Do Men ONLY Celebrate Our Features On Other Nationalities? | Ask a Black Woman Ep. 4 

Bellefleur i agree..but white men in corporate America control your physical image too!...But those blk women will change for the dollar bill

Thank you..I don't give two shyts what they think or want.I do what the phawk I want. I don't answer to black men. More black women would be happier if they thought like this..

+Senait Ashenafi Me too girl I can give two fucks how they perceive me cause I know who I am.

+Bianca Starks I do not like men with limp dicks how about that lol.....

Bellefleur me too girl, me too

danniel davis I agree

danniel davis realest comment on RU-vid!

danniel davis shit is real sad smh. All i ever dated were black women. The mother of my child is black. I could never diss em. I have sisters and homegirls too dope to even down. BUT i can filter the sistas who got bad energy who aint good for me. Aint nothin better than a black sista thats gorgeous. Respects herself. Respects Her people and has dope energy. THIS generation gotta get it together and stop letting social media blind them smh

D The Chemist Make sure you share those thoughts with lost black men to. Thanks in advance.

Its out there already. Youre welcome

TheNitaapplebaum Its true! Im glad i dont fit that bill. ..i love what i grew up with..Black women!

I love that. Agree 100%.

StrongnBeautiful thank you

Just an observation, but if a dude is saying something like this, I doubt the problem is with the features themselves. Sounds like they want the features of black women along with something else that they perceive white women have that black women don't.

How can Terry Crews represent all black men. That's ridiculous. Wth?

Timika Little it really is. If the fellas want women to be real, then they have to give the same.

😂😂😂

Timika Little “Look at Ne-Yo” LMAOO dead

Last guy I dated looked so good with his fitted on. When he took it off, his head had sharp corners.

No it is though😂😂😂😂

Godson AFRICANMACK'Nz Please don't misquote me. I was saying that, to me, that hit me deep. Like, is that really true?

No darling

That's just something that INSECURE people THINK.

Nicole Thomas This is true

BULLSHIT!

I like all women, but I want a black woman!!

Most Black men prefer african features on non-black women, what do you hink of those sorts of bm? its interesting that the ones who they prefer black women refuse to address that point

@MostEnigmatic And most leave black women.

Galva Tron get tf outta here lol 😂 as soon as a black man uplifts his women he’s a simp. 🖕that’s for you

Galva Tron all races can have hair extensions, acrylic nails and saggy tits after child birth or something. You sound like dumb asf . If you prefer snowbunnies then good for you, but keep your preferences to yourself if you need to talk down on another group of women to get your point across. Damn

Yep, married to a Queen, and has 3 Princes.

But it's a difference between us being creative and wearing our hair sometimes and maybe putting on a wig sometimes and other things but there are alot of our women who won't ever show their own natural hair. I'm thinking that's why some black men may have a problem.

tinkle mitchell I agree with you, but we also have to remember that we live in a society where European beauty is standard and celebrated and our natural beauty isn't as celebrated or accepted by our society. Black women in America have always had to assimilate into a white society with European beauty standards for hundreds of years. We have been going natural for years now, but it will take more than the natural hair movement to recondition our thoughts on our natural beauty. That's for Black men and women. We all have been conditioned to believe that we aren't beautiful enough and we as a people, not necessarily individuals look at whites and/or other races more beautiful than our own and it effects every generation again and again and again. Luckily more of us are starting to realize how truly beautiful we are. Luckily we are tired of the chemicals and weaves and are finally returning natural. We are finally embracing our Blackness more and more and telling society we don't care the standard, we are cut from a different cloth.

I totally agree. I think my issue is how some of the women in the video almost became angry when men comment on wanting them to wear their natural hair and not weaves all of the time. I'm just glad that our men are seeing beauty in our own hair. Sociey definitely plays a big part on a global level. My pray is that we continue to rise above it. My husband says he don't like weaves and wigs so guess what...I don't wear them lol.

tinkle mitchell Our hair is always a sensitive subject for us because we have always been chastised for it. Weave, permed, natural it's always some issue.

karen horton FRANNIE WAS ON POINTTTT ☝🏽

The only black men i know that do that, do it because they feel those women are easier or more desperate and they usually try to hide the deed.

what led you to think that?

@@judeokoye9466 Why do some men feel it is okay to body or face shame a woman after she has been good to him ??? Why aren't they aware that this will hurt her feelings or not care about this ?

