dodie - Hate Myself (Official Lyric Video) 

she got to do the 'driving in a car and watching out of the window while pretending to be in a music video' while ACTUALLY BEING IN ONE

SHE BASICALLY DID A VISUAL ALBUM IN A CAR AHHHHH

That feeling when you accidentally pull someone’s arm off so you decide to throw them out of the car. Problem solved!

Dodie got her money's worth out of driving around in the car and I love that for her.

Don't think I've ever been more happy for someone spreading out in the back of a car!! xxxx

I’m at the throwing out the mannequin part of my breakup right now can’t fucking wait to reach the last part when she’s smiling

This feels like an abusive relationship I was in. Any little thing would become a big issue, I felt that I was always being scolded for something that I couldn't figure out. It lead me to feel like there was just something inherently wrong with me. They'd berate me and then go silent and I was left alone with my self blame.

she's living all of our dreams: look out the window in the car while in a music video

Slight Human music video vibes with dodie trying to get a guy she built/mannequin to fall in love with her 😂

Love the acting! Also: 2:56 "Goodbye Daniel!" 2:59 "and your little arm, too"

I don't know if it's the "filling in the gaps, build a problem that neither of us needs, something wrong with me" or the "oh so illogical, I'm not magical, I can't read your mind. But how can you not hear the whole conversation I have sitting still with a brain on fire" or the "when you go quiet, I hate myself" but somehow she managed to put into words the EXACT inner workings of an overthinker in a relationship AND IM HERE FOR THE ATTACC

Imagine driving down the road just to see Dodie fling the top of a mannequin out of her car and drive away lmao.

As Meg says in Hercules "No man (or woman) is worth the aggravation"

I love how happy she is after literally throwing someone out of a moving car. I'm so here for it

the manequin gets to sit in a car with dodie and can't even at least smile? wow 🙄

This is the most authentic possible illustration of how it feels to lose a toxic partner.

this lyric video specifically feels like the biggest power move it's so silly but also have a pretty deep meaning this WHOLE ALBUM FEELS LIKE A MUSICAL AAAAAAAHHHA

As catchy as ever, with lyrics that speak directly to my anxiety riddled brain.

the one dislike is the mannequin

even ur lyric videos have to add so many layers of meaning huh dodes

this is complete art. i need the bloopers though !! skdkskjksdljskl

I definitely didn't think the lyric was "I know, it's amazing" instead of "I know, it's a me thing"... defo not...

The mannequin, for me, is the feel of talking to someone and just not all understanding what’s happening and maybe even getting frustrated because you feel like their not at all understanding or seeing you

This is so scarily relatable in a way I can't explain

I think I've anxiety (not been professionally diagnosed) and I relate to this song so freaking much. The line "When you go quiet, I hate myself" is so so simple and yet so fucking effective cause omg SAMEE 😭❤️❤️

this is LITERALLY magnificent, what did we do to deserve a little series of lyric videos that are basically music videos in themselves ugh im so happy

This is exactly how it feels like when you offended someone and you don't even know the reason. They sit there doing nothing, saying nothing. Making you want to hate yourself.

the pained acceptance on her face in the first verse but also looking like if she goes a liiittle bit further she might cry,, WAHH THE ACTING TALENT edit: omfg the smile when she leans into the now-empty space where the mannequin was, iCONIC

god i can’t WAIT to hear this one live and jump around with everyone and scream the words, it’s gonna be so fun

This is basically an anxious/avoidant relationship. Yup i get it.

Why did I started sobbing when she spread out in the seat. This is too real

I love how all the music videos are in the car lul

OH GOSH I JUST REALIZED THE "HUMAN" CONNECTION! 😮 congrats dodie and jack and hazel and everybody involved in the making of these videos! this is a masterpiece!

I can imagine someone going for a walk and seeing the pieces of a manequin on the floor and go "it's dodie again isn't it?"

