Don’t Get Into Another Relationship Before You WATCH THIS (Matthew Hussey)

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@EileenSloane 3 года назад

"You don't need to be happy before you find another relationship" Matthew coming at us with the controversial opinions, but I'm glad someone said it! If you wait until you're 100% happy and whole before you get into a relationship, you'll wait forever. Happy enough is good enough ❤.

@mette1983 3 года назад

Agreed!!

@teenash6823 3 года назад

Makes Sense..

@HouseMDaddict 3 года назад

Well, it's not really controversial, but you really should be able to handle your own stuff before getting into a relationship. No one should depend on someone else to fix their problems or be burdened with other people's problems. That breeds resentment in the relationship. Same with if someone is only looking to a relationship for happiness and can't create their own happiness, that's a lot of demand from the partner to be that person's only source of happiness or entertainment.

@EileenSloane 3 года назад

@@HouseMDaddict absolutely nobody said anything about it being okay to bring emotional baggage into a relationship and making it your partners responsibility. Obviously that's not the case. Matt just said that you don't need to be blissfully happy to be in a relationship, which is true. Even the most well put together people have their minor flaws or their bad days, that doesn't mean they're not ready, or unworthy of a relationship.

@Anniloves21 3 года назад

This has been very hard for me. Thanks Matt!

@calliecutsinger8812 3 года назад

I just lost my job and my relationship within 48 hours. I am currently on this journey for myself. I'm about to take a 3 month road trip by myself to prove that I am the person I want to be. I love your advice. Thank you so much!!!

@VaneRamirez90 3 года назад

Everything is going to be alright. This will only make you much stronger 🤗

@stacibee224 3 года назад

You will get through this. A road trip is a fantastic idea!! I admire that so much. This is just the end of one chapter and beginning of a new one full of endless possibilities and opportunities. There’s a beautiful life ahead of you. You got this. Safe travels on this next adventure! God bless!

@pink_stain 3 года назад

Rejection is redirection.. Hope you get through this and feel better after your trip

@abcxyz820 3 года назад

Sadness to Happiness feeling, only takes an afternoon. Ride it out 💪. The sun will shine again tomorrow.

@jessicaw9011 3 года назад

So I love this idea and good luck to you, but-- how are you going to afford a road trip if you just lost your job?

@selynasteriska 3 года назад

"You should be happy before you meet someone" and this advice usually comes from someone who is in a relationship who was not happy before the relationship - FINALLY SOMEONE SAYS IT, THANK YOU!

@zenlife321 3 года назад

🤣🙌🏻🙌🏻

@Sarafara7 3 года назад

I know, right?! Lol I was thinking the same - finally!

@Helen-fs3ol 3 года назад

I agree 💯

@jclyntoledo 2 года назад

This is why I thought for the longest if you had issues with depression or even anxiety relationships weren't for you. It made it seem like you have to be at this optimal level so even if you were trying it wasn't enough. Then I kept thinking well it's going to take forever to heal yourself even with the right resources and I recently realized we are all works in progress and the healing journey doesn't necessarily have an end date. Funny he said happy enough since I've discovered Complex Ptsd and how it relates to me and Pete Walker talks about not being perfect but good enough.

@naterk9460 2 года назад

Like how 99% of the people who tell you "You shouldn't worry about money" have enough that if they lost their job and couldn't find another one for 3 years, they'd still have no problem making ends meet.

@NagoyaHouseHead 2 года назад

You don't have to be HAPPY to go into a new relationship but you do have to be HEALTHY

@jenwinchester1941 3 года назад

Somebody once said: "I know what I can bring to the table that's why im not scared to eat alone". (And especially with the table you pictured, strong and sturdy legs!😀)

@heteromodal 3 года назад

Awesome quote! :)

@emmaj1384 3 года назад

That's a great quote

@jenwinchester1941 3 года назад

@@heteromodal I know right? So powerful

@emmaj1384 3 года назад

@@jenwinchester1941 it’s spam. Ignore it

@jenwinchester1941 3 года назад

@@emmaj1384 I know! 🤣🤣

@TanzaniteHayley 3 года назад

The only people that can tell me what to do are my parents and Matthew Hussey.

