Are Black Women Jealous of White Women (Extended Cut) 

There's nothing wrong with black men dating outside their race, it makes no sense for a black women to be jealous of this however if the intention of the "black men dating white women" is because of their negative perception of black women then thats a problem.

To be honest it was so great to see them laughing all together no matter what's their skin color, they seemed like they truly understood each other's opinions on dating.

Omg the black woman in the middle with the twists is gorgeous i love her style

White men and Asian women is definitely the biggest interracial couple lol

I am a 17 year old girl, I feel hurt that people think that all black women are like this. I understand that people prefer different things, but i still find it hurtful to know that even black men don't want us. I feel that people look at us and automatically think that we are all the same. Black men and black women BOTH have flaws. I know that black women are sometimes rude, mean, and disrespectful, but you can not say that all black women are like this, there are some that can be sweet. Looking at these types of videos upset me and I know I should be outside playing with my friends, but I want to know why so many people don't like us. I feel as when I grow up to be a women, no one will love me because I am black. I know that some will say it's the way we style are hair or the way that we talk. I want to know real reasons why people don't like us, skip the stupid reasons. I am open to everyone opinion. I know that some will hate this comment but I feel that my voice need to be heard. I am speaking for young black teenagers (mostly girls) who might feel the same way I do. Please black men and women, can you guys just love each other. you don't have to marry each other but at least love one another.

nope. What would we have to be jealous of? Honestly.

It's so simple. Black guys don't want to put up with all the attitude and drama from black women.

Im a black man and i say black women are gorgeous. They are the treasure of the earth. They have nothing to be jealous about.

What I have noticed. Is that the type of Black Woman that the guys date are not attracted to that type of Black Man, but those Black Man need to change the type of Black Woman they are attracted to there is a Black Woman that would want you. Same goes Vice versa. I am sick people stating they date outside of because their own race is [insert negative comment here]. You haven't dated all women or men of your race and not everyone is the same. Date who you want but don't base it on Race.

I don't think Black Women are jealous of White Women - we aren't (well at least I'm not). We're more annoyed at the fact that we get stereotyped and prejudged by black men. We constantly have to hear degrading comments about Black Women from Black Men, as if we don't belong to the same race. It doesn't matter what type of White Woman they could be dating, they'll put her on a pedestal. They'll buy her flowers and take her on dates, whereas with a black woman, they'll just want to 'chill' (get drunk and high and fuck). I don't care if the female is white, it's more so the Black Man's motives. Some Black Men will intentionally date a White Woman to provoke Black Women. If that is the case, then we're better off without those type of men. There are plenty of other black men (and plenty of other races of men worldwide) for us to be focused on this minority

THAT was an awesome, open, authentic conversation...and I enjoyed it immensely...Thank you!

Great conversation! Thanks for posting.

Bottom line is the most beautiful woman wins no matter what race.

the problem is the fact that people are judging you by race when your dating someone different from you, when no one thinks about the person them self. not every white women is easy and not every black woman is difficult. loving someone should never be based your your race, whether black, white or purple. just be happy.😊

This was a lovely sit down. Great video!

Thanks for such a kind and open conversation!

I appreciated and enjoyed this conversation

I like girls period.I don't care what race she is, as long as she is a good person and has a good personally, i would be attracted to her. The last thing I would think about is race.

THIS WAS AMAZING and right om time!

This was so good. Thank you ladies for being so open and honest with each other.

I really loved the discussion though. New subscriber.

If only all difficult conversations could happen with such understanding and commaraderie. This video is great !

I appreciate this dialogue!! Each person is listening to understand and the responses are respectful.

I love the fact this is a discussion , good energy ⚡️

I'm not sure if I believe this, because black guys still like black woman, in general. Yes there are some that don't like black woman, and had some bad experiences, but I don't think that's the majority. Also think about it, why is black relationships even a topic, when white relationships aren't, neither are Asian or Latino or Middle Eastern. Just specifically black relationships, movies about black and white relations, specifically focused on the black side. For example 'Something new' (White male Black female) was specifically focused around the black woman's family. The other movie 'Guess Who' (White male Black female) specifically focus on the black woman's family. And both of these movies are specifically black female and white male relationship, and not the other way around. There have been many t.v. shows with specifically black females and white males, and not as much with the other way around. There's no nationally broadcast debate on white relationships, and why white women are all of the sudden dating black men. This topic is specifically focus on black men. How many years has this topic been around, at least 30+ years. This is literally propaganda. It's best to just live your life turn off media, stop believing everything you hear, turn off the television, magazines, and music videos, and marry someone you love. For there personality and character and their positive attributes not their color. STOP letting media brainwash you!

interesting dialogue thanks for the upload

This was an excellent forum. I enjoy this video.

wow, I LOVE this. so glad I found you ladies.. new to RU-vid and I've been exploring and I'm just so happy I bumped into this video!

So the black chick used a nick cannon reference as him having money but no swagger then says hes a cornball....then the white chick says she'd date a cornball And thats the problem right there

Black women are exotic too. Anything different from your race is exotic.

