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Watching from India occupied Kashmir. ❤❤❤

This is marriage therapy in a nutshell!! An outstanding reminder for all married people to check themselves and how to truly live a happy married life, and the best advice for single people looking to get married!! I will forward this to my younger brother inshallah and take on it as a reminder for my self for self improvement inshallah!! Jazakum Allah Kul Khair!

make duaa for me that Allah will send me a good husband who is sensitive and not neglecting

Very fruitful video for unmarried and married people equally.❤

The last question summed up a lot. Im someone who grew up in a household where it was said that my parents are together just cause of me and my brother and it made me hate myself even more. I would have better left with my mother than my father abusing her. Saying this, as I'm almost an adult now, I understand the importance of marriage but I also understand the importance of divorce too. Sometimes distance makes things tolerable. Maybe the parents coparenting the child without staying together can be a lot better than stucked in a toxic marriage. And to each and every problem of life, there needs to be personal values and morals which comes from a faith, I believe, or else it's random cultural and psychologically things someone puts together along the line. Thus it shows the importance of practicing our faith and learning more about Allah's words and how our prophet (pbuh) dealt with situations. I've been watching this channel for more than a year now and I've never commented before but this video made me comment about a bunch of things. May Allah swt reward you guys for the efforts you're putting into spread islam and islamic knowledge+ values. Jazakallahu khairan 🌷

JazakAllahu khair.. 💜From India

Literally every single question was perfectly answered ☺️

My brothers and sisters, build yourself up, work on yourself, increase your knowledge and actions, if you were alone, stranded in a forest, who would you be?

I should have watched this 16years ago.

May Allah bless our brothers and sisters of ummah with Jannah ❤ Aameen summa Aameen ❤

Brother your such content is stoping me from being married 😅😅😅😅just for fun 😂

His wife is so lucky ma sha Allah

Me watching this when it's just 3 days for my marriage insha Allah

I think videos like this focus on a very important topic but I think they miss the most important point. Tawheed and belief in Allah first. Love is nothing if it is not for Allah. So a husband grows to love a wife because of his love for Allah and a wife grows to love her husband because of her love for Allah, likewise with other relations and aspects in life. Any other perspectives might be 100% beneficial in this life and possibly to live happily but the benefit and happiness stops in this life if it is not done for Allah. Many many people got married because of love and many reasons but forgot to marry for the sake of Allah.

be sure to have heard frim the brother, where he said "low-quality marriage" is what destroys, and not a "low-quantity marriage" alhamdulillah for islam

You guys should call Nauman khan on stage

They know how and what to give to our generation for betterment.... ❤

This 20 minute video has more knowledge than a 3 hour podcast. jazakAllah ❤

Brother Ahmed is not only a Sheikh but also best counseling in marriage! Jazakallahu khairan 🤝

Light on the Tongue, Heavy on the Scale (Dhikr) Prophet Muhammad(ﷺ) Said: The One Who Say سُبْحَانَ اللَّهِ وَبِحَمْدِهِ، سُبْحَانَ اللَّهِ العَظِيم “Subhan-Allahi wa bihamdihi, Subhan-Allahil-Azim” 100 Times No One Will Be Better Than Him On The Day of Judgement Except Someone Who Said It More Than Him' [Sahih al Bukhari 6682] Also in [Sahih Muslim] Say It At Least 100 Times During The Day While You'Re Fasting Also Share With Others

Pray for me, especially for nikah 😢

Kindly download this video on your urdu channel too

Alhamdulilah great advice

Don't Skip Do This ❤ Prophet Mohammad (ﷺ) Said Whoever fasts the month of Ramadan and then follows it with six days of fasting in the month of Shawwal, it will be as if he had fasted for a year.” Sahih Muslim, 1164) or (2745) How to fast in Shawwal 1 You can fasted immediately after Eid it's fine. 2 You can fasted them separately still fine. 3 You can fasted them on Monday, Thursday .( Also it's sunnah) 4 You can fast them anytime in Shawwal. Also Copy & share with others

Subhana Aallah..I slept through much of the video but I still managed to catch the last few parts which talks about the most important issue that is feared. Divorce. When all is said and done if you choose a righteous person hopefully you won’t have any regrets. In shaa Allah.

