I feel for you bro I been alone now 20 yrs I have not had a kiss or a hug or any l loving at all the girl I had along time ago were dope addicts I quit dope and they went with it I been iceLated in my home at lease I am home and free be smart bro my righteous appinions
As the Bible says it’ll be the “the whole world” that succumb to the wicked one. Most people are fully submitted to satan whether they’re aware of it or not.
Everyone’s true colors are evil, we’re all inherently evil, possessing a sin nature traceable to the garden of eden. The internet simply gave the evils of human nature a breeding ground.
That’s the point though there aren’t a lot of good women left ! I’m not one to just shit on women but women are horrible today but it’s not them I get upset about. It’s the parenting. People don’t wanna raise strong men anymore because feelings 🤦♂️ and people don’t care about raising whores anymore because freedom or fuck the patriarch 🤦♂️ so yeah when u raise women to hate men and have no morals this is what u get 🤦♂️
@@TT-zu5prwomen have to be a part the change or it'll never happen...men's issues are only getting attention now because a handful of women took up the arms for it.
That goes both ways....it's not all about gender...but clearly his point is well taken. I spend time with my grandsons showing them how to cook and while in the kitchen, we talk about spiritual and physical health. These statistics are so frightening and our youth are being brainwashed at every turn.
I blame social media. Far too many people are too comfortable with saying horrendous things online that they wouldn't even consider saying in real life.
It's not that they wouldn't say it in real life, it's that they wouldn't say it to your face. They still think it and say it to the comfortable people in their life. It's just now you know what they're saying behind your back. The Internet has exposed two glaring facts about People (1) most of us are grade A idiots and (2) most of us are spiteful hateful degenerate people.
Carl Jung said that you have to integrate your shadow, otherwise, it will manifest itself given the opportunity. Paraphrasing here. What better opportunity than complete anonymity with untold miles of distance between the two?
Completely agree with you. Social media has allowed women to have a lineup of the very best men and all they want are those very few percent of men and they feel entitled to them and won’t “settle”. It’s turning women into big holes and the very small percent of men turn into sociopaths because they can sleep with all the women with no commitment.
I married an awful woman at a young age. After nearly a decade of misery, I divorced her and stayed single for 20 years. I am 55 and married a wonderful woman last year.
My sister's have been in and out of so many relationships over the years and every time the family is always worried for them and calls them to check up daily but when my wife of 20 years cheated on me and took my boys I never herd from them and when I did no one seemed to care about my feelings. Most women today only care about themselves
Western women have become toxic trash for good men. And the ones that aren't are taken. Go far East, and you'll find many women who will support the person you are instead of putting you down for the person you're not. And DON'T believe the bullshit about these Eastern women having a "slave" mentality. That's a lie and a terrible stereotype. Here's something to think about: Why don't Eastern men look for Western women? Because a majority of them (not all) are unstable and(or) unreasonable. Why should good men work twice as hard for a woman who can't appreciate them? Because that's our plight as men? Because that's what "real men" have to do? No. We absolutely DON'T.
That's the way it goes hombre. I almost died and nobody came to see me. It just doesn't bother me anymore. Being alone is just something men have to go through over and over and over again.
It was 30 years together for me and he left me for a woman our daughters age. He said 'she's just like you, but 20 years younger.' It's been over 20 years ago, still feeling betrayal, deep pain and distrust after all these years. It's not whether they are male or female, it's whether they are of high moral fiber; honest, trustworthy and faithful.
As a man who was used and abused, I always tell my male friends when they’re lonely that it’s better to be alone than with someone who doesn’t care about you and only wants to use you and hurt you
It’s better to be hungry, in pain, in the sweltering heat, exhausted, dehydrated, poor, and semi-conscious than to be in the home of a nagging spiteful miserable woman. They always bring the rage and hatred that makes life horrible. It’s better to be in the presence of a starving lion than around the woman.
People don't want to hurt you...they are working out their traumas subconciously, relationships bring up the subconcious in everyone, which is why they are difficult. You really need to know a lot about yourself and life to be successful in a relationship. I highly recommend IFS therapy to this end.
As a 71 year old woman I am appalled at some of the women today. The attitude toward men is so hateful and despicable that it makes me Sick. It’s just evil.
@@StarboyXL9how would you know? Were you there? Just being a decent family oriented woman is all one can do! The kind of women being talked about here do NOT make good friends either! They are deeply selfish people
Thanks for addressing this. My daddy did that in 1994, he was 44, over a damn no good woman, it hits us all in all age brackets. I appreciate ya, shout from BIG TEXAS...
@@jamesleyda365 well thanks it was a long time ago, however it stings till this day. Self murder hits different than losing someone to outside influences, that's natural. What he did wasn't. Thanks again.
@@wesmcgee1648 very sorry to hear. That probably hits different as well, him being the youngest. All the questions you try and answer for yourself, I can only imagine.
I've been married 37 years my wife now deceased and Frankie I'm afraid of women now I like by myself friends and family is enough considering the baggage😂
I lost my 26 year old grandson from suicide last November. He was handsome, talented, had everything going for him. I can't believe he is gone. We loved him so much. Please get help.
Fuck, we’re the same age. May God grant him the peace he’s been deserving of. Shit struck a chord, getting teary eyed as I type this. I’m in the process of turning my life around from all the bs I’ve put myself through. I’ll work hard everyday to develop my best self in his honor. He didn’t deserve to go out like that…😭🕊️ We’ll all see each other again soon. May God bless you forever ♾️❤️
Was married 23 years.. 4 children. They left me 3 months ago. NEVER felt this kind of pain... No friends or family in my life .. absolute silence. The thought of suicide is extremely real. Every waking moment is a battle.
