I used to think that I didnt want to play games...until I learned (much older) that you better at least learn the game because it's being played whether I like it or not. Keep preaching and teaching
Exactly. I learned it just this year (super late) and I'm trying to help my friends but they all say "I don't want to play games" and I'm like... it's already being played, you just don't know it.
My favorite story about my parents is the one where my mother did not accept the first engagement ring from my father...she told him the ring was too small for her and that he could do better...he actually came back with a bigger ring...and the rest is history...she was the ONLY stay at home mother that I knew growing up...All the other mothers Worked...my father worked two jobs and always brought the money home!!! This my first time watching you!
Kathy Gadson Thanks for your story I actually did the same thing My now husband bought me what I thought was a tacky ring haa haa so now I wear a nice emerald and diamond ring, never give in to cheap ❤️❤️❤️
That was some quick thinking🤔 I like that and that was too funny girl🙊. I thought you was a strong woman💪 clap back I thought you was a real man🦍😛. I know that Dusty mouth was left wide open😣😦🤤🤥😲.
@@TatiSaysSo ...and he failed! 💣💥 😎 Enough is enough. With her simple response, I suddenly believe the future is looking bright for women tired of being gaslit. 🎉
I've never wore makeup until shera put me on game. Now the pickmes hate me. The dusties are intimidated and men with careers approach me. I have good options now.
Ladies...You cannot compare yourself to celebrities!!! You are not rich or famous. The men cardi b attract are dusties at heart but they have money now. Believe me, they still act like dusties.
Stephanie Martin before cardi and offset were married he tried to charge her for a feature before she had gotten big. A real bf wouldn’t have tried to charge her. And she got mad 😂
I'm married and u got me getting my ass up early every morning getting cute. I've lost 7 lbs.. Its a start. U are very motivating. I've deleted all the other witch channels I had. I only need u. Ty so much girl!
+ally dye a lot of her followers are married women. Sometimes we need those refresher courses, lol. Over time husbands and wives can get comfortable or lazy or take things for granted. We have to always keep them chasing us. Being feminine and pretty is a win/win!
@@user-og8ii5dc4l we never stopped chasing its women that are asking questions like "why cant we holler at dudes why cant we propose" trust me I'm a for chasing yall I love it it's in our blood😂😂
You are absolutely right! My ex was raised by a single mother and he took her mentality and became a feminine man who sought every opportunity to get money from me instead of making money for the household. He wanted to split the bills, chores, everything 50/50. He was basically demanding that I come to the table to help chip in or get out. He then lost his job and so I picked up a second job. He had no issue sitting on his ass playing video games all day while I was out playing bob the builder. And yes pickmisha is my middle and last name. He was the female and I was the male and we were headed no where. I’m so glad I woke up, leveled up, and still leveling up!! Thank you Shera!
This!!!!!!! Wow same situation for me accept he has not lost his job. But his mom who has no life is constantly in his her about what he should and shouldn't do bc we ain't married omg!
The whole 50/50 racket is exactly that. A racket. The primary beneficiaries are men. I was stunned post-separation when I realized how high-maintenance my ex was. But it makes sense if you think it over. Generally men consume more than women. Groceries, electricity. If you go 50/50 with a man you are paying for you and part of him.
Yep did the same thing. With 3daughters in the and him. Needless to say when he got on his feet saved his money and stopped paying bills. He left me for a travel teacher he went to college with, and calls her more successful than me💯
all women do. but for some it's been raped out of them & for some it started with their own parents defeminization of their daughter (along with emasculation of their sons)... Time to get it back y'all, peace
wonhoptoo This is so true!! Best to act feminine unless in a dangerous place then put out the don‘t eff w me vibe. But in the company of gentlemen act feminine. Feel like my femininity has been abused out of me and trying to get it back. I deserve so much better than what i have gotten from men. I‘m married and turned husband‘s proposal down for like 5+ years lol. But i have the bling bling now. It is still a struggle with him because of how he was raised. I‘ve repeatedly dated down from how I grew up because my parents didn‘t start me out w anything so i worked in service roles to make ends meet.
I laugh but you are so right. I knew someone who was almost in her 50's and she had men crawling at her feet. I notice she was always extra feminine around them and they were drawn to her like magnets and this was an average looking woman but she was very feminine in the way she talk and walk. So yes, it does work.
