Young bride, Taylor, breaks down when her bickering parents let their feelings get in the way of her bridal appointment. Catch Say Yes to the Dress on TLC - Sky 133, Virgin 162, BT TV 323
@@Mercury-dc6ok No? It would mean she has a big heart. Mouth doesn’t mean the physical size of your mouth. It means how much you talk (talk shit that is, or if you have a potty mouth).
Yk, I consider myself a daddies girl but at the same time we do have issue but what daughter and dad doesn’t! I love my dad &’ I can’t wait to experience this moment with him! My mom on the other hand, we’ve never gotten along so I dread this day as I’m scared she’s going to be the one to cause so much stress
Yes! Her dad seemed to be going for what best suited her & things he knew she liked or was looking for. Whereas her mama was only looking for what she liked & what she thought would look good on her daughter.
I love what her father said: "I want it to be about her, not the dress". Just shows that she's his brightest star just the way she is. That's a good father.
And the mother, jealous as hell that the daughter is happy her daddy is paying for her dress. The woman needs to get over herself. She already lost a husband with her selfish ways, she might lose a daughter if she doesn't change A relationship, any relationship, takes work, but it shouldn't be work to be in that relationship. Ppl get tired of it and drift away
@@mordecai8707 she not the mom was nasty some of the comment were extra when they didn't need to be the daughter look gorgues and unlike the father who was nice about how he expression the mom was rude as hell.
@@mordecai8707 She wasn't expressing her opinion. She just wanted to satisfy herself by being the one to find the dress. She wanted to boost her ego to make herself happy, and used her own daughter to do it. She's not being supportive, she doesn't think about what her daughter wants, and wants to trample over everyone else's happiness. If she can't be happy, no one can. Her daughter wanted the dress, and asked her dad for support because she's never gonna get it from mom. The mom even had the audacity to say, "yOu DoN't cArE WhaT hE THinKs" after her daughter HAD JUST ASKED HIM WHAT HE THINKS. Obviously, the mom is the one that doesn't care what he thinks, and is bitter about how her kid prefers him.
*The dad's face shouted "The f*ck did you say about my kid?" when the mom called her 'boney'. And, even though it was ex-vs-ex, I think the dad was truly fighting for his daughter.*
I got so mad when the mom picked a dress with the same top as the dad’s one while she literally body shamed her daughter while she was wearing the dad’s pick..
I feel like the dad was reasonable. It is understandable how he got a little defensive when his ex-wife was body shaming his daughter. He wasn’t focusing on himself either.
@@sharkawakaorb9220 Yeah she is *their* daughter but the father is the only one not treating the poor woman as an extension of himself. The mother made the whole thing about herself.
Is nobody gonna pay attention that the mum was skinny shaming her daughter? This is why most girls have insecurities because their parents body shame them.
I only wear hoodies at home because my family keeps skinny shaming me. When I feel confident and wear something a bit different they will tease me to no end, resulting in my hating my body again, its a never ending cycle
@@kaikai9849 i feel you...please remember: no one has the right to judge you or your body 💛💛 live your life far from these people as soon as you can...
I’ve started noticing a pattern in this show that when the bride says “I’m a daddy’s girl” the mom is usually very mean to down right emotionally abusive
And the mom is usually extremely jealous of the daughter, as is clearly the case here. The mom had every intention of ruining this for her daughter from the moment she found out the dad was coming to the appt. That woman needs intense therapy.
I have to admit, her dad is super cute. Choosing a dress he thought she would like instead of going for something he wanted to see her in. That's what it should be about!!
And she picked a dress very similar to the one her Daddy picked! The dress the mother picked looked like a cheap prom dress. Ooosh! That mom is a nasty piece of work! Hope she reads all the comments and gets professional help.
and it's exactly why she liked his pick more than mom's pick. mom picked one she knew would make daughter mad because it's what MOM wanted to see. dad only had daughter's interests at heart so no shit she agrees with him over mom.