I've been in a very similar situation brother. The best thing you can possibly do is use this as an opportunity to become the best man you've ever been. Spiritually, physically, and mentally. Use the pain as fuel. Get revenge by becoming the best version of yourself. Start grinding at the gym, start running, do things that you hate but do them like you love it. Get out in nature and do some ruck marching with a pack. It will be hell to start but if you can just make the first few steps towards becoming better, it will start to feel fucking amazing. You CAN overcome this. Stay strong brother! This too shall pass.
HEY'' it's because you aren't selfish '' THAT IS TAKING TIME FOR YOURSELF '' TRAINING.. FISHING.. CAMPING.. RIDING YOUR BIKE..HIKE" YOUR NUMBER ONE '' KNOW ONE WILL TAKE CARE OF YOU BUT"YOU'' AND WOMEN RESPECT THAT ALSO '' KICK ASS BROTHER ''💜
I know that no words will take away your pain and that grieving is a process but if you can just keep holding on, things can get better. I lost the woman that I loved and I was left with a choice. Choose a path of self destruction through booze and drugs or turn that pain into motivation to become the best version of myself. I gave up booze, cigarettes, caffeine, sugar and dairy all at the same time, such was my drive from pain. I also started doing wim hof ice baths and running. The more I sought discomfort, the more life got better. Life is paradoxical like that more often than not. Hope you get through this, you’re not alone my friend.
Same situation. Kids . Married . Togather 12 years. My wife made me push away all my friend a and family . All I hear is that she's leaving me. I'm a good dad. I work everyday . I bought us a home and cars. Botttom line is she will never be happy. She's bipolar and wants me to suffer for some reason. . I'm only hanging in there for my 2 kids. Once there old enough to make there own decisions. I'm out. And will never marry again . Us men are simple. We want love respect peace and food. Id rather be alone. Sorry your going thru wjat you are brother. Us men are here for you. You will gain so much from this experience
Threw 20 years of my best years away trying to make a woman happy. I'll take isolation and loneliness every day, all day, over that bullshit. Never again.
We just want to be treated fairly and equally, and not like someone's possession. Also, men often have guns and their suicide rate is much higher because it makes for a quick and easy way out. Life is tough, and people should get the mental help they need.
@@leahartlee29 So you support making divorce court fair and removing alimony, having automatic paternity tests at birth and automatically awarding 50/50 custody right?
Yes, because the man must not be like a stone, because he also has a soul, the upper part of which is feminine. When a man evolves spiritually, first his elevated masculine aspects are dynamized, but also the elevated feminine aspects of his being, which potentiated to the maximum (as in the case of the saints and great sages of humanity) lead to the state of consciousness of the Glorious Divine Androgyne, he remaining still in a man's body, acting like a man, but in which all the masculine qualities and all the feminine qualities have been energized to the maximum, simultaneously. This glorious androgynous is a cosmic consciousness full of divine strength, love and wisdom.
@@gwynjames2077😂😂😂if it stopped it was your choice. Now men have clubs where they are really into one another. You can't blame women for men not supporting men. That's the main problem, being unaccountable and blaming women. You only do it because women treat you like you treat them.
Men do, it's women coming in and using us and then taking everything we spent our lives building up because they feel entitled to it. Then they take your kids and use them as paens against you. Women are quite literally the embodiment of all that is evil. Not all, just 99% of them. We have the support of men. Every woman should get to experience losing your kids, house, and everything else simply because someone else's mind changed and instead of working on fixing it, they left, took everything of importance, kept it from you and talked about how bad they had it with you to everyone else just to make themselves look good. You wouldn't last a week as a man. And the patriarchy is a myth
My wife laughed at me and mocked me when I told her i was depressed for loosing my 7 figure a year job because i was mentally sidetracked by her for years. She went on to tell me a how stupid i am. I got a plane ticket and flew to South East Asia and met the most wonderful humble woman I never knew existed. Life does get better but we have to really qualify who we let in our lives because that’s where 90%of your happiness or misery will come from. A bad woman can make a good man literally go crazy and do the unthinkable. Mental sickness and evil people are rampant now days men and women both.
The longer you speak that into existence, the more we will have to make Asylums great again, the more wahmen will be institutionalized. History doesn't repeat but it rhymes so bad you can smell it. Remember the bible told us so.
Easy to say but hard to do... look up how much help and or resources available to men when they're down and out in your area, then nation wide, then look up the help and or resources available to women when they're down and out on your area, then nation wide... only then you might be able to understand the real issue... I'm not saying a positive comment is not a good idea, it is, but for so many people, just a simple comment isn't enough
As a woman who is a daughter, a little sister to an older brother, a wife to a wonderful husband, and a mother to a beautiful little boy, this breaks my heart.
@@dolanduk7946 this is not women's fault it's the system that the white supremacist patriarchy created it. Unfortunately we only notice the bad types of men and women in it.
@@grapenut6094 yeah but at the end of the day the you know whos need useful idiots to do their bidding. i blame the ppl who sell me out just as much if not more than the ppl they sell me out to.
Feminists don't only hate men. They hate women too. That's why they support "trans" men competing in women's sports. It's all about promoting their "woke" agenda.
No! It is because most young men are addicted to porn and have treated women poorly. What happened to the pick yourselves up by the bootstraps! Older men should be helping younger men like Dwayne is doing! Stop blaming others for your problems is the number one masculine trait!