Need duas for pious spouse🤲

I DON'T HAVE WIFE! MAY ALLAH GIVE ME GOOD WIFE🤲🤲🤲🤲

This is good for me as im trying to find someone but im afraid if we are too close before marriage then we will go to helll

🎉This video is GOLD 👑 for the couples who are about to marry 8:23

Indian but now Saudi Arabia

I'm really lucky to hear this advice before marriage

I would ove to show this video to my daughter when she is of age for Nikah! very well articulated. Keep this video forever

Married is truly a test of human character especially for the leader.

What is the point of marrying someone if you don't love her? I still don't get it.

As an engineering enthusiast, i really loved the atomic bomb and nuclear energy analogy It fits perfectly

Marriage is risky but at the same time not marrying can also be full of regrets 😅

Rabbana hablana min azwajina wadzuriyyatinna qurrata a'yun waj al na lil muttaqin na imama.

Ilm+Hikmah Allhumma barik.

Please upload that on Urdu channel also so more people can get knowledge and save their marriage life.

But if husband do same thing again even after apologize ????

From Pakistan ❤

It's so unfortunate I got married before watching this

If a woman keeps bringing up a past event, its because the underlying sentiment in the action has come up again packaged in a different form. Its not about the event itself, but the underlying sentiment expressed showing how you view your wife, whether that be done conciously or unconciously.

There is a misconception that women never forget the past. But in reality this a human trait not only in women Men don't forget too, they keep everything hidden until there is a dispute...tried it, lived it.

I didn't know, I need this rn. I just started a relationship like 3 days ago, reunited with old friend, and then yea, we talked, discussed, and found something in each other. We decided to get serious, marriage. And I'm still learning how to understand myself better, improving before get married. Both of us needs more time to developing ourselves, to be good. And for that, I trust him. We will see if this can work out. Cause I still don't know the future. All I can do are praying and improving for a better future. Thank you for this video, it opened my eyes.

Mashaalh. G

Can this video be uploaded in Arabic on your Arabic channel please?

MashaAllah this brother talks only wisdom . BaarakAllahu

Love From A Small Channel 😜😍

Cool video, My relationship of 5 years ended a month ago. The love of my life decided to leave me, I really love her so much I can’t stop thinking about her, I’ve tried my very best to get her back in my life, but to no avail, I’m frustrated, I don’t see my life with anyone else. I’ve done my best to get rid of the thoughts of her, but I can’t, I don’t know why I’m saying this here, I really miss her and just can’t stop thinking about her

Seems like a never ending war...💥💥💥💥💣

when men do not apologize the woman can not e with him anaymore , the intimacy doesn't feel good , daily communication becomes bitter and bitter !! men should pay attention cz ince the woman walks away he can not fix the marriage anaymore een if she loves him so much do the work , express that you guys are sorry and make chnage in your behaviour , women need action changed no just sorry here anf there Good luck !! greeting from Morocco

Assalamualaikum. This video and the previous one helped me a lot. I noticed the subtitle is only English though. I wondered if it is possible to translate to other languages as well? For example there's Towards Eternity Indonesia 🇮🇩 but not many videos are translated including this one.

I too can talk hours about how to have the best marriage. But when I try in real live with my wife, she sucks the energy out of my soul. The problem is woman don't respect rules and agreements. They say yes and do no and then discust about your reaction, not about their wrongdoing.

No matter what you do she will always bring up anything that you did that hurt her even the smallest incidents.

I think is real

very knowledgable and wise speaker 👏🏻

We need and want Bangla version for this one please ❤

Beautiful wisdom shared, every person should watch this before marrying.

May Allah Guide my wife towards me very soon ,i luv you.....bt i don't knw where r you this time....still unmarried 🤔

In 25 minutes you gave concrete answers to a lot of problem which would need a 6 months couple therapy, great video !

