Today Kait Tomlin opens up about not being initially attracted to JJ, as they explore the complexities of physical attraction, societal standards, and the importance of godly character in dating!
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TIMESTAMPS:
00:00 Christian dating: diverse opinions and common confusion.
04:19 Patreon matchmaking event coming back soon.
09:06 No initial chemistry needed for successful dating.
12:30 Character over physical attraction in Godly relationships.
15:21 Insecurities can shatter self-image in relationships.
18:39 The Importance of discussing personal questions beforehand is emphasized.
29:29 Resisting temptation, seeking accountability in group dynamic.
33:01 Weight gain led to strained physical attraction.
36:43 Attraction fades with emotional/spiritual maturity.
38:07 Honesty in relationships and deep connection emphasized.
41:46 At least 45 days dating, physical attraction vital.
45:46 Differences, stereotypes, and physical attraction.
47:38 Men need to reevaluate physical attraction standards.
50:02 Beauty without media's influence, real-life experiences.
55:55 Prioritize physical attraction before marriage commitment.
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2 авг 2024