@@dietotaku supportive parents are the best👏🏼 it's not the mum's wedding, I question why so many of these people don't keep their mouths shut over things that don't include them🤷🏼♀️
I don’t think the dads purpose was to bicker with the mom. He was defending his daughter and trying to make her feel confident and beautiful in every dress she tried on. Even when it was the moms pick he said “you look beautiful but this isn’t your style”. I’m happy she has such a sweet and loving father because her mother was truly revolting. You could tell she’s been manipulating and controlling and downgrading this girl her whole life.
I saw a clip from a different episode the other day with a similar title. Somehow that mom, too, was insufferable and notably orange with self-tanner... Where do these dads find these women?!
@@charlottegreene3950 Looks like daddy has been there bc he has a strong relationship with his daughter and he is on tv for his daughter buying her wedding dress that speak volumes. Mom's bitter B!
@@charlottegreene3950 In the video it says the parents just recently separated. And she did say she was a daddy's girl. He had to be there atleast a little
@@suziewhattley3917 🤣🤣🤣 I mean compared to how old and dry her face is to the dad who looks young and energetic, it kinda proves how negativity sucks the life out of her
the mom is a narcissist....no amount of therapy will help her! Glad the daughter stood up for herself! (...sometimes ya just wanna 'B#@*ch slap some people...but can't'!!! Momma sure needed that!)
I HATE when parent's bodyshame their kids. If it's their bio kid they likely see something in their kid that they hate on themselves. Dear parents, if you hate your body don't make your kid hate theirs.
“She’s like a bulldozer into my happiness” 😭😢 That mom is horrible, disgusting, and controlling.. but I’m glad she stood up for herself and got her dress.. she looked beautiful 🤩
@Zoey Jones Everyone's bodies are different. So long as your doctors say you're healthy, then your body is absolutely perfect and you shouldn't change a thing. You're beautiful, so love yourself. Edit: By the way, this is coming from someone who was extremely underweight growing up (not because of an eating disorder) and now I'm about 30 pounds overweight. I've learned to love my body even though I am trying to lose weight. I'm 5'10 and still growing for reference. What I've learned from my doctors is that being 5 pounds underweight is just as bad for your health as being 15 pounds overweight. So a lot of these 5'10, 110 pound models you see are around 30-60 pounds underweight. Can you imagine how much destroys your health? I was 5'4 at the age of 9 and I should have been around 115-120 pounds, but I weighed 95. So being 20 pounds underweight, was just as bad to my body as being 60 pounds overweight. Sounds crazy, but long term? Its very bad. This is what I've been told by my doctors. Speaking from experience, it's far better to be a healthy weight or even a little overweight than it is to be extremely skinny. Now, some women have a naturally slim figure. I technically do, but I've worked hard to gain weight and have been getting into shape. But other women simply aren't the same and that's okay. I may have a naturally slim figure, but I have naturally very large hips, and shoulders that are just as big. My waist is weirdly small. Even at my current weight I'm still bony and you can see my veins. So I even if I lose that extra weight, my healthy weight is still around 165 pounds because I am naturally curvy in the literal sense of the word. Slim, but not skinny. And you can be curvy and healthy you know. So my love for my body comes from a place that isn't confidence, but rather a love for my own health. But confidence in healthy amounts is always a good thing and I'm working on it.
@Melody Thomas No, no its not. Her Father was thinking about his daughter, and the dress that was closest to what his daughter was looking for. Her mother did the opposite
She straight up said “what do YOU think daddy? I don’t want to listen to her” and then the mother got all shocked?! Like yeah girl, she don’t need that negativity around her.
@@SimplyLilith right I was like this women is straight up NASTY she was just so vindictive and you could still see her pouting after she finally said it was beautiful
I'm a daddy's girl too, my mom forces me into things that I don't like to do sometimes and it's just so annoying. Atleast my dad doesn't forces me into anything and is okay and cool with my life choices.
