I’m really sad to read all these comments, cause not every woman is the same. Yes most women are looking for reconfirmation about themselves on social media. But there are a lot of women who know their worth. And not every women are on social media cause of that. I’m on social media to reach out to people to live healthier and happier and surely not for reconfirmation who I am. I hope you find the right woman one day, cause what you are seeking, is seeking you too 😉
This is the truth. My Dad is from the Silent Generation. He's a (very youthful) 81 years old, but they recently told me so many stories of how many of the housewives used to sleep around secretly. Many of them were banging the neighbor, milkman, soldiers, policemen, firemen, etc. My Dad said it was so widespread, it was crazy. The media sold all guys a lie about female "love." And that was all the way back in the late 1940's, 1950's and the 1960's. That was even before society went off the rails with feminism in the late 1960's. Think about that for a second.
@krashdummiez1220 "... social media just multiplied it 10fold". Yes, but not just social media, IMO it is the end result of a combination of factors: *1.* Reliable (almost foolproof) birth control. *2.* Modern feminism (2nd wave and later) preaching hatred of men and telling women to go out and f*ck lots of Chads & Tyrones. *3.* No-fault divorce, plus generally shameless biased (against men) justice system, and *4.* various technological factors like the WWW, smart phones and social media.
yeah people think this younger generation gen y and gen z is the worst but people don't look at how bad the baby boomer generation was and is!! i mean they were the first to go against more classic ways and start a new age i saw old pics of influencers from the 80's and thought wow they really do look like the generation of today just the parents/grandparents, but if they had the tools back then like girls do today they would have been just as bad if not worse then now that's why the controllers had to back off them to focus on this generation in more high tech times compared to 60's 70's and 80's but they are just as brainwashed as gen y and z no doubt just in different ways. Also look at how high the divorce rate is with boomers compared to the silent generation BB woman were the first to say we don't need men we can be independent not like today but they really started to make that a thing or at least they may not be the type of woman saying i don't need men at all but they think they can work alot to have their own money but still wanted to have a man to take care of her even more to pay for everything on top of them working alot and the kids all got raised by the world. IN the 20's it kind of started but BB women really made it mainstream fast forward to the children of baby boomers and gen x and this is what you get so the blame can't come from gen z or gen y it needs to come from the lack of parents in their life public schools is the main problem it has been since prob the 80's and in 2000's to 2020's forget about it!
The top tier man thing is a myth if you ask me. It seems like it whatever sparks their interest in the moment. More often than not, women seem to cheat on a man with a guy who’s less than. At least in my observation. The losers always seem to be the side piece.
It’s natural with attention to a degree. Narcissistic women are not interested in love. All they want is attention , validation , compliments and gifts.
If she has her Instagram on public and is trying to go forth with an “influencer vibe”. Stay far away from her. I straight up wouldn’t date any girl that is on social media. Biggest red flag 🚩
Man, let me tell you something ;this is coming from a Gen X guy here, the dating and marriage scene today is a total 100% complete disaster. And I'll tell you what destroyed it; social media, online dating sites, and smartphones. 1000% truth. The reason that I can positively say that with certainty, is because I noticed society's drastic change after 2009. From the late 90s through the early 2000s dating remained pretty much like what I remembered from the 80's and early 90's. But it was just a little more difficult, but not by a lot. I can tell you all something right now and I'm speaking to the younger generation if this doesn't go away and we go back to the way it was at least to the '90s ( at least!!) civilization is going to collapse and you can take that to the bank.
its too easy for woman now, they put a pic up on facebook. next thing ya know they are getting likes and hearts and she can choose from which one right from the living room couch with hubby sitting next to her. my ex wife was cheating on me with an old classmate from facebook, than the expensive divorce proceeded.
