@@filipj5970 yeah man. People are just blindly following and listening to anything because they are so lost. At the end of the day, just being a genuine, self aware, and loving human being is all that you need. And most importantly, being humble and positive.
These things are really helpful and make a impact majorly in corporate world where the managers suck your blood for being polite and submissive, so don't be lame put on some politics and psychological tactics to not get exploited by saying yes everytime
it’s called a positive or negative inflection, and to my understand a positive inflection for the most part represents a question when a negative inflection means a statement
Man im 24 and I have the voice of an 40yr old man it’s deep as hell everyone I talked to at my school I used to go to at my jobs would always say ur voice is deep as hell. Sum times I be embarrassed to talk because how deep the base is in my voice i don’t like it.
@@Tay_Taylor99its not a bad thing, probably just shocking. Deep voices are cool to everyone, be happy you’re not a squeaker cuz no one would take you seriously 😂
I’d say It’s not called anything. It is just what it has been labelled as. One must distinguish between the use of labels and the experience. To work through things by working on ourself. Positive or negative inflection? Don’t know what that means… attempting to understand your comment…research!
@@MultiMalzzif you move ever learned a second language which i have you need to study inflection’s, i’m just saying that’s what he’s talking about, a negative inflection is lowering your voice at the end of words or sentences and a positive one is raising your voice
That down talking is actually just an inflection that changes the sound of the sentence from an interogative form to a declarative form. You arent asking, you are telling. Confidence, dominance, power, and the way the subconcious mind acts and reacts to such minute differences is incredible.
yeah it's because she's stalking you bro, don't let people predict you from the start because they will use you as a example for how the relationship is.
@@susmitbarve5374 Definitely. You won't be Barry White, but voices can be trained to lower a few octaves. I was joking about getting laid more, but that's only because I'm too old to be banging all over the place. There's just the one woman with a medium sex drive.
The example wasn't the best... up talking at the end is what usually indicates a question. It's more important to talk down when ending statements etc. -so they don't sound uncertain/questionlike, instead gives them more power
Our voices go high and end on a high note when asking a question so the person we are talking to knows it’s a question, because it’s proper linguistics
I have a deeper voice and used to do this (not on purpose). My wife told me about it ans I actually had remember not to do this (especially when talking to women). Between guys, not as much of an issue, but yes, it is proper linguistics to have the higher intonation at the end when asking a question.
It’s typically out of consideration because regardless of what’s being said it can’t be taken the wrong way it’s out of consideration so there isn’t any miscommunication leading the other person to think your being rude due to tone so we pitch our voices higher it’s a good thing idk wtf this guys talking about talking about being scared of conflict 😂
Not exactly correct. Depends where you’re from. Americans definitely have a rising intonation when asking questions but traditionally, British and Australians don’t. Younger people though have started adopting a rising an intonation due to being exposed to more American media.
You know what will mean you sound even more confident than his little....trick....? Actually being confident. Study up and know your stuff,nif you know your stuff people can tell, and that is what confidence really is.
I think a deeper voice is natural. It comes from testosterone. I'll tell you why I think this is the case. When I was 13 I suddenly developed a deeper voice and whenever I talked, I got a lot of attention from women and people in general. But then, it started to fade as I went deeper into my teenage years. My voice gradually became soft and I tried hard to "recreate" that deep voice but it never felt natural. And I "lost" it almost immediately or forgot to speak that way after a while. Little did I know that apart from my lost deep voice, I was experiencing other symptoms like no facial hair, low muscle tone, body weakness, and anxiety amongst other things. To cut a long story short, until I got treated _accidentally_ with testosterone I never regained my lost deep voice. It came back naturally, I didn't have to think about it or break a sweat about it.
@@Brandon-369 so true...cuz there's tons of idiots with low IQ and no sense who complain about "your tone" or "tonality"....even tho u never said anything disrespectful. Those softies get offended by the tone as if the way u sound means what ur words actually meant😂 ..... always ignore those dumb types
In other languages they didnt even change the grammar to ask questions They just use the tone Like they can say "You are hungry?" My friends that didnt have english as 1st lanfuage says that kind of thing a lot and most native english speaker tend to get confuse thinking, why do you decide if im hungry or not
Discipline deepens your voice😂 it may sound foolish but its true waking up early and having good breakfast may naturally give you a deep voice, the pitch of your voice may also depend with whom you speaking. In my opinion deep voice is a sign of confidence even the military focuses on voice.
It’s not about kindness or friendliness, all that is in the heart, once you sound more confident to others but more importantly you sound more confident to yourself.
Why are you so afraid to talk in a deep voice? Are you afraid of the benefits that's come from it? If you recieved respect for once would it be so bad?