@mansourceesay704 3 года назад

Scam

@Clauds71 3 года назад

😂

@amyp9010 3 года назад

I think Matthew would love to take care of you and tell you what to do and very naughty way...your beautiful I prefer to look like you..

@rockfelloweades 3 года назад

Lol!

@vincemtmas 2 года назад

😂

@memastarful 3 года назад

I have been single without dating anyone for 12 years and I'm really content and happy. I'm not against relationships at all I just personally rather be alone than go thru drama or toxicity.

@TmHudsonArt 3 года назад

19 years for me....not like I ever wanted kids so don't need to find a partner for that reason. I just do what I like to do and that's it.

@tailgunner2 3 года назад

Heh, I have you both beat. 22 years

@amamamamamama97 3 года назад

@@tailgunner2 now now. It's not a competition you guys. But isn't it scary that you're so used to being by yourself that you can never connect with a partner even if you want to? Because you're comfortably single. I'm just curious to know

@tailgunner2 3 года назад

@@amamamamamama97 Why would it be scary? I already lived it. Besides, I have more important things to worry about, like paying my debts off. My jobs soak up most of my time. Other things simply had to be sacrificed. Not everyone gets things like paid vacations or time off to do other things.

@d.matthews3103 3 года назад

Over 40 yrs. Had a very good job & income, educated, independent person, just never met anyone with whom I connected. I think I just met too many men who weren’t secure enough to be involved with a strong, grounded woman who was financially independent and who felt perhaps, that they wouldn’t be more dominant in the relationship.

@sensualgoddess5336 2 года назад

3 components of being happy enough 1. How do you communicate ? ( communication) 2. ( Confidence)how do you treat yourself well and allow others to treat you well 3. You’re life ( health, fitness, careers, friends, hobbies)

@victoriaporsiempre 2 года назад

* your …you are life could make sense if you are having a life of your own like “you are your life” 🤔

@saidissaad7231 Год назад

Friends can be lethal to your relationship...you need to keep them nice n sweet but they should not in your life as much as your family can!

@surdogal 3 года назад

Phew .... what a huge relief ..... I can do ‘happy enough’ 😀

@lupitaf.d7367 3 года назад

I know, right?

@PriyankaGupta-ew1li 3 года назад

Ikr🤷‍♀️😍

@sandrace87 3 года назад

And that's exactly the state in which I met my partner. We're getting married this year.

@Anniloves21 3 года назад

Congratulations!

@jennieli7199 3 года назад

Congratulations!

@sandrace87 3 года назад

@@Anniloves21 thank you, I wish you the best ❤

@sandrace87 3 года назад

@@jennieli7199 thank you 🤗

@kevinvanhorsing5141 3 года назад

Who cares

@tacrewgirl 3 года назад

Slow clap. "You need to be happy" is often said by someone who was unhappy when they got in a relationship. PREACH

@sharonannehenry 3 года назад

Couples think, because they found each other that they have the answer and give unsolicited, conflicting advise like "you'll find the the one when you're ready" or "you'll find the one when you're not looking" or "you'll find the one after you visit the oracle and are deemed worthy."

@96wordpass 3 года назад

This made me laugh 😆 “the Oracle” 😂😂😂

@underclassh3r058 3 года назад

"The oracle" that was awesome😂

@nadiacalembe1546 3 года назад

Well the Oracle I consulted last week told me I need the blood of a virgin born on a full moon on February 29th, the scale of a mermaid's tale and the horn of a unicorn. Simple stuff really 🤷🏾‍♀️

@lioydwilliams1850 3 года назад

Sharon Henry,you look stunning dear

@jojobeanforever 3 года назад

@@nadiacalembe1546 I have a unicorn horn! I’ll mail it to ya after my fairy bring me the others for my ceremony 😌

@samanthajane11.11 3 года назад

Im happy enough. I would just like to share my bit of happiness with someone else's bit of happiness, and then we would share a lot bigger piece of happiness together 🙂

@Vincasssssss 3 года назад

Is it wrong that I'm a guy watching Matthews videos? They really help me and sometimes even help understand women psychology more.