Gen X and I totally agree. As a guy who dated quite a bit in the 90s and early 2000s, the hardest thing was walking up to a decent girl and shooting your shot. But back then we had a 50/50 chance as opposed to the 10/90 chance today. And i had a lot of average looking average earning friends that went on several dates with 7s 8s 9s even a 10. No kidding man. You are so right about the change in societal dating around 2009. For you young guys out there, sadly today's girls are not ladies but thots (aka qwazai prostitutes). Do not waste your time chasing love with them. Smash and dash as you build you. Focus more on building yourself up mentally, physically, and financially. It takes a long time but give yourself 7-10 years to prep, and once you do that, then the field is yours, you own the game, you make the rules. Trust me, 8, 9s, and 10s will be asking you for your number. But they have to play by your rules. Study. Read something new every so often to expand your mind. And establish strong relationships with other mentally strong men (not guys and not some dudes, but men, vikings, warriors, spartans). It will rub off on you.
I'm an old lady now but this young man is so right and I see it everyday. What the hell are they thinking? I watched the generations before me in what I consider healthy relationships. These women are going to get old and have nothing. I have 2 sons and a daughter and my sons are too scared to look in the direction of some of these women because they go nuts if a man looks their way for the attention of others and my sons have said that almost every man they know feels the same way. These girls/women don't even know what true femininity is, they swear like truckers, they sleep with different partners almost weekly, they don't become mothers or amazing wives. I feel so sorry to today's male. Thankfully my daughter is one of those old fashioned women who cooks, cleans, takes care of children and her husband, stays at home, takes care of chickens, sheep, grows her own vegetables, etc. And that to me is more feminine than wearing a heap of makeup while covered in tattoos and then slipping high heels on while trying to appear feminine. It's almost contradictory.
I also agree with you. Today's most women are too entitled privileged narcissistic selfish feminists. They have horrendous tattoos that make their bodies like graffiti slum.
I’m almost 65 and have seen this happen all my life in corporate environments. Especially at office parties and corporate away-events where the spouse or bf isn’t there and alcohol starts flowing! I’ve had more married women flirt and offer much more over the years than I can count, it’s that common. Also on any given work day it’s absolutely astounding how women complain to each other about their men! In most companies managers need to walk the floor or else have supervisors in place to make sure everyone stays working not talking and in the case of women that talking will be gossiping. Any manager or supervisor will relate! And listen to their conversation in the lunchroom. Nearly all of them are unhappy with a guy. There’s always one who will say theirs is perfect, she’ll get sideways looks from the others as if that’s abnormal. When women observe that you make good money they become very forward, ready and willing to be encouraged. I apologize to anyone who feels that’s misogynistic, I’m merely relating long experience. The guy in this video also speaks truth about there being no shortage of men waiting to smash and take advantage of these women. Out in the world women follow up their unhappiness at home with action and will be forward about cheating. Years ago I was drawn into a relationship with a married (!) woman I met at a dog park who omitted telling me she was hitched until she had to. Her husband had checked her email, found our conversations and began stalking me planning to do evil. Consorting with modern women can be hazardous to one’s health and well-being! I of course dropped her immediately and even called her husband to tell him I’d had no idea she was married and that I had no intention of dating a married person and wrecking a relationship. Suddenly it was clear why she had such a weird ‘work schedule’ that had made it difficult to sync up. Consider it a red flag if her scheduling together time in a new relationship is difficult! I’m writing this reply to add to the post and testify how rampant this behavior is! Wives and supposedly ‘taken’ women will act completely different than their men would hope for when he’s not there and they get around another guy that they’re attracted to. They can make it seem lovey-dovey at home like things are going fine while turning around to coldly backstab you the next time they’re out. Three divorces now, I’m done! I’m loving the peace, quiet and tranquility that comes with being single! Looking back at all so many wasted married years I can’t help but wonder what the hell I was ever thinking? The pipe dream I was raised with came from a 1950’s generation that society has now collectively moved on from. This sadly did not turn out to be the the world my parents’ generation said they were passing down. Most women do not act anywhere close to how women were portrayed in our youth, what we expected and anticipated them to be like. The stories we hear about how devoted and loving women were in the 1950’s and earlier seem like pure mythology compared to now. Good luck to you all! You need it!
Unfortunate truth but married/woman in relationships are the best hookups because you know they will go back to their “regular life” easily. It’s also easy to not continue with them when you want because they still have that other life to live. And if you accidentally knock her up but the woman doesn’t want to ruin her “regular life,” she will keep it secret from you and then the husband/boyfriend will end up taking care of it.
