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Imagine raising your child in such a way that she's so desperate for you approval she can't stand up to you even when it's something like a wedding dress.

Mom's lips tell that her taste might not be the finest. The bride is gorgeous and I wish her happiness.

No wonder she struggled with weight her whole life. I'm sure her mom made her feel "less than" her whole life. 🙄 dress #3 was gorgeous!

Her Mother is awful. When my daughter got married I let her pick out her dress. She tried on one I liked better but I kept it to myself. I bought her what she wanted and she looked beautiful. Too many mom's try and control things,not good.

Mom's lips look waaaaay over injected and she is very negative.

“Mommy Dearest”says it all!! What an awful, hurtful mother. I’m so sorry for this girl, she needs to set major boundaries from her toxic mother and heal! She’s a beautiful woman and can’t see past her need for acceptance from WWW!

Her mother has the words brittle and bitter written all over her. I hope Victoria and her husband move a thousand miles away, and that he treats her like a queen every single day for the rest of her life

How could any mother treat their daughter so badly. She looked stunning and it is the bride's wedding day NOT the mothers. So sad to see the bride so sad and upset.

"I don't know why I have to discuss it with you" sent an ice cold dagger straight into my heart after her daughter lovingly, nearly pleadingly asked for her mom's opinion. I know this is a 9 minute video but in my opinion, she barely deserves to have the title of "mother"; she's merely birthed a naturally beautiful woman, Victoria. I can only speculate that this "mother" must have bullied and pressured Victoria her whole life about her weight, and never gave her the unconditional love and support a mother should. Poor Victoria seems to seek validation from her as she's likely never gotten it before. The cherry on top is mom is the best kind of critic - one that has nothing positive to say, yet offers no alternatives or suggestions when asked her idea of what she'd like to see - only spews negativity and ice cold disdain and malice. I am honestly shocked at her coldness and cruelty. If I could talk to Victoria directly I'd say: You are naturally stunning, and I thought you looked stunning in every dress you tried on, and dress three actually took my breath away and brought me to tears. Focus on YOUR OWN style and COMFORT. Mom should maybe take a few pages out of your book and lay off the lip fillers and botox. It broke my heart you did not return for the dress you loved. But it's not about me, or your mom - PLEASE buy the dress YOU love and want. x

Her mother was 💯 AWFUL! The daughter should have gotten the dress she loved.

I am shocked at how this mother behaved, so rude, cold and an utterly selfish personality. The bride needs to stop asking for her mother's approval as she won't be asking for it when she's married! I sincerely hope that this beautiful bride speaks up and gets some self confidence sooner rather than later.

This poor bride. It must have been so difficult growing up with a mother like this. I hope she finds her confidence and chooses the dress that makes her happy without worrying about mom's approval. ❤

Her Mother needs to let her make her decision on which dress she is wearing it’s her wedding 😂

I have a Russian mom. She was not invited to my wedding dress shopping appointment!

This makes me appreciate my mom so much. It’s never even occurred to me that a mom would make the wedding dress about what SHE wants. Ugh. Moms are supposed to be there to share in the joy of the bride finding HER perfect dress.

Her mom is a beast! She’s horribly inconsiderate of her daughter’s big day and feelings

I cannot understand these mothers… no smile when their daughter comes out. Even if you don’t like the dress, you can be supportive- she looks beautiful in everything

Mom is hateful and jealous of this daughter. Daughter is beautiful and kind.❤

This poor woman just needs some unconditional love. My heart goes out to her. ❤

Well, we ALL have to learn the lesson of just allowing other people be themselves without taking it personally AND letting go of caring about what they think, and gosh with a mother like that, Victoria REALLY is gonna need to learn that lesson sooner rather than later I would say!!

On the one hand I do think it’s wise not to make a rash decision and the bride didn’t seem to be too confident about any of the dresses, even before her mom said no to them. But the mom is the worst type of critic because she can’t or won’t articulate what she wants, she is one of those who is both picky and will only know what she likes when she sees it. For the consultant that has to be a nightmare.

I can't imagine a mother treating her daughter like this. I have 2 boys, so if I ever get to go see a future daughter in law try on dresses, I'll be the most supportive MIL ever. My mom has been critical of me all my life, I could never treat my children or their finances that way.