@@zinnia3684 just copious experience. My most famous last words regarding the most recent one that performed the Five Point Palm Exploding Heart Technique on me, "maybe I'll let her near my heart, they're really not all alike." (LOL)
@@zinnia3684 just copious experience. My most famous last words with my most recent, "maybe I'll let her near my heart, they're not really all alike." (LOL)
There is now no fidelity at any level. Everyone has access to your wife 24/7. Someday, someone will make her a better offer and your family, hopes, dreams, future, and fortune are flushed down the toilet. I encourage all young men to stay single.
Now do you people see why Islam is the way it is? You see what happens when the family unit is ruined and women are given more power than they have responsibility?
@@eddiemclean7011. No. Go to church and find a born again Christian woman who will always have your back. Divorce rates among born again people are astronomically low.
I'm not gonna lie, it get to me sometimes. The crushing weight of all of this. The feeling of loneliness. The cold, sinking feeling in my gut that makes me wonder if I'll ever be happy. All it takes is one girl to make it better, but it also only takes one to make it worse.
It takes courage to love someone. There is always the possibility of getting hurt. Focus on the real person you date, not the superficial act that some put on. Meet in person. Talk in person. Some people are masters at on line deception. Good luck. There are good women and men out there. Don't let attraction and emotion override good judgment.
You need Jesus he will never leave you nor forsake you he is really there call out to him and he'll show you and then he'll lead you to the right woman who was meant for you Godbless
@@realbrother2795 No. I'm not going back to god, especially since it feels like he's deliberately making my life worse. Trust me when I say, the sheer amount of horrible shit I've had to deal with over the course of my life can't just be bad luck. At this point, someone has to be doing this shit deliberately, and the only one I can think of is the one who supposedly knows the fate of everyone. This much shit luck can't be mere misfortune. I'm not running back to the asshole that's been ruining my life for the majority of it.
@MaxGaming-gp6ij OK listen I'm gonna forget and forgive you for the whole asshole comment and I know God is forgiving too but listen I've had a really rough life myself and still is but it's not God it's the devil for one and also how we react I swear bro I'm going through it myself but it's making me stronger and also allowed me to realise alot of thongs going wrong in my life is because of my choices aswell and I'm learning to trust God regardless there's some tough times coming on this earth and God wants us strong resilient and ready but he loves us and when you catalog everything that's going wrong that's when the devil comes in to make us cut off our only life source maybe this is yours and my "JOB" from the bible moment if you read it you'll know what I'm taking about God Is so precious and loving still trust him still thank him for the good things in youre life like waking up like health strength whatever it is because things could always be worser believe me sorry for essay but I can relate Godbless
@@MaxGaming-gp6ij brother, im a christian and i was yelling at the top of my lungs at God one day... sometimes its really hard and unfair, but you have to change your perspective.. your mindset is determining a lot. I am NOT attacking you, I'm just trying to help... my cousin was in and out of prison for years but always comes back with a positive attitude, has tons of friends and gets a gf right away... i think he has a drug problem, which ends up getting him into trouble, tho. try to change your attitude for your own sake. when i started changing my attitude and enjoying life wherever i could i started feeling better and being happier--still dont have a gf right now but things are looking up. they will for you too
Its not just young men. Older men feel this way as well obviously. The problem is that women have forsaken their nurturing spirit to try and compete w men in the men's world.
@sikcat7 no they have forsaken just fairness in general. Far and away majority of women are self serving and don't care if it negatively affects anyone else.
As a mother to a son this kills me. I’ve always been scared to have boys because of the direction the attitudes towards men have been going. And worried that a woman could come through and destroy his life. As just a human being this breaks my heart for these men. It’s not ok. This whole new feminist attitude that we don’t need men. It’s absolutely insane to me.
My son married such a narcissist. She cheated and got rewarded. She got the house, car plus she removed every penny saved and stuck it in a save deposit box. Then she made herself appear homely and meek and told the judge he would hit her and choke her. My son said it never happened but the woman judge believed her. My son looks rough, he works as a foreman in construction. Since I cared for my grandchildren til they entered school I ask if their father hit their mother. They said no that their mother hit their Dad and he would walk out on her. After her divorce she married the guy. My son paid child support like clockwork. She sold the house and they used the money to buy a home in another part of town. With her new husband on the deed. Now he controls her if she is a piece of property. When he says jump she better jump. She is not allowed for friends or relatives to visit her. Plus her children who are now out on their own are not allowed to visit at the house. They have to meet somewhere. She asked my help with money. I said I couldn't that she lied and treated my son like a piece of 💩 and I his mother never forgets. In fact I told her never to contact me again. My son got help to get through what happened to him. He is doing great. He is happy. But is very careful with women.
@@alissagonzales735your son is better off not ever talking to women again. The whole "love" thing has always has been a pointless emotion. That’s the issue. When you fall in love, you’re easily blinded. It sucks for men especially who seriously believe love is real and something you can’t go without. Men used to be so strong..now they’re so weak..it’s a disgrace. I honestly think this started with women. I can honestly say I can’t remember a good memory I’ve had with a woman. I’ve always felt annoyed or drained just from being in a convo with them for a long time. Men and women shouldn’t be together anymore. This generation is the best thing that’s happened. It exposed the truth. Hopefully your son can see the light it’s not too late
@@alissagonzales735I'm sorry what happened to your son ma'am. I didn't quite have that happened to me, but I did get the cheating done on me. I was working construction in Savannah GA I lived an hour and a half away, and as I was working my chest started hurting and I couldn't help but cry and wonder why. So I called home to find out if everything was okay since I had a bad feeling. My ex claimed everything was fine, and by the time I got home she was packed up and gone. She broke up with me that night and 4 months later she found me. She finally told me the truth as to why she broke up with me and the feeling I had confirmed it. As I was having chest pains she was currently sweating on me, and ended it because she couldn't look me in the eyes after that. Then within a week she was in the arms of a guy that stole from me. So I too have a distrust with modern women, I just have to find a way to get over it or at least move past it.