On the other hand there are those of us who have the confidence to be authentic and even vulnerable. This understanding of ourselves is true power and not undermined by trying to be something we are not.
Not trying to be something you are not? That basically says you want to stagnate and not continue to evolve and grow, and become a better version of yourself. “Who you are” today is not who you were yesterday, and is not who you’ll be tomorrow. We’re constantly evolving and growing and changing and part of that is learning better and more effective ways of doing things.
Bro same, I’m 6”2, black, when I soften my voice at the office, I get better response from ppl but it also doesn’t feel like me. I have a deep natural voice
Some voices are not deep in the typical way, but they're still masculine and soothing, very attractive to us women. An example is Steven (?) Borthwick, the English rugby head coach 😋😋😋
I have GERD and along with severe heartburn and morning nausea I get a deep ass voice because my stomach acid deteriorates my vocal cords. Worth it tbh
Women love confidence in men. Confidence is one of the top traits they look for. Be confident in who you are. Don't try to change your voice. Just be you.
Yeah just be you. Unless you sound like a teenage boy. Then definitely either talk less or work on the base note... If you want women to be attracted to you
@@Brodcthat doesn’t assure confidence. There are people that have those things but not confidence, because in truth they don’t love them selves. By all means self, improve but don’t think deepening your voice alone will show some mental health change.
My voice changes depending on how I'm feeling. I'm asocial on top of that. But I do notice whenever my voice is deep is when I don't wanna be bothered & it seems like ppl get listen to you more.
Facts ! Always speak authentically. You can tell when someone is trying mask their insecurities when they sound toooo calm & collective in deep voice. Very monotone & boring !!
That's kinda interesting. I actually have always utilized my voice to influence the way people see me. I try to sound playful because I'm tall and i don't want people to feel timid or standoffish but this could definitely plug in when speaking to coworkers or authority. Cool tip.
I can tell by your introspection and awareness of why you do the things that you do, and also by your desire to be approachable and not intimidating, that you are very intelligent and an exceptional person. Just saying ❤
The day some mewing nigga with no game tries to stare me down while asking me some psycho analysis questions I'm sending him to the hospital for the sake of God and every God loving person in the world
I don't speak to someone unless I'm making direct eye contact. It doesn't matter if you have a gun at my head I'll stare you in the face the entire time. It's how I communicate, sometimes without words. I don't know why but I can't NOT look you in the eyes, or I'm likely not talking to you
Look how far (BE YOURSELF) got us!!!!!!!!! You have girls that want to turn into boys and boys that want to turn into girls, id say (be yourself) is making people NOT BE THERESELFS
my voice is low and deep so people have trouble understanding, tbh i wouldn't find hamza intimidating just by his voice he has an average voice but has worked with it very well.
Remember Mike Tyson and Brock Lesnar have squeaky voices. If you don't know who they are just Google em up. Deep voice is good but it's just like a cover of the book. Being strong and tough>>>look or sound tough
I speak to my girl with that rising tone and a smile on my face but not because I fear her but because I’m conveying that her presence makes me happy and I would appreciate the act of service is she does it (she certainly will) but with most people I don’t talk like I talk to her
I have a deep voice, and I actually struggle with feeling like I come off as “authoritative”, I lighten up my tone when talking and now I feel like my voice is less deep
I’m empathetic and too often ‘struggle’ with talking in a deep voice because it sounds too serious and monotone as if I’m ‘taking control’ of the room all the time.
Same here. Sometimes I’ll avoid my most naturally deeper voice because it comes off as forceful even though I’m totally relaxed. Somehow a higher voice sounds more friendly to some people. 🤷🏾♂️
@@TheRoadLessChosen “grow a pair” 😂 relax dude. My manhood is never in question by anyone. Nobody is talking about toxic masculinity and I don’t subscribe to it anyway. Looks like you missed the point.
I can really understand what hes talking about i changed my voice about a decade ago to be higher to not scare people so i talk laugh and joke in a higher octave than my real voice because when i talked regularly people would treat me differently like they were scared of me and as a big dude with my personality (I'm a jokester) I didnt want fear. Now that im 32 i think im going to flip it and see where it gets me. I really think that change has killed my ability to properly do my job and has held me back from opportunities that were right in front of me.
A true gentleman doesn't show-off their power. Earn the power but stay humble and polite to people even when you have authority to order better you request politely you will have better chance to get your thing done.
There are too many examples of what you just said not being true. As the saying goes “ fortune favors the bold “. Most people in society are submissive and followers so those who are more dominate and less nice tend to get their way cause most other people would rather give in so as not to have a confrontation.
