This groom wants his bride to wear a sexy dress for the wedding. However, he changes his mind when he sees her in the dress. Catch Say Yes to the Dress on TLC - Sky 133, Virgin 162, BT TV 323
Reeeeeeeally he is saying it with love, affection and care! He clearly loves her a lot! Imagine when a parent tells you not to dress a certain way, is it cause she/he is wicked or cause the parent cares! Besides they are going to church; I agree with the cover up! Besides you can tell she was uncomfortable with the chest from the very beginning, even after 1st adjustment! The husband is just more direct in my opinion!
@@sabinamuriithi1339 it's her dress, it's her body, it's her opinion that matters. He's a controlling, egoistic dick who thinks he owns his wife and her body and thinks that he can dictate when and how her body should and shouldn't be covered. She isn't his property. And if you think that he's saying all that because he's "caring", you're either stupid or a sexist asshole. She's a human being and an adult and she gets to make her own choices. He's not her parent or guardian. When parents or guardians tell kids not to wear something that is usually because the clothes aren't appropriate for the situation, but if they control what the kids wear in every moment of their lives they're controlling, too. People should be given bodily autonomy, no matter how old they are or what their gender is. This dude is disgusting.
She's so out of his league and he knows it. That's why he's so controlling because he's afraid to lose her. Unfortunately, she loves him too much to realize it...
Reeeeeeeally he is saying it with love, affection and care! He clearly loves her a lot! Imagine when a parent tells you not to dress a certain way, is it cause she/he is wicked or cause the parent cares! Besides they are going to church; I agree with the cover up! Besides you can tell she was uncomfortable with the chest from the very beginning, even after 1st adjustment! The husband is just more direct in my opinion!
I certainly think the husband was inappropriate, but the changes made to the dress per his request we’re actually helpful. It looked so much better ON HER.
@@andromedarayne You’re right, it should about what she wanted and he disrespected her by demanding changes. It would have been a different story altogether if he had brought up his suggestions in a supportive way in which he explained the logical reasons behind his requests.
@@melissinha73 it’s her dress his request should not even matter compared to what she wants and likes and instead of worrying about her she was just worried about him
He’s so unlikable. Literally the type of person who walks into a room and everyone dislikes him immediately. I can’t believe she puts up with him and has for the past 15 years
Reeeeeeeally he is saying it with love, affection and care! He clearly loves her a lot! Imagine when a parent tells you not to dress a certain way, is it cause she/he is wicked or cause the parent cares! Besides they are going to church; I agree with the cover up! Besides you can tell she was uncomfortable with the chest from the very beginning, even after 1st adjustment! The husband is just more direct in my opinion!
@@annav21 luckily I have the absolute best man in the world who spoils me, treats me right and always tells it like it without being an absolute asshole 💗
Usually everyone agrees here that the Torai dresses are too revealing and the bride wanted the alterations too from the start and he said it’s ultimately her decision. But people still are upset with him? Also these are edited episodes, we are getting only a bit of their relationship and he didn’t decide whose career the episode would highlight either.
He literally told her "now go cover yourself up?" This guy is seriously a tool bag. She has chosen to marry him not once, but twice!!?? Shame on you TLC for letting this man baby on your show.
The way that she was crying about wanting him to be proud of her and still be attracted to her "even after having 3 kids", dear God this poor woman. Her husband is disgustingly obsessed over controlling her and what she wears. She's GORGEOUS. And clearly a sweetheart and amazing wife and mother.
@The Random Reign of Vanilla Omg...EXACTLY. Thank you. So many people think public proposals are romantic; it makes me genuinely depressed for society. **AND it was while she was on a tightrope, no less!
@@rustinstardust2094 I think the reason it's usually considered romantic is because you'd think if he proposes they're at this point where she'd definitely say yes anyway. so it's like the dude going: I want to show all these people how much YOU mean to me and that I want YOU in my life.
My friend told his girlfriend to put on favorite dress and he was taking her to her favorite restaurant. He proposed to at dinner she said, " Yes" so on the other side of the restaurant in private room were their family and close friends waiting for them with silver balloons , cake, champagne, and appetizers to help them celebrate. He said he was 99.9% sure that she would say accept his proposal of marriage or he would of never done it
I find it wrong that in a 7 min video you assume everything that is wrong with that relationship. That is just a small edited piece of their life you saw and you’re judging them on it. The years they spent together, the trails they went through as couple you know nothing about. Just because someone does things that seem bad don’t make them bad as a whole. Life is not black and white.