"This whole new Feminist attitude"? You think this shit is "new"?, Woman, search "The White feathers campain", this shit happened since the First wave Feminism, NOTHING changed.
This is me. 3 time suicide failure lol. I can't seem to succeed at anything in life - even a job sitting down in a damn chair - and to top it all off I can't seem to take myself off the face of this godforsaken rock. I'm basically doomed to eke out a living, scratching among the rocks and dirt.
It's not just the women. Anytime I open up about me feeling broken and crying from losing everything during my fight against stage 4T cancer. People actually laugh that I cried as of there's never a time a man should be human
You are human. Feeling sorrow and crying are perfectly natural, regardless of gender. I'm sorry you experienced that. I hope you find people that can be more supportive. I don't know what your current prognosis is, but I hope that you have something that can bring you joy in whatever time you have left.
Starting to wonder if Islam is right about women. Is it coincidence? The worlds largest and oldest religion? Seen the fall of countless societys. Idk starting to wonder
This is why male friends are the best people you’ll have in your life or family. Men care about men and men have more fun together and can do things together without stress. Men support men. Work on yourself be happy with yourself don’t seek women. If they want you they’ll show up for you. Men stay strong please 🙏
Men need to also call out other bs that men do. I see many men in situations I've seen that condone bad behavior. I call out my female friends when I see it, but it's rare because I don't have women who pull immature stuff in my life.
My fellow men, you need to find peace within yourself. Make those bold decisions to change your life for the better. I am a suicide survivor with ptsd anxiety and depression from my time in Afghanistan. I have suffered from alcoholism for over 10 years. My health was taking a turn for the worse. Now I’m 3 months sober, my health is improving, I’m exercising again and I gave myself a new purpose that takes me out of my current situation and lets me pursue a childhood dream of moving to a new country. No matter how dark the night gets, the sun will always rise. Find your peace and remove any negativity you can from your life. Thank you all for the kind words and support.
Did you feel the military was a hard decision that changed your life for the better? Its always been the same for me as far as im concerned my choices are Commando or Cowboy, I love landacaping and farming would give me peace and solitude but not hardcharging intensity. Commando would give me hardcharging intensity and purpose but i fear i will lose my youthful body, personal freedom and be inundated with stress and sleeplessness that i could have had with Cowboy. I am 28 years old best shape of my life. What do you think?
@@ThletaJoining the military is never an easy decision. I joined when I was 17 turning 18 a month prior to basic. I specifically joined a combat MOS to go fight overseas. I don't regret it one bit but it came at a cost that I was not ready for. Right now we are technically at peace so unless you are going to Special forces you would be in a peacetime military setting. Usually more strict than usual with bored Officers trying to "leave their mark" on the unit. The military also pays for college if you need that. I knew guys who signed in their 30s, had no problem advancing quickly through the ranks. It'll be an awesome experience or it might be hell for however long you sign for. Never do it for the money unless you have none because the money is not great unless you become an officer. If you can make it to Ranger, Marsoc, Seal or green beret then youll definitely find your adventure and become a stronger man than you thought possible. But just know that its not just a job its a lifestyle to commit to. Your life and others depend on how well you do your job so be ready to be devoted to the cause.
We would love for you to send pictures or shorts of your journey . Thank you for your service. Take off your shoes and stand in a patch of organic dirt. Right on the Earth. In a beam of sunshine. And silence except for the Nature around you. And your breath. Colder the air the better. Make it a habit. Rubber soles prevent this.. leather soles or barefoot.. I hope you get where your going and there is a beach you can walk barefoot. Connect.. back to Earth. You will FEEL ...a reset coming on.. "Ice Man ,Cold is the reset button." Yt videos. Blessings.. And so it is...
We (men) should all learn theirs no need to have a woman disturb our peace. If you interrupt mine, your cut loose immediately. Maybe one day I'll find a unicorn, but until then, I've never been happier than I am alone. Only regret is how long it took me to figure it out
correction we should all learn how to love God before we learn how to love someone else.... Loving ourselves too much will make us narcissists.. That's the biggest problem with American women today most of them are narcissists.
I have 3 brothers. Me, my mom, and my sister continue to try to communicate with them, but they don't return texts or phone calls. They don't make social time. They don't invest in relationships (unless they have a gf). As soon as they break up, they go dark again. I know women are more social than men, but it is also a guy's responsibility to invest in their relationships, their family, their friends, their mental health, their spiritual health. It's not enough to be an isolated island all your life, and hope that some nice woman will swoop in and fulfill everything you need mentally, emotionally, spiritually, socially. I see this with a lot of men, just using my brothers as an example. Being a healthy human takes hard work. Whatever the world or life hasn't given us, we have to go out and find it for ourselves. We can't spend life blaming society, or God, or women for our problems.
@bodyofhope well it's easy to talk about responsibilities and not blaming, but it's hard to achieve that if you have the feeling that you're alone against the world which DID do damage.
@@bodyofhopemore than half of marriages end in divorce, which is initiated by the women 70% of the time. If a man can't have a family he can't have a legacy. At that point all you have is the present, which most of it spend by fishing/gaming/drinking with the boys. No point in doing anything else if it's going to be for nothing
@@bodyofhopeWell It's not just blaming women, but feminism destroying everything and also a warning about modern Western women being a poor investment in time, money or "relationships". It's just self-preservation for men at this point.