MARRIAGE IS A TRAP FOR A MAN ... Because divorce laws are in favor of females, and in one swift blow from a Judge you can lose your savings, property, and children ... I'm 74 and a lifelong bachelor. My first and last girlfriend was in high school. We went our separate ways when I went off to college and by choice, I never dated again. Life is all about choices and when I made the choice not to date or marry, my destiny became my own. I focused on my career and myself and have made a wonderful life for myself. When I retired, I moved back to the farm where I was born and raised. I have a close group of male friends, made up of former colleagues and childhood friends. The only women in my life are my cousins and their families,
74 and came to this conclusion back in the 60s?! That was even before divorce was much of a thing and things have only deteriorated since then. Cool story!
I don't blame men a bit for waiting until the kids are 18 before divorcing. It takes away the woman's number one weapon: using children as a tool to threaten the father that if he leaves a toxic marriage, she'll get the kids.
It's so peaceful not having a girl around all the time. Times have changed and having time to yourself is where the true beauty lies. Just have to be happy with yourself to enjoy your own company. A lot of people don't have the strength to do that.
I had 2 girlfriends that lasted couple years. What I miss most is the safe sex with protection. I feel good by myself. My last girlfriend was a narcicist, I had to give her so much attention that I felt overwhelmed, she lied to me as well, made my life caos. It took several months, but now I am healed. I don't feel the need to have a girlfriend or married anymore.
That should exist in a healthy, trusting, mature relationship too though. To appreciate love and the person you're with, sometimes you need to spend some time away from them and rethink, remember, reevaluate the experiences. Both need to have time to work with their inner peace and spiritual struggles, connect to the mystery of life, search for their truth, without any noise and distraction. I always give my man the alone time he needs to recharge or with some good friend to talk to, if I can sense it or he admits it. He respects my need for some silence too. It's sad that we are heading towards a decline, but loneliness is no longer a choice, it's inevitable. It's not that huge percentage of women only became too shamelessly liberated at undignified and unattractive behaviours, it's also the fact that they are becoming intimidating to any man that just wants to feel like an appreciated, needed man in his gentle, caring woman's embrace when he comes back home. Women are resembling men more, showing masculine characteristics, becoming very self sufficient, proud, career driven, striving to outshine men, work long hours, wear suits, act and talk aggressive, strict and cold, do all only for themselves often. Men start to feel useless, less than her, it's unnatural to his given purpose and most will feel it. And on top of all, we must admit, a big percentage are becoming feminine or had no father figure to rely on and has difficulties in understanding what his role is too, searches for some role models to follow, not all good too. We are all, in a way, forced into self destruct mode. But I believe there is hope for some. They'll probably soon be moving out of big cities in bigger numbers into communities to protect their sanity when things start to go too downhill. Because the tension, the anger and hate is rising. Between all possible bridges
Easy fix don't have money and wait for the right one that's that's I've been doing for years now still haven't had a gf man and idc and if I ever do get wealth randomly I will never get with a woman
I was cheated on by every woman I ever dated. But they cheat on the next guy, which means Men aren't the problem, fefails are just riding the carrousel and using Men for sport.
I had 2 girlfriends that fucked my life. Not financialy cos I'm quite cheap( one of the reasons of my breakups, lol). But, emocionaly, I felt so good in the relationship. The feeling of having someone you love by your side is addictive. Unfortunately, it's just a turn. She will cheat or break up and leave you as soon as you don't performe as she feels necessary.
As a 38 years old below average looking man I can give you younger guys advice. Even if it’s extremely hard sometimes, stay away from women as good as you can. Don’t use social media and don’t try to have female friends because thats not possible. Focus on yourself, focus on your business and your investment portfolio. Women will NEVER like or love you when you are not attractive no matter what you do. Hitting the gym 7 days a week will not change your attraction to women. All the best, I know how you guys feel…
If you think time and attention will fix her complaining about it, you haven't been paying attention. The "You don't care about me" or "You don't want to spend time with me." thing is the first step in leaving you. She's building up reasons and psyching her self up to pull the trigger and bail. They all do that. There is always, and I mean ALWAYS an ulterior motive when a woman tells you anything that relates to your relationship with her. When you start to notice that she's acting distant and quiet. Maybe saying some of the old familiar catchphrases, you need to understand, you are on the downward spiral with her. Boot her out asap. It's all down hill from there. It's just a mind game at that point. She might even have your replacement picked out already, and you aren't wise to it...yet. They'll keep you around if you still serve a purpose (financial) but rest assured, you're done. No going back. You can't fix it no matter what you do, what hoops she says you need to jump through, she's full of shit. She's just dragging it out for whatever deviant reason they have. (Likely money or a place to stay.) Cut it off.
