Giving Yourself Free is Like Paying Him to Like You

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@eridanijay4886 4 года назад

These women will literally drive to these men's house and give it up for nothing, not even a measly date. Even a 5$ pizza has a delivery fee. You are worth more than this ladies!

@tonismith8209 4 года назад

Its just sad

@themoonbleu627 4 года назад

Eridani Jay 💯💯say it louder for the pickmeshas in the back !!!

@reginaalmaraz7561 3 года назад

I agree! 100%!

@kurosawagin Год назад

I've actually seen this in action with my neighbor. He's a big time womanizer and he's having each new woman coming over and spend the night and I've never seen him took one of them out on date or claim them for marriage. It's really a shame that women are still don't know better and still being used for booty call

@GoddessAries 6 месяцев назад

@@kurosawagin Omg same! My neighbor has a new pickme every day, it’s sad to see smh 🤦🏾‍♀️

@nickyb5827 4 года назад

This is the conversation that mothers should have with their daughters when having the birds and bees talk.

@sharonstanley9936 4 года назад

Nicky b yes and they don’t. Which causes curiosity which lead to mistakes 💯

@michellelopez1201 4 года назад

Yes!

@aminah761 4 года назад

Nicky b true

@lovelybrowneyes2293 4 года назад

Nicky b 🤩🤩🔥

@unapologeticella4540 4 года назад

I agree and it should be the first thing they hear.💕

@greyahmarie0905 4 года назад

Just a message for my beautiful babes... YOU CAN RISE UP FROM ANYTHING. YOU CAN COMPLETELY RECREATE YOURSELF. NOTHING IS PERMANENT. You're not stuck, YOU HAVE CHOICES .You CAN THINK NEW THOUGHTS, and CREATE NEW HABITS. ALL THAT MATTERS IS YOU DECIDE TODAY AND NEVERRRR LOOK BACK... LOVE YALL SPRINKLE SPRINKLE💫💫💫💚💚💚💋💋💋

@ccn042000 4 года назад

Thank you sis. This video has me ruminating on my past mistakes

@greyahmarie0905 4 года назад

@@ccn042000 girl u not alone... but we not living back there, now we know way better WE DO BETTER

@greyahmarie0905 4 года назад

@Ayres Official pray it off u babe, rise above it, u got this whatever ir is leave it in Gods hands and yes it is that easy... wishing u the best

@deet2908 4 года назад

Thanks for the positive comment.

@FaridaDawkinsYY 4 года назад

@@greyahmarie0905 exactly. Thank you for the encouragement.

@ShyNikkiE 4 года назад

Best revenge "Get a man with more money" 💯

@angelicaangel2624 4 года назад

What man appreciates anything he gets for free??? Answer = NONE.

@michellelopez1201 4 года назад

Exactly

@marthadivine8426 4 года назад

None!

@shivvanenezah5994 4 года назад

Facts

@tonismith8209 4 года назад

💯💯💯

@kingkamaro9442 4 года назад

Then, why do you think you will respect a man who would be willing to spend and do any of your desires without you having bothered to reveal how you are a woman of quality? Would you respect such a desperate man?

@amandaspaintinglessons9908 4 года назад

One guy was in the chat early and he said, 'he can live the rest of his days without a woman' but he is IN A WOMEN'S PAGE AND CHAT! LOLOL!!!!

@tijeraslack3 4 года назад

Amanda's Painting Lessons All of what you said! Messy ass man.

@dcaramelone 4 года назад

Obviously he cannot.

@spartanman5231 4 года назад

well maybe hes just here laughting at all the stupid womens comments that's just what im doing HEHEHE

@pennyzografou5462 4 года назад

Isn't that ironic.. i just laugh at them..

@LizNeptune 4 года назад

as shera says... he's one of the girls!! LMAO the MGTOW's crack me up

@lionsskyblue442 4 года назад

nothing is free ladies...men value what they pay for

@joybliss9970 4 года назад

You know if he values you if he is paying for everything you want as well

@kurosawagin Год назад

Bingo 👌🏻

@Jaz-px5pr 4 года назад

Giving a guy your body for free and getting mad when he takes it and leave is like recieving free samples and the place getting mad because you didn't buy anything. Your only taking what's being given to you without paying for it. And most likely you will not buy it.