What shame? The sad fact of the matter is that women are the same as they've ever been, we as a society just don't shame them for their bad behavior anymore.
Those numbers have always been astronomically higher for men. And no it's not women's fault. It is the effect of the role we play and men telling men that men don't cry, complain or whine. We have our issues and women have theirs.
Good women already know this... as far as degrading the opposit sex there are bad apples on both sides, we need ro stop judging the individual based on the general stereotype that all men are bad and all women are manipulators
@@Believeinyourself8 excuse me, the same applies for women as well. Sounds like you hate rejection. Then don't complain why you can't find a good man, especially when you yourself don't put in the work to build yourself up and find a good partner. You're gonna suffer in your comfort zone, but that's your call.
@@grubbyarmadillo9863 "love" how comments here seem to be stereotypical and judgey toward both men and women and then include a specific dig directed at the person the comment is directed at. And this is why neither good men nor good women want to put themselves out there when people get treated like this
The problem is our failed institutions and one of the main failed institutions who promote the killing off the modern family is good old CORPORATE AMERICA!!!!!! Fix the corrupt government officials who presently are in power and you can have much better functioning institutions, who would bring back an honest and real public discussions about our problems that would produce a more grounded society!
Not really, the biggest problem is that people don't read their Bible and they walked away from God. I am not like these other women and it shames me that I have to see them and think I'm a woman and because of the way they act I can't get a good man. I'm 62 years old what the hell happened to these women
You said it. I was born in 72 and even back when I was trying to date I didn't think to much of the women in my age group and ended up marrying a woman ten years older than me because she was on my level and down to earth. I think I steer completely clear of women today and people in general. I do not envy the choices young men have today. I think on every level, this country is in serious trouble.
Men aren't doing any better than women are , never have and never will be, it's just that women are catching up to shitty men. Women been going through being mistreated badly for many many centuries, they ( women ) finally just got too sick of the abuse men would give women.
are u still with that woman im 19 dated a 44yr when was 18 and i thought the older maybe they knew themseleves and had no mental issues welp i was wrong at i dont know if i found the wrong one or if theres more but damm i just want someone who i can get along and last more than a month or 2 at this point im considering trans woman and i feel ashamed even saying this from a anomous account im not that to crazy for someone but id atleast like to die with someone and not by myself in the end nothing will matter but it is what it is
@@johnsonnash8604 first off you need to be right with yourself and in a place of contentment. Second, when I met my wife I was 32 and she was 42. That age gap was big enough. Yours was more than twice your age. At 19 I won't be in a hurry to find someone. At the point I met my wife finding someone was not even on my radar anymore. I was working a lot and busy with just doing my own thing. My advice is to focus on figuring out what you want to do with your life. Figure out a trade and put some focus on that. Spend time with down to earth people not people who are not confused about life. To answer your question. Yes we have been together for twenty years. No children, so that's one thing you have to consider with and older women. The other thing is to find someone that shares your interests.
Young men need support from good mothers everywhere! So many have been brought up to hate their own existence. They need strong fathers to guide them and build their confidence. They need to know that they are loved.😊
@jreyman I'm married to a middle aged man and I care about him. I know other men and care about them. Not in the same way I care about my husband, but I still show that I care. I admit I may not be that status quo but we are out there.
Being a middle aged woman, you don’t have the lack of respect, compassion and empathy today’s women have! I don’t know where we went wrong but girls today are mentally messed up! I see it at work and in public!
I'm a middle aged tall strong handsome male. Bin hurt and cheated on and it's been 7 yrs now me and my dog live-in the country life i truly really hope and pray for a good lady to spend the rest of my life with ❤❤❤
False dichotomy. Partners is a bad idea that has produced great priblems. This world needs men who are fully masculine and women who are fully feminine. These two roles compliment each other. Rejecting the roles is pathological.
Partners can mean many things. The family has been slowly deconstructed in the idea that the system is biased toward men. What the problem is that they have not given men a role in the deconstruction. So 49% of humans are now left with no role. This a human crisis, and not a joke. Fortunately, it probably will balance back the other way. I don't think people realise this is a war, whether we like it or not. A culture war, where the extreme thinking is winning. It is amazing on the justification of fairness, so many injustices can be done. The world is just too complex for our over simplified law and legislation. Let's face it people are weird and rules can cover all bases.
I disagree. For one thing, "fully masculine" and "fully feminine" are like utopia -- impossible. No human being can live up to strict gender roles, nor should they be pressured to do so. If you want to be/find a tradwife and play the opposite part, good for you. I wish you the best of luck. It's not a universally viable recipe.
We need to see them as our class enemy. Too many resources are being wasted on the "nobility" while the working class (the average man) is either discarded or hated on.
I think a lot of the issues regarding men and women have to do with the way they have been raised and the increasing number of women who are raising their children with out the biological fathers. The more and more households have been devastated by divorce I think it’s fair to say the effect of this situation is devastating to the children, especially on the sons. The daughters are still with their mothers but the sons in too many situations have no contact whatsoever with their fathers. I believe this is more important to the development of the children especially the sons than we realize.
I'm sorry you're going through this. We're raising our daughters right. To appreciate men (their father first), and look to compliment their partner. Good women are still out there. Stay on your right path, and when you cross her, hang on to her and never let go ❤
I agree completely, Remember they want you to stop fighting because they wont win otherwise. Stay strong brothers. There are still some good women too.
