But if you are an ENTP as well, inevitably you will want your own space, but if you are dating yourself you will never be able to separate from yourself. Therefore you will never have space and time for yourself.
Don’t worry, we just want a bit of fun and difference in our daily lives. Personally I just want someone who can challenge me in mind games, they are so fun.
Female ENTP here, it's not so much 'debate' as it is deep thoughtful discussion I crave (you don't have to 100% agree with me, I want to experience your authentic unique well-considered perspective). Also, no, I don't play chess. I'm interested in having a partner, not a rival so stop framing ENTPs as 'debaters' or adversarial. Comfort isn't as boring or undesirable to me as stagnation is, if you aren't ready to grow, an ENTP is not for you. I can't abide boredom or feeling stuck for long, sorry. I wouldn't say ENTPs are un-romantic, but rather that we need a balance of rationality, pragmatism, emotional expression & romance. The genuine communication with an ENTP is a *2 way street*, do not lie to or mislead an ENTP even if it's to 'spare our feelings', go ahead and be more frank, open & honest with an ENTP than you would with other people (bonus points as you are getting out of your comfort zone & we admire people who stretch to grow). If you aren't ready to go deep with another person, an ENTP may also not be a good long term partner for you, it is fine for you to have appropriate boundaries, but the superficial won't keep an ENTP showing up enthusiastically for the relationship. And one of an ENTP's most cherished boundaries is our space & freedom to keep up with most of our outside interests but we will grant others the space & freedom to pursue their other interests in return.
Thank you for your comment and feedback. I’m an ESFP married to an ENTP man, and I’d love to talk more to other ENTP’s to really understand him more. (Te child)
I agree with some of that especially the just be straight up with us because vagueness is the biggest turn off in my opinion. Hey Se none I'm an ENTP as well add me on the gram j_seph__
Thank you for posting.. I’ve read a few comments from people saying “you’re not a true ENTP!” if you have convictions or something.. when I find something that I am truly passionate for, I go all in. My mom used to complain that I would always get “obsessed” with things!
Unlike most other people, entp's want you to change their mind. Atleast that is how I feel, I want to know the flaws in how I am thinking so I can form a better idea
#2 is so facts. When I learn something new I wanna tell someone and I want them to be interested but it’s hard to get people excited and as passionate as I am sometimes
As a male ENTP, female ENTPs are awesome! a female friend of mine is an ENTP and I absolutely adore her (not romantically, I shudder at the idea of two Ne doms being partnered, even before I knew about MBTI). It is like seeing myself (in an uncanny way) but we are completely different people at the same time. We get into arguments often which i love because she never takes any of them personally and neither do I. So discussing things were both parties are having fun is like a win win, both Ti and Fe end up happy afterwards.
@@farrex0 see people think I get offended and mistake my passion for arguing. I take virtually nothing personally and I am always in logic mode. Whereas some might leave feeling we had an altercation I feel like we bonded lol. My job is to turn over every stone in a world that wants to hide comfortably under a rock.
@@WordPressU That tends to happen to me a lot, lol. I get excited when people are discussing a topic I find interesting, like my brain actually brights up and I am happier than when I graduated and got my first job on the carer I wanted. I go into excited puppy, lets discuss all about it, mode. But people think that since I am passionate about it, that the topic is dear to me, or that I am offended, or will get offended if someone contradicts me. But that is precisely what I want, I do not like people that say yes to all I say, that is boring. I do not care if I change someone's mind, I just want to have fun conversations. Besides the idea of getting offended by discussing ideas is alien to me, like someone can directly insult me or the idea I am defending and I never take any offence to that. The only way I can get offended, is if someone offends someone I care about.
Well. The girl I'm dating is an ENTP so I'm tryna get educated here 😅. I'm going to attempt the first kiss on our date (3rd date) tomorrow, so hopefully it goes well. I just feel like the fact that she keeps accepting my offers means she must be into me. But she's so hard to read. I honestly think the ENTPs are the most fun to tease since they always have to try to justify everything they say -- well... I, as an ENTJ, love it.
if she wasn't interested she wouldn't engage. Now you just have to find out if its because she is into you.....or just curious to watch something about you playout......we do that......alot. Ive stayed with or around some seriously toxic people out of curiosity alone. Strong defenses and strong boundaries give us a little more time in dangerous situations.