@@kiaraurriola That is a good point. There is the mistake of taking things out of context. But also, there are small things a person does which reveal their true self. So many abusive/violent persons in relationships seemed like the perfect person at the time...but after the break up - or tragedy - everyone recalls those little things here and there which were clues about their true personality. And we saw a lot of those "little things here and there" in this video.
@BabyUnicornio When you're married that long, you stop sugar coating everything and become brutally honest with each other. That's what he's doing. Its not abuse, just a blunt, honest relationship. And he doesn't look controlling to me, just very protective. He just wanted her to cover her boobs up which is a fair request.
He seems controlling and abusive. He's so proud of her body and makes sure he mentions she has had 3 kids. He seems like he forces her to suck all of her fat out to be his trophy wife. It's all she is to him is a trophy
15 years of marriage , 3 kids , and he can't tell her she looks like a frickin ANGEL?! I would literally sell my soul to look like her . She's BEAUTIFUL.
Exactly! I've been looking for this comment. He really gave me the vibe that he sees her as a trophy. Not sexy enough, "you should show it off", too sexy... wth man. First of all why insist so much that she wears a sexy dress?? That was super weird. And then of course it's too sexy 🤣😭 dude whyyy
“You need to show more”....” you are showing too much “. He wouldn’t have lasted 15 minutes with me, never mind 15 years!! She’s beautiful and could wear anything. I don’t understand why he’s even there to begin with.
Fairy Princess just by the way he took over that appointment, I can almost guarantee he TOLD HER he was coming. She didn’t have a choice in the matter.
@@rachel_mck we see things differently, I'm watching body language and small details 🤷 I can't judge based on this small clip but he seems to value his say over hers with the wedding dress, she took into account his thoughts of sexy but watch how she took his comment about it being her choice at the end but still complain during the fitting.
@@rachel_mck no I call the females out too but at the end of the day those female friends go home, that husband is around all the time and unless this is the only thing he ever has acted like this on then okay but he might be acting like this a lot on so many things. I have a family member who tries to be passive aggressive in public but is horrible at home.
Moonie after 10 years of marriage if it was a problem why on earth wouldn’t she have left him. Instead she wants a vow renewal. I hate people that take a clip of something, watch it once and act like they are some forensic scientist; judging their marriage and acting like they know everything behind the scenes. You don’t. Just stop
He was talking about the dress not her body.. 🙄 that literally what happens every time a brides looking for a dress.. she wants to find the right one to whats appropriate for your standards.
Reeeeeeeally he is saying it with love, affection and care! He clearly loves her a lot! Imagine when a parent tells you not to dress a certain way, is it cause she/he is wicked or cause the parent cares! Besides they are going to church; I agree with the cover up! Besides you can tell she was uncomfortable with the chest from the very beginning, even after 1st adjustment! The husband is just more direct in my opinion!
Yeah if he was so comfortable putting her down in front of everyone can’t imagine how he treats her when they’re alone. I’m with everyone on this one, don’t renew vows, divorce him and find a man who appreciates you!
You don’t just divorce your husband because he has a personality that’s hard to deal with. I agree that he’s very unlikable, but that’s not how marriage works, that’s how dating works. And she knew what she was getting into and has dealt with him for 15 years and seems to love him, and there are 3 kids involved.
@@Ollie7707 you know I really appreciate people like you, this is marriage, working on it together because you love the person. I see it in my own parents too, as a couple when beginning, they each had very disagreeable tendencies in their personalities but they helped each other and worked on it, you don't just get divorced and move on, marriage is about working on it!
Reeeeeeeally he is saying it with love, affection and care! He clearly loves her a lot! Imagine when a parent tells you not to dress a certain way, is it cause she/he is wicked or cause the parent cares! Besides they are going to church; I agree with the cover up! Besides you can tell she was uncomfortable with the chest from the very beginning, even after 1st adjustment! The husband is just more direct in my opinion!
This dude doesn't deserve her. She's gorgeous in whatever shape or form, she's a stunning woman, also very kind, smart and compassionate. The husband is sooooo ugh. I dont have words for how much i disliked him in just 7 and a half minutes. After a point she wont be able to work out as much nor will she want to, she wont look like this she'll obviously age, then what?