I’m sick of these controlling moms it’s their daughters time!!

I feel so bad for this bride. Her mom is so critical and throughout the clip you can see she feels very concerned about her weight and her mom has probably guilted her about that for years. I hope she knows she is beautiful and that her mom doesn't know everything!

The only thing that comes to mine is Victoria, you don't need anybody's validation to be beautiful and look beautiful, and to make healthy choices on your own. Focus on being confident within yourself and life, And the rest of fall into place.

Anyone who is close to someone who’s gone through bariatric surgery knows that it’s a physical struggle every day. Getting to know your body’s limits, dumping (usually if you go over those limits), frustration, you name it. Her fiancé is a gem for sticking with her through this long process. She looks great, by the way.

I am always somewhat intrigued to find out how the story continues and googled Victoria Vaizburd. She got married in 2013 in a kind of modern Jewish ceremony in a form fitted holderneck dress being ca 6 months pregnant. The ivory dress was made out of a beautiful pattern type material , it looked as if bubbles were flying into each other (apology not the best description) She seemed extremely happy (and so did her husband) and guess what „dearest mummy“ wore a black fur type Bolero and a slinky leopard animal print dress. Her hair was a tad mad making her look a little bit like an 80“s rock chick if I may say so.

Mother it is not your wedding.

That mother with her lip fillers or botox that does not allow her to move her mouth, needs to stay home when this sweet bride looks for her dress. When my daughter got married, I kept my normally strong opinions to myself. Only when she asked my thoughts did I answer. The only thing that I couldn't control was when she walked out in one of the dresses, I started to cry; that dress was the only one that caused that reaction in me. I didn't want that to influence her decision but she did end of choosing that dress. When we met with the baker of the cake, he said that I was the best mother that he had ever worked with. He said I offered opinions but stepped back when my daughter made decisions. He said he wished that all the mothers were like me. I will add that I am not normally the type of mom that keeps her opinions to herself. 😏

The mother's face!!!! Oh dear oh dear could turn milk sour. She really is extremely cruel very sad to see. Hope the mothers friends sees this and are equally as horrified by her behaviour.

I liked the mermaid/drop waist-the one with the bling at the top and she liked it too. She looked thin and confident in that dress. I hope she eloped and had a wonderful day!

I hope this video goes viral, so that her Mother and her Mother’s friends can see what kind of hurtful person she really is. Fake lips do not hide a hard heart.

After having binge watched enough of these, I am so freaking proud of my mother. She supports me and understands I have different tastes than she does. She would never in a million years pull the crap that these mothers do. They seem to thrive on the disappointment they bring their children. Thanks, Mom, for being you!!

Had a mother like that 😢. Literally gave me nightmares even after she passed. Support your children and don’t try to live your life through them!

Mother is purposely being obtuse to sabotage the appointment.

The first and last dress were prefect. Her mom... she's something else

Her mother will never be onboard with the daughter. Because that's how she controls her. If the bride loves #1, go for it. Number 5 was my favorite for her, but it's not for me. Brightest Blessings to the Bride and Groom. I'm praying for you both. ☺️✌️❤️🦋🙏

MOM IS NOT THE BRIDE - A GROWN LADY NEEDS TO DRESS THE WAY THAT MAKES HER FEEL SPECIAL!!! MOM IS MEAN!!!

Such narcissist. We can see her "joy" that she has the power over daughter's emotions. Sad.

That mother has no boundaries and is hard as nails. She's jealous that her daughter looks so good now. Bride to be - once you are married get on with your own life. Australia

Dress number three was the best in my opinion, but the bride loved the first dress. Too bad the mother was thinking of herself, not of her daughter. My intuition tells me that bride felt her mother's disapproval every day when she was overweight.

5:46-6:30 Victoria looked beautiful and regal in dress #3. She should've purchased that one.

God,i can just imagine how that mother put her dad down when she was heavy. YIKES!!!!

I'm so happy and proud of the girl because she lost all that weight she did such a great job she looks beautiful and I know she will look beautiful on her wedding day with whatever she picks out.

The specialist kept choosing similar shaped dresses with ruched satin although it was clear the mother didn't like that style.