@tijeraslack3 4 года назад

Jazzyea J I think women get caught up in the deception men use. We have to understand they aren’t getting any regardless even though they beg us to give it up.

@successfuluniverse9870 4 года назад

@@tijeraslack3 With a few dollars you will men should understand that. Give her a few dollars and move on 9 out of 10 the sex is only good for one night. Why to settle down?

@starrix4712 4 года назад

Case in point above. To them it is just “the sex”, not even a sexual relationship. Not the woman and how she works with him. They are robots most often. Forget compromising for something so disappointing spiritually.

@LaBellezaMorena 4 года назад

THIS IS VALUABLE INFORMATION! Whether you are religious or not, this information is universal, it is gold! This is what your mother SHOULD have told you. Some of you won't even give up your phone to someone, but you will open your legs! Listen to Shera!

@chamab.6800 4 года назад

Katia Bella holy shit. Facts.

@qaysmith1508 4 года назад

Shooketh!

@kingkamaro9442 4 года назад

A man of quality would never want to sleep with a woman without knowing her and knowing that she is a woman of quality or that he is planning to marry her. You see the reasons why there are toxic people who give toxic advice like shera and Alpha male strategies is because sex has lost its sacredness.Sex is no longer sacred. The saddest part of all this is that there are young people who have not yet understood anything about life who consider Shera as their guru, their master of thought,as someone who has understood everything in life.

@kingkamaro9442 4 года назад

Depriving a man of sex, so that he is interested in you only works on simps or losers. A good man will first of all have the pleasure of knowing you, before wanting to go further, because he understood that beautiful girls do not make always beautiful relationships.

@jane-ew2jh 2 года назад

Arab nations aka govt already told because humans r stupid to go to men n for miney open legs tat to 2 cents

@DD_MENEN 3 года назад

I started watching Shera at age 26... i didnt level up but i started attracting masculine men who provide. Now im levelling up daily and havent paid bills pretty much all year, I dont work anymore my time is free to do whatever I want.

@honeylemon2372 2 года назад

Sounds like you’ve been leveling up internally since 26. Congrats and more blessings to you. Your photo is gorgeous!

@maryfiero8122 Год назад

I am almost there. Still pay rent and 10% for transport ticket but otherwise i am fine

@WhitneyKM 11 месяцев назад

DD I am a huge fan and supporter of yours .

@unapologeticella4540 4 года назад

I'm literally crying because nobody ever told me this so many ppl pretending to be your friend ty Shaera your opening my eyes.🙏

@missphilosophie 4 года назад

Ella Suarez Dont cry, just get better😊

@intentionalgreatness 4 года назад

Yep..most men do not approach women for friendship..there's always a catch and sex is it.

@intentionalgreatness 4 года назад

@@George-ky4wf truth

@GoddessAries 6 месяцев назад

@@intentionalgreatness I learned this the hard way. I’ll never trust anyone especially men, ever again! Thanks to Shera my eyes are wide open.

@natashadickson4819 5 месяцев назад

It's in the Bible. Every religion knows premarital sex is a really bad idea. It's called a sin because it's bad for you.

@aleshyabarbour6389 4 года назад

It's too easy to get pregnant to be having x for free. I always stop myself from giving it up by asking "what if you got pregnant". Ladies, make sure that man can give you what you need before you give it up

@aleshyabarbour6389 4 года назад

@Nyesha Smith exactly

@carolinelaronda4523 4 года назад

My last dusty relationship was my last straw . He got me pregnant and I did not keep the pregnancy. He couldn’t understand why . Complete dusty mentality . I just kind of snapped into sanity after that . Also found Ashera around the same time and I’m so grateful to have found her when I did .

@aleshyabarbour6389 4 года назад

@@carolinelaronda4523 I feel for you. I dont think they understand the weight of their desires to the fullest and how it could have drastic implications on us. That's why it's easy to demand curtain things. Like money, security, etc...

@tonismith8209 4 года назад

Most women don't even think about that. What if he does get you pregnant? If he doesn't even think enough of you to take you out and treat you decently how would he treat your baby? Think about it...

@intentionalgreatness 4 года назад

Exactly!

