird for you out of clay, then breathe into it and, with God’s permission, it will become a real bird; I will heal the blind and the leper, and bring the dead back to life with God’s permission; I will tell you what you may eat and what you may store up in your houses. There truly is a sign for you in this, if you are believers. I have come to confirm the truth of the Torah which preceded me, and to make some things lawful to you which used to be forbidden. I have come to you with a sign from your Lord. Be mindful of God, obey me: God is my Lord and your Lord, so serve Him- that is a straight path. When Jesus realized they [still] did not believe, he said, Who will help me in God’s cause? The disciples said, We will be God’s helpers; we believe in God- witness our devotion to Him. Lord, we believe in what You have revealed and we follow the messenger: record us among those who bear witness [to the Truth]. The [disbelievers] schemed but God also schemed; God is the Best of Schemers. God said, “Jesus, I will take you back and raise you up to Me: I will purify you of the disbelievers. To the Day of Resurrection I will make those who follow you superior to those who disbelieved. Then you will all return to Me and I will judge between you regarding your differences. I will make the disbelievers suffer severely in this world and the next; no one will help them. God will pay those who believe and do good deeds their reward in full; God does not love evildoers. We relate to you [Muhammad] this revelation, a decisive statement. In God’s eyes Jesus is just like Adam: He created him from dust, said to him, Be, and he was. This is the truth from your Lord, so do not be one of those who doubt. If anyone disputes this with you now that you have been given this knowledge, say, Come, let us gather our sons and your sons, our women and your women, ourselves and yourselves, and let us pray earnestly and invoke God’s rejection on those of us who are lying. This is the truth of the matter: there is no god but God; God is the Exalted, the Decider. If they turn away, [know that] God is well aware of anyone who causes corruption. [Quran 3:45-63]

Sure but cant be done since people have nationalism and these so called "leaders" above! All the people above in every country will loose their power and worldly gains so they will never let muslims do that plus muslims are then further divided into sects so that they can never get united. Unfortunately muslim scholars are not doing what they should be doing but eventually war is waiting for us all cz in order to unit muslims again we need a solid blow from above ☝🏻or we'll stay busy in worldly gains!

Pan Islamism

No

3:103 "And hold firmly to the rope of Allah all together and do not become divided."

@@zahidbloch9144 why?

@Yoel Cohen where is he from?

@@ummzaynul370 Hes the Theocratic ruler of Iran. Shia Muslims, no offence irrelevant.

@Yoel Cohen He's irrelevant and a Shia. So no.

@@cinna_sultan JazzakAllaahu khairan.

@TheEndTimesAreHere salvation is not needed, its a scam dont fall for it, you need no intercessors to God, ask for Him alone.

I've never heard this term. Thanks for enlightening me!

Yep, and if you're a man you gotta stay away from those women who will call her a "pick me" .... jokes on them cus she is not blinded by feminist ideology or woke culture.

Best comment ❤️ and I completely agree with you. Inshallah 🤲, I will marry a Christian or Jewish woman and convert her to Islam. It's better than Islamic feminism. The problem is that they are spread out in large numbers, and even in my Muslim country, may Allah curse them and cause them to enter Hell.

She can't refuse, it's one of the right of the husbands.

My friend once told me he was on a promise because it was his birthday...

If she’s not having sex with her husband for a month, what what was she doing in the meantime? Red flag

I agree that women shouldn’t weaponise intimacy nor should we agree with feminism, but likewise there are some men who weaponise the hadith about angel cursing the women if they don’t provide their husbands sexual needs even when the wife is extremely fatigued or not in the best condition physically/mentally. Bad apples are on both sides. Both genders have their own roles to play and do so with mercy to each other. May Allah grant us beautiful marriage like that of our Prophet’s (pbuh) and his wives.

@@lalala94872 Ameen. Both sides could make mistakes that's how life has always been

One is a Destructive Agenda, the other is the Creator's Constructive Manual/Guidance.

@@basiouny96 No, the other is a supposed guidebook of a creator, ripped off from another religion, which is a ripoff of a different religion before that.

@@2l84me8 you high bro?😭

Who has gone up to heaven and come down? Whose hands have gathered up the wind? Who has wrapped up the waters in a cloak? Who has established all the ends of the earth? What is his name, and what is the name of his son? Surely you know!

@@maluill Yogi the bear?

@@jamalatmaca8071 nah

@sham kay your medical argument is a bit weak, on the contrary more health benefits come with wearing a hijab and covering up, I'm saying this as a medical doctor. Anyway I liked this sister's acknowledgement of mental health, I sympathize with psychiatric patients regardless of the cause. I must admit your philosophy is quite interesting. Thanks for your comment and nice time.