This chat was awesome!!

Great panel and discussiom

i love this, because growing up my parent never taught me see color, only culture. simple because our family is so diverse. many of my friends never could understand why i was so open to dating all kinds of people despite them race.

The one thing I was waiting to hear someone speak on is how many of the very Black men that say they will not date Black Women, will scoff at a Black Women dating a White Man. HOW?? It happens way too often.

Love the discussion

This was very well done

People. Masculine men like feminine women... it's actually not that complicated. It's pretty simple

I appreciate watching a video on the issue of race where people speak calmly among each other. Being a black women I honestly do not care if a black man is with someone outside of his race. I'm not going to be angry at a black man for not wanting me because there are many other black men who want me and find me attractive. I honestly as a whole don't believe black men don't want black women. I think black men love black women. However, many of us and I've been guilty of it as well, choose to notice the ones who don't date black women .

excellent video ladies! God bless.

We need more of this yass!! 😍

I'm black...I like the smart, sweet , nice, goofy guys that are down to earth

I think this is a good opening conversation to acceptance and seeing each other's perspective and point of views. this will help us come together as a community as humans of diversity

I love this dialogue, it's so honest! This is what will change the world!

This was amazing

Simple answer: Yes!

Oh btw this should be a tv show that everyone can really get to know, understand, and have an open discussion on the diversity of all women.

And you guys rock the way you are handling yourselves. Way to go ladies! 🙂

Good discussion. Chill ladies.

I get treated indifferently or have gotten looks from some black women when my partner and I go out in public together. The funny thing is I'm actually Latin, I just look white. People need to deal with their own insecurities and stop deflecting their BS onto others that's all. His dating choice isn't a personal attack to the black community. It is what it is. He has dated Black women, White women and Latin women in the past. He just happens to be with me right now. Don't make assumptions when you see an interracial couple. But I do understand what the lady was saying how some Black men would make ignorant comments to justify why they wouldn't personally date Black women. I myself have heard some men say things like that but please don't assume every Black man is the same and don't treat light skinned women as if we're stealing your men.

lol, black guy here. I married a black woman. not because she is black, but because she is a sweetheart and is my best friend. I went to a hbcu, I grew up in baltimore but honestly, had I not met my wife, I probably would have married outside my race. in my experience, I have had tons of bad relationships, friendships and flings with sisters who are all over the place. so here is an honest assessment of why quality black men explore all options for marriages from all races: 1. a high percentage of the black woman I dated were single mothers, some times with multiple kids from multiple guys. there are times where she could have been a widow or had to leave because of danger. either way, taking on a woman with kids is a major commitment that not everyone wants to do. 2. the black girl checklist. I have had some many sisters at my former hbcu tell me the guy she marries needs to have a 4 year degree, not just any degree, it has to be a solid- engineering, science or a MBA, because history, math, and music don't make enough money. also, his credit most be on point at least a 700. needs to have a car and place of his own. this list could go on. 3. I won't settle. this one is the funniest because the word settle goes with the checklist! he has to fulfill these things our he isn't good enough. because.... 4. I DESERVE THIS. true, you shouldn't date a bum, but you are measuring this guy by his stats not his personality. 5. closed mindedness. travel, no. passport, no, water, no, mountain climb, no, try different foods, no, go to sporting event, no. It was like pulling teeth to get them to leave their comfort zone. 6. attitude. man, I have a saying, I don't leave work to go home to a harder job. I don't need a woman yelling at me about small Petty things. I need a woman who is loving and caring and supportive. I don't need a boss at home. the reason why my wife and I work so well is because we are very much partners and there's times where she's in charge and there's times when I'm in charge. this is Aliens 2 sisters who think they have to be loud and mean to be strong. 7. you want me to be soft in and weak. this isn't true I have spent many years helping my wife become a VP of a bank at the cost of my own career but because I love her we make it work. we both have to be humble and a lot of the women I met we're not. 8. many of the sisters I grew up with wanted flashy guys. Karma. guys that made them look good. now that me and my friends all married , they complain on Facebook they can't find good guys. finding love can be a once-in-a-lifetime opportunity. now I look online and see a lot of my ex's with decent jobs a baby in hand but no man. bottom line to all of this is if you want to be loved, you have to be lovable. if you are nice and sweet , a good guy will find you or you'll find him 1st.

great video!

This is amazing

Dont know how people can entirely watch a debate like this, it so hurtful to me, watchin black sisters so desperate. And they got to open themselves in front of their "rivals" ... Gosh... When did we get this low

Jealous of their privilege, yes! Other then that NO.

Great talk.

This is soooooooooooooooooo beautifully entertaining !

I as a latino love black women and believe them to be beautiful, and most of my relationships have been with black women. I do have love my latina women as well but I have more of a preference for a black woman, the only thing that I don't like how other races view latinas as sexual fantasies and seductive desires.