@cidweinberg 3 года назад

Nope not at all. I’m a guy have been watching Matthew and a few others off n on for years. Helps me understand myself & other guys. Happy to be single.

@olabalu6597 3 года назад

My brother also watches Matthew's videos :)

@rockfelloweades 3 года назад

Smart!

@gilmourishgilmourish6205 3 года назад

No! Not at all... at least you are working on yourself

@stevek33 2 года назад

im with ya too my man

@katherineking7824 3 года назад

"Happy enough" allows for those little pangs of discontent -- without some discontent there is no room or desire for growth. Perfectly happy leaves no room to invite change.

@yesreneau 3 года назад

1 minute in, and I'm vibing with this video

@benhartart9487 3 года назад

No one really cares but good for you

@michaelswinney9154 3 года назад

Like a werewolf and a newborn.

@susanmcguire4664 3 года назад

@@lolalola9323 people are hear on this You Tube channel to listen to what Matthew Hussey has to say. We do not need your relationship expert. Matthew Hussey has lots of fantastic advice here. I have learnt so many helpful things from him this year by watching his videos.

@robertcollins7034 3 года назад

@@lolalola9323 going back to your ex is like trying to put poo back in your bum !

@akilasultana2368 3 года назад

You’re here too?! 😂😂😂SAME

@TheSoundofTanay 3 года назад

I came out of a relationship (close to 4 years). I was in it for the longest time just because it provided comfort. I was not even attracted to her by the end of it. When it ended, I realised all the heartbreak and 'loss of hope' that came with it. Then, I realised that it was really me... my love, my value and my talents that brought so much to the table. Today, I am with someone new and I find her to be amazing. There's still hurt/wounds from the past but I know I will get through. I deserve the best!

@flutterby8462 3 года назад

Out of curiosity why do you have wounds and need to heal when you just stated your weren’t attracted to her and only in it for the comfort you got. so surely the break up was a relief for you no? This is a genuine question because what you said is a bit confusing

@TheSoundofTanay 3 года назад

@@flutterby8462 yes you’re right - the breakup was a relief. There are two major issues I faced: one, it was a codependent relationship so I was heavily dependent on this person and had no social life outside. Second, I wasn’t into it but stayed and suppressed my feelings for almost two years. When I told her (multiple times) that I wanted to leave, she wouldn’t let me leave because she wanted us to keep going. I was too intimidated and still cared about this person, hence I stayed. So, right now after I got out and it’s been quite a while, I am facing all the hurt and pain that I suppressed for so long. Also, when I got into it I was 19 years old and still forming my identity. So you can get how it impacted my younger self.

@TheSoundofTanay 3 года назад

@Helle Thorning both. I never had a girlfriend before and she admitted later she was latching onto me.

@michaelstrickland3235 2 года назад

Just got done with a divorce after a 6 year for similar reasons.

@SamElle 3 года назад

communication is KEEEEEY to any relationship including friendships. A good relationship is built on a foundation of communication

@tulinbeyduz920 3 года назад

I’ve been pretty happy single the past 4.5 years . I’m open to a relationship with someone that is open, kind and stable . Otherwise I keep myself busy with my work, daughter animals and fitness .

@christinelindberg-gilhus1590 3 года назад

I always took the "You have to be happy." as you have to love yourself enough to know what you deserve so you don't get in and stay in bad realationships.

@anuragrajhans3808 3 года назад

I just had a breakup, i needed it so badly😶

@calliecutsinger8812 3 года назад

Me too. It seems like his advice lands just at the moment we need it.

@thehappychakra2579 3 года назад

Looks like I’m “happy enough” folks! Yay!! Let’s do this 💪🏼🔥🤗👏🏼😍

@Indigomaja 3 года назад

I like this. I usually say that I was unhappily single, but that usually was met with all of the "you need to be completed in yourself" blah blah blah. And I had to let them know my cut off game is strong. You can't come into my life and takeaway from my happy.

