"You will have everything you've ever wanted in your life, just never all at the same time"... wow. I wish I had your mother. Thank you for sharing this :)
I've heard this saying before, but with a slight modification, "You can have everything you want, just not all at once." I don't believe a person can have everything they want, because that is not realistic. However, I do believe a person can attain most things that they prioritize.
I've known of this quote since my 20s (i'm now 58) and whenever i said it out loud to a friend, i could tell they thought i was crazy or just wrong. But i have observed it over and over again, and i totally believe this is accurate. And it's okay.
God forbid, Imagine being lucky enough to be going through a quarter life crisis and then there comes a video helping you out from your favorite person. This is literally the third time when your tea time tuesday were in sync with my life problems. I am sure grateful to be able to access internet just because of you.
I struggled to find the meaning of life and all for almost seven years, and then later last year I realize "to be" is enough. Now I took an even more positive view: "to experience".
When I was younger I thought adulthood was a destination full of all the answers to my questions that I could control through over preparation and sheer willpower. And as I’ve gotten older I realized how wrong I was which can be scary if you’re a control freak like me 😅 so videos like this are so relatable and helpful when trying to navigate life 💛
I completely relate. I idealised adulthood and adults so much as a kid😅, it actually kindof ruined the first years of my twenties but I'm slowly getting better
@Marina MN Glad I'm not the only one. I thought that my 20s would be one of the most amazing times in my life and now I'm 24 and I'm really not having things under control. So yeah kind of ruined those years for me too.
I've been feeling so lost and empty for a while now, struggling with big life changes and university stress. Thank you, Sadia, for bringing me this comfort today
Hey Feier, I remember that exact feeling. You'll figure it all out eventually, I'm sure. It'll all unfold just one day at a time. For now, wishing you all the best with your studies. Thanks for being here 🌻
Going through same things and same deal with university maybe in another part of the world but I just wanted to encourage u aaand no matter how bad it is it ll be Okey .stay strong.
I love your mom! No wonder you are such a beautiful soul with this kind of support. Thank you so much for your videos. Love what you do! - from a fellow anxious person
Thank you so much for this! I cried when you spoke about your torn heart because of family in different parts of the world. That's been my whole life story. My mom is Peruvian, my dad German. I grew up in Germany missing family in Peru. Now I live in Canada with my Mexican husband and our hearts are pulled in every direction: Germany, Mexico, Peru. It's heart-breaking and yet....we chose this life, didn't we?
@@sunkissedheart347 not sure if your comment was meant to be sarcastic but healthcare in Canada is very bad regardless of what they tell you. You wait for a long time for everything. If i want to see my doctor i wait for 7-8 weeks to see him. People are on a waiting list for years to even get a doctor. On top of that private healthcare is non existent due to regulations so you cant go private even if you have money.
"You will have everything you've ever wanted in your life, just never all at the same time" literally made me start crying and kinda received a lot of the pressure I put on myself.
This resonated so much with the quarter life crisis I've been going through recently. Your mother's words remind me of something MLK said (he also openly discussed his gloom, depression, and fears): "You don't have to see the whole staircase to take the first step." Thank you for bringing your openness and calm compassion to mental wellness. 💚
Currently battling imposter syndrome while waiting to graduate in two months and I just feel so lost as to what I want in my career and where I want to be in life. Thank you for the video ❤️
The amount of us feeling lost and seeking direction is a telling sign. This is why we should always be considerate. We really don’t know each other’s silent struggles. Great video, I too needed it.
yess true words💕 hey btw anabela, i recently started my own channel where i talk a lot about well-being, self growth and a healthy lifestyle, if you wanna check it out☺️
@@PatriciaScarpinTK I hope you'll see the light! It is not easy, talking with people that you love will make it a little easyer. Spend time with you and kids if you have. Just stay in present. (I was there too). I don't know you but i send you a big hug from far away. You are not alone, just look around you🤗🤗🥰🥰
"Shine just enough light to see only one step of the path ahead of you at a time." That's what I needed to hear. You mother sounds so wise ! Thanks for sharing her words.
I feel so lost right now. So much uncertainty and longing to feel better. Your video has brought me tears. Thank you for sharing. I enjoy your comforting voice.
“Not until we are lost do we begin to understand ourselves” wow… I got goosebumps when you said that quote. I definitely see this resonating with a lot of people, myself included.
Hi Sadia... I was feeling very low right now. Just had an argument with my dear one. I was weeping. Then there you are... Thank you so much, dear... You don't know me, but I'm here from the beginning. I am very happy with your content. Whenever I feel stressed out, I came back to your videos. Your videos always come in the right time. Sadia, I don't know how to express my love and gratitude 💕💕 Wish you all success in the world.