Dad's like "how did I ever fell in love with that person. I understand we don't love each other anymore but... *you don't insult my princessy daughter!* "
@@elithluxe7568 Well, your parents are probably far more mature and would prioritize you in the more important matters of your life. Some people are better equipped to be parents than others. When parents speak to each other or their children with blithe or callous language, it raises the children to be disrespectful and rude themselves.
@@Lin-ri7qo yeah that's kind of how it is in asian culture though. I'm 21 and still living with my parents and certain things are normal because parents are an important part of everything and filial piety is a big thing in our culture. It is seen as disrespectful to even talk back to elders which sucks when I want to curse tf out of them and I try to but end up talking in a respectful polite way still even when matters are anything but
And notice the difference of when she comes out "Daddy this is your dress!" All happy and excited then "this is the one you pick mama" absolutely defeated
I dunno if they got divorced when she was young but she obviously had a very good relationship with her father. Holy hell, it would be a nightmare being raised by someone like her mom!
Dad wasn’t trying to put mom’s pick down. He could see that his daughter was not in love with it. If there’s no joy on her face, it’s not the one and he knew that.
Nah, they're both extremly juvenile, it's just that she is more extreme. I believe that gender-roles come into this perception as well. What is sad, is how the child is affected by their behaviour.
The mom literally said “to take away from this” when she commented on the dress her daughter loved! She was just there to try and get one up on her husband not to fully support her daughter and help her find the best dress.
Mum picks a dress: "She won't like it but /I/ think it's pretty" Dad: "I think she'll like this one" (also doesn't insult the way his daughter is built)
@@jessicajohnson5817 I think they're both extremly childish, it's just the mother is a lot worse BY THE MILE ...but typical that men get a pass for certain behaviour, he was being slick & condecending too...
@@madelenCarlson3834 he had every right because she was making his daughter feel bad. Everything he did and said was to make her feel better about herself in every dress she tried on. If I was him I'd be slick too but I understand what you mean,.
I’m not huge on weddings for myself, but if I’m ever getting married my mother will absolutely not even know let alone be apart of it. Cause if I’m getting married it’s supposed to be beautiful. Her heart is ugly and selfish and I refuse to have my mother make me cry out of frustration when she causes issues. I hate it when parents do that. It’s not about you, it’s about your kid. Their egos are disgusting
"I'm sorry she's crying" Lady, YOU should be apologizing for MAKING her cry tears of sadness, not apologizing for her rightful reaction to your hurtful words. Good GOD the toxicity.
Like yeah cool you expressed that you hate that dress because you are salty that she didn't pick your dress- cool cool now shut it and let the pride have her wedding, your opinion doesn't matter.
Totally. That’s one of those Real Housewives Apologies: “I’m sorry you feel ________. It’s so condescending and takes no accountability for their part. It’s so nasty when Housewives do it, but to do it to your daughter is soooooo toxic 😡😡😡
No wonder she's a daddy's girl, her dad actually makes her feel happy about what she likes and actually helps her find exactly what she wants unlike the mother.
No joke I would wear the dress he picked for her. If I had a farther with that much fashion taste and he said “it looks even better on you “ I would be crying because I know the he wasn’t lying.
It was wonderful especially once I saw the mom’s dress choice and even though I didn’t even know the bride I was just like geh that doesn’t fit her at all so when the dad was like this isn’t her I was like heck yeah man!
Gosh her Dad’s an absolute sweetheart, I love his “Let’s go simple cause it should be about how beautiful she is, not the dress” attitude. That’s how you make your daughter feel beautiful
The title makes it sound like both her parents were arguing but honestly her mom was the only one ruining the appointment, her dad seems really nice and supportive
Fact is, that the first dress indeed was not complementing her figure. But the dress her mother picked was. I didn't like the attitude of both parents, bickering about. Perhaps it gave me the chance to look at how the dresses looked on her, and not at the persons, who chose them.
That's going to be a witch of a mother in law. As her own daughter said, she spent 30 years being pleased by her child, now she will never accept losing her to a man, be it the father or the husband.