@liamashton645 2 года назад

The best thing is to train yourself to let go of what you've lost. Moving on does not mean moving onto someone else. It means letting go of who hurt you.

@kristinreviewsthings 2 года назад

(standing ovation) someone in a relationship tells you that you need to be happy even though they werent happy and their relationship made them happier 🤣🔥🔥

@afshah.7972 3 года назад

Wow this makes complete sense why I settled with people even when there were red flags whereas I’m quite intuitive when it comes to choosing the right employer for my career. I’m glad I’ve worked on myself and sorting out my life to be at a “happy enough” place to not need a relationship to feel happy or complete or fulfilled. Much love to you Matt! 🌸

@lioydwilliams1850 3 года назад

Afsha H,you deserve a good man!

@noofshaif3240 3 года назад

*Happy enough by* : 1- Communication.. Your needs, emotions, values, standards, expectations. # learn how to communicate your needs . 2- Confidence.. How do you treat yourself, how to allow others to treat you # Understanding that you have needs and you are worthy of these needs to be met. # be able to walk away from someone when u communicated your needs and he didn't met them. 3- Have a rich life. Health and fitness. Career. Passion and hobbies. Family and friends.

@monikaleszko5343 2 года назад

Love it 🎉🥂

@gabymcknight3291 3 года назад

This message really resonated with me! I feel that modern society tells us that we should be able to achieve a perpetual state of happiness, and if we can't, something is wrong with us. This is a flawed perception of what it means to be happy, we should strive to be happy enough instead. Thank you Matthew, and I look forward to seeing you in the next video!

@jessicacruz2974 3 года назад

I’ve worked on my life for years getting myself to a place where I can find happiness in many places of my life, my career, my family, my cat, my home, my friends, my SELF. I’m finally at a place where I am walking away from many things (and men) who come to me offering me crumbs when I know I deserve so much more. It’s still hard bc I do want love in my life.. but I needed to build the strength to walk away from situationships and not settle for less than what I deserve. Not sure I’ll ever find a man for me.. doesn’t quite seem that way. But I’ll leave that in God’s hands. All I can do is what’s best for me and that means loving ME no matter what. Whether I have a man or not, I am worthy 🖤 thanks for sharing videos like this, these helped me on this journey so much and still do

@luisjoy5734 3 года назад

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@jessicacruz2974 3 года назад

@@luisjoy5734 I don’t have an ex I want back. Thanks

@anjaknatz7157 3 года назад

Can not agree more!

@robinyarborough4727 3 года назад

When “he” comes into my living space and is putting me down, cursing as his example of what he is. It is time to not allow that person back into your living space.

@positivelyela3286 3 года назад

I totally get the "happy enough" thing. When I was a kid, I was depressed and took every negative thing to heart and it was really hard to grow out of that. I'm still not happy with where I am, but I know things that make me happy and things that don't and I pursue the happier things other than just accepting and hiding from my life.

@guisellalosa7557 3 года назад

I LOVE being single! i can stay one Saturday reading a full book... but when the right one arrives to my life will be lovely too!

@sunnyday157 3 года назад

I never believed you need to be happy to meet someone, what is happiness anyway? Constant, 24/7 bliss? No way. It is alright to feel shitty sometimes and I believe we are naturally happy enough so that we don't make a choice out of desperation.

@monday2756 3 года назад

" the 3rd Circle " Yourself".. I value myself so much that when a guy enters my world and they aren't good enough based on my qualifications.. I ditch them right away . No wonder I'm still single up to now... This is onother great lesson.

@lasvegasnevada7514 3 года назад

Same, I ditch them even though they’re kind to me as I have a hunger for life, doesn’t have to be rich or successful but a slight success or accomplishments is enough. I do things like exploring, both around me and the world that requires a 16-hour flight. Go out and explore. It doesn’t have to be traveling/exploring but a career change, or walking into a new path and leaving things that doesn’t serve you.

