Growing Up in a Abusive Household... BRAMTEA EP. 3 

Next episode should be bramty talking about HER family, her and her brothers tea ☕️ . Luis talked about his family drama and trauma now it’s Bramtys turn!

I hope bramty read these comments and takes them seriously. All of the comments are basically the same. She is insensitive and immature with her comments and cannot seem to let them get a full sentence out with out interrupting them. This isn’t tea, this is their real life. Read the room and adjust accordingly.

Bramty: you never show emotion Also Bramty: *makes fun when they get emotional while talking about their traumatic childhood experiences*

I love how no one noticed when gordo said “he’s also a pathological liar” when Bramty was telling the story about their dad calling her pretty LOL

Invalidating their experience by comparing the absence of your father was completely uncalled for. And then going in to say “now that we’re done with that sad part” and “I was cringing when y’all were getting emotional” is completely disrespectful to their trauma and feelings

Bramty should start talking about her own family. Let’s hear about Jeff.

Gordo is very well spoken and good at telling stories

Let’s be careful to not make fun of men for crying. Especially right after he was opening up about being bullied for having emotions as a child. He might seem okay with it but that doesn’t make it okay.

Every single time this topic is spoken I feel even more respect for Luis, hearing what he’s been through and seeing the beautiful dad he is to the kids. It takes A LOT. Also, Gordo is so well spoken… much respect for him too.

Bramty was so unserious for such a serious topic. She also kept interrupting Gordo & kept trying to talk for them. Ms. Bramty, you ask the questions and your guest answer it. LET THEM ANSWER 😅

I love the fact you decided to make a tea podcast but just bc you spill tea it doesn’t mean you have to be rude to spill tea. Interrupting is so so so rude. It’s almost as if you were in a hurry and rushing through good subjects.

I wish Gordo realized he actually was a victim to the 45 year old creep. It’s definitely not normal and she’s at fault 100%

I started getting annoyed when Bramty was trying to tell THEIR story about THEIR dad. Louis literally said she already said her perspective about the dad and she wouldn’t shut up. I’m glad they kept correcting her assumptions

I can’t stand how Bramty is trying to point out Luis’ bad traits when they first met. She needs to take a look at herself and how rude she is

"I was cringing when yall were getting emotional"- Bramty I really hope next episode is all about you and your childhood it's only fair for you to also spill all the TEA in your family's past and also answer all the questions Louis would like to ask without having a chance to tap out just the same way you ignored your husband when he kept asking to change the subject 😢 I seriously felt bad for Louis and Gordo. We need a new podcast with only the brothers ❤

These were very sensitive topics for Gordo & Luis, you can see them both get emotional about it I think Bramty could have been more empathetic towards them and not cracked jokes about them getting emotional.

BRAMTY YOU WERE RUSHING THEM, let them give you the details. That’s the best part about TEA 😭

Love this podcast but bramty is super immature and insensitive. She wants to be respected while talking but can never shut up when they’re talking. Also, to tell someone that you’re “bored” and to hurry up and spit it out while they’re telling a story is rude

I love y’all’s podcast but unsolicited advice to Bramty please learn to be empathetic because what Luis & Gordo went through isn’t a topic to be trying to say unnecessary things.

I feel like Bramty interrupted Gordo a lot and would cause him to lose his train of thought. I wanted to know what he had to say…

We need an episode with Yafit, we miss her 🥺

Bramty: he said i was so pretty and stuff Gordo: he was a pathological liar too so…

I hope Brandy sees the criticism as constructive.

i’ve always tried to look past bramtys unsettling attitude but this episode, i couldn’t even finish. truly so disgusting the way she completely invalidated their experience & said the most vile things when this was about THEIR experience. disgusting.