Yes!😂

Kwane Jackson Yesss❤❤

I just love this discussion I just wish I was there...👏clap for yourselves, especially queen with the braids. huh hum first I would say, alot of black men are afraid of a black woman's power. Most black especially those from a fatherless home always looks for validation of what a 'real man' should look like, so they look at the celebrities-rappers etc and define themselves through that. Hence the celebrities are the ones who are controlled and also brainwashed and forget they do have the right to marry a black woman when they become successful. Most black male celebrities are tryna uphold a status and not look like the ghetto/struggle you came from when they should embrace it. Sadly a black woman seems to be too much of a reminder of that past and we are always seen as Something, angry instead of strong. I live in London and it is soo fashionable​ for the younger black guys to be with a kyle Jenner lookalike and I feel they are confused with their identity. I have no problem with people loving who they wanna love but I think black men need to love themselves first because their is a lot of deep rooted hatred going on. They need to show love and respect to the same cotton hair having mother whose womb you came from first and then give the black Queen what she deserves... a ring and some respect for the true miracle we are still waiting ready to love and support you all now. Just my 2 pence!

*Kwane Jackson* And THAT, Sir, is your right. I prefer non African features on lighter skin (but not TOO light). Isn't it great we all can choose?

Many if not most Black men prefer african features on non-black women

Dumoh Nandi Hey pretty lady. Why not say some black men. I'm a proud black man and I appreciate everything about my Nubian Queens. Not all of us think like that. Blessings

James Gibson instead of just latching onto that one typo why not address the actual issue.

Kingdom of Kongo more of an hottentot body is black women features. Don’t play dumb.

@ Lacienaga, are you trolling or are you being serious.....I really can't tell..

James Gibson about?

thatkidd jennifer i agree...me too. I say let them have black men.

Trey that's a lie

and I'm sure black men can will be just fine with you dating other races of Men.

thatkidd jennifer p

Sometimes some women just attract a certain type of guy in their region area culture. I thing the problem is many women get chosen and don't choose. When you choose you strike up a conversation you can vet people out. The other thing is so many women don't vet they get something and they just automatically just accept it. You should talk to a guy know what you are accepting of and not and if you know that that person does not fit who you, know who you are, if you are honest with who you are and what you will and will not accept, then throw the fish back in, stop entertaining or trying to make a bad puzzle piece work because it is not for you. 2 men out of a pool of millions does not count as "I have always had a bad experience with.... type of men" Now if you have date overs 20, in different regions towns countries then I might give you the ok I get it. dating does not mean screwing every dude either. I have talked to guys and knew within 2 days Naw, I am good that is not for me. You have to vet a person, because looks does not mean a perfect fit and just because someone is nice does not mean they are nice for you.

Bianca Starks what stereotypes 🤔

Bianca Starks Yes!! Ugh my ex boyfriend would, for instant if I did not like something, say "but women like that" and its like dude I feel like we've been together for 2 years, by now you should know i'm my own person. And he would do this constantly. Used to drive me up the damn wall.

Because most of them are DUMB. And the women who listen to them yap about what THEY should do to their own damn hair are even DUMBER.

They do that because most of them are weak emotionally and can't get over what some bytch did to them in Middle school like the woman in the video said. They're like children that NEVER grow up.

+Senait Ashenafi So true man up bitch! Let the past stay in the past....

my secret Lol No. Asian women regularly date outside their race. Its only the FOBs who marry their own due to citizenship/ Green card. But you hardly see Asian men crying about it.

dee jay EXACTLY!!!! Black woman need deep therapy to fix there wounds!! These topics never come up in the Asian community, Hispanic, White, ETC.

Tyler Davidson They cry about it on reddit, 4chan and everywhere else

Just because women talk about their experiences doesn’t mean they are looking for shallow men or they are wounded. I could tell u countless of situations. U gotta be open minded to conversations and not dismiss ppl. Especially if u aren’t that race and or gender to experience those things. Ppl don’t just collectively pull shit out of their ass.

Black women are black man haters and doesn't value us anyways. So black men will continue to date interracially. I don't recalled not hearing no other races of women slandered their own men

I though you were Yuna for a seconds..

No its long enough

Life Manager yeah, no need to extend this, just make more portions with individual topics.

Nia Lee with a different host as well

@@rmanney100 What's wrong with the host?? i mean i did have my problems too but didn't think that yet!.. so what is it??