@ArielLeighJ 2 года назад

I'm married and I just come here for his voice. 🤣🤣

@daffodilgene 3 года назад

You almost always inspire me to keep improving myself Matthew Hussey, not just on how to be better at selecting the right partner. You help remind people that they are already blessed, although we need to be better at knowing how to use them effectively. More power to you and your crew. God bless

@jenwinchester1941 3 года назад

This concept is so simple and yet so powerful! Thank you

@chelseaellis1626 3 года назад

Yes! Omg I always felt like something was missing through my journey and it was “Your Life”... I mean I have a life that I’m very thankful for but I could definitely improve things and aim for more. Thank you!

@monicalevyt 3 года назад

I'm so happy and complete that I don't need a relationship anymore! 😂

@anu-kriti6146 3 года назад

🤣🤣👍

@robertmicheal1332 3 года назад

@Monica Relationship is sweet when been with the right partner because both partner will share things together

@ginger05 3 года назад

Look, that's great Monica, but I really feel you missed the point of the video. And your emoji choice feels kinda condescending to those of us who are on their journey to "happy enough" for now. Nothing wrong with what you wrote... Just a little careless.

@monicalevyt 3 года назад

@@ginger05 just one more "internet type" around here...

@anu-kriti6146 3 года назад

@@ginger05 don't worry when u have a purpose that actually fulfills u emotionally, mentally , then u r 'happy enough' ,her comment shouldn't bother u much she wasn't intentionally doing so to hurt anyone she's just been a little more happy than u today, keep goin ,good luck 👍

@Rosa-fs2zk 3 года назад

Thank you for this video! I totally agree with the 'happy enough'. 💖 It's so annoying to be told all the time by people who are in a relationship 'you need to be 100% happy first'. They have no right to give their opinion in the first place and my experience is, they are often in crappy relationships themselves or have hardly spent any time a a single in their lives....

@lovetodaylisa3967 2 года назад

Can I be happy single? Yes . Can I be happy in a relationship? Yes. I think that's all I need to know.

@roxanaschiwek5764 3 года назад

Love the "legs under a table" - example, so true!

@ANDJELINA 3 года назад

Just the fact that I have a friend that was open enough to share he was very depressed and that I could understand him and we were able to talk about it. Means a lot. You just have to be okay with what you do and move forward and to be the best you can.

@neoshajohnson1033 3 года назад

Thank you Matthew! There are so many things here that many of us can learn from-just the easy and honest life skills. The main take away for me is to be my healthiest in all 3 areas to only attract healthy individuals. You tha best!

@norrona5923 2 года назад

Love this. The “be happy on your own before you get into a relationship” I think is a new concept or trend to prove self-sufficiency and non-neediness. It creates a very lonely generation where we don’t reach out to others and build relationships or communities. We have the want and need to have relationships, family, friends, romantic, colleagues, community, neighbourhood, etc. And that is OK to rely on others or want to be with others.

@andrewebeagbor136 2 года назад

I know of a man who would help you restore back your relationship either you ex or soul mate

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@Going-Postal 3 года назад

Love this so much!!! I dont want to settle for anything. I just want to enjoy my life and be with the love of my life and have some kiddos. That's good enough for me. Well if I am being honest it's all I ever wanted. To have a family and be happy with them.

@trishwilliams3153 Год назад

This is just simply beautiful. Of all your videos I’ve watched, this is hands down my favourite. You addressed spirituality, common sense, ownership and love and respect for Self and “other”. With clarity, no bullshit, complete honesty! Free of ego! Yours and ours…which is the whole point of this channel from what I take away from it 🙏

@paredescax 3 года назад

You have no idea how much have done for me, Matthew. You're like my best man! Bless you!

@WhyYoutubeWhy 3 года назад

Oh Matthew! 8 years ago, I was at the top of my game. Then I met a great guy and we dated. 3 months later it's over and i'm crushed. From then on, my life went downhill. Being happy enough, or even being super happy still doesn't save us if we think we lost the man of our lives, or at least the greatest man we ever met.

@frankl7370 2 года назад

I think you need to dig deeper if you think a guy who was with you for three months is the love of your life. Sorry for being blunt

@linnette6493 2 года назад

You knew that after ONLY three months??