I'm sorry to hear you guys were having a tough time, Akhila. I'm sending you a big hug. And thank you so much for being here from so early on and for your support - it really means the world 💕
I'm so happy to see the comments. To see I'm not alone in this. To all the lost people out there, let's embrace this uncertainty of direction, career or relationships, whichever we're going through. Take just the next step. For me right now, it's s my spiritual practice. I'll go do that. Thank you Sadia, this, is a sweet video 💛
I searched for feeling aimless and here you are, you have been my mentor, my elder sister and can't thank you enough. No words! Imma crying.. thank you 🤗
Sadia, of all the quotes you have ever used in your videos, your mom's quote is the best! It brought tears to my eyes, as I also live far from my family and friends - so very relatable to me. Thank you for sharing your vulnerable side with us and wish you to soon feel calm and confident. You bring a lot of meaning and joy into this world by creating quality content and I am sure - not only this ❤
I was just crying.. i was just crying..n i got this notification.. sadia u hv been such a saviour.. i m feeling totally depressed..i just cant stop crying.. stuck between duty and what heart wants..
Being between two loves is terribly hard. I’m in the US again but long to return to Germany. To have the push-pull between counties is challenging. Your mom is so wise and right! We have only this one life and it’s not possible to have everything we want at once. Love your cinematography in this video. Gorgeous!
The words "It's OK to do not have all the answers right know." are just so soothing in this moment... I'm just in this situation of another big change by following my heart, but taking my mind with me. So this video comes to the very right time. Thanks a lot Sadia, keep going on with all your heart and creativity. ❤️
This has been so timely for me. Feeling this way is ‘temporary’, is such a good reminder. Your calm, loving nature and authentic delivery is the best way to receive such great wisdom. Really enjoying all your videos. 🙏
I really understand your feelings about living away from family. I grew up in Eastern Canada, left my family to move to Alberta for 3 years. I made so many friends in Alberta and being in the beautiful mountains weekly was so good for my mental health. I'm glad that your mom is wise, because I felt pressured by my family to come back. I did and I'm there for my family, but I have no close friends and can no longer hike in the mountains and I miss it so much. Sometimes ''home'' is not always where your family is, but where your soul connects to nature and people and feels like home...
"You will have everything you've ever wanted in your life, just never all at the same time" I get the feeling this quote from your mom will be very important in my life too.
Thank you Sadia and Pick up limes 💗🙏🌹 your videos are so comforting and give me a sense of home. Like you, I am vegan from BC who lives in Europe because my husband is European and I met him in Asia. I am very happy but, being human, I do sometimes feel homesick. Your videos give me a familiar comfort. And I really appreciate the beauty you add to your videos, the plants and flowers, nice plates, the food, And f course your wisdom and sweetness!💗🥰🙏
Thank you for these words, I'm also living abroad for 2 years now and missing my family (in The Netherlands ;) ) and being torn in loving living here and wishing to go back. Your quote is very recognizable "You will have everything you've ever wanted in your life, just never all at the same time"
Feeling unsure and lost is part of life but going through it and to find out what's right is really hard. The quote of your mom is really helpful. Thank you for sharing 💚
Sadia, i feel like the universe heard me and you posted this video at the right time when I needed it the most. I have been so overwhelmed with school, internships and I feel so stuck. I see all of my friends who have it figured out and I feel like idk what I am doing. Thank you for this ❤️
i have suffered from stress, anxiety and depression for years. i struggle to feel like I know which way is up at the moment and listening to this makes a lot of sense to me, so thank you Sadia x
The timing of this couldn’t be better. After dreaming for what felt like my whole life, I finally moved abroad. I didn’t realize how much I’d miss or how hard it would be. I barely know what’s going to happen next month. Let alone in a year. With all the pressures of finding your career and what’s next, I’ve never felt so lost of disconnect. Your videos have helped me through so much, but this one is on another level. 🙏🏼
I’m from France living in Canada so I feel you! It’s never easy to be that far from family but being at home at the same time in our new country. And at the same time feeling like an outsider sometimes.
i believe that its really difficult sometimes 💕 hey btw marion, i recently started my own channel where i talk a lot about well-being, self growth and a healthy lifestyle, if you wanna check it out☺️
I unexpectedly lost my father at the beginning of the year, so there’s a lot of change and questioning happening in my life right now. Loved your video and I’ll for sure be checking out these prompts. ❤️
Hey Marcella, I have been through the loss of my father unexpectedly and suddenly... Just to share with you- no matter what people tell us to comfort us, we never really recover from such a loss, but trust time to help you learn how to live with the pain.... You are strong and doing awesome.... Hang in there and with time, slowly life will start fitting back in... Sending you lots of love, hugs and healing energy 🙏✨🍀
@@renukapatankar2185 Hi Renuka, thank you for your kind words and sorry for your loss. Losing a loved one is harder than I ever anticipated but I’m slowly learning to live with the grief.