Such a touchy subject, hats off to all these beautiful and intelligent women who can sit down and converse and even relate to one another despite cultural differences. The angry "i'm proud this, and im superior that" nonsense gets old, and is ritualistic of of people who are consistently insecure about the world around them. Despite some popular opinions, dating outside of your race is a right reserved by everyone on the planet. However insecurities, hatred and undeviated cultural customs seem to put a clamp on this right. People who let ignorance define them, who let the hurt and the pains of their lives try to provide a social template and go about to think they have the divine authority to define the world as they see fit, even in something seemingly minute as "people shouldn't date outside their race". Bullshit. People are entitled to their opinion, however the moment that opinion manifests in some verbal or physical form to contradict any life style decision anyone makes is the moment you've over stepped your bounds, and to those who are in interracial relationships and to those who aren't; alot of the times when you're in a new situation in society you have to innately teach people that diversity in america is a right and to show that tolerance, diversity open-mindedness and love are superior in all aspects to ignorance hatred and stupidity...one kiss, handshake, hug and conversation at a time.

Great videos I enjoy watching you guys vds

Very interesting, good camera work, audio needs a lot of work but you are in the right track :)

They'll say no. But... You know. 😂😂😂

The music is too loud and makes it hard to hear the conversation.

this was amazin.

Its good to see these women sitting down talking about the stereotypes without going into a brawl. Rarely do you see these discussions like this without it getting out of control.

This is where the conversation flopped 14:05 So she admits there are black men that she doesn't date, the "cornballs". So these black men date out, but you have a problem with that....

I don't understand why it's always assumed that we are jealous bc they date black men. Many of the men I've seen the women with where I live aren't guys that I'd even be attracted to. But often I find when I see these couples the white woman or black man has to go out of their way to let people know their together. It's like they are boosting each other's egos for acceptance or smthn. I do like the content of this video and the interaction.

`That was a very nice and fun conversaion. I loved it. :)

that was a good discussion

Black people can be cool, cornball, and awkward..seperately or all at the same time. lol

I'm only 16 and far from jealous. I love my hair, it's extremely versatile and the bigger the better, full lips, and beautiful skin so when I go out to embrace the sun rays made by God I don't burn to death like a vampire and proud of my black culture and what we have created

i enjoyed every moment of this 🌹🌲

Love the content queen

Although most will never admit it, the sad reality is that the short answer is yes. The conditioning is very real and transcends generations viscerally.

We just all need to grow together and be comfortable in our own skin. If the media didn't have so much stereotypes of people it would be better for us.

I love this topic

I'm from Brazil and this videos are very intresting I would've never thought about this things!!!

Shit, nowadays just be glad a man is bringing home a WOMAN. 😐

Just from the title it proves that black women are forever made to be the jealous ones or the spiteful ones. When in reality a lot of black women are not jealous of white women. We have beauty, grace, and soul.

good stuff.

Glad they could have a civil conversation about the subject

Idk if it's just me but where I'm from I don't see a lot of black men with white women . I see way more black men either sticking to their queens or dating Latinas like myself .

Yes and I’m a white man it’s so obvious black woman copy our beautiful queens

They are funny/ I love their conversation :-)

This was beautiful. Straight to the point. All the questions i have been asking myself....as a so called "black" woman. I forgot why i loved myself because of all the hate when they whole time....all the "haters" just never knew how to express themselves. So its whatever. Beautiful convo....though an interesting question to the "white" women.... "Do you guys not feel any type of way dating a "black" man? With all these negative stereotypes suposedly going around....like what exactly is your mind state?" Im just curious. No hate, its all love. Peace ;)

I don't even look at race when I date someone, so this whole conversation is not applicable to this black guy.

Not jealous of white women just dissatisfied and disappointed in the black men and there lack of support of us. We need uplifting especially since we share the same struggles we don’t need you to give up on all of us because you had a bad high school experience etc

Thank you...I try my best...Have a good one...

I love the honest dialogue between these young women on this sensitive and difficult topic. If you read or watch the "Independent Black Woman" It can give some insight into the men's perspective and some outside causes.

This is really stupid. No one should be ma's at anyone who is dating outside their race. If it's true love you shouldn't be jealous or hurt. To me that's stupid asf

If you find love embrace it. Love knows no skin colour.

these are the conversations we need to be having no censors I think it helpsbring us together

Need more of these mixed panels on the hard topics

Picture this: A black woman being really nice to a black man. I know..... Sounds crazy right? That happened back in the year 199 ...never?

Black women and White women have VERY different perspectives and experiences in regards to race, so I'm not sure of the point/purpose of this video other than to prove just that.

Loving the way these women are talking about race and relationships so tastefully!.. And can laugh and have fun with the discussion.

I really love this channel, and as a college student in hopes of eventually moving forward in the corporate world, I think it's interesting to see what you all have to say and how it effects each of you. I hope you guys can do a panel with college students (men and women) soon!

As a BM I would love to date a BW, & If a BM that most BW don't like is dating a WW then he have just learn to accept another culture that values him when he is rejected by his own BW. OMG why Why Why do BW think that a BM loving a WW equate to him hating his mother, he may just love only the women that loves him, no matter if she is a BW or a WW.

none of these women are being honest.

I always loved seeing different races smiling together genuinely

What a great group of women!!