Don't Let Your Emotions Control You 

Ties into being a christian. We have to deny ourselves daily and live for Him. Not about our emotions its about being Holy.

discipline=freedom

My dad tole me his motto in life is to "stay calm and use common sense." Looking back I can see how that was true because I can not remember hearing him swear or raise his voice to anyone. I admire that and I am trying to embrace that mentality every day.

"Remove emotion and apply logic" . Well said! So glad to have found this channel ❤️

"Adulting is hard because you do things you don't want too." So true. Can you do a video on delaying instant gratification?

This is an important life skill

I find if I move through my daily tasks when I'm having a rough time or anxious about something...emotion fades to the background and I end up being productive. God bless

I really needed this video ♡ I feel like self discipline is my largest personal hurdle. I'm ashamed when I look at how cluttered & messy I've allowed my house to become over the last 2 years. I have been working on it (focusing on small sections so as not to get overwhelmed) but I know I can do better. I have many things I want to do around my house and crafts I want to learn but it's like I'm holding myself back. Thank you for this encouraging video.

Will your husband ever do a Q&A with you? Thanks for this message, your awesome ❤️🙏🏻🌹

I especially struggle with organizing and making appointments for myself. So called "adult things" they just terrify me. But I know that I need to push through. Because when I push them away, I feel bad about myself and like a little child.

Hello I just wanted to thank you so much for this channel! I'm a young woman who's relationship was slowly falling apart because of my tight grip on being a feminist and being very masculine and I'm so glad someone is willing to help women like me who weren't introduced to a healthy expression of femininity and feelings.Ever since I've started adopting more feminine traits,being more nurturing, listening to my boyfriend more and letting him take more decisions our relationship has improved so so much . I've also started appreciating homemakers and mothers more,whereas before I was very against both and to my surprise my boyfriend is now very happy that I have become open to the idea of having kids and settling down. It's amazing what you're doing here. Please keep going and thank you again !

I've been learning this for about 3 years. You and I have the same name, come from the same region in the US, and seems God is teaching us the same things. Lol. Also, I agree that once you get into the routine or discipline that your house is clean almost 24/7 and a lot of procrastination is quelled.

Putting feelings away and applying logic instead was THE thing that helped me start to come out of my chronic depression. It's natural for me to suffer from it, but once I realised, that all I needed was to force myself to be more adult like, I immediately started to feel better. Sometimes the best thing you can do for yourself is to allow your inner critic to control you. It's like being a strict parent to yourself.

My husband is a Battalion Chief of a Fire department and they are always finding ways to make their job less stressful and mundane, depending on the day, during the time in between calls. I’ve begun trying to incorporate this philosophy at home and when I do, I find that I am less likely to balk at the daily tasks. One of my favorite ways is to play your videos while I do my housework! 😀

I love this video! I was literally just talking with my husband about how I’m an emotional person and always influenced by feelings and other peoples feelings. I definitely needed this lesson, so thank you so much!! 😁💕

Hi! Thank you for a wonderful video. I'm really happy that I discovered your channel. I'm 16 and at the point of my life when I'm starting to become more mature and learning about adult life. I think having a good role model is very important for young girls like me and as much as I love my mother she might not be the best one. It's really wonderful that you are here, sharing your thoughts with us. It's really helpful for a lot of women. Please, don't give up on what you are doing. Keep going! God bless and have a wonderful day 💖

I left youtube open and my boyfriend came across one of your videos and watched the whole thing on full screen. He said he found it very interesting

every woman needs to subscribe to this channel

I'm an extremely emotional person. I can't control my emotions literally, sometimes I get so angry that I end up hurting myself because there's just too much emotion going on. One second of seeing sad news on TV makes me so sad that I just don't even want to eat anymore. A friend not answering her phone automatically makes me feel like that person doesn't care about me and hates me and I'm obvuously not enough for them. The list goes on and on :'(

I just found you yesterday 💜, I am so happy that I did. I can predict you are going to have thousands of followers really soon. Sending love from India 🇮🇳💖

Right now I'm in a difficult season in my life, working very hard with my psychologist to battle my mental illnesses and build a life that I want to continue living for. Currently I'm studying to get my Swedish version of a high school diploma. Because of my depression and other mental illnesses I haven't been able to tackle it yet, and I just turned 27 so it's been 7 years since it normally should've been finished. Your videos are so so motivating to me when I struggle to keep going and find purpose. I dream of one day being a SAHW/SAHM but right now that's not in the cards since I need to get better. Watching your videos make me feel like the reason I'm doing all this, struggling and fighting for my life, is all going to be worth it when I can have my own family. Your take on personal discipline is extremely helpful and I resonate with your feminine message in almost all areas of my life. I just want to thank you, dear. You have truly affected me for the better in a million and one ways and I always look forward to your new videos. In the meantime, watching your old ones like this one help me get through the toughest days and keep my strength up even when I don't feel like it. Thank you Cait!