@WhyYoutubeWhy 2 года назад

@@frankl7370 Oh darling, Ive known that after a night!

@waylander7777 2 года назад

@@WhyRU-vidWhy That's chemistry, one component, not love itself which takes years to build. And trust me if you lose that deep love you will know the shattering difference. i wouldn't wish it on anyone.

@WhyYoutubeWhy 2 года назад

@@waylander7777 Oh so the 9 years of depression i got are nothing?! Shut up.

@KatieFleming 3 года назад

The best is when I tell my sister I wish I was married by now and I don't want to be single and she just tells me "I know lots of single people who are perfectly happy". Well gee...thanks... Meanwhile, she's on her 2nd marriage, has 2 kids...so helpful right? I remember she was NOT "perfectly happy" when she was single. Thanks for this Matt, "happy enough" I can normally get by with this but do have my down days.

@lioydwilliams1850 3 года назад

Katie Fleming,your lovely smile can make the news!

@arorajivlogs1641 2 года назад

well she says so coz she is not as happy as she thought she would be in marriage.... just her own projections..

@carolmforde 2 года назад

I’ve watched a lot of your videos for years and this is by and far my favourite! You are so very authentic and clearly living your message. 🙏🏻

@katrissh 3 года назад

What you just said is simply amazing. I was told all the time that I HAVE TO be happy on my own, that I have to love myself and try not to need anyone and then the person will come. How can I be fully happy without love? I think you can’t just fully do this with yourself, you need other people, their attention, love and presence in your life - just much as we need family and friends, we need a lover. Simple. But I am happy enough, I know what I can give and what I expect. I do not need someone to fill my life, I need someone to enjoy the journey with me. Now i know it. ❤️

@laurachase 3 года назад

I can highly recommend his retreat I attended 2 retreats and it is truly what he promises about giving you the power to be strong and to live the life you desire... best coaching I ever decided to invest in!!!!!

@kealeyadrian7926 3 года назад

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@kealeyadrian7926 3 года назад

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@MetanoiawithMonalisa 3 года назад

This was absolutely life altering! ❤️

@livingstoneoteng9307 2 года назад

Matthew is gifted. U would first think his content would be trite and boring, but he would come through as very edifying and refreshing. Bless you, man.

@roxananasturas 2 года назад

I love the honesty and simplicity with which you articulate things and the place you are speaking from. It transpires. You bring a great contribution on many levels, Matthew. Thank you!

@keisee1378 3 года назад

This makes more sense. After all, isn't this what being in a relationship is all about? To be happier than before? There's no point pretending that we were as happy when we weren't in a relationship. Be happy enough when you're single, and be even happier when you've met the right person.

@pottiluis4262 3 года назад

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@pottiluis4262 3 года назад

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@archiylevent9387 3 года назад

Wow, happy enough! This made my evening (this and the homemade hummus I just made🤣) thank you, I never got the happy alone thing. Thanks !

@clairelouise4834 2 года назад

I have always thought for myself , that I need to be happy in 'myself ' before being in a relationship, knowing like Matthew said that I am making good choices, and that i am strong enough in myself to know when to walk away and to know I deserve better. Being actually happy in a general sense, no one can be happy 100% of the time. Its subjective and situational sometimes ... a journey not a destination. If you are unhappy in your life and yourself , then you have nothing to offer anyone else. If you can't even give it to yourself that's your answer really. Too many people run around trying to fill the void within themselves with other peoples energies. They are energy hoovers!

@CareCici 2 года назад

This video is definitely one of the best. Thank you Matt. This just enlightened the darkness in my life after he suddenly disappeared with the reasons he didn't say but we always knew... Now I know what is the right thing to do.

@starrynight6982 3 года назад

I was literally having his BREAKUP videos in my recommendation weeks before I broke up NOW I'm finding this I'm dead 😂😂

@TheDaanmulder 3 года назад

Absolutely love this! The advice: you gotta love yourself first makes me crazy. As if you have to earn iT first. Everyone deserves love.

@luisjoy5734 3 года назад

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@lioydwilliams1850 3 года назад

Danielle Mulder,your lovely smile can make the news!