If she can’t be decisive in life without Mommy’s approval, then how is her marriage going to work? I hope she realizes that deciding what she wants will be one of the most significant crossroads in her life. Good luck!

Crazy how at this age, she's not confident enough to make her own decisions or stand up for herself. Just super sad. Like why in God's name is it your mum's vision? Your wedding dress should be your vision. External opinions are welcome but she should be able to make a decision herself and stand on it.

That first dress was stunning. Her mother actually ordered her to leave the store! The marriage doesn't bode well if the bride to be cannot stand up to her mother befoe the wedding.

The first dress looks amazing on her.

Her mother doesn’t get a say in the wedding dress that her daughter really likes. She wasn’t happy with anything that her daughter liked. She looked amazing in the dress and she should go with the dress she wants. I wish you all the happiness.

Her mother is never going to love any dress she’s “not capable”… if the bride ever sees this comment, I want her to remember the words “not capable”. I had a mother much the same way, and I am 20 years older than this bride and the one thing I have learned is, the lack of support doesn’t mean the mother doesn’t love her,she just isn’t capable of being that king of emotional support. Forgive her for it and show her and others the kind of love you want.

I ve been there I ve cut all links to my mom because she was taking me down al the time. I wish the bride all the best

Drop waist one with beading was perfect. 💥

The only opinion that matters is the bride’s. I liked the drop waist but she is beautiful in any of them. Mom needs to let go of her daughter and support her in feeling good and beautiful in her choice. I’m curious if Mom is jealous or feels threatened by her daughter’s success and happiness.

What an absolute monster. With each dress she knocked the wind out of her sails. The third dress was amazing. What a cold blooded ice Queen. The ritual of trying on dresses is supposed to be fun , the momster ruined it

Her mother is very selfish, not sportive of her daughter

the mom.....IF i put the kind of look on MY kids face that she put on her daughter's face???....then i'd consider my LIFE'S WORK a failure!!!!

Am I the only one who thinks that that godawful mother may have given the bride the issues with her body to begin with? I completely understand that people go through personal struggles and weight issues due to different causes, but I cannot see a single scenario in which a woman like that would have fostered a healthy self esteem in her daughter

She looked beautiful in her top 2 choices, mom needs to be happy and bud out!!!! Her attitude is horrible

Very sad, I felt so sad for this bride. The mother was very cold. She didn't seem to care about the daughters feelings. And she looks beautiful.

Her mom should be celebrating the new gorgeous body her daughter has achieved. Her mother is obviously a narcissistic person who doesn't want to share the limelight. This could actually be why the daughter had weight problems to begin with. I understand low self esteem issues from having a mother who always wants to be the star.

Mother's control issues need to be put aside. It's not about you mother.

“I was just waiting for my mother to jump on that boat but she sank to the titanic”😂

Most painful episode I’ve ever watched. I wish the beautiful bride well. Buy the dress you want & elope.

How can a mother act like that to her daughter? ”I want her on the boat but she sank with Titantic”. Victoria is lovely, caring, symphatic. I wish her all the best.

That is one controlling mother. Yes, the dress will be there to order in a few days, but the mom crushed her daughter's moment. Honestly, the last dress she tried on (before putting on dress #1 again) was stunning on her, and the only one who didn't think so was mom. Afraid of being upstaged? Hard to know, but I hope this bride learns to stand up for herself.

Mum was not 'high fashion' - she's wearing a roll neck sweater.

The only one who should be happy with it is the bride and groom, the rest doesn't matter, especially the bride should be happy, she should feel like a princess on that day.

I imagine mom's paying for The dress by the way she seems to have the final say, the bride looked beautiful in all the dresses

Ridiculous Mom!

The young bride has beauty within and outward, Mommy Dearest is only thinking of herself possibly.

Today I thank God because some time ago I said "I don't care what my mother thinks or if she is happy or not with my decisions". I am more at peace and happy with myself. 😊

Her mother is Russian or Ukrainian who came to the USA in 90-s. Most likely sold herself as one of those post brides. Clothes, cosmetics, and botox for such women always come first. That's more important than anything. She might be a good mother, she simply can't express it in English. But a dress - a huge deal for her.