@tonismith8209 4 года назад

The part when Shera says "Now if he worked for it by taking you out and spending money on you and called you every day and took you somewhere and bought you a gift they are going to value it so much more because they actually had to put forth some effort and earn it." Girl I felt that. Was literally just at the grocery store and heard a man talking to some females about how nobody really wants something that was free and anything worth having you have to work for it.

@benedictaowusu-gyan5255 3 года назад

Soo I had an SD 2 weeks ago. I haven't requested anything, he hasn't given me anything either, but he is coming around for 3 days and wanna see me at his hotel. What should I do if he ask for sex? He is sweet and nice and checks on me often. But I want *allowance before sex*. What should I do?

@tonismith8209 3 года назад

@@benedictaowusu-gyan5255 Any man inviting you to a hotel room will definitely be expecting sex. They're always sweet and nice in the beginning. Until they get what they want. Then your yesterdays news. Won't ever want to take you anywhere or do anything to make you feel special. I wouldn't go....

@benedictaowusu-gyan5255 3 года назад

@@tonismith8209 lol funny enough he just called to ask if I will be able to make it. I told him let's see. He will be be spending 3 days at the hotel. Maybe postponing it and giving him a chance to spend on me will let me know whom he really is. Thanks girl 🥰💞

@scurryfunge9581 3 года назад

@@benedictaowusu-gyan5255 So, how was it? Please share with us!🍷

@letstlk 2 года назад

@@benedictaowusu-gyan5255 i wish you told him enjoy your stay and never went

@amasion2882 4 года назад

“Friends With Benefits” is an example of clever rewording intended to make sexual exploitation sound better than it is. After all it’s “friendly,” right? “Friendship” is a positive thing and we aren’t supposed to turn down friendships. A real friend doesn’t exploit or disrespect his/her friends.

@peekaboots01 4 года назад

It works because wo men think they need sex like men and believe it's modern feminism.

@pogogogo9002 2 года назад

Escorts get $2-400 an hour and women putting out for FWB when these guys are not your friends and they benefit.

@divasamai2251 Год назад

That’s interesting that you would say a real friend wouldn’t do that.

@Hoosierontherun 4 года назад

Thank you Thank you! We've been incorrectly condemning prostitutes when they smarter than us!!!

@TosyaChan 4 года назад

No. Sleeping with lots of random men for payment is low and bad for your soul.

@tijeraslack3 4 года назад

Hoosier On The Run- Travel Vlog 💯💯💯

@kimkitty3914 4 года назад

_ exactly , that’s why you don’t do this for free since is bad for your souls unless they pay for your school, car, House , cash so the damaged (if any) is compensated.

@weekendgetawaywithme 4 года назад

Sleeping with a broke man that is only using and abusing you is also bad for your soul.

@fefe6964 2 года назад

@@TosyaChan The key is to charge more for your services which lessens your number count. You will find more men willing to spend $300-500 for fun as opposed to men that will spend $1000.00 plus for fun.

@Nicole2023 4 года назад

Ladies stop laying on your back for a man with no commitment then asking him where do you stand with him. You already showed him you are low value

@aminah761 4 года назад

Kelle Nicole Smith yes

@Nekole1 4 года назад

So true. Love this comment.

@deena3003 4 года назад

My husband said he doesn't feel right if I buy him a meal. He said he likes paying for me. Yess, women understand the value you bring to men. Thanks Shera for all your teachings💞

@moons4363 4 года назад

Kudos to your husband 😊🙌

@tonismith8209 4 года назад

Exactly! My husband is like that too. Whenever we go on family outings him and daddy both argue over who's going to pay. Its like a male pride thing or something...

@deena3003 4 года назад

@@tonismith8209 yesss it is. It gives a sense of pride and accomplishment.

@krismladjenovic5034 4 года назад

Some women have no problem paying a man, but have a problem when a man is paying a woman, like what?

@Desertvibes234 4 года назад

Kris Mladjenovic ass backwards

@eridanijay4886 4 года назад

Insecurity and jealousy. I know a woman like this and I never realized how condescending it was until now! She's always talks about how gold-digging is wrong but her man is a gold-digger! She's paying for pretty much everything, their car insurance, most of his Camaro car notes, their phone bill, and who knows what else! Saw her CashApp and his name was all up and down the list with her sending more than receiving. He's cheated, they never go out and he doesn't get her holiday presents. She's a nurse that has to work 4-5 12hr shifts to keep afloat and he's working in a factory, it's sad.