Then he will put her down for “letting herself go.” Even though aging is just reality. Sadly some part of her desires the control or she would leave. Too bad her body is more important than her heart. Pretty weird after 15 years.
They’re literally married. After being married to someone for 10 years their opinion matters to you. His opinion wasn’t offensive. You just didn’t like it.
I hate how the husband mentioned to the designer that she’s had three kids as well. Just in a very unpleasant way... like she wouldn’t be worth anything if she wasn’t in that shape. I don’t know if that makes sense but I just dislike that husband.
nicefanful I feel like her said it more so like her boobs are out and her children are gonna see them ......... like they don’t know what boobies are 🙄🙄
This relationship is toxic. She feels like she needs to make him ‘proud’ of her for keeping her body in shape and not aging a bit in 15 years...also, he shouldn’t be treating her like such a sex object. She’s an individual woman. Let her be.
Dont throw the word "toxic" around too much,you do not know this couple in real life,you have seen a 7 minutes video of them and you instantly said that the relationship is toxic?gurl,get outta here
Have you talked to her to know that she feels like she needs to make him proud? Could it be that he simply is proud of his wife? And they're together 15 andare sexually attracted to each other... yay for them!
The issue is that he randomly brought it up and she seems to bring it up often. It's a symptom of negging where someone makes off comments to implant insecurities into you so that you'll fall more in line with what they want. Like a mother in law that brings up babies CONSTANTLY while you're around AFTER saying you won't have them. Or your father talking about the neighbors wife and how she "actually" cooks for her family while eating the food your mother made. It's not forth right, but depending on the context and delivery there's questionable implications. That could be editing but it's could also be negging.
I already hate this guy, my dad was the same way he was always like this to my mom *"Why don't you dress like this? Why don't you dress sexy enough? Why don't you look like those women?"* they've been divorced for a long time already but it's people like him that I really wanna hurt
I hate to say that but I'm glad they divorced. You and your mom deserve so much better than being treated like an object. I hope you are doing better now 💓
@@missshorty3894I doubt your body is ruined! That makes me sad to read that. I'm going to try to get pregnant soon and for the first time, but I'm determined to get my body back after the pregnancy. Just eat a healthier diet and do some workouts at home a few times a week. I guarantee you'll be able to bounce back!
Omg! The way her husband was directing Pinina to fix the dress without the bride's consent! She absolutely loved the dress before her husband made the fart face! She's definitely out if his league.
To be fair to him his wifie did tell them that she wanted it to be filled in and brought up a bit more...and I think it looked way better with the final alterations done. Maybe his wife wasn't computable complaining and he knew this those dresses are pricey she should get exactly what she wanted
alex robbins True. She seemed opinionated but not very ?confrontational? Maybe his comments about she better get it done and fast were just a joke but his edit was weird She had good taste: it actually looked way better by the end
And he is not even good looking, but is harassing her and her body and her clothing and shows no appreciation about his stunning beautiful gorgeous wonderful sweet wife. What an ugly personality he has.
But let’s be honest, the alterations made the dress look better on her, that’s what matters. No matter if it came from a chauvinistic point of view, it was perfect when they fixed it.
They may both be aerialists, but there is absolutely NO BALANCE in this relationship. She is desperately seeking approval when she should have complete confidence. Don't you wish she would just dump him and find someone who truly appreciates her? Boy and that look from Joel Osteen when she walked out....disapproval on a grand scale. Get rid of both of them.
She looked stunning in that dress. I just think getting your husband there kinda ruins the experience. I would be uncomfortable walking down the aisle thinking"He saw the dress twice and had a problem with it both times"
Nakshatra Bhate well, so did she. When she first put it one, she didn’t like the fact that the dress was see through (neither did the husband). During the fitting, she looked just as uncomfortable with the cut of the neckline as he did (and to be fair, the cup sizes looked far too small for her).
juniper quaintrelle well if you’re having a wedding specifically if you have that mindset of a christian, that is quite revealing especially in a sacred event such as wedding but then again, just my opinion
@@user-lp4wy3uz1o he wanted sexy because it wasn't sexy enough then said it was too sexy and wanted her to change again. Also, it's not sacred because they already got married
Crying from sadness of how much she needs his controlling approval. The fact that she wants him to be proud of how skinny she is and if she looks good and not for her heart, kindness and achievements - that is something to cry about. Really sad to see. Plus, who does he think he is? I’m just shocked.
