I love hearing your advice. What happens with me is that the next day he doesn’t remember why we were upset but I do. Then we can’t properly discuss the situation. Then a few months later it comes up again with double the force. We decided that it is better to sit together, usually me on his lap, and we are silent for five or ten minutes as we cool off. Then all the physical touch and silence brings calmness and rational thought and love. We’ve found this much better than going to sleep angry and waking up with angry amnesia. Love your channel. I’d love to see more.
I actually agree. I've had so many people be astonished at this, but more often than not, one or both of us are just super tired and wouldn't have the argument otherwise.
Yes! I am glad you brought this topic up. When my husband and I first got married, we spent many a sleepless nights “not going to bed angry”. That was sure a waste of time! We finally figured out that trying to work anything out at night was a terrible idea for us. It was much better to just go to bed and discuss it when we were well rested.
Hey! so great to see an upload from you. can you do a video on a daily routine video or a video on what you eat in a day to maintain yourself?? what products do you use to prevent stretch marks/ loose skin??
Did that last night for the first time. Was still angry all day today and my husband acts like nothing ever happend which made me even more furious. Hope we can figure this out once he comes back home. Seems to not work for us 🥴
No absolutely not! You should be an adult and control yourself and being sleepy does not determine if you are mean to somebody you love you should calm yourself down and sit down outside or someplace alone with the person and lovingly talk to things through
The real secret to marital happiness is to learn that Satan is the one that causes fighting in marriage he hates Godly marriages, Ephesians 6:12 tells us that demons are the ones that whisper feelings and lies between people causing them to fight and have misunderstandings
The wife should not have to hold on to her hurt for the whole night. You should fix it immediately by being kind to each other and talking it through you should never be that upset in the first place that you can't talk like human beings. What are we five and need a nap first
Yeah never go to bed angry is stupid. If I'm mad and hormonal all I Need to do Is go to sleep, get my period and I'll feel a whole lot Better about my husband.