@starrjohnson1327 4 года назад

A man who pays is called the Breadwinner! Yet the woman who pays or gives sex for free is literally a Bread loser😂

@starrix4712 4 года назад

Lol it’s men too!! These bitter men wouldn’t complain about being paid for, interesting for people so morally narcissistic that they think they’re saints

@October3074 4 года назад

@@eridanijay4886 Shera said Dusty's lovvve nurses bc they're the best 2 use.

@anotherthingaboutme 4 года назад

It is absolutely mind boggling how accurate shera’s advice is. My life has completely changed because of her advice.

@OlderWomenRock 4 года назад

If women stopped giving it up so easily the rules would change . Men would change . They’d figure out fast that they had to earn a woman’s attention . They would show more respect . Hate to say it , it’s the many women who do it that have devalued women to many men . This might seem a radical view from a woman who strongly believes what is good for goose etc and women’s rights . It’s the culture of men sadly . It’s not all men , it is probably most men though .

@krismladjenovic5034 4 года назад

I was listening to one minester and he said if all women stopped having sex with men, they could changes laws..so that is how powerfull u are. But it is a mans mision to make u feel like u are not so he would get the goods. So that is why it is important to know ur worth. Media makes u think that u are a sex maniac that is the problem, everything is sex. So if u are smart u wont be giving sex without getting what u want first.

@OlderWomenRock 4 года назад

Kris Mladjenovic I’m so glad you younger women are watching SheRa . It’s not a moral issue for me , far from it . Like you said , it’s smart to make them realise no free lunches , no goodies before goodies . I’m sure you will teach them how to behave .

@krismladjenovic5034 4 года назад

@@OlderWomenRock yes and it is our duty to show men how to treat us women, so men cant be bad to u if u dont allow it. My grandma said men are reflacions of women, before we had more gentlemens bcs there were more ladies.

@OlderWomenRock 4 года назад

Kris Mladjenovic thank you for the conversation . I might consider myself a feminist in many ways . For me this about being treated with dignity , fairness and respect . Even though I believe in equality I acknowledge differences . Men are biologically but more so socially wired a bit differently . Unfortunately they can be driven my their testosterone . Not all men are like this of course . It’s a big debate . I enjoy with much of what SheRa says , we might be coming from different places but she is empowering women and I love that . 💞

@OlderWomenRock 4 года назад

49jubilee dont agree , not one bit . Let’s not go backwards . SheRa is I think not suggested you become Stepford wives . She’s showing you how to play the game , to get your power and not be a sucker . But for older guys they might see Tats that way , some have told me this . Many older men are super conservative, pretty dull people actually but that’s ok if you only want money . Who gives a toss what they think lol

@DaughterofHarmony 4 года назад

"I am valuable and you must invest in me." Mantra for life. Thank you!

@boldandcourageous4176 3 года назад

Dr. John Gray said men like women less after they sleep with them. One of the reasons for this is because after they sleep with a woman their testosterone plummets. He also said it's important for a woman not to give a man she's involved with whether its a boyfriend or a husband too much sex because it will lower his testosterone making him less ambitious and less of a man that will pursue so women should ration sex for the man's own good.

@angie4940 2 года назад

True

@DeeRayOfSunshine 4 года назад

You LITERALLY give the best examples and metaphors.

@Cattitude369 4 года назад

Yes!! And yet some STILL don't get it 😩

@Sunshine-ms4ih 4 года назад

I asked my little sister of 18 years to follow your channel and listen to your videos so that hopefully she learns the game early and doesn't get played like I was.

@sweett8129 4 года назад

You're a good sister!

@kellymolly3616 4 года назад

I got my 9 year old siz into the game too 😂😂

@tijeraslack3 4 года назад

Olive Uwineza 💯💯💯

@EnHl3 3 года назад

Awesome big sis👍❤

@nennacobrand6943 Год назад

You’re a great sis. You gave her the best gift

@agatainventio9464 2 года назад

brand new Hermes bags designs don't sell to anyone who just has the money - there is a waiting list and you have to be someone to even get on it. think about this. even if you have the money it doesn't mean you're getting it. Shera, you're a damn delight sis, I'd love to have more friends like you.