I felt that part you said laundry has to be done😂😂

I’m a little late to the game here but this is like Mel Robbins 5 Second Rule….count down from 5 and then move. Don’t let your mind have time to figure out what your doing and stop you. Just act on the things that need doing and you’ll get so much accomplished!

I really believe obedience to God is freedom because then our actions are not just dictated and driven by emotions or cultural trends or family/friends opinions. Self-discipline and obedience are freeing.❤

I agree with you that discipline will definetely lead to success and self love ! You are a great motivational speaker and you have a lot of empathy! I also have a german shepherd baby girl and she says hi! Great video !

I've been going back to watch all your videos from before I found you, and I really needed this video. So many times I don't wash dishes or do the things I need to be doing as a homemaker because "I don't feel like it". It affects me, my home, my children, and my husband. Thanks for the encouragement!!

I've found the turning point of my life with this video wow.

You’re experiences are why men are important. A solid man can have a tremendously positive influence on a woman who is open to the masculine. It’s this combination of emotion and structure that build our wonderful society. Chasing emotion solely is the root cause of the debauchery we see in the West currently. You are a wonderful influence and light of hope. You’re doing an awesome job. Excuse me the 2 of you are doing an awesome job.

OOOh... I needed this! Thank you for your encouraging, feminine videos! I also struggle with discipline and wanting to chill, not doing things I ought to because I don't feel like it. Praise God I have a loving, patient husband : ) I took notes and jotted down areas I am going to have more discipline in.

Definitely needed to hear this, as someone who tends to live by her feelings! Good to see your channel growing 🌷 many blessings!

You: focus on mastering yourself and pushing this uncomfortable emotions Me *reverts back to 5 year old child*: BUT I DONT WANT TO !!

Your dog makes this video even better 😍

Great video and I completely agree. I am going to practice this week in holding myself more accountable so I can get things done. It can initially feel restrictive but when you look at the bigger picture, discipline can set you free.

I so desperately needed this! Thank you very much for this Caitlin! You are such a beautiful person inside and out ❤️

This was valuable, I have been putting off taxes

Real / best channel I have ever subscribed to I swear to God.

I am going to watch this video every day. I need this reminder in my life right now! I just started a new business and fear of the novelty and uncertainty of it definitely keeps me from bucking up and doing some of the things that need to be done. Thank you Caitlin!

Literally exactly what I needed to hear. Thanks girl 😘

I'm saving this video! Thank you for this :)

I was having a tough day, emotions running amok. On my drive to work I listened to this and it was the breath of fresh air I sorely needed. Thank you, I like how you live from a place of faith but very little of what you say is specifically faith based. It makes it a lot more relatable. I only subscribe to a few channels if after a few months I feel they are still adding to my life and I seek them out. I hope you become someone I subscribe to down the line because your messages have been truly profound for me. Thank you for your wonderful topics, approach and grace.

Thank you for your down to earth wisdom! :) I'm happy that you pushed through your anxiety to put these videos out there because they are really valuable!

Lol the first 6 seconds made me clean my room. Thanks 😆

This is very good advice. I read a book that said we don't have to feel like doing something we just have to do it. This ties in perfectly with what I've been trying to do. Love your channel!

You are a new mentor in my life. I can’t explain how much your channel is a blessing in my life. Thank you for sharing all these truths. You are helping me learn to break free from so many lies that kept me in bondage for too long in my young adult life years.

I’m so glad I found this channel. You have so much to offer this world! I love all your videos. Thank you ❤️ God bless

so glad i found your channel!! wish all femme women could meet up. i enjoy being a feminine woman so much

Omg thank you for making these videos. The things you talk about have been on my mind last week and I need to hear this.

I am learning so much from you. How can I control my feelings whenever I get grumpy or annoyed in a relationship? How can I show my emotions and feelings in a healthy way? What’s the best way to argue? - Love from Korea 💖 -

Great video! You have such a kind way of telling your message, it goes directly to the heart! And I agree with you, your feelings should stir your life, they should help you with bigger decision making, when reason and logic isn't enough to guide you. I think it's a very important skill. Also because you might end up hurting somebody else if your let your feelings get the best of you, and people usually don't hurt you intentionally, so they don't deserve an "emotional" reaction. And sometimes it's not in your own best interest to show your emotions. :)

This was amazing!! Keep it going girl!! Definitely have you in my prayers so God Can continue to use you as his instrument for others ❤️❤️

I’m so thankful that I found your channel! I’m currently in the process of watching all of them. :) along with many other videos, I definitely needed to hear this one. So thank you so much!