Tonia Holmes Truth

Preach

Michael Ealy do not want you Michael Ealy have a white woman he's married to a white woman so do not think he's going to be out there cat calling you if he can't call anybody he's going to cut call of white woman so don't even mention his name

Weave is nasty

Kind of off topic, but the second sentence of your comment makes me want soft pretzels lol.

you can say that all you want but its hurtful when your own race tells you you're not good enough when they look just like you

@@praisekelly2537 it’s about weight and attitude not looks

Natasha N I agree some people get up in arms about weave. Yes, you are an adult and can wear whatever hairstyle you want but, let’s talk about why we are so dependent on weave. You can straighten natural hair, braid it or place it in a bun. Our hair is truly unique. Weave is a crutch for a lot of people. Just my opinion.

Natasha N Because its been discussed to death as a insult when other races weave it up.

Agrees

Not the same black women are coping other races hair texture that is not there own. Other races your extensions to add volume and length that mimics their hair texture. Don't play dumb. That is a false equivalency. Black women don't like their hair. FACT

I have to agree with Jaykan. When she said "it's an artform", I called BS right there. All women, despite their cultures, like to do different things with their hair.

herFLYness79 I thought the exact same thing. Even before we get jobs our hair is an issue. We have an awareness that it can stop us from accessing certain opportunities, so we change it. That's also something that could have been acknowledged. Not everything black women do is dictated by black men.

Gayle Welch it's also more convenient. When you have a lot of hair, such as myself, it's quicker and easier to change up a style with a wig or extensions.

Start businesses work together then you don't have to worry about someone telling you to perm straighten or weave your hair..you can wear it the way it grows out your scalp. Best answer I thimk.

Change your job.

But awesome black women we have to respect ourselves first we have to know how to speak to people we have to know how to speak softly to people and I notice that sometime if a woman does speak softly people get annoyed because they can say oh we can't hear you they are used to black women being loud and boisterous and rough and hard I'm a very feminine woman I don't like to be spoke to in a lot loud fashion loud women and it's so uncomfortable that I stopped going out with some of these women I like to have a nice dinner even if it's pizza and a soda and we all sit down and speak not all at one time

Mixed is really pretty.

Thank you!!!! I was looking for someone who thinks the same.

@Sjanae90 That's just a minority of men, for the most part men will grow beards naturally.

@Sjanae90 Even though there are plenty of videos about fake beards, the majority of men who have a beard have it naturally.

Men wear toupee's bald ect... …Women have been creative in Africa and other with all that they find creative in this teaching, learning and creative platform (earth) material of body, hair, skin ect... are borrowed in this realm...Huge deal along with other followers of the critical analysis of WHAT should be accepted and what is not. i.e. Car pollution and air we breathe DO NOT GO TOGETHER!!!! Are you worried there at all mmm? .Just because one shade of women decides to do something different in creation does not mean it should be casted out. It is ok not to understand something...However the level of ignorance among people against melanated women is dramatic and seriously karmic amongst those who do! Equal opportunity!!!

@Mira M primarily, it’s the different colors and having to take parts of yourself off when at home. This preference can be extended to obtrusive eye lashes and nails. At a certain age, it’s too much for men to be attracted to. It’s akin to a man wearing a white t everywhere or sneakers.

ModestlyNique M HELL YEAH💓

Black Women are definitely beautiful! 😘😍❤️👌🏽

how odd and yet only 30% ever get a marriage proposal. why do i never see a black woman on what appears to be a date in a nice restaurant or club?

@@marilynwillett804 I said what I said! Girl Bye! 😏

Lmao

Huh?

They’re the 70% that’ll never get married

@@jbb8261 Getting married is not everything. Whenever a woman goes missing. Look to the husband to find who killed her. Married men cheat, so many married people wish they were single.

@@misss7758 some of y’all only focus on the negative and it’s truly tragic. I hope you get help. Let’s not ignore the fact that wives also murder their husbands and in some cases their children. Save that manhating for someone who doesn’t do their crime statistics research.

Monica M Frannie came with a loaded gun and she fired those shots. She spoke nothing but the truth.

It's called PTSD.

It's all good homie. It is ALL GOOOD. 🙌

BootyWarrior007 well at least you know😂😂😂😂😂

Bdynamite 😆

Why not just get a baldy

willemdee he thinks he's ugly deep down..or pretty BLK women pay him no mind

willemdee 😉thanks for standing up for your sisters, we appreciate it💕

willemdee. thanks for standing up

Why are you hating on a guy whose exacting his right to date whoever the fuck he wants too?? Same Lib-tards who don't practice what they preach, everyone should have the right to do what they want.. Oh wait but a brotha wants to date a white chick. OH HELL NO..... STOP IT... I hate Hypocrites...