@@eratia13 hey, I lost my father abruptly at 20. 27 now. I will tell you what a good woman told my sister and I, when we were really low: "You'll find it unbearingly at times, but you will develop the tools to get through it." And we did. You will feel normal again, even happy.
Hi, I’m going through the same situation. My dad died last month in an accident. I am feeling lost and I feel so sorry for my mum too. I miss him so much . Hope we will feel better at some point in life. I never knew grief is this painful 😣
@@reelavarghese5467 Sending you lots of healing energy, hugs and love... I know how difficult it gets, just keep pushing and take a step at a time... 🙏✨🍀
I connect so strongly with the idea of wanting what you can't have in a country far from home. I think living abroad is the ultimate experience in not being able to have all the things you want at the same time, because you're always aware of what you have or what you're missing. Your mom's words bring me such incredible comfort, honestly. But also the idea that while I might miss some of the aspects I can't have in my life abroad, that they're not aspects I actively want at the moment, even if I might miss them.
This is exactly what I needed in the season that I am in. Thank you, Sadia ♥️ Truly appreciate the honestly, clarity, and transparency that you are also figuring things out! Your momma’s words are gems 💎
Sadia, I just want to say thank You. Your energy, even through the screen, calms me down and helps to clear my mind. I can just imagine what it would be like to have a coffee with You! This video came just at the right moment. Hugs from a fellow foreigner living in the Netherlands :)
Just had some really emotional days since I had to change all of my plans for the rest of this year - felt a bit lost about where to go. But Sadia, what you said in your video just reminds me that I will have everything i have ever wanted in my life, but just never all at the same time. I will focus one thing at a time and therefore there will be no other worries for me rn. Take it slowly, everyone, we will get what we want during the journey..
Thank you... Makes me feel less alone in feeling lost! Just seems like everyone knows exactly what they're doing and why and I absolutely don't even though I am turning 50 this year... Not complaining, my life is great but I have "no path", not a defined one and sometimes it feels like something might be wrong with me. But less so after watching your video 🙏🧡
Thank you for sharing a bit of the wisdom that your mother has given to you. My mom passed away many years ago and sometimes I miss having that support.
Really resonated with this - 'feeling like an outsider here in the Netherlands', even though I have lived here in total for about 12 years. That said, it's become a familiar place for me now and I guess if I don't 'force myself' to feel like I belong here, then it leaves more doors and possibilities open. Thanks for sharing 🙂
Needed this thank you Sadia. I feel I had a whole journey with yours I started watching you since the beginning when I wanted to become vegan and you still have me hooked. I respect and admire you and you truly contributed in my life ☺️☺️
I was lost and now I am found. Thanks for helping me see clearer and get the motivation I need to utilise the little time we have far more effectively and…efficiently 👍🙂❤️
sending love💕 btw rebecca, i recently started my own channel where i talk a lot about well-being, self growth and a healthy lifestyle, if you wanna check it out☺️
I've been following your channel for so many years now. I have recommended it to friends and used it for myself also. There is always something calming and nourishing about all your videos. I'm not a vegan yet but you inspire me and your values speaks to me. This particular video prompted me to appreciate what you have shared and how much it has helped me. I feel so fulfilled finally letting you know this. Not sure if you will find my comment but it gives me immense joy to have put it out there. Hope our paths cross at some point. Thank you so much for everything. Lots of love and care from India
Thanks for this, I just turned 25 and I don't feel like I know who I am anymore or what I want in life. The quarter life crisis is hitting hard lol. I've felt like I've had all the answers for what I want to do with my life my whole life and now all of the sudden I don't and I'm having to accept that's ok and just keep moving forward. :)
Really amazing. Thank you! Tomorrow I am turning 36 years old. I have been feeling at my very lowest after what I built because I am not where I want to be. This video came just on time and has covered so much thruth. That's amazing to have a mum so supportive and wise like yours. Having that piece of mind/ calmness helps really a long the way 🙌🏼 thank YOU ❤️❤️
Your Mum’s quotes are incredible, what inspirational words. You seem to be one of the same, a beautifully inspiring person making such a difference to people without even realising it. Thank you. x
Can't believe it...I'm a woman in her 55 and at this moment so stressed at the office...absolutely exhausted fighting day by day trying to survive over the new tech era as well as with the proffesionalism of the new coworkers with little experience but with high level of knowledge in all areas....and you just appeared with your lovely and smoothly voice giving us the guide and showing us how to manage with our frustration when we feel lost...thank you so much for being there 💗
Fantastic video and it’s so refreshing to see a free pdf on RU-vid, normally people want money for them. I have found reading “the untethered soul” has helped me so much with anxiety.
Victor Frankl - the meaning of life is to give life meaning. Your mother is very wise - you will have everything you want in your life, just not all at the same time. Shine just enough light to show one step of the way at a time. Wow!