@blessedchildofgod9112 4 года назад

Your heart is the most powerful organ in your body! You have to be careful who you give it ! People will control and destroy you ! Stand for something or fall for anything!

@kittyearsheadbands8810 4 года назад

sha b what about your brain it controls your body

@blessedchildofgod9112 4 года назад

What you think will happen if you fall in love and give your heart to the wrong person man! Don't matter the brain women have to protect the heart you not do so a person will control your mind and destroy you must know that kitty 💦🤔

@blessedchildofgod9112 4 года назад

You never let anyone control your heart man

@blessedchildofgod9112 4 года назад

You must use your brain when you making big decision in life!

@blessedchildofgod9112 4 года назад

You brain and your heart yes kitty is powerful please don't give control to nobody

@Scorpio12348 2 года назад

I’m not just giving myself for free ever again! Sleeping with anyone without some guarantee. You may not like me after we sleep together. Then what? You won’t respect me anymore.

@Peace-lt8bc 4 года назад

Always on time lady! A older gentleman asked for my number yesterday & i took his business card instead & didn't give him my number... I felt so powerful just by not giving out my number like i normally do...he was so shocked that i didn't give him my number. Like he was expecting me to be desperate. You have taught me so much. Also he asked me if i was married or had kids....and i hit him with the "ive always wanted kids" 😏 i knew in that moment he was trying to determine my value by asking me that and i was turned off...that also played a part in me not giving him my number.

@Peace-lt8bc 4 года назад

@Mauser 96 sooo special that you commented on it 😂😊 thank you 😍

@phillyflytee9849 3 года назад

I’ve always made men wait. You actually get more from them not giving the cookies up so quick. Slow walk until I’m ready.

@Kimberlypellot 4 года назад

I've learned through my sexual experiences to stop seeking acceptance and approval from man and am more concerned for Gods approval now a days.

@MsLolaTaylor 4 года назад

Period sis

@love.1995 2 года назад

Purrrrrr

@secret-garden 4 года назад

Another excellent video full of great gems and reminders. Do not give yourself away ladies! Do not! No matter what he says. Make him wait. Make him work. If he is not willing to do so, he is not worthy of your queendom!

@MaryMary-nj3zy 4 года назад

"He gotta pay to unlock."💰🔓😉

@empressqi1722 3 года назад

@Mauser 96 Are you slightly obsessed woman hater? Same reply under every comment. Yeah, 3.5 billion and how many of them would even want your broke ass?

@shino7435 3 года назад

@@empressqi1722 😭😂😂😂😂👏 you dropped this👑

@kurosawagin Год назад

Best comment ✨💅📍

@greyahmarie0905 4 года назад

And to the women who think oh (this is for me not him) BLASPHEMY ur kidding yourself... dont do it sis, have self control and know your worth!💚💚💚💚 sex isnt the same for men and women Vagina is POWER!

@zoedixon5274 2 года назад

You wouldn’t give out the pin code to your cell phone but you out here giving out the entrance to your womb and vessel for a 🍺 😂😂😂👌🏽

@michelleapple1214 4 года назад

Perfect Timing, Lades please listen to her. Stop Laying on your back. Tell a man you will not give them your body unless they treat you right. Then you want to know why you keep getting Ghosted, stop being desperate.

@sexyladyakb 4 года назад

michelle apple lol sticking by these principles is getting me ghosted for the first time in my life

@AmaLoveGoddessTV 4 года назад

They ghost you when u dont give it to them free either

@AmaLoveGoddessTV 4 года назад

@@sexyladyakb because he was entitled and cheap.

@successfuluniverse9870 4 года назад

Preach I tell men all the time just pay lay and move away see it all rhymes.

@tonismith8209 4 года назад

Say it again! ✊

@tonismith8209 4 года назад

When that fool was like women over 50 have hit the wall and Shera came back and said well I guess yo momma is done for 🤣🤣🤣🤣

@intentionalgreatness 4 года назад

😂😂

@goldenmoon739 4 года назад

@Mauser 96 she's not ugly and even if she is she still has a husband and children so

@AmaLoveGoddessTV 3 года назад

Lordt!!!😫😃😃

@nunnallyai Год назад

The worst is when you know and you do the opposite still, let’s lift each other up with sharing love and knowledge! I feel like shame and hurt makes people repeat the cycle, but don’t be ashamed just change starting now!