JireneL I agree: I think one or both of them are quite vain. Maybe she senses his vanity and is afraid he will never be happy with her if she doesn’t look perfect. I’m like that’s a silly thing to cry over: having a perfect physique. She seems very sweet and in many ways like a wonderful, quite traditionally feminine lady. She is concerned about his safety yet let’s him go for what he wants. She probably is not a bad mother. This is why I don’t want just beautiful and a Christian to be the reasons why someone wants to marry me. The Bible even reaffirms in Proverbs the common knowledge that (external) beauty is fleeting. Then it talks about how a woman who fears the Lord is to be praised (meaning a person with a good heart and a strong set of morals shows a beauty that will not fade). That will make marriage sweeter with each year even when the romance and sensuality dies down.
Thank you for talking about this: this was what I found odd whereas everyone wants to talk about him being controlling. That can be edited and who is to say what is too controlling (when it could be that’s just not your preference). What was completely real were her tears and fears.
He thinks he's above everyone else and wants to prove it - so he does all this daredevil shit and marries a really great woman but treats her like a trophy wife. Because he's a narcissist.
It all makes sense when you notice Joel Osteen is the officiant. Millionaire 'Pastor' of a mega church. Everything is about appearance with people like this.
The husband spoke to my elementary school before his Niagara Falls walk even as a child I thought he was a bit of an egomaniac. I don’t think much of my class liked him lol
If someone looked at me and said “now go cover yourself up”, they better be ready to say yes to the division of property. These folks had no concept of how this would look. Yikes.
After 15 years of marriage and 3 kids, she looks gorgeous like a new young bride, what a stunning wife ... her husband should be not only proud but thankful for having such a wonderful lady.
When they first revealed her in the dress she was so happy and obviously loved it, but when she was told it looked like lingerie and her husband pretty much insulted her about it, she changed to ‘there’s no way I’m walking down the isle like this’ he’s manipulative and she deserves better.
Ëlîø all the brides look that way at their fittings. Curtain reveal and they look so happy, the they get to the parts that need to be fixed and it all seems like they do a 180. It’s the editing of the show.
Ëlîø I’ve watched so much of the show that I’ve noticed certain patterns in the editing. I do see where your thought process is though. If it wasn’t so common, I would agree with you.
You know the majority of the time the fiancé is brought on the bride’s request? I’ve binged the show countless times, and it was actually pretty rare for the fiancé to come on their own accord.
You're biased and insecure. They've made it to fifteen years of marriage happily, and they've realized that commitment takes sacrifice. Sorry if you can't see that. If she's happy, then you should not have a problem with HER husband. You decided to assume his entire personality based on an edited seven minute video. Girl, give me a break 🙄
@@celestialvenus6711 As you can see the vast majority of the people who have viewed this video think the same thing. Everyone gets the creepy vibes from him. He is gross, and I'm hoping she will wake up and send him on his way.
Celestial Venus just because you’ve been married for a long time doesn’t mean you’re happy. especially if you have kids because then you feel like you need to stay together
Aw stop. Trust me I look like shit and been married and then left (controlling narcissistic asshole, we got married on our 5yr anni too so wasnt rushed at all) and remarried with twin 5yo girls and 8yo son. I'm gonna be 30 in March and literally feel like I'm 80. I'm sitting here in the same clothes as 3 days ago because I've had the flu and havent done shit with myself. If I can land someone, let alone 2.... yall can lol No but seriously. After I had my twins my health plummeted and I was diagnosed with a ton of shit. I cant get out of bed most days. Thankfully my man is understanding and does his best to help me. We still butt heads sometimes but he is definitely my soul mate. I got lucky this time around.
Yes and no. Better to get his objections out of the way beforehand, than to see him looking annoyed when she arrives for the wedding vows. That said, this particular groom was not in the same zip code as tactful about any of this!
Awww I met her a few years ago along with her husband. I saw their show a few years back it and was the most mesmerizing, breathtaking thing I’ve ever seen. Literally inspired me. I met many people from their show I even got a picture and signed shirt with the husband. I just stumbled across this video and I am very disappointed in his demeanor. You truly don’t know who a “famous” person is until you see their true colors. I pray she starts doing those things for herself and not her husband’s approval. And him, eh no let’s just throw the whole mans away.
