Great stuff!! If I didn't know any better it seems that when we come from a broken home or given to much attention where it becomes a dependability due to the parent doing everything for the child. Some how it can unroote or unground them when the grOW UP into adult hood. Seeping into companionship, friendship, relationship; career or what ever event that leaves that same feeling as before. Once traced back to original source. Then the cycle can be dissolved!? Seems so as I was experiencing it back then and come to this realization. It wasn't anyone's fault as it's just a learning process of what can be allowed or try to get away with and see just what happens. Steering us in the proper direction. Once we say~" I am sorry , I haven't been myself, I just want to say that I love you. I will do my Best to make things better from her on out!" I did this with the mirror. Not in a narcissistic way but, in a way that it can be used as a tool to do something to the subconscious!? Thank you. All the Best in your research. Namaste
Hi Georgia - this is the case in this model (check around 1:19 into the video). This isn't the only model of attachment though, so remember to reference the psychologist so that an examiner knows whose model you're using :)
They both developed separate theories of "stages of attachment". Their theories are similar, but separate from each other. In this video, we're talking about Bowlby's ideas, we have another video which looks at Schaffer and Emerson's stages of attachment - ru-vid.com/video/%D0%B2%D0%B8%D0%B4%D0%B5%D0%BE-WRQiCcH351E.html :)