The emotions/hurt through Luis’ eyes thinking/talking about this makes me so upset 🥺 you men have become more than your father and I wish nothing but the best for your family 🫶🏼

I've loved these podcasts so far, and I've always loved the "tea" and how real you guys have always kept it. BUT, there's a big difference between just "tea" vs real life trauma in a person's life, especially when we're talking about someone's childhood. Some things should be addressed with a little more sensitivity than others instead of in such a jokey manner. I get some people have different personalities, and the way they deal with things is different, but let's not forget some topics should be treated with the seriousness they deserve. Gordo seemed to be the most respectful and mature in this entire episode. Thank you Luis and Gordo for sharing your stories. ❤

I usually defend Bramty’s messiness but this episode truly showed how unkind and unintelligent she is.

The fact that Gordo stays in contact with that lady is crazy to me 😳😳

Homegirl is extremely immature and unemotionally aware. stop running away from wisdom girl.

Gordo staying in touch with that lady reminded me of 50 shades of Grey when christian kept in contact with his ol lady lmao

Gordo was being groomed by the 45 year old. Even though he "consented" to intercourse she knew better.

But when it comes to her brother.. she never spills the tea 💁🏻‍♀️ the one who went to jail.. where is that tea at Bramty? .. we wanna know

This podcast was so relatable and interesting. However, if Bramty sees this I’d just wanna add to not talk over people when they are talking about trauma, to stop gaslighting someone to cry or say “are you about to cry?” And make them feel demasculated, as well as one major thing I noticed that makes me cringe is when Bramty says “you’re just like your father” to them even as a joke, that makes someone feel like I should’ve never told you anything.

By the way, bramty is very insensitive of these men’s trauma. Luis kept asking her to stop talking about it but the $$ is all she cares about. Let’s talk about Bramtys family next and call it TEA. No exceptions.

Bramty mocking luis and gordo about crying was not okay . Guys its ok to cry, it was a very traumatic time in your life . And to even have the guts to talk about it to the whole world is huge . And Bramty calling your dad ugly and being so insensitive wasn’t funny . Sea lo que sea es su papa. The eyerolls bramty would give when luis would mention HER family, ahi no le gusta . I love Bramty, ive been watching you guys forever. She’s funny af but at least for this specific episode it would have been nice to see her empathetic side .

I think this podcast would run smoother if Luis were leading it instead of Brampty. Brampty interrupts and then makes everything about her. Let people talk you don’t always have to be center of attention.

BRAMTY, let gordo talk gahhdamn!! 😂😂😭

This topic is one that is very close to home. Thank you to Luis and Gordo for being so open and sharing!

Ok Bramty lets talk about your brother Jeff next who you asked us to help get out of Jail😊

I always wondered why gordo never made a channel. He's such a natural.

I love how you guys grew up to become better than what you lived in and the influences y’all had around and changed your ways

Was she joking when she said “ at least you have a dad” ? That’s very insensitive:/ especially with what they went through. I can tell Gordo didn’t like that

Bramty, please be more considerate. I don’t judge you, I think you might react like this cause it’s also a trauma response for you, to cringe and laugh. But it took a lot of Luis and Gordo to open up and your response to it made me sad. I respect them for speaking up about it and it’s okay to feel those things to be able to heal. Love you guys ❤️

Love the podcast. Love the jokes. But I do agree with others that everything would be a lot better if bramty would be more empathetic towards the more difficult subjects. ❤love you guys

Bramty Kept interrupting so much.. let them talk .. omg

Gordo you were groomed!! You were a child, she was a grown woman!! Cut all ties , lose the communication & if you can’t do it then that’s how you know you were manipulated!

Bramty, you kept interrupting Gordo and would make him lose his train of thought and then you would get onto him for losing his train of thought😩😩 lol I wanted to hear more of what Gordo had to say but a lot of the time he was asked another question in the midst of answering the previous one 😭

We love to get to know Luis’s family but what about bramty? Bramtys mom? Dad? Brothers? Jeff going to prison so young and then going back? We would love to hear about your side too

Bramty not the time to make jokes 😭

I want you guys to talked about Bramtys brothers baby momma. What happened to her?

