I completely get the boyfriend wanting to move out. My partner and I are introverts, and the healthiest thing we ever did for our relationship was to define personal spaces in our home. It can get weird and awkward with trying to do so in apartments we can afford (sometimes bookcases are walls, etc.), but we're both happier and less prone to tiny irritations feeling big. OP's place sounds a bit too small for two. A slightly bigger apartment with more defined spaces could literally save the relationship.
Im in the same situation, I love my boyfriend, but I really need time by myself. It’s really hard to do this in an apartment, so in the future we might have 2 bedrooms
*Story 1:* It's insane how entitled some customers act. I work for a restaurant. We get all sorts of customers, from nice and cordial, to frustrated, to downright rude! Thankfully I've never personally been treated this rudely or condescending.
Dude, if you're stocking up on silver and gold you really need to keep it insured. Yeah, physical currency isn't affected by inflation, but it can also easily be stolen or lost in some kind of disaster.
@@spikertaker Yeah safes get stolen all the time in ppaces like garages. Most garage doors are pretty easy to get into. Stealing a safe likely expecting guns is common for both criminals and family. The garage is not a safe place.
For the last story, i agree it was op's fault for leaving it so unsecured. He can't really blame his family for something he was responsible for. It could've been that his parents were the ones that took it, but it was still his fault, his family didn't have any responsibility to take care of that for them and it seems he's just trying to blame and direct his anger towards anything.
Anything could have happened to that money. It was hardly in a secure location, was not insured, and there were no cameras. Maybe his investments hold up against inflation but banks offer security and help prevent this exact scenario...
If someone breaks into your house and steals all your stuff, is it your fault for owning a house or their fault for stealing? Because the most likely scenario is that the dad saw the silver and said “oh hey, a quick buck” and sold it rather than people breaking into a garage and stealing nothing else.
In the first story of course the man acted absolutely horrible towards the OP but the one thing that really surprised me that the OP seemed to find it weird that someone wanted to make their own special sauce because in my opinion it’s not weird at all to want to eat something that you love!
This. It was one thing to mix the condiments to his liking; that's normal. Distracting the waitress, interrupting her, and making her pay attention to ONLY you and your table while you mix the sauce, let alone bothering her for the rest of the night and badgering her to try it, was where he crossed the line.
No, your comment is weird. Would you try some guy's sauce if he was rude and condescending to you all the while you were his restaurant server? And calling you "sweet cheeks"? I personally won't do so and it is weirdly suggestive if you think about it.
@@jodex_md8008 I only said that it’s not weird to make your own special sauce and of course what he did while and after mixing his sauce was absolutely inappropriate
With the last story I completely believe it's the parents. Otherwise who casually walks up to a garage, checks it's open, and knows exactly what to look for and where to find it?!
Story 2 sounds familiar to me. I lived in an apartment and the guy next door who didn’t shower often and had long hair had a cast on his arm. So one day he came over and asked me if I could put his hair in a ponytail. I did even though his hair was pure grease and he was gross. Then he ended up coming over every day for me to put his hair in a ponytail. This was 25 years ago so I was super timid back then and just did it every day because I didn’t know how to say no.
Third story. I would go crazy if I never had my own space ever. Even if it's just half an hour... But I would rather try to find a way to work on the issue, instead of leaving.
I would recommend to the guy with the buzzer to just disconnect it for a month then when the crazy neighbor finally learns that you won't answer for her they will reconnect it.
And the king of bad takes strikes again. 3rd story just sound like the guy needs some breathing room. I dont think i have ever seen you question anything when the op is a girl complaining about her boyfriend. Also "i dont have enough room" is a VERY valid reason for wanting to move out.
I don't know what made Special Sauce change his mind, but his wife must have seen it because sure enough she was right that he got taught a lesson. She was probably pretty happy with that, but idk how that guy could be so rude and then change his mind/behavior so suddenly.
that first story was pretty back the snapping his fingers and clinking his glass but I hears of a story that tops that I heard about a entitled man brining a small bell into a restrunt and rang it when ever he needed something
5:45 You live in a block of flats, so there must be an apartment manager/caretaker on site? Or, at the very least, there's a management company that you can contact? Well, *CONTACT THEM.* Let them know that this woman keeps bothering you to get in, and you're tired of it. If that doesn't work, next time call the COPS. 7:50 _"We need to talk."_ He's got another woman. 16:30 The best way to tell your parents is to walk up to them, take a breath, and say, _"I lied to you. My b/f didn't wake up saturday morning not feeling well. We talked Friday night, and I told him not to come."_ 20:00 YOU'RE the Asshole. You left your life savings sitting in a garage, and not even YOUR garage. You can't trust your family to keep YOUR belongings safe.
@Chilli Corn _" I would've done the same thing if i was in his place."_ So you would have broken up with her in order to get some alone time? I'd have suggested separate apartments first. He wanted to break up.
Story 2- wtf?! After the first time, I would have mentioned something along the lines of “You know contacting the super is gonna be so much easier then having to relay on someone always being available to let you in. Hopefully he can get a new key made for you asap.” Then when/if she did it again, contact the super/manager & explain to them what happened; that she’s expecting you to always be available to let her in & how she’s being obnoxious over it. I bet he would put a stop to it fairly quickly.
That is her problem not yours if she's too lazy to replace her key then she has to deal with the consequences I mean really it only cost about $3 she can't afford $3
Story 1: Holy cripes, are we so far gone that snapping your fingers or tinking your glass is considered contemptable behaviour. Should he just raise his hand like a school student? Sit there waiting, hand in the air, for somebody to notice? There is the more common practice of making eye-contact, but OP said that she was avoiding that. Also, old people are weird. This guy just wanted validation that his special sauce is good, and from the sound of it, it probably was. You're a waitress, you're in a service industry. Make the customer happy, give them a little showmanship. AItJ definitely simping hard on this one. Old man may have been a bit rude, but at the end of the day he's just a paying customer
Personal note to Am I the Jerk?: The frenetic animated background is annoying and distracting. Please find something calmer. Story three: I'm sorry, OP, but my guess is that he's planning to move in with someone else. If the housing situation is what you say, he can't afford to just rent a place on his own. So he must have plans to live with someone else, either a male friend who has a cooler life than he does with you, or a girl he's been seeing for long enough that she has expectations of him. So don't be surprised when this really is a break-up.