Her statement at the end creeped me out, describing what he should feel when he sees her walking down the aisle: "Wow, that's my wife after 15years and I just want him to be proud of me and think wow after 3 kids that's my wife, and still be in love with me" gosh!
soniahmath i don’t think it was creepy. Some women let themselves go after having kids 🤷🏾♀️. They never lose the weight or look how they looked when they first met their husband. So what she is saying makes sense.
@@TheSweetForever yes but I don't think her appearance should be reason why he feels proud of her or is reminded why he is in love with her. That's superficial I feel. They are renewing their vows. I'm sure they have seen most of the ups and downs of their lives. And yet, that's the reason he should feel proud of her or be happy to have her in his life?
@@soniahmath I think she just wanted her husband to be proud of her just like a man might work out at the gym so that his wife would be proud of him. Love also means trying to look good for your spouse.
@@TheSweetForever some somen have to work on office jobs and then come home to cook and feed their kids and have no time to take care of themselves. This woman's job is literally to be fit. So while it's hard work it's part of her life and no surprise. There shouldn't be a pressure to keep up this body shape in your marriage.
I randomly stumbled upon the husband's Wikipedia page. He's apparently an extremely devout Christian, so I wonder if he got offended by her body showing (which would be weird considering he was the one who wanted her to look "sexy")...
Any guy whose ever been in the company of other guys knows how they look at a girl and how so many of them love to pass creepy comments on her figure. If after knowing that, he doesn't give a damn about someone looking at his wife like that, then he's a guy without shame. The only thing he is is protective of her, and she doesn't seem to have an issue with that so why do you?
@@Janexcalibur women are supposed to dress modestly in christianity so I would expect him to feel off about it but still very contradicting to his previous comment about wanting her to look sexy..
I'm pretty sure what he want is an elegant and simple mermaid dress. Something that show the shapes and physic without revealing too much skin. (Like she had in the end) That's more or less what he describes if you take all his sentences about how he want the dress to be. He just don't know how to express it or how to analyze what he don't like and why. And even if he said he wanted sexy doesn't mean that he still share the idea once she wears it. Have you never chose a sexy outfit because you thought it would be great but once you see it on you you realize it's not really appropriate and totally different from what you imagined ?
Keerya but the bride was happy with the dress as soon as she put it on and the husband was saying that she should cover up and then after they altered the dress the bride was still so happy about the dress but the husband still didn’t like it and it’s the bride who should feel happy in the dress, the husband doesn’t need a say in what she wears.
@@ExistingChicken also true! Just how much he must get at her in general. Really unpleasant and frustrating to watch. I know the show dramatizes everything but... how do you even fake that behavior??
I was getting teary eyed while watching this because shes so pretty and the minute jole olsten showed up all feeling are gone. That man is the human embodiment of trash.
ehhh I mean being fit after having children is no easy feat and i understand the sense of accomplishment, but to incessantly repeat "after 3 kids" is a bit much. It's like gloating to his guy friends, "My wife is still super hot. Don't you wish your wife is hot like mine" kind of vibe
The cups were too small and low on the dress. Thank goodness the Designer, who is always so gracious to her clients, was there and able to make changes. The Client is gorgeous, but, she didn’t want to be spilling out of her dress!
When the designer came in and congratulated/complimented her appearance, the husband’s comment “that’s after three kids” made me feel sick to my stomach...
Ew he is so controlling. I can’t bear the way he tells her to go cover herself up. Her whole demeanour changed when he said that. Talk about ruining a special moment for her.
Love that strong wife energy of "I do what I want and I love my dress." She bought the dress she wanted, did what she wanted, and looked AMAZINGGGGGGG tbh honestly think she needs someone who shows her all the love she deserves.
They say that the eyes are the mirror of the soul and when i look closely to her eyes I don't see a happy bride even if she was smiling.. he's sooo controlling 😳
You people see what you want to see. You'll pick on minor details that don't matter to the bride at all and then shape a good husband to be abusive and manipulative. Good thing yall aren't marriage counselors. The divorce rate would go up to 90%.
Celestial Venus pretty sure theyre renewing their bowels cause their relationship is fucked up lmao when she was crying those were sad tears of her saying “i hope he still loves me” cues are cues man
@@nailak7948 Lol, no. I'm not even a guy. I just think you can't judge a person's entire character based on a five minute video. I've seen how couples are newly married and ten after fifteen years and three kids. They stop sugar coating every and say it like it is. That's what I feel this guy is doing.