@TheEndTimesAreHere so you an idiot who came up with an idea of creating contents by taking out verses out of contexts, cutting before and after part then proving your point and spamming how idiot you are in the comment section. can't you get a life?

Jehovah Witnesses believe that too.

@TheEndTimesAreHere get a life

Does the sister have a RU-vid channel or an account?

@@abdelghafarqwert9041 yes search her name

I don't know if there is such a thing as "fully evaluate" a person. It sounds a bit unrealistic.

@@commander1044 Of course, you can't know anyone 100%, but I do think any major issues would make themselves clear here. Mufti menk advocated for it too. It's also nice to enjoy married life without the pressures of parenthood for a while.

@@mohsisohal806 if it's discourage blind expectations towards their future spouse then i guess it is strongly reasonable. after all we are marrying another human being. best not to pressure one another towards a certain thing unreasonably.

I understand the point you've made and to some extent I agree but people change. After kids, after 10 years of marriage, after ups and downs in life. You won't be with the same person you married ten years down the line. You will both change. That's why there should be a common goal between you both and that foundation should be agreed and built upon.

I had 9 months to enjoy marriage without the responsibilities of parenthood😅

Reading is the most realistic route for that these days. The contributions and diverse lives of righteous Muslim women in the past and present is now boiled done to stay home and cook. Alhamdullilah this narrow view is not representative of our history, but you wouldn't know it listening to social media or popular figures these days.

Its about equality with men... A lot of "Islamic" cultures are patriarchal based.

@@cinna_sultan I disagree. It seems that way because it's easier to criticise a man when he has to walk with his wife when she wants to go outside as her mahram instead of realising his role given by God is to protect his wife, even from prying eyes. It's easy to see a woman being worth half a man in her inheritance but more difficult to realise that it's because her husband's money is Islamically hers, while her brothers month is his wife's. People are too short sighted

Couldn’t have put it any better myself. You literally hit the nail on the head. Don’t worry keep searching, do your part and leave the rest to Allah. I too experienced this for many years while searching for a spouse. But alhumdulillah i found that old school, traditional girl that i was looking for, all thanks to the almighty 🤲🏼

@@cinna_sultan no it isn't about "equality". it's about being delusional with your demands and looking for unicorns.

@@LagunaLeonhart Oh so in Saudi Arabia where women couldn't drive until 2021? You call that "Islamically" permissible? What about countries such as Afghanistan and the UAE where women do not even have freedom of dress. What about marriage in countries such as Pakistan and Turkey? The girls get a lot to do and don't get enough for it. I am a Muslim, all for Islam of course but the mindset of Muslims in todays cultures need to meet what the Qu'ran and Allah actually tells us to do.

But men have it both ways,do some of you women. Even sit down and think? Most women are working while also taking care of the kids and doing the cleaning, women can't have it both ways but men can?

Alhamdulillah. May Allah bless you and your family and make upon the sunnah of prophet Muhammad SAW.

@TheEndTimesAreHere you are unclean pagan 😂😂🤣🤣🤣

@TheEndTimesAreHere you scared to death

@TheEndTimesAreHere have some beef, it will calm you down

@TheEndTimesAreHere too much 🐖 Pork

@TheEndTimesAreHere your salvation is cheap your law according to you died on the cross ,

JazakAllahu khayran for your comment. It is good to see some sense.

MH has a pornography addiction.

I see you reposting this in several threads and videos to raise awareness. May Allah reward you for your efforts.

@@muneirovalibas6194 ameen and jazakAllahu khyran brother

ruins the point of the hijab if you're forced to do the hijab. if you're forced to be modest, its not really modesty coming from you now is it.

​@@Zero-fh2wbthat's completely false. It doesn't matter whether your son prays because you force him to, or because he prays out of his volition. You as a man have been charged with the duty of ensuring your. Children abide by the Sharia.

@@KingKhan-vo4zg intention is a central aspect of islam. Praying with no intention to pray is a meaningless and forced prayer. You aren’t truly praying, but praying for for external validation and under the condition of not facing irl consequences. This kind of prayer has no faith

@@Zero-fh2wb that doesn't matter for the father however; the father must still ensure his son prays, and that his daughter observes the hijab.

@@KingKhan-vo4zg the son also has hijab. Every Muslim has a hijab. The best way to ensure your kids follow the hijab and prayer is if you guide them to have the willful intent to do so. Forcing them arrogantly not only goes against the proper way to treat people, but its counterproductive to actually trying to make them want to pray or wear hijab. So yourr point is completely hypocritical

I think despite of Islam, women are in many societies deprived of their god given rights, I think this pushes a lot of women into becoming intolerant feminists who push for rights and positions beyond what is rightly theirs, That said, if you believe feminism is a movement which seeks to entitle women to the rights they are already islamically entitled to yet are deprived of in the societies in which they live, how are you committing a major sin? or any sin at all? I think feminism was bourne out of injustices against women, but has now become an oppressive movement towards men AND women.... but everyone has their own interpretations of what they think feminism is and their own understanding, like shia for example you cannot call them non Muslims without first establishing what is it they actually believe in, you cannot call someone who ascribes themselves to feminism a non Muslim or accuse them of committing major sins without examining what they actually believe...