ENTP: Exchanging opinions is how we get to know you. Finding out why you have them is how we make friends. Knowing this doesn't help anyone else much, they still feel you're just being argumentative.
Oh my goodness I was about to say the exact same thing. 😂😂😂😂😂 my ENFP girlfriend broke up with me 4 months ago and now she hates me cause I’ve removed her from my life. Now she is trying to rub her new boyfriend all over social media. I still have no idea why she broke up with me in the first place. ENFPs🙄 I love them and they love me until they wont just COMMUNICATE with me. She couldn’t accept the fact that I change and want to change for her. She didn’t want to change and didn’t want me to change for her. Classic ENFP. I was logical about everything and she wasn’t and that ruined it for her. I was always and even would still be willing to work around the problem if she would just work with me. 🙄 but she deep down HATES me and won’t admit she has feelings for me.
White White ENFPs might be feminine, common, smart, exciting, and beautiful. However; we really should just look for the more rare and sometimes less exciting INFJ or INTJ women. They are supposed to be our best fit. I’m just really attracted to ENFPs but I’m not sure I should ever date another ENFP. She liked me so much but left me so fast. It’s confusing.
Conrad Smith is it just me or we entp can easily get close with any girl we don’t really like but people find them attractive so we can play off their feelings??
This video is very interesting: It looks like a clickbait (that stock images), sounds like a clickbait (corporate music), but the content is really very high quality! Dang, unpopular mix! New experience for my ENTP soul ^^
@smile first for yourself love in your heart Well, at least in the perspective of my protagonist in my novel but I'm also an infj so I definitely agree that an entp and infj couples aren't possible to be great. Though I am sensitive, I want to have a partner to help me with my growth and to tell me my mistakes without hesitation, I can always bear the pain in exchange of wisdom and understanding😊. Sooo yeah, entp's like you are absolutely attractive to me like everybody does in their own way, personality and attitude 🥰
Well the INFJ is literally the natural mate for ENTP and I can assure you it's a match made in heaven. There are differences that you'd think make us uncompadible but it actually just balances out each other's personalities
I'm an INFJ and I've met an ENTP recently. He's fascinating. He's pushing my boundaries and I love it. He seems to hate commitment and he says I lie that people can be loyal and loving. He doesn't want to discuss things, though, and I want discussion! He seems interesting but he often says he doesn't care about anything. I think it's not true, but why does he say that? Is it fear of opening up or what?
I'm an ENTP guy, pretty similar as well. I've been called mysterious and interesting by a woman I was with (no clue what her type was). To give you some advice in the best of my abilities from what you've given me, either he's not into you, his world view needs to be challenged, or he's got problems he needs to sort out. The last two coinciding with eachother. He may have been hurt in the past and is having a hard time moving forward. I would say to your best of abilities figure out if he's interested in you, if it doesn't seem like it then that might be why. Otherwise, if you're committed to him I would gain his trust and slowly unveil the bandage he has. Personally I'm not like that, I'd be worried about someone being fake but that's easy to spot. So his hate for people not being loyal and loving is illogical as there is evidence to suggest otherwise, so he probably has been hurt there. I wish I could be more thorough, but I hope this helps!
