Starting to think that is the best, my ex broke up with me about 6 weeks ago, been NC for 5 week, the longer it goes, the less I want him back. He did not break up with me because I was the only problem, he broke up mainly because he couldn't live up to the promises he made and ofc I became too pushy since he barely lifted a finger to do it fast enough so he could not handle the pressure. I guess I dodged a bullet the more I think of it
Chris Seiter I treated her like a queen and she took that for granted and cheated. All her boyfriends after me treated her like shit and now she's realised how good I am. I don't think she deserves a chance really
We had I would say 4 years of awesome, then things started to slip in the last year, and he's been with his rebound for just over a year now. It's ok. This has given me an opportunity to do things I wouldn't normally do. Don't get me wrong, I even now, still miss him terribly. But I'm just moving forward with my life. If he doesn't want to come along with me, it's his loss.
I was with him for 2 years he broke up with me for jumping to conclusions n he messed up I been in no contact for 7 months he did a rebound n I haven't heard from him n I still miss him I just wish he missed me😢
Milagros Rodriguez my ex jumped into a rebound after 4 years of us . Had a badish break up . I begged and pleaded and yada . I believe the rebound she’s with is the person she cheated on me with . 🤷♂️ it’s life, they go on vacations together and such just like me and her did when we was first together . Mind you he’s an out of shape guy ( not her type at all )
I think if you realy look at the relationship before you broke up. All your ansers are there. And than ask yourself one question , do you really want that person back ,? ,You deserve beter especially if you were cheated on. Especially if you did all the efford, and expected to much , with bad reaction from there side . Move on dont look back . What is over is over otherwise they wouldve still be there in your life
Hi Petra...the past can be a predictor of the future, though all of us are capable of making meaningful changes if enough is on the line. Sometimes moving on is the right path.
hello i just was wondering me and my ex had a great relationship we never ever got into fights it just was easy for us however he has some internal issues and that’s what i think broke us up for the second time. i was wondering if my chances r pretty high then because we have such a great past relationship
HI Diana... I think so. I believe that past is correlated to one's prospects for the future, particularly if you have a sensible ex recovery plan. Visit my website as I have a lot of resources over there!
No I don't think he will come back been 7 months of no contact we was 2 years together he did a rebound so even though it hurts I don't think he will ever reach out he is prideful n he rarely changes his mind
@@chrisseitercoaching before my 8 months strong no contact I reached out 3 times a month in each he didn't replied those 3 times so I never reached out again plus he was the one who messed up n dumped me after
@@milagrosrodriguez4136 Please don't listen to Chris' advice. If he didn't reach out the first 3 times remain in no contact. Don't watch his stories. Unfollow him and block him on social media. He has your number. If he wants it, he'll reach you. Make him work for you and don't spill your feelings out. See where you went wrong and truly move on.
@@sciencedatingdude569 No I haven't reached out no more at all I unfriended him when things went down we not connected at all in social media like you said he has my number he knows how to contact me I didn't fucked up he did jumping to conclusions n shit its been a year idk about him got a job 2 months ago my mind n life its busy so I'm in a better place n feel better emotionally at least better than a year ago he blocked me long time ago since we had mutual friends I guess seeing me on his timeline with a new look and all something triggered him I guess haven't bothered him or will was hurtful the 3 times I reached out he never replied didn't want to go through that again I'm consitraiting on myself that's all I can do I finally accepted things n I just let it be his loss one day he will regret it or has who knows he will always know he fucked over a good woman .
Hey Chris! What does it mean if your ex is already sleeping around with other women after a breakup? Do people get over the relationship or person quicker after they have slept with other people? Will they forget their exes after??
Hi Vee, No they won't forget their exes but they are lessening the pain from the breakup temporarily. Some people experience more pain after sleeping around out of guilt some people don't. It's really a case by case situation but in all cases they don't forget their exes.
Hi Chris great content! Quick question, my ex broke up with me in April and got with a new guy relatively quick. They now seem happy and things moving fast. My ex recently lost a close family member that I knew well for the 4 years we were together and she told me she is finding it difficult at the moment to contact me due to this. I mentioned the being there method and said that I am always open to talk and listen if she needs it, however I never got a response to this and got blanked. I am now giving her the time and space again. Any suggestions?
My daughter waa in a relationship for nearly 2 ,years with a man with a child from a previous relationship, he wasnt married to, she loved him and his child alot, but ex from previous relationship the mother of the child was married with someone else, she loved and gave everything to him and his child , but he still cheated and broke of with her , after admitting he wasnt or dont want another child and not wanting to get married, after making her think that was what he wanted to have a future with her , she was devastated love him and his child .
Hi Petra! I am sorry that happened to your daughter. Time for her to focus on her healing and all the recovery activities that can help bring that about. I have tons of information on my website that points people in the right direction to achieve that.
We met on an app in 2019 New Year’s Eve we fell in love the second day texting and decided to be in a LDR we endured 6 months until summer breake came and we were able to meet in person for a week, then we had to go our separate ways then she wanted to see me in September so I went for a weekend and it all went down hill when I left, we got only to 3rd base we were each other´s first relationship but she got a new guy since October and hid it form me, telling me in November she had no feelings left for me, so I started my grieving process, and when I was on my feet we kept talking in December, and I was better so she asked me why I liked her so much and after telling her she just went quiet, almost like crying saying she still had feelings for me, then she spilled the beans about the guy how way far they had gone compared to us and even today I feel Ím just going to be a memory despite how much I love her still.
Hey Adrian! Love and compatibility almost always trumps money. And having an ex recovery plan improves your chances. Feel free to visit my website as I have a great deal of resources there to help you along the way.
