I haven't even finished watching and I already have to acknowledge how great of an example this is for ***not having to match the energy of the person you're interacting with*** 👏 👏 👏
Stephie, you said something during this video that really struck home - 'some people are only meant to be in your lives for a little bit'. I currently am going through alot mentally and for my mental health have distanced myself from my very best friend... but I truly think its not the best thing for my mental health right now. I have struggled with this decision for months now but hearing you say that just made me feel tons better! Love you and your videos
I've had to do the same and it's been freeing. It was hard to hurt her, but if she listened at all, it was something she needed to hear because so many of our mutual friends felt the same way about her. She made everything about her and she drank all the time to the point that it was ugly. I stopped drinking years ago and she couldn't understand why I didn't want to be around it. Even though I explained myself many times, she only heard what she wanted to. We had a large group of friends who all understood. Anyway, you should only keep people in your life who lift you up. It should be easy.
Brittany, there is a book called “In the Meantime”. Its about exactly this. Some relationships are just meant to be ‘meantime’ relationships. The book does a great job at helping you recognize when you’re in one of these or if you’re going to get into one. It has helped me for decades as I now understand so much better who is meant to stay in my life and who is just passing through.
I really feel for your friend Sarah. She seems really sweet and genuine. Make friends as an adult is hard! You don’t want to be friends with toxic and jealous people.
I absolutely love these types of videos - they make me feel like I’m at a sleepover! I don’t have many girlfriends, so these vids are really comforting and fun!
Love both of you ❤️ I feel you Sarah on the finding it hard to make friends! People say the same things about me & it's really hard. I struggle so much socially. Always feel like I need to shrink myself or dim my shine to be accepted. When I'm myself I am told I'm "too loud" so I try to be more quiet then it's "why are you so shy?" "Why you so quiet?"
Stephi u are such an amazing person! I love how chill, humble, quiet and down to earth u are! Not to mention u are gorgeous! I adore u and would love to live the life u are living!! Keep being u and i wish u all the hapiness in the world on ur journey! 🤘🙏 Btw, ur friend is cool and beautiful too!
Stephi is so chill. one thing that comes across to me is that Stephi doesn't judge from the offset... she seems super humble and down to earth. Those kind-of people are good people. Keep on keepin' on Stephi! ❤
Omg please never say you’re annoying! Your videos are my absolute favourite and I get so excited when I see you posted a new one so I can see what you’ve been up to! Even though you don’t know me you are one of my favourite people and you inspire me SO MUCH! Never think anything bad about yourself you are amazing!
It's so nice to see you enjoying your life and always smiling not to mention them really big genuine hard laughs ❤️ making new friends is a great feeling especially the ones who stick by you even from a distance. Your new friend seems very down to earth Stephi and definitely seems like a keeper. Stay safe chicky xxx
I love you Stephi, you seem like you're in such a good headspace now after your break up. Doing you and living life on your own terms. Sending you infinite amounts of love & light. Keep up the great content!
Cracked those walnuts and made walnut pie! What a cool game. I'm going to have to play it now. You both bring out each other's qualities so naturally. I really had fun listening to you both. Hugs from Oregon!
What a great game to get to know each other better, loved your banter & honesty!! I have to say that I am very impressed with both of your openness as Sarah is a lovely person & you are always seem such a calm centered person! A sense of humour goes a very long way!! 💜
I’ve seen your sneak peeks about your next vlog on insta! Can’t wait! Honestly. Watching your vlogs and seeing everything just is a cheer up. I don’t think you understand how many people look forward to what you post. Even this. 🙌🏼
I really really like this video! I like the realness of it, it's definitely not easy meeting new people, making friends, and even keeping them. And I always think like, what's wrong with me?? And this dynamic that you and Sarah bring together in this video just really shows how different energies and past life experiences can form new awesome friendships.
You have a unique heart… I admire your spiritual sense of being free with whom you are with no shame or care…. Never change your heart or spirituality..you are amazing 🤩
Steph I really hope the other Stephanie reaches out. That was brave to admit. I had something similar happen to me a long time ago and I also still miss that friendship xo
Hi Stephi, I totally loved your video. Very enjoyable to watch two beautiful females having a peaceful conversation in wonderful surroundings. Peace and love
I can't agree more about being "pretty". A lot of people think I'm being a stuck up bitch when I say, being pretty can invoke jealousy in other women. I've had girls stop being my friend because they were too jealous of me. Sad but it happens.