As someone with treated mental health issues, I have seen the double standard and downright aggressive condemnation men get when they have mental health issues. If a woman has mental health issues, people are sympathetic. They push her to get help. They call her "empowered", whatever that means. If a man has mental illness, he is told it's because he is weak. He is told that seeking help means he isnt a man. He is condemned by women as "broken". I got help, but it came at a cost. My mental illness has caused a lot of loss of friends and even jobs over the years. Even in the workforce women are given sympathy and accomodation while the men get a PIP and are told they have "performance issues". A woman with mental illnes has all these safety nets and is supported by society. A man with mental illness is told, by both women and other men, to "pull yourself up by your bootstraps" and to "shut the f$ck up". Seeking help is called a weakness. And we wonder why men commit the most suicides and mass shootings.
@HawkeyePierce1981 That's sad. In which country? The only part that's been a potential issue is loss of work and lack of interest from women. Otherwise, friends and society in general has been pretty good. No toughening up shit
The thing is... I'm a woman, and I'm not in a relationship, and I'm happy. I'm not asking for men to crowd around me. I don't want children. I'm in college for Computer Science, and I don't like the idea of giving my time to anyone. That said, I don't mind guy friends as long as they understand my boundaries. It's not up to me to meet anyone's expectations. If men need women, I feel for them. However, we have autonomy, and we should be able to live the way we want. "This is not right" is freaking crazy.
You may think so, but not everyone has the same mindset; it’s folks like you that do NOT understand I am *TIRED* of having to be lonely & living the rest of my life knowing that all of my efforts, all my hard work, all my dedication, all my following instructions, amounted to fuck-all. Y’know, I respect that you have your own life to lead, but it still beyond pisses me off; America is fucked in so many ways including relationships & marriages, and in truth, I don’t wanna move, but I fucking hate it here!
@AlastorAltruistGaming I guess it's a difference in priorities and societal expectations. I may not understand, but I truly wish you the best in whatever you're looking for. We are all suffering in this world. It's unfortunate.
Nothing woke about that. Does this guy look like he knows anybody woke? U must think like the ppl who told u what woke is......liberal...no woke just means you see the way society is tilted towards unequal treatment towards others
One of my male ancestors had a vision in the late 1800s that he wrote about. It was passed down through the generations, and it was centered around the fact that women would be the cause of the downfall of our society and would lead the effort to bring us down in the future. My family is not anti-woman in the least, and has in fact been blessed enough to have some very strong, good women helping to set the ‘tone,’ or culture of the family. Lately, I’ve seen the proof that his vision was most definitely correct and quite prophetic.
I think I know why, but I find no way to add it to a conversation easily, and should I manage that no one who will consider it, and anyone who agrees will deny it out of hand. But here I go. I think there is a great natural and primal joy that comes from rejecting men. Like the bird of paradise who's dance is beyond human belief for a lame mud colored hen who flies away, every effort and value a man offers is something that also has value to be displayed as an unworthy offering. She can do better? It's more accurate to say that an accepted man limits a woman as the best she can do. It stems from the fact that there's only room for one new human in a womb, and anything less than the best material feels something like food poisoning for life for the one who has to host. The result is one side searching for perfect satisfaction and the other searching for any real love at all.
I married a woman who didn’t love me and she took everything and had me thrown out of my house and kept my children away for months. I tried drinking myself to death and came very close. I had a seizure and was hospitalized, I was speaking with a male nurse who was very compassionate and told me about his similar situation, his female coworker would tell me that I should try again. Talking about it with men brought me back to realizing that I didn’t deserve to live with a woman who didn’t even like me, she used me like an ATM and when Covid shut my job down, she had no more use for me and threw me away. But I obviously didn’t kill myself, I got clean, got visitation rights to my daughters, got another corporate job and got back together with my jr high school sweetheart. My life has never been better. I still have a lot of work to repair the damage that alcohol did to my heart but the point is, men need to take care of men, because most women have left us for feminism and hatred.
Sorry what you've been through but happy you reconnected with you school sweetheart and are able to spend time with your daughters. Your ex wife will receive nothing but bad karma for her evil deeds. Bless you and your new life. 🙏
Our ex wives sound the same, once I stopped spending money on her she did the same thing as your ex. I had to start all over after everything I'd built since I was 19 was taken from me. She got to walk away with everything, zero debt and hit the grind running. That was almost 3 years ago now and I couldn't be happier. I have more now than I was ever going to have with her, achieved more than I ever would have with her and met a beautiful woman who actually loves me and does everything she can to make things easier for me with the crazy hours I work. Keep working on yourself, keep fighting and keep moving forward. Sounds like you're much happier now.
My x husband did all kinds of meanness and back stabbing to me. Others even got really angry with his behavior towards me. He is a a secret woman hater. In the closet. No way to get around that.
I remember when I was trying to get medicated I had a therapist to evaluate me before I met with my psychiatrist. During the evaluation I told her that I was suicidal and that I did in fact have a plan to end my own life. All she said was “damn that’s sad” and kept on going like I said I had a bad day. And here I am three years later with multiple suicide attempts in my past and 6 diagnosed disorders.
It's good to hear You're here. 😁 I can't imagine what You've gone through but please realize that our words and actions affect others. Your comments here will help someone else who may be struggling. I know these are only words but keep being positive my internet friend. 🥳
It’s funny how a shocked people are when they figure out how common it is for men to kill themselves. And it ain’t a recent thing either, we just hear about it a lot more today because of social media.
I've tried it but never really had enough courage to kick the bucket. Eventually I decided I'm gonna make others' lives hell cause I'm not going down alone. "The world would be a better place without you". Bitch, that's why I'm still alive
My husband talks about suicide often enough. It breaks my heart. I can’t imagine life without him. Nor would I want to go on after him. Life is tough. We sure know it. But as long as we can still make each other laugh and get through the bad days, we’ll get to the good ones. The world doesn’t go round without good men, it never will.