@eceerkal700 3 года назад

When you express yourself that way, people either don't believe it or misunderstand like we are closed to love 😊 we can still be committed to life and joy without being committed to a person.. and love, when it comes, it comes and is welcome 😊 next time I try to explain this I'll just share this video as an answer, thank you 😊

@Kikafrangarcia 2 года назад

I feel sooooo happyyyyyy. More than happy enough. It all starts from the foundation, our families, our backgrounds, the way we were raised, is all part of our journey, if we just change, or better said, improve the way we see the things that happens to us? That’s when we are invincible. We are learners, we learn from everything, nothings is never too bad, it all makes us stronger, and wiser. This life is so amazing. Love your videos.

@irina.mio. 3 года назад

Legs of the table concept earned you a like Matthew )))

@AziTala90 3 года назад

You are getting actually the wisest coach I have known, Mathew. Thank you for your crucial wisdom. ❤

@pottiluis4262 3 года назад

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@fire.empath 3 года назад

Thank you for your compassion and for your honesty, Matthew! :)

@maryhailstone8475 2 года назад

Matthew this is fantastic! This is what everyone needs to learn in order to keep themselves safe from people who would harm them (rape, sexual assault, human trafficking, abusive relationships, etc.) Because we all want love, when we get desperate, we are willing to put ourselves in dangerous situations to get some sort of "love." It's so sad but we can learn to be "happy enough" if we know how to get there. This video shows you the beginnings of how to get there! I just want to say thank you for sharing this and thank you for having the courage to help others.

@marjoriebertrand Год назад

Thank you so much for this video! I cried when I heard it cause it is really painful for me to hear this fucking sentence!!! Your « enough » changes my pain in hopes and makes my life lighter!!! ❤️

@metaphisix6036 3 года назад

Idk why in the middle of this I thought about the marker scent... it’s strong! 😄

@sachertorte9806 2 года назад

Love it. IT IS life saving. Thank you Matthew, new subscriber. I divorced 4 months ago, after 32 years. Getting my own life, and loving every minute of it. I don't need a man, but I want one. There is a difference. I feel ok, happy enough.

@godsplan7726 3 года назад

Matthew Hussey..your head and your heart are the best part of you..your emotional intelligence is beyond compare.. Matthew Hussey..you are the only person in the world who understands emotions and relationships.. Matthew Hussey..you deserve all the happiness in the world coz you make other people happy..I value you the most..I respect you the most..

@stephanie5471 3 года назад

Look at romantic relationships as a bonus, not the end all be all! 😉

@ehunter3700 3 года назад

This gives me confidence to manage several areas of my life. Thank you

@kumarkavam593 3 года назад

Hello my dear

@kumarkavam593 3 года назад

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@kumarkavam593 3 года назад

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@christianpulisic7784 3 года назад

E Hunter,You are absolutely gorgeous 🌹🌹🌷🌺🌺

@monkeymind3917 3 года назад

I’m so grateful for you Matthew! This is just what I needed to hear- really clicks and is so empowering! This is just the perspective I needed to pick me up and remember the mind set I need to be in again. Thank you so much!

@DforDado 2 года назад

Came here for the title but stayed because the content is much better than I thought I was getting. Thought it was love advice but turns out it's a life advice. Thank you.

@ball5772 3 года назад

“happy enough” is a good plan 😂

@ladygypsysoul122 3 года назад

Good thoughts. The three in a circle.

@lioydwilliams1850 3 года назад

Sabariah Innae-jeulgeoum, hope you are with a good man!

@laviki5190 2 года назад

The table legs really brought SO much clarity!!! Thank you forever!!!💙💙💙

@lesleybrady3948 2 года назад

It’s mind blowing how engaging you are MH within seconds and it continues. Absolute value in such a short clip, consistently! X

@BluieBeth 3 года назад

I hear this ALL the time. I hate it and it makes me cringe because it makes me feel like it’s my fault. It feels like I’m doing something wrong. Thank you for this!

