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How to Tell if They're REALLY The One For You | Should You Marry Them Episode 166, HOD Podcast 

Heart of Dating
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Kait & JJ discuss how you really know they are right for you, how to evaluate, discern and even reasons you shouldn't stay.
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TIMESTAMPS:
00:00 Introduction
05:55 Evaluation
13:15 JJ’s Evaluation and Story
23:50 Big Deal # 1
31:45 Big Deal # 2
38:40 Discernment
48:30 Reasons NOT to stay
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Комментарии : 28   
@mayahelena4
@mayahelena4 Год назад
I love the statement “I have to die to myself and can’t go into it thinking i can change him”. Amazing thought!!!!! So powerful and so true!!!!! I WAS watching Joel Osteen say something similar in a marriage episode on RU-vid ….. keep it up with the inspiration guys!!!! And ty for all that you do ….will continue to tune into the podcast …more and consider investing in more resources for my life such as mentors and pre marital counseling when its that time.
@mayahelena4
@mayahelena4 Год назад
Amen I love when you both said that ultimately we are the ultimate ceo of the decision of whom to marry….not family…. We can say the truth in love and additionally sometimes family is toxic. For example, my family is actually Jewish and i come from a divorced household and I have very different thinking ….thank you for sharing and once again wishing you two peace love and a powerfully blessed weekend. Xx
@shernayebeaton6708
@shernayebeaton6708 2 года назад
Awesome and thorough info guys!! TY!
@btrwxhobbyist7296
@btrwxhobbyist7296 Год назад
I struggle with this when deciding who I want to date. Personally, I don't want to go on a date before I know someone.
@mashajohns7810
@mashajohns7810 Год назад
So encouraging ! Thank you for sharing your story !
@mayahelena4
@mayahelena4 Год назад
Kudos to you too for doing the hard work!!!! Ty friends ….I didn’t consolidate all the comments but I am grateful for you and the podcast
@denisevasq
@denisevasq Год назад
I am so grateful for you both and your vulnerability to share your story. THANK YOU! SO SO VERY MUCH!
@krissyhall2838
@krissyhall2838 11 месяцев назад
Amen!It's who we choose to commit to daily.I hate the whole finding your specific kingdom spouse.
@amandaschmude7907
@amandaschmude7907 2 года назад
This was so good 👍 it really gave me clarity. Thank you!
@jjtomlin1320
@jjtomlin1320 2 года назад
Glad you enjoyed!!!
@mayahelena4
@mayahelena4 Год назад
This is so amazing. Thank you for being so candid and transparent!!! So many interesting thought provoking points made inside. Also, gave me a lot to think about with regards to the value system and what in essence will be good for me in the end with regards to getting married one time and forever. Right now I am dating someone, and it’s super great to here such an honest rundown of what transpired between you two. It also gives me hope and faith, and ultimately I agree with you guys, that there is no such thing as a soul mate; there is free will and two people will ultimately freely choose each other and hope that it is thought about deeply before walking down the aisle that sometimes ends. Wishing you two amazing people a powerfully blessed day. Xx
@jessicatuttle3022
@jessicatuttle3022 2 года назад
Oh my!! So amazing!! So encouraging! ✨✨
@jjtomlin1320
@jjtomlin1320 2 года назад
Aw great!!! Happy to hear you enjoyed!!
@alison7845
@alison7845 Год назад
Thank you both so much. This is a God send. Love it ❤
@tallto
@tallto 2 года назад
Great podcast! The part about not dating in a silo and having mentorship from a Godly couple who can relate well to what you're going through is key! Also having someone who would still choose you even after conflict..that's it!
@jjtomlin1320
@jjtomlin1320 2 года назад
For sure!!! 💯
@monicalee463
@monicalee463 2 года назад
Major respect to JJ. We certainly need more male perspectives speak out
@jjtomlin1320
@jjtomlin1320 2 года назад
Kait brings out the best me in me too :)
@monicalee463
@monicalee463 2 года назад
@@jjtomlin1320 Yes, shout outs to Kait for starting such difficult conversations and creating the perfect grounds for both perspectives as well 🙌
@user-dr7bx3uo6z
@user-dr7bx3uo6z 4 месяца назад
I married, but things didn't work out. I have emotional problems that I never dealt with that caused our marriage to break down. But my ex also was not compatible with me. So I am returning to the single life, and accepting that this is the final situation I will live in. Biblically, socially, and emotionally remarriage is not something that I can partake in.
@user-dr7bx3uo6z
@user-dr7bx3uo6z 5 месяцев назад
I don't have to know if she's the one. For me, there's no one because I want to be single. Not to serve, but because my life is a train wreck, and I refuse to bring someone into my mess.
@CollinSoderholm
@CollinSoderholm 4 месяца назад
You ok bro? Need some encouragement or support?
@heathersharp6444
@heathersharp6444 Месяц назад
What about the story of Ruth and Boaz?
@mariahkliewer8376
@mariahkliewer8376 2 года назад
Did you use a therapist for pre-marriage counseling or is that something you did through your church? Great idea!
@jjtomlin1320
@jjtomlin1320 2 года назад
We used a pastoral couple!!!
@sjayc1978
@sjayc1978 Год назад
I'm new here
@loganfinucane2159
@loganfinucane2159 Год назад
I believe in premarital before engagement
@lorenao8615
@lorenao8615 Год назад
Wohooo
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