That’s not cool. A man needs to be strong for his woman and he sounds like he is manipulating you. I would leave if he chooses not to get better and get a more upbeat confident man
@@timothygibney159 Absolutely not. My husband is the strongest person I know besides myself. A lot of things are out of our control atm. I understand that we will get through it together.
Being alone can be the very most liberating experience if you've ever been in a gaslit or abusive/controlling relationship, don't take it for granted if you get some time to yourself because that's when you get to know yourself the best.
I am a woman that cares & have raised 3 wonderful young men. Men & women have been divided & pitted against each other by ideological nonsense & the deliberate erosion of core family values. We need to find our way back to supporting each other.
your never alone.....never ...the Creator is with in you, always. So don't feel lonely. you have a good friend to carry you,at all times. speak out loud ..talk...the Creator can hear you.
A good women can help and encourage a good man to be better! Married for 48 yrs to the same woman. Started off with no direction, no skills, drinking and orher things. Met my wife, became a minister, she became a nurse and supervisor over the mental health clinic in our town. Together we have changed hearts and lives! Get a good woman guys. Don't just look for outward beauty, look for that which is from the heart!
@@iceonthesun8880 was going to say exactly that. I can name 50 gentlemen off the top off my head, but only one lady. Until I met her I thought they were extinct, and no, she's not mine, but the wife of a friend. Lucky bastard.
@@jimmygranqvist7684 Yep. The odds of finding a good woman(that isn't taken), are so abysmal; it isn't worth the time expended to look for one. Hell, I can't even succeed at landing a date with the trashy women...so, logically(if I did find a good woman), my odds of succeeding with an actual quality woman are slim to none. And slim left town.
I care for men , the world will be horribly depressing without them . We have let down men , boys and elderly . So sorry for everything you have to go through .
It's because society itself is sick I need to get this country back on track everybody needs to get back to loving each other and doing the right thing stop all this hostility
_"I used to think that the worst thing in life was to end up alone. It's not. The worst thing in life is to end up with people who make you feel alone."_ --Robin Williams Whole lot I didn't agree with him about, but on this we definitely did. If you can pass time in your own company and not need anyone else, you're doing okay with life.
Just know for the men out there, there are women that do find men vital to our existence. Finding few women like us who are hardworking and care about the heart of a man and not his wallet are a needle in the haystack. Don't give up on life someone loves you in the world.
Dont be alone. Dont committ suicide. Dont isolate yourself. Dont stop trying. People are Evil- Kind. People are Forgiving- Ruthless. Read the Bible and pray. Your mind and spirit will change, youll find peace and community. Find people who want the same things as you and you resonate this
There are a few of us ladies out here that know the importance of a man in the household. A man’s love, protection, admiration and loyalty is top tier. I absolutely adore my guy ❤
Society also needs more men willing to take that look within and see their true selves. Most of the men I know live in fantasy created by their own minds
Even if what you're saying is true, there's not enough women like you to go around and as such, a collective karma is coming. Not sure what it is but once the battlefields come into play the overwhelming majority of men aren't gonna risk the well being of their lives for a society that doesn't care about them ..... and justifiably so.
💯 agree with you! I am 55 and haven't dated in over 5 years! Best decision ever! MGTOW all the way! Today's women are highly unrealistic! They want us to put in all the effort while they place in none! I'd rather be happy and alone then be with someone and feel lonely!!
You are Right! I lost my daddy..my grandpa..my uncle and my son to selfish women. Then I married a Narcissist man. He refused to give me even one good word. I got very sick at 27 years in..only because I had the love of my five children ..but when they grew up it was OVER. God Made us to Love and Be Loved. It is crucial to our Health and I am still regaining mine. 😊❤
Real relationships can come along later in life. Youth has extended in our culture. Maturity is taking longer and longer. People don't realize what family can mean. I was 33 when I met the woman I am now with for 30 years. Age is just a marker.
Stop looking for a tiktok 10. There's lots of good, honest, loyal hard working women out there that would be wonderful wives, but they're lonely as you because they don't wear flashy clothes or lots of makeup. She might have a few pounds on her or be extra skinny. She's an average looking woman like you're an average looking man. The problem is that social media has us all mixed up and shallow.
😂There's no fixing any of this, "they've" been sowing in the seeds of dissent for 4-5 decades, with the endless soap operas, and reality housewives series and keeping up with the kardashians and all the toxic mindless music etc etc all that shit has been genetically hardwired into peoples DNAs since even before their conception. We're doomed sonnnnn lol
I knew a guy who took his own life over a woman back in 1996. He is still dead, and I doubt if he ever crosses her mind these days. She has long since moved on.
What else would you have her do? Forever grieve him? He chose his path. She isnt to blame. And if he ever meant a single thing to her, the fact he killed himself over his inability to live without her, she will never forget it.
@@lukedegraaf1186such a stupid statement, life is not pain, yes we experience pain but don’t let hurt override real love, real love is a sacrifice not a pleasure feeling
When Men listen to the world and they give in or back off from being a Man ,,, it has nothing to do with women but has everything to do with self respect ....
My husband committed suicide. Worst day and worst 20+ years of my life. Still hurting, and I miss him with all my heart. You are speaking facts. For him, in his brain, he was alone under his own roof even though there were 4 other people living with him. He never felt like he was enough or could do enough. I was pregnant with my now 20 year old, who did not reap the benefits of having a solid dad that my older two did. It’s truly sad that any woman would “celebrate” anyone’s death by suicide.
