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Don’t Date for Marriage with Jayme Vainer | Episode 229, Heart of Dating Podcast 

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Today we're diving into dating history and chatting with Jayme Vainer about her switch from hyper-attachment to casual dating!
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TIMESTAMPS:
00:00 Introduction
06:58 Camp Hod, Asheville, Patreon, workshop.
10:28 Date before rushing into marriage.
13:13 Date with marriage in mind, not just for fun.
17:31 Women entered the workforce in the 1950s.
22:42 Rejecting legalism with personal rules.
26:25 Seeking to court a girl respectfully.
30:29 Respectful, curious approach to dating.
33:03 Jayme, great wedding planner turned friend.
38:10 Intentions require wisdom for effective action.
41:20 Struggling with intense attachment and heartbreak.
45:02 The 90-day challenge revealed red flags in dating.
48:29 Learning from dating for better relationships!
51:49 Honesty is important in dating.
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Комментарии : 12   
@anal.mendoza
@anal.mendoza Месяц назад
May the Lord bless you both from Santo Domingo, Dominican Republic! I really love this episode, Don't date for marriage!
@jaclyncampbell5719
@jaclyncampbell5719 Месяц назад
JJ - Could totally use your match making skills lol. I had/still have the "it's exhausting" response to dating in general. My job is so busy and I'm exhausted at the end of the day. I don't get how to rally after a long day and be energized for a date and then have the same surface level type conversations so many times 🙈 Jayme, I'd love to hear more in depth about your transition from the negative to the positive outlook on dating! Thank you to all three of you!
@gracejoylove
@gracejoylove Месяц назад
It was so interesting😇 Thanks!
@HeartofDating
@HeartofDating Месяц назад
We're glad that you enjoyed it!
@devotionalswithjessica6965
@devotionalswithjessica6965 Месяц назад
I loved this episode and especially the insight regarding courting! Definitely made me think as I had read a long time ago "I Kissed Dating Goodbye" and I would be curious to hear your take on that book specifically. Keep it up ya'll!
@HeartofDating
@HeartofDating Месяц назад
YAY! We're so glad that you loved this episode!
@jschalembier
@jschalembier Месяц назад
Not a fan of the label “Don’t date for marriage” to explain your view. You still hold to marriage as the end goal, so that label is a misrepresentation. A secular person might use the exact same words to mean something completely different. I wish you phrased your perspective more precisely. That said, I was raised to date only with the intention to marry, and I do think that mindset has kept me from dating, but I’m not sure if I am convinced that is a bad thing. I haven’t been on a date since college, and that’s partly because no woman gets through the “I could marry her” screening process. It seems silly to date someone with whom I don’t see a future. It seems your method is to go on dates without spending weeks or months analyzing a potential girlfriend, and I can see how that could be beneficial. Just praying I behave in a manner befitting a man of God.
@zoetsahai
@zoetsahai Месяц назад
Same and I agree, I am not one for pointless dating if I know the person is not my husband. I literally ask God to tell me before I even going on a first date and the answer is no, I don't even bother. This has meant I can count the number of times I've done a first date on one hand👀🫣 😅
@Lumberzackk
@Lumberzackk Месяц назад
I'd like to ask Jayme how to be a "ghost buster". I get ghosted all the time, even by "Christian" women and would like to kindly call that behavior out as unloving. What would you say to someone who does this after spending some time together?
@HeartofDating
@HeartofDating Месяц назад
We have TONS of resources and episodes on ghosting on our website!
@Spees07
@Spees07 Месяц назад
Can we talk about how JJ is secretly gay?
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