@ninawestlake5005 4 года назад

My younger brother(and lots of other men, lol) hate my guts, because for me, it's hypergamy or nothing at all. His stupid girlfriend gives him money etc while he is busy checking out other women on fb and everywhere else. Nah uh!

@spartanman5231 4 года назад

sounds like your the one whos mad

@spartanman5231 4 года назад

stalker how am I a stalker dumbass am I following you somewhere I don't know where you are so no

@katrina1694 4 года назад

Chile my ex dusty said he didn't like curvy/big women. How bout I have him my old phone because he didn't have one and I wanted a new one. 😒(He was looking at big butt Brazilian porn). Chilllllle the lies men tell. Lol

@WildAntics13 7 месяцев назад

@@spartanman5231you sounds stupid 😂

@donnamcintosh2109 4 года назад

I have been guilty in the past of compromising myself just to keep a man interested. Through trial and error, I've become wiser.

@v.v.5046 4 года назад

I’m 18 and still virgin. I feel like I want my first time to be with some guy that is special and respects me more than for my body...

@cremedelacreme6340 4 года назад

Please keep your virginity for the man God sends you that makes you his wife. #True Story ❤️

@Ireach 4 года назад

Make sure he's invested a lot of money into you, for your future, as well as respecting you. That way, if you two break up, you'll still have your options and freedom because you built your savings.

@FaridaDawkinsYY 4 года назад

@@cremedelacreme6340 yes!

@finda9994 4 года назад

Bitch sell that shit wtf virginity aint shit

@user-ep4jo1ev3j 4 года назад

Keep your virginity and learn to play men

@n.a.7373 2 года назад

I was in 9 years free, i understand that’s when you allow them to determine your worth. Pimp mentality among blk men, they pimp out low self esteem women, all races and backgrounds. Thanks Shera🖤🖤🖤

@derrickhandy1324 4 года назад

SheRa, I am really amazed on the amount of wisdom you have. That is phenomenal! You're truly gifted

@JUSTME-lw7nk 4 года назад

You are a Gods gift to women all over the planet with your advices, Thank You!!!!💗

@Paola01. 2 года назад

Men pay for sex, why should you be free? If they are willing to pay some stranger they don’t even know for sex, then why shouldn’t they pay for your things, you’re there for them 24/7, the prostitutes are there for only 1 hour or 30 min depending how long he lasts or how much he is willing to spend, and do you know how much they pay them for that hour..?,like $100, do the math.

@showmercytoothers4059 4 года назад

your right.....rich men dont need nothing from women cause they got it all already. wow

@lightshinethindarkness 4 года назад

Ashera many women give free becuse they afriad be alone or time pass age

@michellelopez1201 4 года назад

True but they need to get past that and stop lowering themselves

@missshannonsunshine 4 года назад

No. Some just like sex and it’s mutual. Some are the ones who make sure that they aren’t in a relationship with their fwb and the dude is sad about it.

@mendingwall3823 4 года назад

@@missshannonsunshine its never mutal. Men always get more benefits from sex

@aminah761 4 года назад

Light in Darkness: true

@aminah761 4 года назад

Mending Wall exactly

@myawinter4436 4 года назад

Realest thing i seen today. Whew buddy....knowledge is power

@tg1204tgify 4 года назад

You are raw and real in a classy way. Thats skills!

@mztoyabarton1543 4 года назад

Yes .. you can lower your own self of steam .. because you start to dis value yourself ✨✨Wake up !! Check your vibration!!!! Remember you are the prizes 🔥🔥

@luisavieira2985 4 года назад

Glad i know that now!! When we don't have any experience we are naive and make dumb mistakes!

@tijeraslack3 4 года назад

A narcissist won’t deal with you because you will run circles around them. Narcissist don’t even like dealing with outside sources because they want to be right in their own little world, unless they can manipulate outside sources.

@bossladymsp2885 2 года назад

25:30- 29:30 intimacy 💸💸💸, liking him 36:00-39:00 1:02:00-1:04:30 make weaknesses your strengths "Giving yourself for free, doing tricks for free lowers your value" 1:07:00-1:11:30 Give off the perception that its hard to get to you because you dont entertain anyone that isn't serious about you, chasing.. HE IS BEGGING FOR YOU TO SAY NO TO S**!!

