DO NOT Cherish Every Moment 

"fighting over air" I got a funny story. Two of my siblings were fighting over "money" so my mom called them into the living room bc she was going to take it so they could settle down. They handed her imaginary money. They were fighting over imaginary air money

I remember the exact moment I knew I was a "mom". My 6 year old was so sick and she was trying to call for me and vomit at the same time (she sounded like donald duck). I picked up her, slipped in the vomit and the only thing on my mind was is she going to be ok? Didn't care about the mess, the bedding, the smell, the laundry. I didn't cherish the mess or the sickness, but I do remember the eureka moment of thinking "I got this".

I have been a childcare provider for over 25 years. I have helped raise countless children. I was never able to have my own, but I can tell you how fast it goes, and those memories stay forever. Many moments that were mundane are now treasured memories. Feel what you feel in the moment and trust that the truly valuable moments will stay with you forever. Just trust your future self to hold on to what memories are important.

I watch all your videos to get a better understanding for when I do become a parent. Between you and tori you've given me more information than I had in the 18 years I lived with my parents. I want to break the cycle and not yell for small things, and I know I'm not going to be perfect, but I will try my best to not make my child feel like they're the problem. I'm so thankful I can watch your content to get a better understanding on how to raise nice humans. What you're doing is so helpful for a generation of new parents and I want you to know that you've changed my perspective on how I will raise my children❤

I agree with this 💯. When I hear people tell young parents to enjoy every moment cause it goes so fast, I always cringe a little bit. I've seen parents who spend way too much time trying to capture every minute of their kids' childhood and make every minute photo perfect, that they forget to enjoy the journey. Ive seen parents who are so affraid to let their kids grow up and be independent that they raise kids who have not grown up to be responsible adults. My kids are grown now, and I can honestly say I have enjoyed every minute of motherhood, but being a grandma is hard to top!

“To that I say… *no* *absolutely* *not.* “

I’ve always said each stage has its blessings. My kids are adults, 1 is married. Done fear the kids growing up. This stage is of equal joy & blessing!

60ish days from being a human mom, mom to 3 cats. I was in a 2 year long distance relationship with my now husband. I would leave his hair in my shower drain for about 2 weeks after he visited me. Yes, that's kind of gross, but it was a sign that he was here, that he isn't just a voice on the phone or a face on the screen. That time apart helped us grow individually, but not apart.

As a Mom of 18, 14, and 2, I completely agree with all of this!!!

This brought a tear to my eye. I absolutely adore your channel, your humor and your wisdom. Stay up, mama. ❤

I wish when I was growing up, my mom was like you. It's long and complicated to explain. Although I don't have human children, this made me emotional thinking about my own childhood.

That was heartfelt and I was right along there with you... Unfortunately, just when you think you've wiped your last bottom, along comes grandparenthood. On the bright side, though, at least you can hand them back.

I can’t wait to get your book! You’re such a talented linguist! ❤

I'm going to miss sleepy middle of the night snuggles. I'm not going to miss dragging my 8yo kicking and screaming to school because he stayed up until 4am reading. I'm going to miss the bump of my daughter's umbilical hernia after her surgery next year. I'm not going to miss the 3 years of disrupted sleep before my son had his adenoids out. It's okay to just survive the crap parts and be glad when they're over.

Gwenna, this is my first long form video I have seen of yours! Your short videos have a place in my heart, and this one hit me right in my emotions. My daughter is 5 now, and tjis made me think of how much she has grown, all the memories of her. It also made me think of my own mother, who was so exhausyed, all I remember is her trying to push me away without teaching me anything. I will cherish the good memories, and try to heal the little girl inside of me who's Mom does not reach out and make sure I was taught and cherished. Time to check out your podcast 😂 I mean this from the bottom of my heart, you are a treasure, Gwenna!

I think we all need to just enjoy the moments we have that bring joy. There are many moments or ick, gross, boring and rage ones too. But to stop and enjoy the laugher and joy in the moment is all i strive for.

Love your videos. Real and raw! I'm a momma of 3 little ones close in age and I relate to your videos. You crack me up!!

I love you. That part that you show here and that I know of. There is so much wisdom in that and even though I wasn't able to phrase it as elegantly as you have, I thought and think the same things! All the best to you and yours!

Im 40 some years old and I still call my mother momma si that part may not go away

Love this, it really speaks to me. Some bits I'll miss but others you just survive and move on

Beautifully written, beautifully read, beautifully said. I relate so much ❤

This video has made me feel like a better human, thank you.

Bravo! Brilliantly said and you hit it on the nose. 👏👏👏👌🏼👍

Nailed it! Thank you so much MC

almost brought me to tears 😢 all so true, i’m aiming to raise 4 good kind human beings, who are happy and healthy, that’s the whole point of being a parent. teacher guide and mentor. i’m so happy my older two are off to uni doing their thing, living their lives. no i don’t wish they were still here, i wish them the best life ever, go explore it! ❤

I love this! I have been caught up with my youngest in trying to cherish every moment. But some moments aren't very cherishable. Lol some moments I'm ready to let them pass. And then there are moments that I wish could last forever too. The moments of cuddles and kisses and bedtime loves.

Perfectly said

I don't have kids, but I just want you to know, I find value in your content amd I think you're awesome.

So well said!

You are amazing!🎉❤😊

Hi 0:11

Proud to be so early!

As a former mommy, and now a grand-mommy, (person raising grandchildren) and a grandma the teenager that finally realizes that they still need you for something and that you weren't full or crap. Usually Happens between 18 and 20. I won't miss the day they turn 13 and tell you they are grown and they don't need you anymore. Thats when I start charging rent and laundry service and non academic taxi services. 13 is when I decide their time doing extra chores are worthy of being paid for. They are aloud to babysit, help neighbors with yard work. This money is for going places with friends buy extra clothes and school supplies. I only buy the basics for school. The approved supply list. Pants, tops, gym clothes, Winter coat that shes not going to wear cuz its not cool or makes her feel fat, and, Gloves that shes going to cut the fingers off of. Everything black. Wednesday Addams is big around here.

Amaizing ❤ Inspiring Y e s

Well said.

Yeah I don't cherish every moment. They are out of the house and there are moments I would enjoy forgetting for ever.

Brilliant!

I get what you're saying! My kids are in their 40's and 30's...they still call me mommy.

Cherish all the little moments of joy. Ignore all the shit.

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1000% this.

And then, aaannd then, the grandkids are turning into adults and going out into the world. I worry about them and my kids now.

Gosh why am I crying 😅

So this is completely off topic (however, great video, as usual), but what are those wall hangings behind you. I love them, can you say where you got them from?

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Oh hey if possible more chaos lunches. A road trip with the daughter to the mall or the like with her driving. Im sure shes a great driver but my mom couldnt give up the drivers seat when we went places together even drove my car if we were going in my car. Lol I miss her.

Hiiiiiii

Fuck... This made me cry and mine are still tiny.

Hulk hands!! 😂

I can’t have children due to a health condition but like..good to know

Wait, what? Cabbage leaves on...? Oh, ok. Just googled. I'd never heard of that, very interesting.

I was a little worried you were going to do the “influencer “ voice the whole time.

Then there's those tortuous Barbie leggings and shoes. 😑

Thank you for this ❤ “if I miss it, it means I did it”🥹

I really like this, but why does she sound so robotic like she’s reading from a Teleprompter?

My 17 yr old still calls me mama. I love it since all the others, including my 8 yr old, calls me mom. 🥹