I actually think ultra femininity intimidates men. Whereas the ‘one of the boys’ type of girl is more aproachable. But the upside is that feminine women atract quality masculine men.
For me when I was one of the boys i didn't get noticed, but as soon as i started wearing makeup dresses and purses they started complimenting me and buying me snacks when i refused they said i want you to have it please take it.
In the city that I live in there are lots and lots of people who are sailors navigators, they have lots of money in raport with the country that I live in. So that's gonna be my husband, because I want that lifestyle. I see them wifes, they have nice cars, they have lots of money, they stay at home take care of the kids. That's what I'm going to have. :).
Good job girl!!!! You can totally have that life! I have that life now and so do the moms in my area and its literally NO other way to live! You can have it just speak it and manifest it
i thought the "baby voice" thing wasn't that serious, but girls, IT IS! days ago i was talking on the phone with a guy "friend", and at a certain moment the conversation went a little "hot", so unintentionally my voice got slower and a little high pitched, and more closer to the microfone. girlssss, this guy was MELTING because of this voice i made, and he even said _"wow, i really like when your voice changes like this, it's so soft but also so sexy, you drive my mind crazy!"_ 👀🤭 usually my voice is feminine but a little fast, so i think i'll start to talk more with this "baby voice" that drive the guys crazy 😅
Telling them you are a receptionist when you are something else, like you have a good carreer won't work practically because he's going to find out real quick what you do. And you cannot do that if you are looking for a husband. But what I would do, is tell him what I do, but really tone it down. Like I work at the office, I live with my brother, he pays my bills, to give him the impression that I'm not making that much money
As a man oh yeah she is so right Feminine women is what we all like. If we wanted a man we would just get a guy. I myself have a reall woman in my life now and it was very hard to find her. because most women today want to be men
If you are trying to lose weight it matters what kind of food you eat as well, not just the calories. 300 calories from pasta would be much harder to lose then say 300 calories from salad with toppings. Hope that helps women on the weight lost journey.
I was dating a man he started out okay getting me bags, etc. But he all of a sudden three months in, mentioned sharing expenses. I told him if that happens I would be in my masculine energy and that means NO MORE SEGGS. Dumped his dusty a*s two weeks later after he fixed my dryer and got my last gift.
1:37:53 I love that you said: "Besides, If James never did anything to deserve being treated that way..." Good job, Shera. People forget that character always means a lot more than pure cash. If a woman or man is that loose with their loyalty, they might as well be strictly for hire, and nothing more. Yikes. Great answer. That was the best response ever ;)
In 2019 my sugar daddy purchased me a 2019 lincoln mkz...I recently grew tired of it thus he bought it back from me cash... I never asked him to purchase it the first or 2nd time... he did it voluntarily. He is 67 and I am 38 been dating 6yrs. Yes a man with money will volunteer and invest freely.
Does dating mean you are exclusive with him for 6 years or does it mean you see him once a week, go on dates and he takes care of you and you date other people ?
I watch your videos every day when I'm getting dressed for work. A lot of this stuff I've done naturally, and some I'm still learning. But great videos.
i stopped using vulgarity entirely and see great results from speaking correctly. I even use correct English while speaking with friends through texts.
Omg shera. I wanted to say you are DEFINITELY RIGHT about freestyling alone. I went to an upscale bar and saw some girlfriends of mine happened to be there...let's just say they really need to watch your videos 🤦♀️
#Beauty Your hair is literally 🔥🔥🔥 & your cheekbones are fleeking-out. SheRa is on point ladies. Longer hair, sweet voice and delicious scent will drive a masculine man out of his mind! I'll have to return tom'r. for part 2.
Hey Shera! I highly you should launch videos about, “Recovering Independent Woman Syndrome’s”, “How To Find Out If The Man Of Means is Legit”(ex. how to run a background check & how to find out his last name if he claims not to be on social media), and “What To Expect When Meeting Your Older Man’s Friends & Family”. Thanks and looking forward to watching☺️✅
I look very feminine, but I am really masculine in mind set and how I operate. I can't stop it because I'm scared of being dependent. I've been there and it eventually turned into me being treated like a child and a burden. I feel like everytime I let my guard down and settle into my femininity that men abuse that and start trying to run over me cause I need them. How do you pull it off without getting your life snatched from under you?