@bossladymsp2885 5 месяцев назад

14:00

@theperfectescape5785 4 года назад

Exactly! The same reason you need that money baby!!!

@ariesdelfuego 3 года назад

Shera, I cant thank U enuff. I've been so stupid in the past thinking "this guy is special". No. They need to earn this sex ! Not giving even a kiss away for free anymore. Men dont think like we do. Now I'm understanding better how men think. This will help me throughout the rest of my life 💜💎

@kathyalex778 3 года назад

This is THE signature Shera video. Giiirl you're sharing with us game on game on GAME!

@oia5882 Год назад

“Look at them crazy”😂😂 Thank you, Shera❤

@Realmariah510 2 года назад

Gotta come back to these videos as apart of my maintenance routine 🎀❤

@rebekahlemon9438 4 года назад

“Astral travel your way to pickmeeshas house” 😂💀

@GoddessAries 6 месяцев назад

I died when she said that 🤣🤣☠️☠️

@oliviarodrigues2323 4 года назад

Thank you, Shera, for reinforcing the difference between our hearts and our heads. It is an ongoing struggle from the female view, and it is very true - especially if we do not have the security and stability of a home and a family. Not saying that family is the ONLY source of security and stability (sometimes our so-called families can be our worst enemy), but just saying when we are out here trying to survive, we mix our feelings/emotions and our reason up all the time and we face a lot of hurt. Thank you for all of your videos, although everyone many not agree.

@azucenakennedy149 4 года назад

dont catch feelings

@bangelic6471 2 года назад

I haven’t been giving it away for free but when they do start spending..I start giving too much of myself…that’s my problem.

@misscrook6793 4 года назад

Wasn't Tina Turner in her 60's when she married the billionaire?

@intentionalgreatness 4 года назад

Ok! Her famous legs didn't hit no wall lol

@Darkempress45 4 года назад

Miss Crook they got together when she was 42. She is 16 years older than him. They weren’t going to get married because she didn’t want to but she came around. They married when she was 73

@adoseofinfinity 4 года назад

Drink tea & listen to mantras ! 🤣🤣💀

@KadrinaA 4 года назад

😂😂😂😂

@patfar392 3 года назад

My boss was always trying to pull me down and that’s exactly what I thought! That he was insecure and threatened by my skills and career and I wondered what happened to him as a child . He was a sad pathetic man trying to be a lion king and failing daily. People that need to pull others down instead of working together as a team to achieve even greater things are insecure and damaged. I rarely have time to listen to your long videos Sheera but you are so insightful and waking woman up ! You can be both a powerful independent woman and a feminine woman to a strong man. And I say that having come from nothing . Don’t settle!

@angelmcmurray 4 года назад

Such wise information .. I’m applying this the next time he texts ..

@chanell7096 4 года назад

I never give myself for free I always make um come out them pockets.

@msrailroadtracks2920 4 года назад

Shera I love when you give these examples on how not to give yourself away and how to counter/respond so you get what you deserve!👏🏾

@oliviarodrigues2323 4 года назад

He keeps touching you, after you said "No?" - What did the hand say to the face?

@user-umcub 3 года назад

Stop giving yourself away for free99 I learnt my lesson

@unknownstranger6875 2 года назад

15:00 In case some of you forget. This is very important and true. Everything she’s saying, but this right here: You are sacred. Don’t give it to just anyone.

@ShyNikkiE 4 года назад

Level up ladies!!!

@Kimberlypellot 4 года назад

One thing I know is that my talent wasn't achieved by myself or own will; It was God given and also my beauty, the time I spend and body. I am beautiful and talented and people trust me because I truly believe in God in many ways and I respect all religions and cultures.

@naebaee5712 2 года назад

I appreciate this message so much. Was never given this conversation in the past. I totally agree with you Shera! Thank you for this ❤️

@rami1513 4 года назад

Heal the mind.