May Allah bless you all in both dunyas,thank you very much

Masha'Allah Tabarakallah. Very good explanation

I am that "harmed" child, if only we can turn back time I would prefer a divorced, happy parents.

As a woman, this video is so real. This man knows very well what makes the marriage work even from the woman's side. If you want your wife to love you, you need to show her your love first. Like a mirror or in Al-Baqarah: a garment for you as you are for them. No red pills. Just Islamic, rational, emotional and realistic at the same time at the same time. Not married but I have seen marriages and notices the patterns like the man said.

Masha Allah, this was a beneficial video. I have a personal question, Is it advised to get engaged before marriage?

Everyone should watch this before getting married 💍

This is incredible stuff on one of the most important issues, marriage!! Make this viral. Everyone should watch this before getting married. Really helpful. For married couples as well. Lots of thanks from Kashmir❤

I haven't watched it but I guarantee you After watching I would still say "JUST DON'T GET MARRIED "😊😊

Very realistic and Islamic approach to a topic many of us face in life but know absolutely nothing about.

This Man is just mashallah 🥰 and well gifted 😊we need knowledgeable people like you in our society 😢Thank you Brother . May Allah bless you and your family ❤keep sharing your knowledge with us ❤

Practically informative. Thanks

Way back then, I always heard this word from my parents': "We're married when we're 24". To this day, the scale of success around here is at what age you're getting married, the earlier the better. Like, it's a race against time and if I can't get married at the designated age, then I'll be considered a failure to both community and family. But, day after day and upon looking towards how I mostly react to something with anger during that age, I feel like it's a sign that told me I'm not emotionally stable yet

صلو على سيدنا محمد صل الله عليه وسلم

Thank you very much for your efforts and guidance.

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Very useful video from a 22 years old man 😍Jazaum allah khir

Wow this is such a good video, very thoughtful about all situations by not even taking anyone’s side, very logic and helpful, since my marriage already ended few years ago, by now I figured it slowly that it wasn’t a healthy marriage from the day one to begin with, and when i noticed my poor children suffering with our daily dramas and struggles then ending it was the only way, I’ll definitely recommend this video to my ppl specially to my kids and I’ll also keep in mind how to behave as a mother and mother in-low with my kids. Thank you guys, your videos are always very helpful 🫴🏼💐 May Allah swt reward you all with good health in your life and happiness of this and the next world

What is your turkish channels name

It’s more of like after marriage interview than before marriage

what is the speakers name?

Make this video viral! Everyone should watch this before getting married💍

Please make same video in Urdu

Jazakumullahu Khair for your efforts but I think you should include ayaat and ahadith more rather than only using logic. Also always remember than one rule can not apply to everyone what might work for me might not work for another so you should be goving options and room for that pondering and contemplation joined together with prayers and like @mAmeenb said 5 days ago, you should also love your spouse for the sake of Allah that will really really help too.

Assalamualaikum bhaiyo india se kon2 hai

I like this channel very well ❤❤❤

Be patient is the key that will solve all problems, at least thats working for me

Love this channel

My husband is an amazing man I just wish he would talk about problems/marriage/feelings .......

Can u translate into Urdu language

5:20 .well not repeating it ,mending ways helps more.

I agree with you 100% after 28 years of marriage

What you said are very true including the last one which leads to a never ending or repetitive cycle until the children stop it either by not choosing to live by the same pattern of parents or by not getting married. It’s lucky to get a chance and live a different life while raised in a toxic and abusive environment. It’s more probable that the children from abusive homes will suffer in life. It’s painful that the children go through the abuse from parents and then suffer in life as well later on.

Me and my soon ex- husband to be and I have been talking about our ongoing divorce. This video is a gem to all singles out there, so solve the problem during engagement period before marrying someone. I would say that in this video, 100% of my marriage issues are mentioned.

Thanks!

Good advices mashaAllah 👍

Such beneficial advices,Allahumma barik brother.

Thank you. May Allah reward you This is very important advice Watching you from Somalia🇸🇴

So much love for this video

MasyaAllah.. Jazakumullah khairan katsira ❤