The first dress was absolutely GORGEOUS on her. The trumpet silhouette really elevated her figure and brings attention to her face, making everything look elegant and soft. Dad has good taste and knows her well, i must say
Well I think certain things are more flattering and it isn’t wrong to point that out. I agree that the mom was doing it out of jealousy rather than love but the concept itself is perfectly fine.
Jupp, just don’t do that, you don’t change a body in 5 minutes. It’s not the same but similar happened to me; a place where I used to always told me how skinny I was, which I liked hearing because I’ve had a low self esteem and regularly thought I was more on the chubby side, I was in my teens (pretty insecure already). When I told my mum they called me skinny she glanced at me and told me: “but you’re not THAT skinny. Oh you’re not fat ether, but not skinny.” Now I get why she told me that. She was probably insecure herself since she had gained some pounds after quitting smoking and the breakup and couldn’t bare the fact that I was called skinny and she isn’t anymore. But that really stung me, I was doubting myself and my college’s. Were they lying? So I get not liking yourself, but don’t criticize your daughters body! Don’t criticize anybody’s body because you feel a certain way. 💞
Have you ever thought that the daughter could be close to her dad, but that same man could have hurt her so bad that she is hurt to her daughter be closer to him?
I am too, my dad just treats me better than my mom. I'm actually kinda scared of her at times, and my sisters have had their fair share of questionable instances with her. I'm way more open to my dad, and I can actually talk to him about personal issues without worrying about getting judged or criticized
@@amihomophobicifihatemyself8966 I am also a daddy's girl and my momma treats me like hell and dad is my only person that loves me for me and not tell me mean things like my mother would , I can't wait till my own child has a great experience with her dad🥺💗🤧 EDIT: in the future 👀
"I really like this dress" What do u think daddy i dont wanna listen to her" WHNE SHE SAID THAT I WAS LIKE GET IT GURL and i love the way that the dad supported her in most of the dresses like he is super nice to her unlike her mom whos insulting her instead of complimenting her in every dress except the one the mom picked
The dad is a sweetheart. He cares about his daughter. The mother has real issues that she needs to work on - and she needs a good bottle of SPF. The dad says “you look gorgeous”, the mom says “I’m not feeling it”. She’s horrible.
Yeah, And when the daughter came out in his pick he said, “You look beautiful”. But when the daughter came out in the moms dress the mom said it looks beautiful.
The mother was so determined to be spiteful to the dad, who just wants to see his daughter happy, that she wilfully made her daughter unhappy. She barely broke a smile, she was so consumed by her own sourness and misery. What a way to be!
I suggest that’s the way it was in the household for Taylor growing up. Repeatedly she said, “Daddy?” because he has always taken her part in times of conflict with her obnoxious mother. I see why they are divorcing. The mother is bitter, angry, selfish and rude. She’s her own worst enemy.
Yuup, my mom is the same way. Sh refused to sign our house over to my dad so he could try to salvage it when we were in foreclosure just because she didnt want him to make money off of it. Well we lost the house and now shes in a ton of debt and made myself and my father homeless. Some women dont deserve a family
@@lleexxii I'm so sorry that's happened to you. I wish you and your father the best of luck. Life can be very hard at times, but push through any obstacles that come your way. Thank you for sharing your story, and again, good luck! 💖
It actually breaks my heart to read the stories that come up in the comment section. My parents divorced but they never put me in the middle of their issues. It is possible for adults to act like adults.
The bride: *crying happy tears* Everyone: it’s perfect Mom: I liked the other dress better me: NOBODY CARES WHAT U THINK ITS THE BRIDES CHOICE Lory (idk how to spell her name ;-;): I need to put a muzzle on mom Me: as you should
Mom vs Dad "It doesn't do it for me" vs "It doesn't do it for you" "You look bony" vs "It looks even more beautiful on you, I had no idea" Yeah, no wonder she's a Daddy's girl.