Luis and gordo are the perfect proof that no matter how your parents are or where you come from…you can become a good person…I come from a perfect and loving family and you made me realize how lucky I was. Congratulations guys❤

GUEST?? this episode finna be some major tea and i’m here for ittttttt 😭 they really the definition of starting from nothing 👏🏽 can’t help but be happy for them for taking what they were handed and genuinely overcoming it.

did anyone catch when bramty said "at least you guys had a dad" when they were talking about their trauma? she would speak over them a lot it was making me mad.

Bramty shut up let him say his juicy story with details lmao !! His stories are 🔥 Love u guys!❤

I never post ,, I’m more of a silence watcher. But I had to pause multiple times just because how Bramty was acting. I really do like the Bramfam and I’m truly entertain and I can relate to them. But if you going to do a serious topic and spill serious tea , you have to listen and have more empathy. You don’t have to “lift” up the vibe every time. Let it flow organically. It’s more than just letting people speak - it’s more having empathy because other people listening to you ,, have gone through the same situation as Luis/Luis or even worse and some people have not made it through it unlike you guys. Which is a blessing. Anyways, I really support you guys ; just a learn and grow situation. ❤

Honestly Luis and Gordo deserve all the love in the world. May God bless them and help them through every obstacle in life. It so sad to hear about their childhood but honestly it has made them stronger and more resilient to the challenges life throws at them.

These conversations help us get to know you guys better and your families background. These topics are so hard to talk about so many emotions and flash backs. But many families go through it. It’s not a normal thing to go through but we appreciate y’all talking about it . Blessings to your mom 🥹🙏🏽

Bramty needs to step back as a relative to her guest and interview as a third party. Let your guest speak and give them time. If your guest are emotional dont call them out, you dont give them the opportunity to go thru the emotions with out spotlighting it. PC are usually 1.5 to 2 hours. Dont rush your guest for the sake of time.

Gordo: “I don’t talk to her, ever since I been with Danny” Also Gordo: last time I talked to her she said how’s your baby ? LOL COULDNT BE ME GORDO IM TOO TOXIC 🫢🥲😅

I feel like Gordo has grown so much & he should totally make a channel himself he's a natural so well spoken !

“Let’s get to the point I’m getting bored” Whaaaat the helll Bramty when people hear you speak you think they don’t get bored ugh your so rude I wasn’t bored one second while gordo was speaking

I don’t think Gordo realizes he was freaking GROOMED 😭 as a 45 year old what do you even see in a 16 year old!? That’s so young!! I’m 19 & I wouldn’t even date a 16 old now 😭😭 that’s so…

Bramty was so annoying let Gordo talk !!!!!!

Luis is hilarious 😂😂😂 “I wanna punch you , can I punch you ? “ *punches his own face* 🤣🤣🤣 it made the tears go away

This episode though…it was good to see both Luis get deep with their story and being honest and open with it ❤❤

I love bramty and her family and all but I was getting really annoyed when Luis kept saying he didn’t want to talk about it and she kept going saying she wants to tell the tea and I feel like she should’ve respected that

Luis face when he’s talking just broke my heart you can see you the hurt in his eyes 😢

I know some people get offended by certain jokes and topics. I feel like Bramty, Luis and Gordo are so close and sometimes deal with Trauma through darker humor and jokes. Personally, I think they are doing great with this Podcast!! Super interesting and entertaining personalities. Looking forward for different guests charing stories!!

They don’t let Gordo talk 😅 he’s trying to get to the point but they won’t shush 🤫

Brampty has no idea how to be humble, she has to take credit for everything and always wants people to point my out how great or pretty or “right” or smart, or rich she is. She’s pretty immature and should let others shine and speak... doesn’t always have to be about her.

It’s horrible how mental illness can ruin families and cause so much trauma!! So interesting to hear about their childhoods with their dad. Sadly so many of us come from traumatic households

Gordo should not be keeping in contact with that lady. Smh especially since they had a past.

