I’m going to make one quick suggestion to your brother it’s some thing that I’ve noticed over the years with this term “giving it away for free”. And I am going to make the suggestion that you simply shift those words to “Gifting it to you”. You’re not really giving it away for free if you’re using those words. It’s like reaffirming a loss to see it that way. When really you are gifting us your light in your energy and your words. And that is a beautiful thing. I know that my life has been improved today by listening to this video. And I know that my intention is to work with you now and to reciprocate your energy in the form of money. So as a brother and a friend I’m just asking you to consider upping your game. And turning away from the lexicon of “giving it away for free.“ I suggest to you that that is a poverty phrase. And that you are not in the matrix of poverty. So I thank you for your gift and I ask you for more and I hope that I can reciprocate your energy in someway that you can feel grateful and happy about. Blessings on the path brother.
Yes... you have to see if they have the same desire to grow. Soooo much... you hit the nail on yhe head. I'm far from being perfect and have a heavy childhood I'm working on for years now but I'm so into personal growth. And too often if not all the time I've came across people that aren't into growing the same as me... more of the blame and pointing fingers or passive aggressiveness and I have the bad habit to spend too much time trying to find books and article to help my relationship to grow but doing the work for me and the other person or working on me to change for their problem so we can stay ok. I use a lot my wing the 7 being positive and seing the bright side and the 9 understanding everyone as well as being an 8 who denies things aren't good for me.. because I'm so much stronger... :/ but you say it well... if the person refuse to grow with you ... its just not possible. Usung my 8 and trying to put cards on the table and getting angry for the stupidity of people not being able to be hinest with how they fele inside instead of accusing outisde.. isnt helping me to find my way to live happily. Growing It's a way of life and of looking at thing. It teints everything you look at. So... maybe I should create a dating website for user of enneagram. It does change the speech about problems and on how you go about challenges and your relationship... Thanks again Drew. Will definitely consider your therapy service.
I just did a few reels on this on instagram. If you don’t follow you should @drewnewkirkpsychotherapy And I have a few clients who want to do an enneagram dating app, I’m sure someone will do it soon 😉
@@drewnewkirk Sounds good I will follow! I use it only for work but I am interesting to see ore of your video! Keep me posted on the app ! :P Thank you!
Are you still taking clients in therapy? I’m asking this before I listen to the whole video so if you say that at the end I’ll just take that as an obvious yes no need to reply. Thank you brother for your care and your journeys as a warrior of light and your passion and your words. As a long term hard core 4 I appreciate what you teach.