@armst lmao I’m far from liberal, and we get into arguments because he constantly crticizes/attacks black women. It’s unnecessary in most cases and I could care less who he dates, his preference doesn’t bother me and if it did I wouldn’t consider him a friend.

What conversations?

@@Brianna-nc3og relationships between man and woman and life in general

@@cor3yr3yslimjim93 specific conversations? Or in general? Im Just trying to understand.

ain't no one want u bucktooth ass nigga

Mschelcee TV what's wrong with being single?

forever young nothing wrong with being single however it doesn’t give you diverse opinions. When they did Ask A Black Man some were single, in a relationship or married. It further perpetuates the angry black woman stereotype of all single black women. I would have hoped to see better casting from MN.

Mschelcee TV oh yeah. I get it now. Yh they should cast single, married and even divorced folks too.

Mschelcee TV so if you're single you're angry?

slimballa93 that's the stereotype for black girls unfortunately. It's fine for every other race to be single and never even marry.

WHY DIDN'T YOU SMACK THE SHIT OUTTA HIM WTF ..... I'M SO SORRY THAT HAPPENED TO YOU

queban11 curvaceous

@Galva Tron lies they shape less

Galva Tron u know u lying stfu

Galva Tron maybe u should go to africs

@Love Always I'm intrigued about the word swag. Can you explain it to me?

Nadia Buckmire thank you

What is african hair tho? I'm more genetically african than the average black american yet my hair couldn't be in an afro no matter how hard I tried.

Hair is hair if sis want straight hair she can have it. I go back and forth from different styles because that’s what I like to do. I mostly wear my natural hair but sometimes I’ll straighten it just for a different look. I don’t see the problem with that.

Watch Home Teams video on history of black hair. We have all textures without being mixed. Side note. Most blacks are the aboriginals/native Americans. White history is a lie. All slaves did I not come from Africa.

Your comment makes so much sense !! I hope a lot of women outhere read your comment , because it's true !! I'm sure that many men would like to see their girfriend or wife with their natural hair , but are afraid they might hurt their feelings .

Khemistry IBMOR yep black women don't change

Neither do black men since we're still talking about it

I'll tell you what does change! Grape prices. Green grapes, red grapes, seedless grapes, little baby grapes for jams and jellies. These grapes are going up and up and up! My grape bills are through the roof!

@@claresej.2573 In my 40 years of living, I've seen many men change in order to be what women prefer.

rgw1380rw that may be so but in this generation it's a whole 'nother ball game. I mean I lucked up to find an all around good guy but most of these dudes ain't changing

Sadly, yes. It stems from an unnecessary need for competition and internalized misogyny.

You are going backwards.

Don't worry everybody gets old. It's a part of life. If I had been aware of how BM really feel about us, I would've waited till 50 to get married. That's when being with someone really counts. Men don't appreciate woman until their old.

The wall is undefeated

legalmemories it’s not annoying to me it’s just the disrespectful ones who grab on you, hiss at you, and say “ayo redbone that dat ass is fat“ like I hate being called redbone, it doesn’t even sound nice.

Lami Onifade bohoo

thehoneyeffect haaaa 😂

thehoneyeffect Exactly! Ealy and black brotherhood should NOT be in same sentence

Ealy is married with two kid's. None of these women are married and have a low chance of getting down the aisle. The big girl voice deep as fcuk. And period she not attractive whether she's black or you put her body on another race of woman. I'm not in the greatest Shape but I hit the gym 3 day's a week. In the end these women are single and although some. Are physically attractive, some if at their age are about to hit the WALL.

i see black men of every class with fat white women all the time so with respect what you have said is balderdash.

@@SpaceCWB0y2u the girl on the end looks closer to our ancestors facially with not enough admixture showing through her features that's your real problem

Lyric Poet Yes, I believe this is solely based on relationships. Not sure if you are new to the channel but ask a black men was centred around the similar topics.

how can someone's perception of beauty be delusional? What are you talking about.

+Senait Ashenafi exactly

Bianca Starks Bs, no man is forcing you to do anything with yourself for beauty, if you look good then you look good.

All men have a very "unrealistic" perception of beauty. Not just black men.

brittany s but black men don't hold women to these standards, you see black men dating all different types of women of different shapes and sizes.

Can't believe 12 people co-signed this ignorant comment... lol! Outside of Chicago, dreadlocks are rarely seen, and in the Caribbean, those dreads are mostly authentic hair... lol! But I guess if 2% of Black men do something, then those are stats worth mentioning huh? GTFOH!!!