You’re like a sister I never srsly😭😭😭😭- much needed🤩🤩

Loving your channel! Your videos make me want to be a better housewife, woman and overall person 💓🙏🏻

Sometimes the most rewarding feeling is when you know that you could push yourself out of your comfort zone and you was able to get work done, even though at first you ,,did not feel like doing it". Very useful video

I sooo needed to hear this!! I have gained a lot of weight simply because I would not tell myself NO. At least not for more than a few days. You’re right that this self discipline is paramount for living a productive and godly life.

Thank you so much for sharing this!! It was SO motivational for me!!

This is amazing advice and you explain it so eloquently! I'm very glad to have found your channel, thank you.

I find how ironic my situation was before playing this video ! I just discovered your channel today and your so beautiful! But as I was looking at your videos I didnt "feel" like playing this video but I could feel the spirit telling me play that video you struggle with that, so I did (barley) and look ! Haha Gods amazing ❤ God bless you !

I really needed to hear this right now. Thank you love ♥️ you are a beauty inside out. God Bless you! 🙏

Girl!! You are mature far above your age 😊 Speak boldly!!

This video blessed me so much, especially as a christian who is called to deny myself and pickup the cross everyday.

Thank you so so much. ❤️ You are truly a blessing in my life. You give the sisterly and motherly advice I’ve always needed and desired. I look up to you so much. -Kylee from Nebraska ❤️

I so needed to see this video! I'm the same way 😩 Need to get a hold on my emotions!

children do what feels good, adults do what is right. the harder decision is typically the right one.

This one really hit home for me. Thank you 💛

More videos please! I’ve been waiting for a channel like this! ❤️

Great videos. Women need this, Men need women like this.

This was truly helpful! Thank you lady. I needed to hear this today! Love

Very helpful advice. In some areas of our lives we cannot ask "how do I feel about that", because it doesn't really matter. Get up and do it

This has been very helpful thank you! You have so many insights that feel like a fresh breadth of air☺️I subscribed immediately

Always find it very interesting when non-professionals try to explain hard topics. So from the perspective of a psychology student... Emotions will always control your life. It's a common misconception to think you're able to be otherwise. If you have a shitty day and feel unable to get things done there's a reason behind it. And sometimes it's healthier to just give in to that. If you are in a state of "I just want to stay in bed because I feel miserable" and "But I also want things done" you find yourself in a conflict between two aspects. The human being in any case always follows the "feel good" feelings, even in deep depression. So the message of not letting emotions control you is false, because they always do 24/7. In this video you literally teach suppressing your emotions. You are an emotional being and always will be.

really loved this video. Such a powerful message. Thank you

Wow I really needed to here this! Thank you!

Thank you for making these videos! You are so inspiring and wise.

Hey! Biggby! My favorite Michigan coffee chain. Also, thanks for the kick in the pants today. I really needed it.

Hi from France ! Found out your channel when trying to understand more about tradwives. I'm a 25 y-o female and this video is really inspiring, as I can't grow into adulthood because of my fears. Please keep motivating us with your beautiful channel :)

That could be a solution for all my problems. Literally.

Super appreciate this. Sending love 😘😘

Very interesting, I think I’m your example of how any ‘extreme’ can be unhelpful in life and adulthood. I was the extreme, exact opposite. Totally suppressed feelings and logic, reason and brute determination and discipline ruled. That is why I’m drawn to your channel. I still need to keep learning and practicing how to be more gentle and nurturing with myself and others. I’m learning to grow in the opposite way.

Hi, I am from the Philippines and I love watching your videos. You are a great help 😊 May God bless you more 💕

You're amazing. Thank you for this video 💜❤

I’m obsessed with your jumper!! 😱😍

Wow! Absilutely! So articulate. So true. Thank you Goddess

I knew I liked you, a fellow shepherd mom!!

Needed this thank you!

You are amazing!!

Love this ❤

THANK YOU for this 🥰

I swear you look more stunning and gorgeous in your each video. I adore your beauty as well as your beautiful thoughts. May God bless you with loads of happiness and joy .. 💕

A video on where you get your modest dresses!!! Please!

You deserve much more subscribers! ❤️ I found you today ❤️

I needed to hear this.

Thank you so much for this!!

Thank you for the video!

Best accident for me too! So helpful😍

This is so helpful 💜

Excellent video... and your dog is adorable:)

Emotions are used by the Enemy because when your thinking with your emotions your more likely to not have any logic. Just think of the last time your heart was broken and their was a fight between your heart and your head. The heart is also deceptive but in different ways.

Great great video!! Great value. Such un important message in nowadays

this video gave me the courage to apply to a job :)