Chris this open my eyes. I need to show him next few weeks that I have change. I am not jealous any more. I don't need to know everything what he doing If he going out with his friends. He Wang me back see that. He Jeep contact more me then others. Yesterday I didn't planned to metro him but he sent me message you can come show me what I needed to. Even that we had planned to this friday evening. Wednesday he asked me to shop. He wanted My opinion.
Chris, I need your advice. What to do when your ex broke up with you back in May but for the past 3 months you were still in a post relationship together, he tells you how much he loves you and how he’s going to give you a second chance these past months then out the blue he says “ my feelings aren’t the same for you anymore I want to be free and not feel bad for doing it as far as now that’s what I want”. What should I do? And what made him back track? We were together almost 2 years & he says I was one of the best loves he’s ever had.
Chris Seiter the cause of the breakup was I betrayed his trust, didn’t cheat, but I was in his Instagram. In a chat with him and our mutual friends I recorded their convo and sent it to someone and that person sent it to someone else and that person exposed them it was a big mess. But, the thing is he told me he’d give me a second chance when he was ready because he has cheated on me before and I gave him a chance. I started doing no contact but soon as I do he’ll pop up where I am and text me. But I’ve started over so I’m on day 2 of no contact. And no he told me he wanted to be single and free to do wat he wants without feeling bad for it
Hi Chris, my fiance' broke up with me around two months ago after a 9 year relationship. His reasons were that it didn't feel 'right' anymore and that he needs to find himself because our relationship has resulted in us becoming codependent on each other and losing our individuality. We stayed in contact after the break up and tried to stay friends but he felt that we are not going to be able to move on if we keep in contact. He still loves me and he told me he misses us but he doesn't see us getting back together, although he's keeping an open mind about the possibility that someday we might find our way back to each other again. I'm 26 and he's 25. What are my chances? And what should I do? Thanks
Go into an immediate no contact. Use social media to get his attention during no contact. Whenever he says he doesn't think you should get back together agree with him then talk about something else like it didn't bother you.
Fuck dude the exact same story is happening to me. But my exwife ask for divorce the day before New years and i just got served last night:/ but it broke me even more That right at the end she cheated on me with my enemy and now has something serious with him according to her:'(
hi Chris pm.how him bck to me after break up of him I trying to bothered him to talkie to be friend hi talk me but stell s angry at me then I said ho away aftèr inot reaply anymore hi txt me are you behaving yourself inot reaply him txt again then again txt again and hi said idont see any of you on here really what hi mean about pls can u explain me inot undetstand really
me and my ex dated for 2 months, honeymoon stage. nd we were engaged nd he announces to everyone about our engagement. then suddenly he started pulling out for 3 days, nd broke up with me .
Hi Ayah! Ouch, I know that hurts. Sometimes the partner can get scared and panic. But that is no excuse for that kind of behavior. Have you considered implementing no contact. Visit my website and learn all about it!
I understand Ayah...what you do is try to work around that circumstance if you are implementing no contact. In such cases, it becomes the limited contact principle. What matters is that you have an ex recovery strategy which encompasses a lot of things!
There was no fight , he just suddenly ended it bcs there was something he allegedly heard (i did NOTHING though, not when it comes to other men, i had zero contact with no other man so) but he did not want to answer why or even what he allegedly heard or ''knows'' about. Very weard to me...he did mention another reason too but that one was very obviously a excuse so. I already missed that part since i already told him while he broke up that he could always come back to me. Its not like people see these vids and know about stuff like this, before the breakup even happens. Telling us that this is a wrong move , gives us the info what we could change in the future ,but still (since a lot of people who watch this want to have theyr man/woman back) it cant take the CURRENT breakup back like we could try again like in a game.
I am on day 47 of no Contact. Have not broken once. Going on a solid period of 47 days. I'm at the reach out stage I marked on my calendar... I'm not ready to reach out as my ex is an avoidant attachment and I know 45 days for me may seem like only couple weeks to him so I have no clue how to go about it. He hasn't reached out at all... kept watching my instagram stories basically stalking then suddenly blocked me... I have no idea what to do lol.
I got a 67% chance i been with this guy for two years known him as friends for five years our relationship was good at first but he did things behind my back lies and cheating i always took him back regardless of everything there was a lot of fights but he stayed with me i was there for him through thick and thin but he said he was done and doesnt love me anymore. In the end he didnt wanna talk to me til he feels better right away i blocked him off of everything i havent talked to him in six months eventually within three months of our breakup he got a girlfriend and now his girlfriend is stalking me i blocked her two times. Please help!
What if your 5 month was great then a family member past away and one of your family member didn’t approve of him then after that he all of a sudden went away
I've been divorced now for over 5 years. I've never stopped loving him and wanting him back. He came back twice but ran back to the gal he hooked up with a week after we seperated. But now 3 years later shes left him but when I saw him a couple weeks ago he couldn't take his eyes off me but still I've heard nothing from him. He just sold his house And is moving outta state. So I fear I'll never hear or see him again. I don't have his phone number or email address so I have no way of contacting him. Can u please advice me on what to do...
All of my exes come back. Sometimes I wanted them to, sometimes it was scary and potentially dangerous. I love my most recent ex more than the rest combined... But he left me for a man and has ghosted me and blocked me on everything. He's done this before. He never says goodbye, never directly tells me why he's leaving (until months after the fact and we're getting back together. Never tells me that he's leaving!) Just doesn't come home. :( And that's what kills me inside. 😭😭😭 I'm not trying to ride a perpetual rollercoaster. I hope he does me the favor and doesn't come back this time. I feel abused.
@@carljohnson4128 What I did to him You must be joking.. He took my whole lifes savings then left and ghosted me completely. I loved him more then anyone could live another person and I treated him like a king. I know I did everything right But he was a good digger and as soon as he got all my money he left and ghosted me on everything. So until you know the whole story you should reframe from making c moments like that.