@Potato Man Wrong. Where do we go? Back to Islam.

Feminism whichever way you interpret it is 100% haram, no debate, because its core belief goes against what Islam teaches. Don’t confuse islam with culture. If women are denied their rights, almost all of the time it is the culture/society and corrupt ppl. Islam is the law, the way of life and it is perfect. It does not need a substitute.

Allah (SWT) has given women many rights but those rights aren't followed by Muslims men. The feminist cause protects Muslim women's God given rights. Feminism is not a religion but a social movement. Prophet Muhammad (peace and blessings be upon him) actively spoke for the rights of women and that when a person is oppressed they should speak against their oppressor. So no it's not Haram. In fact it's encouraged. God has given women voice and intellect so why shouldn't they use it?

@The Alpha I love Islam and I am a Muslim. I specifically said that feminism isn't a religion but a movement. I also expressed that Prophet Muhammad (peace and blessings be upon him) actively spoke for women empowerment. He specifically said "the best of men are those who are best to their women." He has also spoken against female foeticide and has urged fathers to treat their daughters and sons equally. If we look at his life, he married Hazrat Khadija (RA) a woman who was 15 years his senior and was a successful business woman. He had four daughters whom he loved dearly. He would also help his wives around the house. What I said in my earlier statement is Islamic. I didn't say anything that's against Islam.

It's a podcast, not a Q&A.

@@krosskross1221don't start arguments over nothing

@@nomejest5919 Shes not wrong.

@@nomejest5919 Allah said men will be controlled by women.

This is so true, all men are used by women... Although to be fair they're wired for it.

@@cinna_sultan where did it say that u liar? Go f urself.

@@cinna_sultan No they are not. Go f urself

Who has gone up to heaven and come down? Whose hands have gathered up the wind? Who has wrapped up the waters in a cloak? Who has established all the ends of the earth? What is his name, and what is the name of his son? Surely you know!

@@maluill what are u even on about

If a sister works part-time, and wishes to use her earnings to clean the household, I think that is reasonable. Also, the point is What is the primary obligation of wife? And husband? . Of course men should. Not sit around doing nothing. But their primary obligation is towards fulfilling his financial duty and then spending time with wife+ parenting and then whatever time is left should be used for household chores in that order. This is different from each household. If a man works 8 hours a day at a construction site will OBVIOUSLY be more tired than a man who works 8 hours a day in a white collar job. Thus, the office worker will be able to contribute more towards chores compared to the blue collar worker.

The Bible says in John 3:16-36 that whoever believes in the Lord Jesus Christ shall not perish but have everlasting life, the Bible also says in Romans 10:9 that those who declare with their mouth that Jesus Christ is their God, Lord, and Savior they shall be saved. Revelation 1:8 says that Jesus is the alpha and the omega. Luke and revelation is the ending times, and Jesus is returning back. So are you going to submit your life to him or no? Narrow is the path that leads to the gates of heaven, but only few people find it. The gates that is the path to destruction is where many people find it! Jesus loves you SO MUCH! That he died on the cross, and was resurrected from the dead 3 days later to give us eternal life..!.!.!.

Stay away from the people opinions or the society fitna of an opinion and go back to the Quran and Sunnah surely you will find the Haq of your existence and responsibilities for one another may Allah make us sincere and accept our doings

I 100% agree with you. (I am a man)

Some muslim women is influenced by feminism which is destroying marriage and it is pandemic nowadays and to discuss it is not weird in fact it should be discussed more. Look at the title It's about "muslim feminist" so of course they are addressing about that more. You are right that we need to talk about men issues in marriage...INSHALLAH it will discussed in another video.

100% but I don't know why conversations are seemingly only considered from a female perspective rarely the man's.... I can't help but feel it is getting boring, and a lot of men appeared to be jumping on the bandwagon just to attack women now......

@@shajar8187 if you read what i wrote then you'd realise most of your response was pointless. Nothing to do with what i said. I made a point and was specific about the overall discussion on marriage. You did the typical misogynistic thing and somehow flipped it on women.

I hardly see men denying women’s Islamic rights such as her right to receive mehr, but I regularly see women denying men’s Islamic rights such as his right to be obeyed. So who’s really the problem?

Men are too

@@cinna_sultanyes. in this case its the so called feminist Muslims.