Hearing luis’ story is so heartbreaking and it takes me back to my childhood, I can relate to them so much specially having such a hard time expressing your feelings in a healthy way

‘ atleast you had a dad ‘ girl bffr.

Gordo called himself out, “The señora hasn’t talked to him since he has a GF but asked how the baby is and the baby is only 1 month old!” 😮

“Let me compliment you Cause you want it so bad” 😭 Luis is too funny. Love you guys

the way you guys are describing the mom and dad dynamic growing up is exactly my story. my siblings and I had to pretend we were suffering with homework or cleaning etc. if there was happiness our dad found it offensive. it was more if he couldn't be happy, no one in the house can either. when he got home we had to pretend we were all sad and only obedient like miserable soldiers. my mom is not the same anymore. we all became bitter and its been hard to get out of that way of being. its sad.

Bramty spilling all the tea I hope she spills the tea about that bad bunny concert where she ran to the stage 😂

This podcast has me so emotional I’m balling my eyes out😭😭

Lolololol Gordo got himself caught up in this! I haven’t talked to her yet she says how’s the baby!?!? GORDO LEAVE THE OLD LADY ALONE!!! No matter how much she may “care” you got a baby mama and a baby now!!! That’s your priority. And I truly think Luis and bramty and like the perfect couple tbh lololololol

Bramty!!! Let him talk. You wouldn’t let him tell his story you kept interrupting him. We want to hear him.

Luis - I do understand you saying that your angry with the time you wasted when you were younger and could have had a better dad - I feel just take some time to sit with your innerchild and bring closure closure your inner child, and be the father figure you needed and that will heal you ❤❤ sending you guys a big hug and thank you for being vulnerable enough to share this ! Look how far you've come ❤❤

I’m really enjoying this podcast! I clicked as fast as I could ❤️

Trauma is not TEA…

the only thing I don’t really like is bramty always interrupting gordo. Let the man talkkk I want to hear everything he has to say and all the juicy details! Lol it’s not just with this podcast but in the other podcast episodes she also interrupts Luis a lot 😪 still love you bramty, but let them talk ❤

Gordo is my favorite ❤ I’m so glad bramfam started this podcast!!!!! This is perfect!!!!

“ i wish it was him but i wish it was different” felt 😞

Sending so much love to both Luis ❤️🙏 I know how helpless they’ve must have felt seeing this for so many years. I hope you both heal from this trauma. 🫶

I want to thank both Luis’s for sharing this difficult topic with us very courageous. Love you guys many blessings. ❤

What happened with Yafit ?

20.50 Luis looks so sad 😢 i can feel his pain through this screen… my heart goes out the y’all’s family!! I love you guys so much 💕

I wish the Podcast was 2-3 times a week! I just love all this good TEA! 😂

Loved today’s topic! Keep them coming Bramty and Luis! 👏🏼

I love watching you guys but bramty I feel like your not listening to them, always comparing your self to them, making the situation about you or making them feel bad, speaking over them, and checking you phone 👎🏾. Love you just saying 🤷🏾‍♀️

I truly appreciate Gordo telling his story while also respecting his mom. I come from a similar background and it’s true that it always isn’t bad times. There’s some good memories in between all that. You don’t constantly have to bash someone. I would love to see Luis stick up for his mom more and show more respect. As far as Brampty, I can relate to her sense of humor because I understand how those of us who are “younger” joke around. But definitely would’ve loved to see more maturity. Their journey is obviously one they continue to grow and learn from. Would love to see more of that.

Bramty!!! Let him talk 😂😂

I’m 17 minutes in and I’m already emotional hearing their story

i love Gordos personality he seems like such a kind person 💗

Been waiting all day for this!!!💛💛 can’t wait to listen!

Everyone goes thru things some more than others but everyone’s feelings are valid