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You’re the Reason You’re Still Single with Dr. Henry Cloud | Episode 228, Heart of Dating Podcast 

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Today we’re diving in with Dr. Henry Cloud, who’s dismantling the myth of "the one," sharing insights on navigating dating pressures, and giving us a glimpse into his own story of resilience and growth!
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TIMESTAMPS:
00:00 Introduction
09:34 Doctor Cloud, wrote awesome books, definitely recommend!
12:08 Putting too much pressure on dating? Maybe that's why you're single.
14:02 People make up types based on their issues.
18:10 Dating can lead to commitment and marriage.
21:44 Think about your dating patterns and self-awareness.
26:29 Losing myself on dates, feeling a bit intimidated.
28:33 Dating's a bit controversial and kind of crazy.
32:00 Being open-minded, thinking about marriage, and self-discovery.
34:47 Friends were unsure but ended up married.
39:23 Family issues lead to personal struggles.
40:31 He's here to heal, not to judge.
43:47 Attracted the wrong people, need time to heal.
46:25 Shared harsh rejection letter with my daughters.
51:43 Set up dating groups everywhere to figure things out.
53:03 Questioning unrealistic dating expectations and beliefs.
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@scotthoneycutt6967
@scotthoneycutt6967 Месяц назад
Thank you both. This one really hit home for me and I just wanted you to know that you are making a difference. A very good point was made about how types and superficial expectations are developed. It's often times something in our past, like somehow without being aware of it we look to things like a perfect type to give us a fulfillment we never felt before. Understanding this can be the key to healing. People can't be God and if we are so desperate for these temporal things, then a part of us doesn't realize just how loved by God we are. When our fulfillment is in Christ, we can be free.
@anal.mendoza
@anal.mendoza Месяц назад
Hi JJ and Kait, may the Lord bless you both from Santo Domingo, Domincian Republic! Thanks for sharing this episode!
@Florinda_Estrada
@Florinda_Estrada Месяц назад
This blessed me!!! You guys are amazing. God bless 🥰
@HeartofDating
@HeartofDating Месяц назад
We LOVE to hear this!
@gracejoylove
@gracejoylove Месяц назад
Thanks, but I feel like we are talking about dating still "just" on the level of the soul and human's wisdom. All this is helpful of course, because we are spirit, soul and body, but on the first place we are spiritual beings! We have the Holy Ghost who is our Teacher, Councelor etc. When I'm dating someone online or in person I'm asking the Holy Ghost for wisdom, guidance. We can and should grow in these things how to hear His voice better. And ask for the gifts of the Spirit such as discernment, wisdom, which are very helpful in dating. The Holy Ghost revealed to me every time who the man really is! I met even liars and He warned me in a very early stage of dating. I hope we will hear on HOD more spirit-lead christian teachers/testimonies❤ I've listened most of the videos on dating, but I really lack the spiritual side of this topic😢
@brendagarcia3310
@brendagarcia3310 Месяц назад
I kind of agree. I believe God is in every aspect of our lives and the Holy Spirit definitely has to involved.
@PaulineMatshini
@PaulineMatshini Месяц назад
I am so grateful for this episode it has blessed me so much. Thank you
@HeartofDating
@HeartofDating Месяц назад
We're so glad that you enjoyed this episode!
@44Grimmace
@44Grimmace Месяц назад
It's hard for me not to believe that I'm the reason I'm single. And I've always thought of JJ as a sort of pretty boy, and kind of nerdy, but definitely not unattractive. I've enjoy learning about who he is more fully.
@44Grimmace
@44Grimmace Месяц назад
And yes, something football behind you would help. A signed football maybe?
@BearDavis89
@BearDavis89 Месяц назад
I appreciate the advice that Heart of Dating offers. There are a plethora of insights that I have found here. However, as a Christian man, I respectfully disagree with the notion of dating multiple people at the same time. I have dated multiple Christian women at the same time within recent years, but I have found this to be hurtful to the women that I have dated and hurtful to myself. God directed me to 1 Corinthians 6:12. While something may be permissible, it may not beneficial. The thought of knowingly causing a situation where multiple people may get their hearts broken at the same time hurts me. I do not want to be in that position or place several women in that position. As result, I will only date one woman at a time.
@brendagarcia3310
@brendagarcia3310 Месяц назад
What bible verse did he cite?
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