Yeah it's called monkey branching, they'll want to have a viable partner ready to transfer too before they terminate their relationship with you. And they'll keep you around until they feel secure to transfer.
Date a woman who has had a father constantly in her life from day 1. None of that validation, partying, social media attention will be an issue. These women now a days are craving what they never got from their fathers when they were young. That's why the attention is never enough. It never will be because they never got it when they were young so it's a void from childhood that can never be filled.
A life without a girlfriend is peaceful. In addition, not having a girlfriend means that you can focus your time and money on achieving your goals. Girlfriends' leech and cheat while your at work.
I simply dont want to afford one. Its a distraction, extremely little to no reward. In this microwave-instant gratification generation, my time, attention, money, goals, resoures, and purpose aren't worth sacrificing.
Agree 100% on little to no reward, take sex out of the equation and let’s pretend sec didn’t even exist, name one, just one reason why a man would be interested in a woman?! Makes you think.
Why you spending that money on a woman? Most women are not going to respect men that lead with their wallet and try to buy her stuff . You gotta learn how to attract women without spending money on them
It is so sad to heard what is going on with woman on these days and it is the way they been raised. I was raised in Dominican Republic and I remember grandma correcting me every single time I was saying something that could be inappropriate talking in front of a man. I thanked my grandma for her teachings because I never had in my life any problem interacting with a man.
@@rogerreynolds5822you got that right. My best friend is living paycheck to paycheck essentially and has to drive 2 1/2 hours every other weekend to see his girlfriend. That’s already 2 tanks of gas there and back, 90% he pays for everything wherever they go, whether it be going out for food, medication, etc. Then he comes back to his apartment and slaves away at a dead end job trying to survive with the little money he has left. NO thank you.
This is My worst fear being a young good looking guy on my purpose, running into some evil chick who will lie when things don’t go their way just to ruin me.
Great video.... most men, 99% will never get the attention, or "dopamine" hits in a lifetime that the average woman gets in a week. These days, an average looking woman thinks she's a 10 when she's really in reality a 5 or below, maybe less because her attitude is terrible. Social media has done it's damage! Like you said, it's messed up some brains and mental clarity. Can only hope for the best.
Why having relationship when she’s always on the look out? Why must you give attention when she always seeks for more on social medias? Why must put yourself and all you have achieved at risk based on her fleeting feelings and mood that might change over a night?
I met woman who was a 9 and didn’t need too much attention, low maintenance, has no social media account nor a lot of friends, focused only on family, work, happiness and taking good care of herself…I married her and 13 years later, life is good. Guys choose a flexible giver with integrity. Don’t ever compromise. 😊
Me too. The value of a good woman is 10x than before because of the scarcity. I love her so much. I did cheat before but when you have a good woman you feel absolutely disgusted with yourself and realize how good your girl truly is. My advice it to be a valuable enough of a man to attract other women to keep your woman at bay. Stay hard fellas
Women constantly throw themselves at me. Giving me hints, signals, etc. that they are interested. And to be honest I couldn’t care less, hardly any women this day and age are actually worth any time. They are all too stuck up and throw themselves around like they’re toys. I would say about 2 months ago I was at a gathering and there was a girl there who was interested in me, said she wanted my number and I figured why not, might as well give it a go. That same night, she went off with a past fling of hers and made out with him. All the while expecting me to still text her the next day. I blocked her that night before even leaving the party. A month later I went to the same house for a different party and lo and behold she was there again. Once again asking me for my number and why I didn’t text her, I just played it off like I thought I texted her and said I would make sure to text her once the night was over. Never did, focus on yourself boys these women aren’t worth it nowadays.