What a beautifully made video, Sadia, and such perfect timing too! Ngl, I got a bit teary eyed multiple times throughout watching this. Thank you so so SO much for creating and sharing this! ❤️ Going to work through the PDF tomorrow 😊
i totallyy agree, i loved this so much! hey btw kanksha, i recently started my own channel where i talk a lot about well-being, self growth and a healthy lifestyle, if you wanna check it out☺️
You’re really an awesome human being. Your videos are more often than not about how to share what worked for you and you believe can make the life of others easier and better. The light of your spirit shines through 🥰
You make our world a better place. Thank you so much. These little psychological tips I'm sure help a lot of people. I moved to Australia a year ago and share these feelings. Please, along with your delicious recipes shoot this kind of videos too. With love Rita
In terms of content, this one is one of the best ones yet. There is a difference between being intelligent and being wise and you are both. A rarity. Best to you both from Poland!
i totally agree! hey btw, i recently started my own channel where i talk a lot about well-being, self growth and a healthy lifestyle, if you wanna check it out☺️
I found your channel back on 2018 when I was ill. I could not hold down any type of food nor liquids, I was afraid of eating so my relationship with food and myself was at its lowest point, I felt lost. Although I've never been the type to enjoy cooking, for some reason your videos gave me hope and comfort. 4 years later, my perspective on food has evolved tremendously, you still won't find me trying out 30 min long recipes😅 but now I enjoy every single bite I eat. Slowly but surely each aspect of my life has changed for the better. Your videos were and still are a great source of light and inspiration in my life. Thank you so much 💜
Thank you for these words. Feel like so many of us are struggling for many different reasons. Knowing we are all together in this, and how many we are is a good reminder that taking the time to ask ourselves the right questions, and to find our answers, when the time comes, is essential. Keep on doing what you love because is so great.
yees i agree💕 hey btw, i recently started my own channel where i talk a lot about well-being, self growth and a healthy lifestyle, if you wanna check it out☺️
Thank you Sadia. I am living in Germany with my husband and 2 kids but I am from Malaysia. I did have this feeling of missing home so much especially during the corona pandemic. At the moment our family is going through mental health challenges and I am so busy taking my son to therapists and doctors that I am not taking care of my own anxieties. I’m going to make an appointment for myself first thing tomorrow. This was such a timely reminder. I wish you peaceful day.
I too have been feeling lost and anxious about my work and my research ..just was feeling like nothing is going the way I wanted, but this was just the video I needed. Thank you Sadia for reminding me it's" okay ". Lot's of love from India
yes its totally ok and you’re not alone💕 btw nita, i recently started my own channel where i talk a lot about well-being, self growth and a healthy lifestyle, if you wanna check it out☺️
This came to me at such a perfect time. I’ve been feeling so lost for so long. Becoming a mom during the pandemic.. feeling like I’ve lost the freedom I used to have, especially being only in my mid -20s my old friends are living vastly different lives than me. I wanted so badly to start a family and I’m happy that I’m a mom but I’ve definitely felt a loss of self over the last couple years. Thank you so much for your wisdom.. Going to print off this guide right now 💕
It will go faster than you can imagine. One day you will wake up and your kids will be grown. Cherish the years while they are young. And, there is life after children are gone. Trust me❤️
Thanks for sharing. Greetings from South Korea. Love the quote from your mom "You will have everything you've ever wanted in your life, just never all at the same time."
This is incredible. I have felt lost for a couple of days but also I immediately recognized your shots at the port of Palermo and I am from Palermo!!! Beautiful
The quotes are the ones what changed me today 😭 i now realise and got answers to a lot of thinkings thank you don't have words. Would like to thank your mom really 😭.
I love how relevant and efficient your thoughts are in each of your videos about thinking, overthinking, directions, life purpose. You say the unsaid (what the main idea implies), that's good to hear too. I love your solutions as well, it can relieve. Thanks for the PDF!
i totally agree. hey btw lise, i recently started my own channel where i talk a lot about well-being, self growth and a healthy lifestyle, if you wanna check it out☺️
The power of being in a positive community as PUL is so comforting. I've also lately been going through this hard phase of trying to find out what am I really capable of. PUL videos have always been timely for me. To know that these thoughts are not mine alone makes me feel less lonely and to take things more lightly. I've also learned to enjoy the experience and learn something new everyday even if its trivial. I've learned experiences refine me. If you have all the answers, life is too boring. As always, thank you Sadia❤
Hey Sadia, i'm so thankful for your videos... you motivate me! I love the way you speak and i just love you!!! I'm always exited for the next video... and you're the reason why i started to eat much more healthier. A huge THANK YOU for all what you're doing, from me! Please never stop :)
I love the balance of this channel🧡we do not only get super delicious recipes but also healthy mindset tips🥰thank you Sadia and the rest of the group🧡🧡🧡