No bro it's not about that. Who do you think we are, mimics? Actually listen to this guy. Notice your legitimate inflection on sentences. Some people mumble to finish their sentences. Some stutter. Some yell or complain loudly or angrily or sadly. We have oral speaking classes in college, bro be humble. I literally noticed my heavy upturn w my wife after this video I guess I'm hella submissive baha. She says I only talk like this when I'm angry. That's sad. Learn to control yourself guys. Is what other men should really be preaching to other men. It's called self discipline G.
I also heard that its very common for humans to try and match their voice to the gender they are with for normal situations. So a guy might talk deeper around men but talk higher around woman when they are trying to come off friendly. This changes when they are interested though and will talk deeper. Apparently women "usually" speak higher when interested.
Why are girls very keen on feelings like now you are saying its comforting and you add too much meaning to it like even if he is weaker than me but you feel like his voice is deeper or whatever then you think he is in the authority or something.as boys most of us don't even realise how we are talking,we just talk without thinking about these meaning s.so if you are feeling a man is stronger just by listening to his voice then I am afraid you aren't mature enough to realise what is best for you . that's why girls say we like toxic man and they fantasies like he is toxic to others and sweet to you.thats delusional and immature.i don't like or use the words like immature or responsible because they come with age .they don't come just by saying because mature or don't be child.why girls even say that it's clear they are immature but the person in front also will not become mature just by your saying then why are you saying.its because you want this emphasize that you are mature and insult the other person,I get it you may not do it intentionally but unconsciously that's the only reason to make you feel for mature .but in reality you are not .I said all these things in criticism of girls who say immature or mature to other person and I want to get you views as you are a girl.
I usually feel more comfortable around guys with higher voices lol. It started with JB when I was a kid and then YB and then TH and I’ve never had a crush on a guy with a deep voice. To me it puts me off. Just goes to show everyone has different preferences
The problem with videos like this is that there is going to be some teenager that or young guy in his 20's that thinks the only reason he doesn't have a significant other or his dream job is how deep his voice is. It isn't about how many things you have it's about how many things you can do. The second you stop living to impress people will be the moment you get the things you want
You know, it may not be just one thing, but any thing you can improve upon will broaden your opportunities. Always seek to improve yourself. Because no, you are NOT perfect the way you are. Sure, you can be loved by others just how you are, but I guarantee you - any improvements you make only increases the betterment of your entire life
@dezignateddriva yh, but bro, sorry in real life, this is not what makes you better. Having women is not the goal, having the right woman is. Having ppl fear you is not respect, its reciprocal most of the time, and those with money don't need any of this nonsense..life has no rule.
bro fr, there will be these certain people who will train to have a deep voice but are gonna have the same social skills comparable to a cobblestone block in minecraft talking like skyrim guard npc bots
In some societies kindness and friendliness is seen as a weakness these are the type of societies he is talling about in some societies friendliness and kindness makes people respect you more
My voice was not deep at all and the hot business women didn't want to get outta my car when I was Uber driving at the time. I asked her "how's your day" She responded "gloomy" and I said "is it because it's raining outside (just started to sprinkler on my windows)" but I said all this with happy loving energy expecting nothing in return. And she felt that I was being my real authentic self and she loved that! To get over anxiety talking to women focus on how you want them to feel rather than on how you feel.
Some of you don’t realize the bigger picture it’s not about sounding deeper, it’s about breaking free from the need to soften your voice, stop trying to plesse others. Let your voice relax in its deepness without fear
it has nothing to do with fear, it's about showing respect to others. it's only people pleasing if you're doing it in a context where you're trying to please someone
At the end of the day you choose how you interact with others. If i think youre coming off like a prick or talking down to me im not gonna be pleasant to deal with not for one second. I dont play those games.
The problem is always trying to have a deeper or higher pitched voice, those are both tones and you would also use them to express what you feel, so sometimes it’s ok to be a little submissive to not just be a dick when it’s not that serious, not everything is a test at your manhood
You know mate. I've seen clips of your old videos years ago and you're still going and improving. I like that. So I subscribe out of respect of the craft
Basically you have to make yourself sound like a depressed wannabe. Yes, you can’t ask questions. Everything has to sound like a statement, and a depressing one at that.
😂😂😂 How is that gonna make me happy? And second of all, it makes me pretty strong to say I’m NOT gonna do that all the time for the rest of my live, cause I don’t let people tell me what to do. Period!
Another good trick to add to this is to start speaking with a pitch which is higher than your normal one, and then end the sentence with your normal pitch. You can also change your pitch at the middle, or towards the end, and then end it with your normal one.
It's also very common for the English and Australian accent to end on higher notes as opposed to American and Russian accents who often end on a lower note while speaking.