I think once u married to a rich guy. U have secured the bag. Means u can hold it against him if u divorce, u can walk with half his money. He will stay put unless his stupid.
You also have to NOT let your guard down. Shera speaks on this - always keep them on their toes. Never let them think they have you 100%. She has videos on this so try searching (if you haven't done so already).
Never let your guard down. Keep yourself marketable so your man knows his work is never done. You can be loyal to your man; with readily available options. Keep multiple income streams......he doesn't have to know. There's his money and your money. Make sure you invest some of his money to create your own wealth.
Ugh! Ive experienced this @ work. My supervisor is a woman. She started hating on me soon as I started wearing make up to work. I switched it up, told her she has nice eyelashes. Now she's wearing make-up & off my back!!😂😂
Nisha Mack yes Ive had to convert a bitch all my life. I had the same thing happen to me my boss who looks haggard was not very nice to me but honey I was very nice to her remained sweet and complimentary and honey she is sweet as pie. So I killem with kindness and get and keep folks off my back. Now she asking about my weekends before she wouldn’t even smile at me. Lol
Hi Shera you tell us to go after men who are atleast 15 years older, but most of the single men over 35 are divorced with kids and alot of relationship baggage. I don’t see myself being a carer of someone else’s kids (not anymore) and alot of the time there’s ex-wife drama especially if he’s very successful and she wants that money :( I was 27 and almost married a 44 year old divorced, very successful plastic surgeon...so much drama and his ex-wife (she’s in her late 30s) was insane! She would even use their little kids against him. It was exhausting dealing with all that, at some point his generosity and masculinity just didn’t matter, I just wanted peace, so I dumped him.
Wow that so sad. Sounds like the wife has that " if I can't have you no one else can have you " mentality. He'll either have to man tf up and put her in her place or just remain single since his ex has him by the balls.
I’m a mix of feminine and masculine. I think it works for me because men tend to really like it. What they don’t like is a lack of confidence and a lackluster personality.
You’re right you have to do it in person. I tried practicing online. Having standards etc and the men were like disrespectful, low quality & rude. My account got banned for Apparently selling something and I try didn’t sell a thing. I wasn’t going to meet up with them I just wanted practice until I got out there. The treat you rudely online. They kept trying to get me to get drinks I was like I don’t do that
When you were asked, what do you do when you're not attracted to someone and they want to sleep with you and your answer was three shots of tequila baby! I'm dying laughing! You just crack me up
Find someone better and richer than you so automatically become womanly and respect him. As well as let him pay for everything. One of Victoria secret model doesn't pay for any of bills or stuff her husband does even doe she's super rich! 😉😁
I watch all your videos from start to finish. So many gems and also entertaining. Your thumbnails and titles are EVERYTHING. I enjoy watching you and Mikki :)
I still have masculine traits in me because I run, play with my kids and lift weight at the gym. As a single mom we do it all with God’s help. How can we be feminine while still pay bills and run a business and play with two crazy toddlers? How can I be softer and less masculine?
Ant Dean, one Year: thanks for the input guys. I think I do not get approached bcz of my masculinity and even the way I drive😂😂😂 some of you are right, femininity is traits you have or don’t. But, masculinity does not attract anyone.. maybe flies😂😂😂😂 it’s been 2 years after my divorce, and still dating no one....
Ant Dean true. My intake on this bcz I was with two men younger than me. I always felt that I have to guide them as they did immature things. Now I need a real older man despite my masculinity I still feel I need a man who can provide cz I’m tired of taking charge.
@ant dean @ hello kitty i can say from experience i have went to masculine to feminine girl. It's not pretending like one year said you become it. I went from hating anything girly or feminine to accepting i'm a female and it's okay so i started doing feminine things over a few months i became more softer and i enjoy being feminine. I use a soft girly voice i didn't even force it it just happened and i just noticed this like a few days ago when im at the store or at college my voice gets soft and feminine and sweet and I like it, I think every woman should be feminine but be masculine when we need to be.
Me too girl. Yesterday I had to put air in my tire and because I looked feminine and had on a sundress, a man stopped and asked if I needed help because he couldn’t see a beautiful woman struggling. Once he asked me if I needed help I activated my baby voice 😂😊.
I really can't imagine Shera doing this baby voice in real life when she was single ... perhaps a little mysterious yes but not this cat voice 😂❤️ I wish I could hahaha