@lightshinethindarkness 4 года назад

God bless all level up to be Queen to king

@aishamarie3563 4 года назад

Exactly what I needed to hear !!! THANK YOU !! ON POINT

@tiisetsosephai 2 года назад

Thank you so much for taking your time to share this info with us Shera ♥️

@olliehampton8367 4 года назад

The title of this video is profound Thank you Words of pure wisdom ❤️

@MayaDTV 4 года назад

I've been holding out for years and I haven't had a date in years!! These guys are Lazy! I feel like some kind of weirdo! LMAO I'm not just hanging out with guys they have to take me out! #Period

@bessie6785 4 года назад

MayaD TV tell them to take you on a date. I just looked at your avi and I find it reeeally hard to believe that no one has asked you out on a date in 2 years. If that’s really true that’s a damn fucking shame

@epithanyreighn 4 года назад

Periodt!!!

@Empz-wm9rc 4 года назад

Loool! Shera, sometimes you are so savage but your words are so NEEDED!!! I feel personally attacked and yet so grateful you exist 😂😂😩 Love you girl 😘

@Krdlaoia 4 года назад

OMG! I absolutely LOVE this! it give so much clarity about life!

@iamtoribrown_ 4 года назад

The realest video on RU-vid 🙏🏾

@arah70 4 года назад

Shera I 💕 you!! I love how you fix those trolls. Beautiful lady🥳🥳✨✨

@Isow261 4 года назад

5:39 LOL this was literally me a couple months ago 🤦🏻‍♀️ did everything wrong. Gotta learn the hard way I guess

@blessedchildofgod9112 4 года назад

Alot of these women just thirsty for men and don't set standards cause they scared these men ain't scared to ask you for your goody doe they don't care!

@spartanman5231 4 года назад

yeah just like you are thirsty but the one thing your missing here is nobody wants you

@blessedchildofgod9112 4 года назад

Lol byeee troll

@blessedchildofgod9112 4 года назад

Tell the truth Shame the devil lol 😂

@blessedchildofgod9112 4 года назад

Stop talking trash behind a computer ! Byeeeeeeeeeee!

@blessedchildofgod9112 4 года назад

You not got nothing eles to do

@carolinelaronda4523 4 года назад

Just off the title I have to comment- yes Shera I love this 💜👍🏼🙌🏼

@divasamai2251 2 года назад

Men get tired and or bored. That’s why they leave after the free sex. That’s absolutely horrible.

@MayaDTV 4 года назад

That ringtone on your phone got me Dying!! LMAO

@azucenakennedy149 4 года назад

I get that a lot, men asking me if I am not spiritual, lol, then I end up epxressing how diabolic it is to get innocednt women like me for doing nasty thing, the sexual action is very abusive, even with cuddling, it is an abuse....and we end up all codependent

@sagittariusblack2879 2 года назад

35:35 if they bring up other women. I tell them invite her over to have dinner with US. Ask “Can she cook? I’m hungry.”

@kittyearsheadbands8810 4 года назад

I needed to hear this, ty!

@mercedesdelancourt3453 4 года назад

I love her sarcasm

@alabadiamira 2 года назад

Yes thats totally correct Shera. I make myself not impressed with guy with someone I don’t like he wants to get more things i keep rejecting then he will ask what you want I buy for you

@azucenakennedy149 4 года назад

men are getting angry cuz they dont get any, lol but saddly online dating there are so many people doing coach dating...

@azucenakennedy149 4 года назад

cuddle in the movies means he will put his hand on your leg...

@howaboutno2023 4 года назад

Preaching today Shera❤❤♀️

@Miss.Bri_ 4 года назад

Pisces are too sensitive. I’m a Virgo and i dated this Pisces guy every time i would say something sarcastic back to him he would be in his feelings. I said thank you NEXT

@ninawestlake5005 4 года назад

I don't think it's a zodiac thing. I'm pisces and as cold as a fish. Only warm when i get payed and treated well.

@havegrace9111 4 года назад

@@ninawestlake5005 I think she meant pisces men?, us pisces women are ruthless if we dont get what we want. But than again we know how to get what we want so usually we go along swimmingly 🐟🐟

@ninawestlake5005 4 года назад

@@havegrace9111 Exactly. Thanks for clarifying.

@AmaLoveGoddessTV 4 года назад

Im a pisc. This is true but I'm on the cusp of aries with a sagg rising sign. I also have leo and cap in my chart. So I often thrown out the sarcasm first lol

@0024811 4 года назад

It depends because your bithchart has more zodiac signs. Like me I'm a Gemini rising, libra moon , virgo sun, 3 other virgo placements in my chart. This can effect how a person personality, logic, emotions and creativity is.