I also feel like for the dress she didn't like, he was reading her. Had she come out looking like she liked the dress, or stated she'd liked it, I think he would have changed his mind. I could be wrong, but I think his dislike of Mom's pick was more in support of his daughter's taste than retaliation against his ex (but maybe I'm wrong).
The mom: talks about how the neckline on the dad’s dress made her neck look bony Also the mom: loves the dress she picked out that literally has the same neckline 🤦♀️🤦♀️
Loved the dad when he said the first dress looked even prettier with her wearing it. What a beautiful thing to say! The mom is a...well I don't have to say it because we all are thinking it.
In fairness to the mom the mother comes off much worse not only her words, but her tone and she does have a "hard face". It is very weathered, or like she smokes a l ot and not to crtiicize looks but aesthetically she has a look that is not soft or kind and that further turns the knife. I think Lori's words "a tale as old as time" is rather ironic and can be turned agaist even Lori lol. The fighitng exes, the jealous in this case mother and somehow "jacking up" the bride will change all evil forces to agree it is right. A tale as old as time - like those home fixer upper shows these yes to the dress seem to have a similar formula - have to have tears, have to have conflict have to have a bride in distress and even to the bridal staff/hosts. it doesn't matter but there is always some flamboyant person and someone for them to play off with banter. A tale as old as time.
and use moisturizer.... those wrinkles are DEEP, but a proper moisturizer would help a lot.... and if not that, then Botox.... and less suntanning, it does nothing good for the mom....
Maybe she's had a hard life. There could be a good reason why the father looks like he hasn't. I would not judge this family without knowing much more.
She needs to let go of the misery for the sake of her face? Or perhaps for the sake of her happiness and the people around her, that seems more important to me...
Perfect example or narcissistic parenting. "My dress is better" "Sorry she's crying" "your body isnt fit for that dress" its constant gaslighting to get what the narcissist wants with no regard for anyone else. I'm so happy she was able to push past that toxicity
Her saying that mean comment when everyone including the BRIDE was having her wedding dress moment was a solid proof that she's a narcissist. As a narc's child, I can confirm that. That mean mama wants everything to be abt her and her opinions to be Prioritized
So true I think she let her daughter have the dress because when Lori says "let's jack her up" she knew she lost that battle and just gave a happy face at the end.
"I spent the past 20 years trying to please her [mom] and now it's time to please myself." That sentence hits home for so many people. Glad she stood up for herself and decided to make herself happy for her big day, instead of trying to appease an emotionally abusive and narcissistic person.
OMG!, I can't believe there is another Mom as callous as mine! I thought was in a flashback of my Mom and Dad (also divorced) when I got married. I'M A DADDY'S GIRL,FROM THE HEART! He was my Best Friend, and the Only one who Loved me Unconditionally, that I measured all other men by!! Mom Hated me for it, and told me so! When Dad died, Mom said to me, "Now you have nobody to love." Mom is almost 90, and I'm a grandmother myself now, and Still, though I was, and raised 3 successful daughters, I will never be nothing in her eyes. (told me that too) We don't get to choose our parents. Don't ever lose that relationship with your Dad, it will carry you through a lifetime! Love Mom too, best as you can, because though they act tough, they are miserable and hurting inside. God Bless
She’s just a tad bit tiny but that’s not a bad thing, she’s petite and cute and she looked lovely in the first dress. She’s not necessarily “bony”, that was mean. A cute pearl necklace and some matching earrings would complete her look.
Yes Strange l did notice , they both gang against her too, , it is hard to judge in so short a time , but the Daddy,s girl term disturb me , it was ovious but did not needed to be said .!
@@raffaellavitiello1762 i agree it's not nice to hear that as a mother but you can't complain or act surprised when you're often the negative one and dad is the calm and kind one
@@raffaellavitiello1762 She said that to shade the mom. Basically she said that she was close with the dad, not with the mom. That dad's opinion matter, unlike mom's.
I think the mom may have become very bitter with a little girl always siding with dad all the time and then growing up and still being disrespectful to mom. Those who Have kids know that girl is not respected to her mother.
