These quotes are useless when you have demandjng, narcs vamily who expected me to put my .life on hold for them I was the only one who was well dnough to look after them ..and brjng money in. My father and sister termally ill .dad died, them j realise my sister faked terminal illness ..just to make me give up my job. I then became serjous ill with disabilities that left me bed ridden ...i was told never to let my wife have kids , ..as they couldnot help us.. My narc mother is now dying in carehome ...im sure i wont be long. So.... ...thinking about yourself isnt always possible I cant wait to go. I dont trust anyone now......
sorry for your troubles. i hope you find peace in your mind. move a little each day and you will find yourself far from your starting point and in a much better place