I love them, they always want to care for you. Amazing, loyal and charitable people. My esfj friend randomly helps people on the street which is so sweet.
Well it's a noble thing to put others first but not all/ most of the time we need to take care of our selves too because unless this we will be looking for someone to care for us and this won't happen so take care of your self as well and put it first this is what called self love
ESFJ's, like all types, deserve love. But don't you think ESFJ's, out of all the types, are some of the best to give love, hence receive love? It would be quite surprising to me if an ESFJ would ever lack love. Sincerely, a loner ISTP.
@@mathias1dk I think you’d be surprised. The love you give isn’t always the love you get back. People with high Fe go on caring about other people even when it’s not returned, and understanding people even when they themselves are misunderstood. It’s exhausting and defeating. So much of the “love” we get isn’t actually love for who we are, because almost nobody wants to understand us. They’re just happy benefiting from our company. It’s an incredibly isolating experience sometimes.
You know what, I have a soft spot for ESFJ types... you can really depend on them to deliver the goods. Definitely from a distance though; the incessant "HoW aRe YoU dOiNg??" gets awkward instantly. Never change tho.
I see your usefulness in this world ESFJs but you socialize for different reasons than i do and I feel that you're often too involved in everyone else and don't worry about your own feelings. Be selfish for once! I can't say be that way to my extent because even when I'm extending compassion, I usually gain something from comforting that person...so I'll likely ignore strangers :/ yeah, I'm terrible at Fe...Literally my demon function lol but you guys are admirable when healthy so keep up the good work 👏
Hey ESFJs, 23yo female ISFP here (your most comoatible type). Anyone want to marry me? 😂 ESFJs are supposedly super common, however I don't think I know any ESFJ men.