@@cynthialammon710 I appreciate that. Unless it’s happened to you, most just don’t understand. If it weren’t for God, I may not have been here. I walk daily with Jesus.
My husband committed suicide, I stayed with him until the end, not knowing it was. People wanted me to leave before seeing his state, I wasn’t going to leave my best friend.
Some of us women care DEEPLY. my dad committed suicide in 2006.... Trust me, as a woman it absolutely breaks me that men are hurting. Theres still some real women out there ❤
It's terrible to hear but I gathered as much. To see how they carry themselves and seem so cold. Something is wrong with that alone. We are to be nurturers and helpers, lovers and encouragers. Mother's and wives. Not selfish and entitled. Not tactless and gossips. Not haughty and cheap. It's a real shame. 😢
Seems that they do it because they CAN. one of the biggest indicators of character is to watch what people do when they think (or KNOW) that they have _power over others!_
You cannot FORCE anyone to love. You are a horrible human being when you demand others to feel this way or that way. A man cannot be attracted to a woman by force, he has the choice to stay away! Nobody calls him selfish. But whan a woman makes a choice, she is selfish and entitled? Shame on you!
❤🙏🏼🥰🙏🏼🥰 67y married working woman. Is my life the one i envisioned? No. My man is fallable..... As are we ALL. However I ❤ and respect him. . The level of narcissism and self absorption currently displayed by young woman astounds me 😱🤯. WHERE did they get this entitlement attitude? Incredible. !!! Hang in there guys 🙏🏼 Hopefully this delusional behavior will pass 🙏🏼💃.
They have all been programmed by the mainstream and social media and the communist public schools. It has been going on since 1960’s very slowly by the elites. Nick Rockefeller admitted the whole point of the women’s lib movement was to push women into the workforce so the tax revenues would double and to destroy the family which would make it easier to control America and the world. Sadly, judging by the way things are its mission accomplished.
U ask where? From the so called liberation of women….. There is a God Given order to life, since he created us and NOTHING is being lived as was intended….. Just as women wanted equal rights, well we c they aren't meant to.
@@eileenweeks1815 No it's not and you shouldn't generalize all men and assume women are all just perfect little victims. I have a son and I am horrified and worried for him. This hate and blame all men ideology is toxic and wrong. A lot of women in the west don't even live in reality anymore. They will get offensive just because men prefer traditional women who behave like ladies. Instead they are massively entitled and seem to think they're perfect in everyway yet have the nerve to demand perfection from men. No wonder men are choosing to remain single because it's not worth the headache. Men are expected to fulfill and check all the boxes yet women think it's beneath them to do the same. Women can't take criticism but they can surely dish it out. This is a growing issue and we are treating men horribly and not looking in the mirror to fix ourselves.
@@eileenweeks1815Most men aren't even the problem. I, as a man, acknowledge that we men can be a problem. I try to help. But we good men are the ones getting it. While you go around sleeping with the problematic men, giving you that treatment you so hate.
This has been happening to me on dating apps. EVERY SINGLE ONE OF THEM. they get unlimited attention from a countless number of men. The only thing that matters to them is how much money you can provide or if you're slightly more attractive. The 3/7"s are all going after the 9's/10's and since they're all tens in there mind they will settle for nothing less than that. They'll end up old and alone.
As a guy courting it is your role to either clear up the bullshit or determine there is too much of it for further pursuit. It's gonna get slung all over you. Ask, where am I standing? Is she modestly entertaining me out of curious intrigue, is she enamored with me, or shit, am I at ground zero and fighting the underdog battle & she just has too weak a will to say no? Analyze your relationships critically and create realistic expectations, then you won't be disappointed when someone who doesn't even have the respect to acknowledge you pulls away. And hell, you might learn a thing or two about yourself and see why they pulled away in the first place.
This is so sad, He is right about suicide, my son did it too at 25, about three years ago, Im heartbroken because of it Theres No Help to it, Not even God
So sorry for you and what happened with your son. I truly am. There is a God, He loves each and everyone on us. I don't know your circumstances but God does. All can be healed and restored through the atonement of Jesus Christ. Once again, very sorry for these trials you're going through.
@@MMC619Ahww what a sad little story, dude. At least God exists more than you luckily. Donald Duck also exist although hè is a fictional character. So actually even as an atheïst it's pretty dumb to say things like that. You said God. And with only that fact God exists.
@@sheldy2344 it’s down to you to do what you want to do , need to do or have to do. YOU ! Have to do what ever it takes to conquer whatever it is as no one else is going to do it for you. Make money Get out of drink or drugs Lift yourself from depression etc things like that. If that helps at all
This breaks this woman's heart. Men, I'm so very sorry there are so many women who don't see your value and appreciate you. I do, and I've taught my daughter to as well. Please, don't give up; YOU are needed, but more importantly, **YOU ARE WANTED**
Its so hard sometimes. Im not married yet but im so invested in this man im with. I can tell he's broken and i know i can't fix it but i will wait with him until the Lord moves on his behalf. Its not my place to judge his situation nor fix it. All i have to offer is my patience and love. Hopefully that is enough for him to keep living and keep trying.
@@luvsme6442yeah, your type are the ones who loose their life because they can't stay away from broken maIes. Broken maIes will resent the woman who help them. Stay away for your sanity and saftey. Get rid of the penis worshipping mentality and prioritise yourself.
Its 3/2024 I suggest all men be strong and take time and talk to a man. Like 98% of men , rich or poor are mentally going thru the mud Men....Stop....n take time to give a man a ear , or a word of advice