Ultimately, it was Victoria's lack of confidence that resulted in no dress. She never stood up for herself because she was overly concerned with her mother's approval. Smh.

This was such a sad episode. Clearly her entire childhood and into her adulthood she craved her mothers validation and still has not received it. This entire appointment she was entirely focused on her mothers approval. :( If the mother had only supported her a little it would have meant the world to her. Even her saying she wishes she could look the way her mom did broke my heart a little 😭 This bride is absolutely STUNNING

she's picking a dress for her mom 😔 I see people saying the mom needs to be supportive etc and I fully agree, but the bride needs to show some backbone as well

I'm always so sad to see daughters being so intimidated by their mothers. That is not a healthy relationship. I wonder if mommy dearest ever picked up on the meaning of her being addressed that way.

I especially liked how she looked in the drop waist dress.

Mother was not awful here but she may not be a supportive and loving mom outside. Which resulted to the bride seeking approval from her, specially with choosing The dress. At this point bride should be more confident with her decision and ignore mom

I felt terrible for this bride. She has a Mother from HELL.👹

How sad 🥺. That bride should have chosen the one she loved.

This is your dress, your wedding.. you deserve too look the way you love specially after losing that much weight..

Her Mother was mean!!

I've seen too many episodes where the mother makes it about her. So sad, why can't they accept their daughters for who they are? It's heartbreaking.

ladies, ladies, ladies... PLEASE stop bringing these invalidating judgmental harpies with you to your bridal appointments. just because she birthed you doesn't mean you owe her ONE MINUTE of your time, much less any decision-making authority over your wedding dress.

How extremely sad for that daughter, who was so considerate of her mother. I did not see a mother wanting to be sure her daughter was happy, I saw jealousy, because the attention was not on herself. That dear daughter, I hope she has a wonderful married life.

✨💖✨I can so relate to this young bride. I was in a yearlong Army training program, so who had time? That was my excuse to avoid a miserable wedding dress shopping experience with relatives. So I got my wedding dress through a Gunne Sax catalogue-yeah, it was that long ago. It wasn’t until I got out of the Army that I developed a weight problem, weighing in at almost 300lbs before weight loss surgery. I’ve learned that the problem with obesity is complex, and there is no one path to getting to your healthier life. However, a strong need to please others and getting approval, along with standing up for yourself is one common problem that almost all struggling with obesity need to learn about and tackle. It’s hard. Having weight loss surgery and losing 100 lbs are only a the first few steps this bride is taking to secure a happy and healthy and secure future. It’s wonderful that she will have a mate there to support her. I wish her and her future spouse all the best.

The first dress is the best!

If that was my mother I would be mad! Its the daughters wedding, not hers!

I hope she got a dress that SHE absolutely loved.

The 3rd dress was dazzling!

I dont think mum did wrong. Bride was being convinced more by stylist. Mum shd have picked out a gown for her. Mum is really proud of her and wants her to look her best. I dont think stylist did her job well

This Mom was so terrible. My heart broke for this sweet bride.

Poor Victoria.

Dress #5 looked stunning!

I saw this episode.. so heartbreaking

Mom can choose her own clothes but please let the bride choose the wedding dress she feels beautiful in!

This poor bride, a lifetime of being the scapegoat to her narcissist Mother, and she is just so desperate to please her. You can see she endured surgery to try to please her! I hope she gets a psychologist with experience helping daughters of narcissistic Mothers and she manages to either reduce contact (and take back control), or goes no contact. Life is too short to spend it allowing yourself to be the emotional punchbag for you narcissist parent. Ultimately the Mother is jealous, having a ‘fat’ in her eyes daughter she felt she was more beautiful- now her daughter is in her eyes beautiful (she was always beautiful), only she is kind and lovely too, things that no amount of lip filler can emulate.

My daughter is getting married and has been looking for a wedding dress. Yesterday, she sent me pictures of the one that she's chosen; she looks stunning! Is it a dress that I would've picked for her? Not really, but what difference does that make? One look at her radiant face was more than enough for me to fall in love with it! I wish more of the moms I see on this show would remember that their daughters need support and acceptance at this important time, not criticism or displeasure.