@ 12:10 youre deffinatly not annoying stephi ! your videos are so amazing. and I'm deffinatly not saying that just to be polite 😅 critiquing yourself and seeing all that type of detail is normal but also remember everyone's perspective is different! 💜
I've found as I got older, a lot of friends (normal or what I considered my best friends), have distanced themselves or stopped hanging out as often - most of them who are in relationships and/or married and/or have kids. Being the "single dude" in my circle of friends is pretty rough when it comes to hanging out sadly.
Always love your videos stephi you are amazing you have always intelligent interesting people love you stephi so sad that cut both of you out of their lives she seems like such a sweet person
Wow, that’s crazy. I guess it’s 3 of us that have had that best friend in college that stopped talking to us. It’s definitely sad but I guess it happened for a reason
Hey Stephi Lee, me and my black lab ran into you and two dogs hiking today 😊 I watch some of your content and thought it might be you but didn't put it together until I saw your van with the Colorado plates! Me and Powder are thrilled we got to meet someone who is famous and thank you for being so kind.....Lol It was a priveledge for me and powder to run into you today and we hope you had a great hike Keep up the great you tube videos and thank you for taking us all along on your journey.
@@StephiLee Ha! Lol Well she was very polite and beuitiful, probably why I confused her for you! Keep up the great you tube content and best wishes to you in Idaho 🤗😅
Two Goddesses talking in a meadow is a sign of a ReLOVEution of consciousness. People are jealous because they don't realeyes their role as a creator in their life. Intentions build into Action which Manifests a beyouthefull life experience.
Stephi reminds me a lot of my partner, but oposite gender, which is also intresring. Probably why I gravitate towards her because they are both clam yet goofy, shy but with a wonderful mind, and of course, wonderfully creative :)
Hello. I think that books on introspection also need to be diluted with books about creating something. For example: how to build a house, how to grow potatoes in bags, how to create a hydroponic farm, how to build an electrolytic oxygen generator, 3D printing, solar panels, peaceful use of AI technology in medicine, etc. Of course, for any startups and creations, it is always nice to have a good company, friends, whose collective experience in different fields or the ability to cover a wider scientific ground can help to achieve a common goal. Good Luck!
I hope my path in life has events like this that will be new for me but if not. Stay positive and keep helping the world remember what fun and love and happiness and adventure and friendships and forgiveness and kindness and compassion and best of positive luck to you all in each of your life's and the rest of the world
I have a problem with making friends. People don't try to get to know me, they just go by my outer persona. So I'm a loner and don't mind usually, but sometimes I feel the same way. " Please get to know meeeeee, I like youuuu 😥."
This, That was Awesome.....The song by Styx " Ive got too much Time on my Hands" was on radio. Time is Linear...Lol...Something i Learned a few years ago when i came home to find myself was alot i had not even imagined in my 3D mindset was jokingly googling my name and finding a old picture of this Officer with the same name but not sure if related or not. I learn alot about him and his wife and her name was Sarah...and this is and had happened. The Creator and Universe , Great Spirit and Brother Jesus they are too cool. Love and Light to All. Keep Doing this and I Will as well. Spirit tells me to Rest ?? I cant not til the goal is achieved. Georgia was the Peach that was bitter Sweet. Now the time to Reap, Pile and Heap. Sisters and Brothers of Light we are gaining. Sorry to those who dont resenate with this yet. Peace Love and Light
Ms. Stephie Lee... You have gone thru huge hurdles in your life now sunshine it's time to start exercising those lungs. Speak with enthusiasm and exaggeration because you can now because you can... Use your lungs and your voice and express yourself when I was a little girl I had a stutter mother made me sing in the choir this is an ideal exercise for you too different case but perfect. Exercise those lungs!!? 💕💓💞
Stephen i love you and your videos, but I think your friend is my soul sister. I've never felt so validated. Thank you for being so open and honest! Let's be friends! -Brandi fortner