@@bradchambers5886 This....many people were messed up, but it was just more hidden, and it wasn't nearly as crazy as it is now, so we romanticize it. Don't get me wrong, it was WAY better, but many people were still messed up in certain ways. Drugs being a big way. Things really haven't been mostly good since the early 1960's. Vietnam, the hippie craze, and the drug era really dismantled society, and it's gotten worse every single decade.
I have a question. But what is the percentage. The REAL” percentage of women who are loyal, won’t cheat, intelligent in a non mischievous way. open minded. And caring. and is the opposite of what this guy is describing. how many women like that in the world today?🤔😩🧐
I'm 56, divorced - he chose to leave me for a woman that is totally opposite of my style. She has the whole fake hair fake nails thing going on. In spite of that, I stand by what I tell you. I can tell you that women today are by far more immature later in life than they were in the 80s (I was in my twenties then). I think part of the immaturity we see in women later in life is due to social media making everything in society seem like it has to be excitement every minute. When I hit 26 I was done clubbing. Why? Because I realized I was becoming the older person in the crowd 😂. A lot of 20 year old women are also living at home. Their parents are some of the first to be raised on social media and the instant gratification of Amazon. If parents aren't careful they're going to wind up with a 25-year-old who can't grow up and expects everything pampered to them. My best advice for men is to AVOID women who use too much fake crap on their face and body. Avoid women who expect the guy to pay for everything - including paying for her friends. If she doesn't make you feel better about yourself, then she's the wrong woman.
Thank you mam. i too was in my 20ties,in1980,ladies had style, alure, and mystery, and where worth old fashioned courtship , I told a 28 year old girl at work I once sent a dozen red roses to a girl I liked,!she said it was creepy, because no courtship anymore. I'm sorry your husband left you,my wife did,I now have trust issues. Good luck happy life.
No they won't! Women are the prize ! It's the reason why lots of men who are multi-millionaires/billionaires will gladly date/marry a female who has little-to-no money in her bank account.......providing that he finds her physically attractive.
I'm 38 and have had about six different relationships in my adult life. All of them cheated and left me. They're not worth it. I haven't dated or even looked at a dating app in four years and have zero interest. I have a couple female friends who tell me about their misadventures in dating and it's all a huge mess. I tell them the truth about their crap and while they seem to appreciate it somewhat they don't really take it to heart. They're out with the next guy a week later, upset a few weeks later when he dumps her.
My soon to be exwife took her kids on vacation without me just to prove a point. She proved a point alright. Not the one she wanted ro prove but she showed me how peaceful my life could be wirhout her. I didnt sit in my truck for 20 minutes when i got home trying to guess what the problem was today.
Nature always held women in check and put a ceiling on them. There were only so many guys in their village tribe they could only level up so much. 2024 There will always be a better guy the sky is the limit there will always be a better guy our civilization will fall there will always better guy to insanity and beyond let’s go ladies🔥🌎🔥🌿🔥🍿☕️
Until they hit the wall. Man I wonder what 2050 will be like. To think, all the changes in society and still the earth revolves around the sun yet again year in and year out, people born, people die, and yet the elements keep on going as they have already done, until, one day, the trumpet will sound, the dead will be raised, and the Lord will come with all His saints and angels, and the elements will melt with fervent heat. The earth will be renewed as it was before Eve followed to the serpent and ate the forbidden fruit and gave it to Adam and he followed his wife and ate the forbidden fruit. We are in the “already and not yet” stage where Jesus finished His Father’s will, and will in the future, return to claim what is His. Oh when the Saints go marching in is a song about that glorious future event. We have all the reason to rejoice and be happy knowing that Jesus will return to bring justice and end the corruption. He will clean house and no one can stop Him. Even the devil knows his time is short. We should seek the Lord and be reconciled to God through our Lord Jesus Christ Who Is our Only Hope which is sure and steadfast. Jesus will never ghost us.
I’ve learned that girlfriends are just temporary. I’m just waiting for the RIGHT one. Ya know? I’m 25, been single for 3 years now and have felt better than ever.