@christianpulisic7784 3 года назад

Beth Miller,You are absolutely stunning 🌹🌷🌷🌺🌺

@XxChaysterxX 3 года назад

1:11 my eyes wide open, me sitting on my bed screaming "YES, THANK YOU! FINALLY SOMEONE SAYS IT OMG" and spill my coffee all over my pyjama. Thank you Matt, I love you ☺️❤️

@luisjoy5734 3 года назад

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@navymed3 3 года назад

I love your definition of confidence, understanding that you yourself have needs

@christinaoneill1711 2 года назад

He's fantastic this world needs more people like Mathew

@gregtheflyingwhale6480 2 года назад

Why are you considering happiness as a key desire, if emotion is the least stable component ever? Today you're happy and tomorrow you aren't. I'd prefer to target stability instead of happiness since the most long lasting relationships are stable. The life is much more normal and (for most people) less satisfying, because many cannot handle a boring marriage for decades. Modern world needs stability

@artistic_mama2295 3 года назад

I’m pretty sure I was talking about this concept yesterday lol...

@euniceeunicesarahivf6356 3 года назад

I do have a problem with being happy enough and not letting it be my everything.

@jenniferjoyspalliero9374 2 года назад

Wonderful video! Happy enough … super true. You absolutely DO need to be somewhat happy and bring things to the table or else you’re just hoping to be saved by someone else. Nobody enjoys needy energy. Thank you for sharing this video ❤️☺️

@user-sw4cl4yb2g 3 года назад

Question is who’s cutting Matthews hair during this lockdown 😂😂😂❤️

@andlj.179 3 года назад

I think it's Chris Appleton, his fellow Brit and also LA-based famous hairdresser. He made him look alike with the current hair cut. Although it's great to change the hairdo occasionally, I think the Rockabilly style haircut Matt had some time ago suited him best.

@lioydwilliams1850 3 года назад

Kloe B, you look stunning dear

@katherinenewton73 3 года назад

He looks thinner, I wonder if he's been jogging more, lifting less? Always looks good and has great advice =)

@user-sw4cl4yb2g 3 года назад

@@katherinenewton73 haha this man has been looking food for years , I mean look at his shoulders alone

@Rimxsha 3 года назад

Love yourself before you love someone else

@KatErina-ii6ru 3 года назад

No truer words ❣️

@rolisharma935 3 года назад

Oh my gosh! You explain it so well in lucid way. Thank you so much for pointing out. 😊✨

@MistaTurdburgerz Год назад

YOU CAN DO IT HAVE FAITH IN YOURSELF AND YOUR GUT AND YOUR POWER!! It’s not easy for anyone, and you are worth it!!!

@him8206 3 года назад

Bro thank you for this 🙏🏾 this was the one I needed, my god. Whoever thought a ven diagram would be what I’m gonna decided to plaster on my wall and look at every single day with what I want and I’m gonna achieve in these three areas 😂 This was it man..you’re a damn godsend 🙏🏾💯

@kumarkavam593 3 года назад

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@meaghanparent8740 3 года назад

Loved this video! Thank you!!!! I always felt guilty that I wasn't joyfully happy being single, lol. Thank you for this concept, because I am definitely happy enough:) and now I feel relieved from the pressure to be perfectly happy all the time

@lioydwilliams1850 3 года назад

Meaghan Parent,you deserve a good man!

@aishasingleton 3 года назад

This is brilliant and very salient for these times of intermittent lock down and uncertainty! Thanks for your insight Matthew 🙌🏾💯

@sarahmeecham6654 3 года назад

That’s a good point! There are different levels of happiness and that varies between people and themselves. Who’s to say what is truly happy? We can only identify our own different levels of happiness.

@jolielive3 3 года назад

Okay Matthew. I see what you’re doing. Your “happy enough” steps sound a whole lot like being regular happy. You’re just trying to make the concept more palatable to people who don’t want to accept the fact/start truth that you really do need to love yourself and be happy on your own in order to be in a good place of pursuing a relationship (which happens to be 99% of people). I’m not mad at all. Gotta put food on the table and keep the lights on. I respect (and a little bit amused by) the hustle 🙏

@pottiluis4262 3 года назад

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