@@Darklord-uo3re Thank you! I think it's all the three reasons you mentioned. He definitely has issues. He is probably not interested in me, even though he's been texting every day for 3 months now. But it may be just an "ENTP information dump" because I'm always there to read and react. I personally think he hates women but wants their bodies so he has an internal dilemma. It's a pity, really, because if he was just hurt, I would carefully do what you suggested and give him my love, attention and acceptance. Thank you very much for answering. It reassures me there are nice and responsive ENTPs :)
@@justinael You're welcome! Personally the girl I was with, we texted fairly often for about 2 months and wasn't really interested in her. But once we stumbled onto a topic we were both extremely passionate about, we talked more and more and I grew more interest in her and that's when I started devoloping feelings for her. I don't know what an ENTP information dump is but if what your saying is true that he may hate women but want their bodies that sounds like a bad sign. I wouldn't know what you could do to fix that as that seems like something he'll need to learn from by example. Meaning he'll need to see that you can in fact have loving and long lasting relationships with women but that would have to be over a period of who knows how long. I wish you the best luck regardless. And I'm glad to have met a fellow INFJ ;)
infp here trying to understand my entp by watching these! glad to know that me setting boundaries didnt turn him off phewwww (shouldve do research before unconciously confessing but oh well were here now-)
Interestingly annoying that ENTP women in the stock videos are always portrayed as arguing all angry. We for sure, have more social intelligence than to fight like that. We have a great deal of control over our ability to speak to another human. We don't fight, we discuss things we have already contemplated so deeply in a matter of seconds. We think fast and often in the middle of a discussion we have a light bulb moment and keep going. Its an amazing rush to have a conversation for us, we never are annoyed to talk to people like these videos portray. We simply DONT talk to people we don't enjoy talking to. We actually enjoy "arguing" so we don't lose control of our emotions like that. We have a very good ability to control our emotions or we would be feeling types. I understand they are stock videos but... just to clarify, An ENTP woman is NOT an aggressive antagonist. We do like harmony and we care about people we just NEED to get our thoughts out and that's basically our art and our way of being. We learn through expression of words. I almost 99% sure this was made by someone who is not an ENTP. Also, if you date and marry an ENTP woman, you have to understand that you didn't marry a doormat. Our biggest fear is to be forced into anything. We love very practically and we actually research interpersonal relationships, and we probably know more about you if, we love you, than you do. We strive endlessly to connect the people we love with EVERY opportunity we can position them into. We want to see others we love succeed very hard. Also, no games, you can NEVER out manipulate us. We know how to find strings in any system and we don't tolerate games. You cannot out smart an ENTP. We love good and we are excellent partners but you must be interested in a HIGH mental energy kind of relationship. The feeling types HAVE to understand that we aren't gonna be decorating our houses for every pointless tradition and we will NEVER ask your permission to do things. I'm happily married to an ISTP and we have an amazing groove. He does the details and I do the innovation. I love being a parent and I spend a great deal ensuring my children are going to succeed in the long term. ENTP women are great partners especially if you can appreciate a woman that is more logical than emotional. If you want your kids photos plastered on your wall and matching throw pillows to match every damn season, she's not the one for you.
my ENTP is charismatic but he doesnt like a lot of people so he confronts them with debates lol which i dont mind theyre usually strangers or colleagues
Is it just me or is it near impossible to find female INs? I dont think ive ever met a female ENTP and unfortunately i dont think i ever connected with an IN or even an EN. Been battling it out with these ISFJs
ENTP here I don't like ISFJ's I think they are very boring and vanilla in the bedroom. I need to have interesting conversations and ISFJ's are all about small talk. ISFJ's don't like debate and seem to be very traditional to the point of being intimidated by ENTP's. I just don't think it's a good match at all.
@Any RD I was friends with an ISFJ woman. Internally she was probably screaming "why can't you just be normal" every time we hung out. Any SJ type just seems too traditional and strict for me. My parents are SJ types and they drive me fucking nuts they are not adaptable at all. I don't think they really understand me much. They think I wanna be traditional like they are but I'm VERY far from that.
@@thomaslovely6525 There was an ISFJ at work I thought was cute. Had to spend the day with him on a job and he drove the company work truck to get us where we needed to be. His general talk topics, when he was actually motivated to talk, consisted of all of the big pick 'em up trucks he saw on the road that he considered to be dream purchases. Had it gone further (in theory), the temporary hookup situation would have had to've been one plied with alcohol accompanied by a late evening, same day departure.
I hate when guys are so princessy like damn it just face it and do some thing better - I’m an ENTP and ppl are getting slower all the time they needa wake up