Damn bro I’m 25 about to be 26 next month and haven’t had a girlfriend since I was 17 last time I hooked up with a girl was almost 2 years ago, the only way I’ve been getting action this past couple years is every few months or so I’ll hire an escort but every time I do that I regret it instantly. It feels so unnatural and forced since the girl is only doing it for the money. Fuck man I’m over this life honestly
What's amazing to me is how quickly women try to find a rebound after a break up. They will f the first man that gives them attention cause their ego is hurting.
Bro. Spot on. I'm 35...have a 5 year old with the mother of our child, who's just my gf at the moment. If I have to make this video, I'd be saying everything you said to a T. My gf even after 5 years...bys a 300$ hair roller to make her hair thar much nicer, goes into work and comes home from work smelling like a perfume shop..and says she HAS to wear a thong every shift because her butt looks better in her dress pants vs wearing normal underwear. It's all bs, its all about attention. To me..seeking that much attention is cheating in my book, it wouldn't take much for a women to convince another man to try and sweep her off her feet. And if she's putting In that much effort, she wants to be swept. This is also a women who spends 90% of her free time on Netflix and her phone...being the most unappealing women possible..and then complains I give her no attention...and my response is, "make yourself more approachable". Make yourself look good for your man and not just for the people at your work...make dinner..stop making me come home every day after work..EVERYDAY..having to wash my work cloths and cook my own dinner every dawn day while she watches TV or takes a nap instead of helping me out. Women these days are nuts. I workout 3-4 days a week..have a very above average physique..work 6 day weeks..and if still washing 100% of my clothes and cooking 100% of my meals.
Maybe we should start having contracts, to lay out the ground rules, and have them sign it like we do for a car, or an apartment! I'd be down for that 🤗
@@QuantumEffectResiduehell, write one. Add a disclaimer that she is of clear and sober mind and not signing under duress. Take a pic of the signed document and sent it to her and keep the pic in your phone. In case she “loses it”. Damn shame its come to this.
@@comicrandomness3289 Yeah I don't give any women attention anymore, it ain't worth my time. They'll be sorry when they hit 40 and no one wants them anymore.
Sorry lads you have been picking the wrong girls that is why it is not working out. When you have the right one it is no effort all, you click and two souls feel as one. Sometimes you have to put yourself out there to work out what you really want from a person and then when the right ones comes along it is magic! Don't give up, don't keep going for the same attributes, the same type, you need to click together and the personality is most important. Quite often you will find the most attractive people have the worst personalities because they are vain, narcissistic and think they are perfect. Stay clear of those ones! If you stay single you are missing out. Don't cut your nose off to spite your face just because the right one hasn't appeared yet, sometimes when you aren't looking the right one will turn up. Don't just think all females are the same they are not, you are just not picking the right ones, same goes for us girls, we make mistakes to, but it is the best thing in life when you meet your soul mate.
Most Woman do not speak or show who they are In the End you slowly notice it after Months some are out for money some just want your compliments or time but for the most part you are only a short time in her life they are left alone while she tries another male.
Dated a girl work colleague. We were always together 6 days a week(We had s*x regularly everyday after work). The only day we don't see each other is every sunday. That single day she can't even just stay at home and rest. After a month or so, I recovered calls and chat threads that she had deleted that she went out with his ex to get coffee and they went to a cheap motel after to have s*x. I treated her right, never have I cheated on her and ignored advances from other girls because I am aware of the insecurity you bring upon to the person you cheated on is gonna ruin their self esteem in life so I try to avoid it at all cost.
Damn bruh as tempting as it is it's never wise to date a woman you work with, cuz shit often ends badly like this and those are the kinda lessons no mam wants to learn for real.
Terry, you're one of the only younger men on RU-vid that understand women this well. I only started understanding this stuff about two ago and I'm 32. I've been listening to Kevin Samuels and Coach Greg Adams, Hammerhand, Aaron Clarey and Gone With Jon. I'm tired of men being taken through endless mind games and stress with little to no payoff. It's time for it to stop.