So calling it rare is an exaggeration. Yet... you have no evidence other than your word. Sis if I say I KNOW plenty of black women who have a foul odor between their legs you would question,.. what kind women am I hanging around!

Arrell Ehn locs are popular all over the south. You need to get out more.

+Arrell Ehn You already know it's futile pointing out the sheer stupidity in some of these comments in defense of "ghetto sistas". WE already know that for the most part, we black men rock our "natural look". Every culture has its fades, but with many black women, weave has been around for decades & there's actually females on the news who robbed/stole weave from stores. I've seen females jealous of guys with long hair and/or dreads because their hair won't grow like that.

+Arrell Ehn Actually it's not too far off from being factual. Most guys don't have dreads in their hair. I'm a male & I nor my male family members have any type of braided hair. The most I've ever had was cornrows back in the early 2000's. You can watch tv shows or even the news to see how many black men have their hair braided in any type of way. The thing a lot of younger black males are doing is the whole Odell Beckham Jr hairstyle.

real_abiola right..... I couldn't figure out where the connection between a beard that grows naturally on someone's face and a weave O.o

Men are getting their beards and hairlines filled in when they won't grow or grow in patchy. There are whole beard lace fronts. And some of those same men who love their own fake hair turn around and criticize black women for weaves. That's how they are alike.

real_abiola right I hate when women say that it’s so delusional ! Black woken be honest about our issues with hair

Aish The theme today is honesty and I’m realizing that a lot of women, notably black women aren’t honest. That beard analogy still baffles my mind.

Aish I just caught something that they said. One of the women said that black women celebrate their hair and like to switch up their hair. But I’m actually they are just covering up their own hair with a weave aka hair hat.

Yes!

@@godbear2930 stfu.

Olga stfu Hypocrite

@Miss Le Blanc it absolutely does matter. Mutual respect, validation, connection and attraction are all fundamental in a good community for people to feel included and wanting to invest in a society that invested in them (financially, emotionally etc). Black people not loving the other sex within the same race is the beginning of the end for the community. Of course people love who they want, I'd be a huge hypocrite for saying the opposite, but it doesn't change the fact that logically you can't have black children on the long run if every generation of black people avoid each other. They're gonna mix until the black disappears. If it happens, it happens, but I'm just saying. People will in a way always care about belonging in a community, and romantic attraction is one of the most powerful bonding links and validation one could give to someone else

You missed the point sis but you're not wrong. ❤️

Lilly N. + I LUV YOU TOO BOO❤️🖤💚✊🏽✊🏽👸🏽🤴🏾

😂😂

self hate is just a shaming tactic, the truth is you can't compete on a free dating market so you want to limit black men into only dating you.

Hey Stopthat you lying.

I think what it is, a lot of black women bash black men where other race worship us.

@@DukeSaragono worship and fetish are 2 different things, because a lot of times that's what it is, they want the "Mandingo"

The other real truth is that. The black man wants to wake up every morning as a white man and live his life. Not all black men... but

+Jessica Dickson Excuse me I don't have to late anything go cause this is RU-vid I'm allowed to voice my opinion aunty. And as for getting laid speak for your damn self.

+Jessica Dickson Why does a woman have to be angry when she's voicing her opinion in a aggressive way? You really need to check yourself.

+Bianca Starks It's not anger sweetie it's passion!

or maybe those "flaws" are just unattractive?

Women- "If you don't like the fucked up things I say/ do, you are intimidated by me."

Chadene Mbouogno single means not married.

Bianca Lord exactly. If u don't have a ring or a marriage certificate, you are single.

I mean.. a black married woman is black before anything else so I don’t see how her feelings towards topics like these would really change the game.

uniquejrny I'm glad you said that. That man is out here living his best life and you're going to critique something he has no control over. That attitude is not cute 😐

Facts, I hate having real convos with ppl who feel the need to put others down. I bet she probably was joking but this the wrong comment to make in this type of forum.

Exactly. Why should he get shrapnel. He out there minding his business and making good music and here she come with that BS. She sounds like a bitter woman.

But they say, BW never check other BW on their bs... We do it often, actually. @nayvidss your comment was a perfect example! Sis is gorgeous, and she def didn't need to go there.

Why they hating. It's not like he puts fake stuff to hide his natural features

Great point!

I know this is 11 months ago but he's giving them questions and they are answering them. It's a interview of what black women think of black men not what they think about their self