WE SAW OUT OF THE CAR THIS FEELS WRONG

this song hits for me, I got ghosted by a guy I’ve been speaking to for 8 months and I still can’t seem to let him go or think of all the things I must of done or said wrong

I've been in an abusive relationship. Eventually I was the one who left, but in the middle of things I bet my then-partner would have said I was the mannequin of the video. (S)he [gender irrelevant] would nudge me, push me, try to force a reaction from me, and my defense was to become even more still, more quiet. I was abused, and I left an abuser, but looking back I can, without blaming myself, recognize my contributions to the overall dynamic.

no mannequins were hurt in the making of this vide- *mannequins arm comes off*

As someone with intense rejection sensitive dysphoria, when someone does go quiet I do hate myself

Never thought Id find a new favorite artist in a Bo Burnham comment section. Lovely music.

i never knew you could use a car in so many ways to create beautiful music videos

I relate to this so bad as someone who’s a horrible self critic and gets anxious people pleasing behaviors when people get mad at me or expect something of me without telling me. Just expecting me to cater or know what they need when they don’t communicate their needs. It feeds the cycle of self hatred and anxiety when you feel like a failure or that you should be some super human that never makes anyone mad ever. And when you’re Internally so afraid you hurt someone, bc you perceive them as being angry after sensing something is off but you can’t tell if it’s all in your head or not. The social anxiety and walking on eggshells gets so exhausting. Sometimes getting out of that place and realizing you’re only human is so freeing.

The moment she puts her head on the lifeless mannequin's shoulder hit me like a ton of bricks. What powerful imagery.

Awww dodie's smile after throwing out the mannequin is precious skdhskdhdk

So expressive. Captivating. Evocative. Especially the "talking" part and the part without the dummy. Love it.

Dodie spoiled us with these... they're beautiful

Imagine just chilling and then seeing dodie interacting with a mannequin in her car and then being like ugh.... she’s at it again 🙄 🤣 THIS WAS BY FAR MY FAVORITE MUSIC VIDEO!!

I LAUGHED SO HARD I LOVE THIS

Lip readers please help what does she say I’m curious-

Hate myself gives me unhealthy/passive relationship vibes, and then with Rainbow not long after I get compulsory heterosexuality vibes with this song. Also just the experience of suppressing oneself & one's sexuality.

the mannequin is so inspired because like. it doesn't matter what someone says or does, if you're going to overthink something and create a whole problem in your head, you're gonna do it, regardless of reality. i do this all the time, haha, the person in the other seat just looks different time to time. i imagine they're mad at me, and it becomes true in my head, and then i get upset with them for no reason and throw the whole person out LOL

This song describes such a specific emotion and yet it’s so incredibly understandable and relatable. I literally feel like I’ve been waiting for this song to describe this emotion my entire life!

no im losing my mind thanks dodie x

this reminds me of my relationship with my dad lol. why cant i throw him out of my life like a mannequin out of a car?

Could it be different? Did I ruin the day? Do you look angry? Oh, what did I say? Filling in the gaps Build a problem that Neither of us needs Something wrong with me I'm getting desperate Losing my mind Oh, How do we get here Every time? One will fold their arms One will do the dance Really is no need Something wrong with me No, I don't think I can help it (Nope) Oh, so illogical I'm not magical, I can't read your mind But how can you not hear the whole conversation I have, sitting still with a brain on fire? I know it's a me thing Eyes closed isn't helping When you go quiet, I hate myself When you go quiet, I hate myself Look at you sideways Playing a game Oh, what if I laugh now Think I'm insane Filling in the gaps Build a problem that Neither of us needs Something wrong with me Pushing a boundary Something to prove Strong expectation You already lose Oh, one will fold their arms One will do the dance Really is no need Something wrong with me No, I don't think I can help it Oh, so illogical I'm not magical, I can't read your mind But how can you not hear the whole conversation I have, sitting still with a brain on fire? I know it's a me thing Eyes closed isn't helping When you go quiet, I hate myself When you go quiet, I hate myself Give me a mystery Maybe they'll bloom for me It's always the quiet ones Oh, something that must be done I'm open and ready here Don't think they get me, dear I'm only proving how I'm only worth losing now Give me a mystery Maybe they'll bloom for me It's always the quiet ones Something that must be done I'm open and ready here Don't think they get me, dear (When you go quiet, I hate myself) Don't think they get me, dear Give me a mystery Maybe they'll bloom for me It's always the quiet ones Something that must be done I'm open and ready here Don't think they get me, dear (When you go quiet, I hate myself) Don't think they get me, dear No, I don't think (Don't think they get me, dear) I can help it (Don't think they get me, dear) No, I don't think (Don't think they get me, dear) I can help it (When you go quiet, I hate myself) (Don't think they get me, dear) No, I don't think (Don't think they get me, dear) I can help it (Don't think they get me, dear) I don't think (Don't think they get me, dear) I can help it (When you go quiet, I hate myself) No, I don't think I can help it

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I LOVE THESE SO MUCH

Omg dodie the actress these are AMAZING

I just wanna say... her hair is beautiful...

I love all the homages to dodie’s old songs and videos, the manikin her reminds me of the human music video, etc.

Amazing video.💚❤💘💋🙏

Amazing video.💚❤💘💋🙏

AWESOMENESS..............."no I don't think I can help it"............#6,160 5 9 21............

I cannot stop thinking about she stops singing halfway through... 🤔 What does it mean? What does it all mean?

the mannequin I am CACKLING

I love coming back to this and remembering how awful it is to be in a toxic relationship with no communication! So thankful I've moved on from that stage of my life.

Will show this to my therapist

ALL OF THESE ARE SO GOOD ITS SO UNREAL...charming and funny and heartwrenching AH

Such a talent!!! 🔥🔥🔥 This is such a wonderful and powerful video. A++++

this song is every social interaction ever

dodie: put me in a car jack: y e s

This level of cuteness really makes me mad at the person who makes her hate herself.

1:51 “Oh, did they see that? I hope not, I’m just gonna put this back...”

I’ve never related to a song this much I’m always in my head I’m always saying sorry even if I’m right just because I don’t what people to hate me and I feel like if I sick up for my self thay will the worst thing In the world is wen I’m arguing with someone and I finally say something and there’s nothing but silence cuz that’s wen a million words go though my mind all the things I said all the things I did and I just make it my Fault every time and I just hate it and myself

Yes!! The mannequin for me is me having a conversation with someone and they’re not listening or appreciating me! Trying so hard to get their attention, full of anxiety, and they’re just sitting there quiet, watching you go crazy!! Only possible solution is to chuck em! Cuz no one is worth that much aggravation. Omg, this guy that I had a crush on would legit behave so uncaringly. I did EVERYTHING and he’d choose other girls over me, he’d call me crazy, i mean i did everything in my power and he would just be so lethargic and uncaring, i was so hyper aware of my actions and words around him, it was torture for YEARS. I am indeed, currently in the process of chucking him and im so relieved it’s happening. If you’re full of anxiety around someone who makes you feel terrible- please work on getting rid of it. (If u read this far ily and be safe)

this has strong sitting beside ur annoying younger sibling during a car ride energy

you killed him.

filming these from the back of the car is SUCH a clever concept I love it

this is so good WHAT congrats dodie and jack

what a treat

I recognise this scenario... (Thinks back over 30 years)... I think I was the mannequin. =:o\

The pan over to the mannequin had me cracking up

This is brilliant. Another (much older) equally brilliant music video: “goodbye” by Plankeye 👏👏👏

Gosh in some strange way, its sounds better than the official videoclip! 😱 WTF?😱🤣🤣❤❤❤

YO THAT TWIST IN THE END IM LIVING FOR IT

One of my all time favorite songs ever❤️❤️❤️ Edit to add, this song reminds me so much and me and my current bf and that ending really spoke to me ❤️

All of build a problem: in a car Fans: not complaining Comments: SHE gOt To dO tHE mUSiC ViDEo cAr tHInG

literally dump him

how many takes tho bc i started cackling IMMEDIATELY as the dummy came into frame

Two lyric videos in one day and an album release dodie ur spoiling us❤

Haven't been this jealous of a mannequin geeting to hang out with Dodie since the 'Human' music video

I giggled at her grin there at the end. Your so wonderful, your so magical, you can read my mind!? Don't go quiet. I'll hate myself. Beautiful album dodie. Mad props and congrats you radiant human you. Thanks again for sharing 💕

Filmed yourself fly tipping, reported to the DLVA. On a more serious note...wtf is under her eyes?

also maybe the car scene is due to the production being during COVID time XD

I thought it was 'I know, it's amazing' instead of 'it's a me thing' and... the real lyric makes a lot more sense

Love how she's smiling and driving along at the end, like she's moving towards something better 😊 one of the best songs on the album!

for me the mannequin is a part of herself, the part that hates her...at first she is trying to get it to like her which isn't working tho so she's starting to get mad at it...it's with her anyway...it has been, the whole drive except when she decides to throw it out and let it go...free from this burden, she continues her drive, happily smiling...

THE STATUE JUST APPEARED WHAT THE FUCK YOU REALLY KNOW HOW TO MAKE MIND BLOWING VIDEOS

this song always HITS.... all those relationships (and friendships ) that made me feel like perhaps i'd have more luck talking to a mannequin

I'm not saying they're similar but the videos shot in a car definitely have clowncore vibes.