My last relationship ended on New Years Eve 2013-14 and shortly thereafter I made a decision to not date again.... flash forward to today and honestly i believe it was the best choice I have ever made. Yes I went on dates after that, seeing if maybe there was a chance with another girl.... but my God.... this women are deeply, deeply flawed individuals, with a multitude of trauma that I believe they caused themselves, and the worst part is.... they believe that it's everyone else's fault. I truly believe that in the next couple years you will start to see a large portion of the female population call for forced (and yes I do mean government backed and forced) relationships/marriages because of the declining birth rate and because the government cannot keep spending money like it has on specialty programs for women.
You're blessed to have been given these so-called failed dates to open your eyes to just how corrupt the vast majority of women are. You chose the narrow yet highly rewarding path by opting out of the dating market. Yes, they can push this agenda forward to the government. All they want the real power and authority reside within us, MEN, and we have every right to not bow unto them and give them what they want!! ✌️🙏👍⚔️🗡🛡📖🧠☺️😂👴🦁💯
You're coping my guy. This is not how a stoic should think. Making yourself feel better by thinking that the women are gonna have it even worse or the ultimate cope (she will die alone with cats). They can get a guy any time they want, and they can get rid of him too if he doesn't meet her standards. Plenty of them were reasonable enough and lowered their standards and are out of the picture. The ones who are single choose to be as they refuse to lower standard. There is nothing for you to make yourself feel better about. Just worry about you, and your own independence and state of mind.
@cupocity303 Hahaha, if you think this is cope, I have data to back up what I'm about to say. Men are walking away from relationships as a whole now. Marriages are going down the drain faster than ever before. This has been backed up by PEW Research and other studies, so yes, these women will absolutely "die alone" as you put it. You also have letters being written to the House Of Commons in Canada talking about stuff I've just mentioned plus the fact that men are walking away. Call it whatever you want, but it's the furtherest thing from "cope"
@cupocity303 Hahaha, if you think this is cope, I have data to back up what I'm about to say. Men are walking away from relationships as a whole now. Marriages are going down the drain faster than ever before. This has been backed up by PEW Research and other studies, so yes, these women will absolutely "die alone" as you put it. You also have letters being written to the House Of Commons in Canada talking about stuff I've just mentioned, plus the fact that men are walking away. Call it whatever you want, but it's the furtherest thing from "cope"
@@cupocity303you sure did spend a lot of time and thought to try to disprove & put down another grown Mans point of view. Sounds like your coping brother.
I had an ex gf that cheated on me with a friend of mine and to be honest even though I was disappointed I took it like a champ. But to teach her a lesson I cheated back on her with a cousin of hers that she absolutely hated and broke up with her, she was devastated 😂😂 she basically became an alcoholic and was depressed for like 3 years. Her cousin was dating the same friend that my ex cheated on me with. He never talked to me again. People are weird. At the end of the day they viewed me as the big bad wolf. I don’t not cheat on people but if someone cheats on me, I will cheat back.
@@erikybarra3898oh no I was fine I worded it wrong. She went through a period of depression. My life was going to well at the time for me to stress over a girl cheating on me.
I felt joy reading this, every man should do exactly this, if they did, women and people in general would think twice before they do something their gonna regret, sometimes walking away just isn’t enough, you have to give them a taste of how it feels.
They all flirt with other guys, ALL of them... up to the point where their looks fade and they can't get quality guys' attention, then the flirting may stop. I wouldn't say it like this if I hadn't seen it for myself, with my own eyes. There is a reason why women are ambiguous about what flirting actually is... so they can get away with it. Also, in the past girls had a back-up guy ready SHOULD the relationship end. Nowadays they actively gather guys for the future because they KNOW the relationship WILL end. And they will have to feed these guys something to keep them waiting... think about it. I have seen it where 2 girls, 2 best friends (both in relationships) showed up and ''fought'' over the same guy who they both thought they had in their waiting line just for themselves, yes it has gotten that stupid. Guys, you should see how these chicks behave when a ''hot'' guy is around, you wouldn't be able to tell they were in relationships! So if you want a relationship, you are going to have to come to terms with this one way or another, because there is nothing you can do about it. You run the risk of looking like a fool, when ''your'' girl flirts with some other dude while you are there, or maybe this dude knows you... yes you will look stupid. Me personally I can't do it, if there is no loyalty it is absolutely meaningless. There is much more to life than women and reproducing, make something of your life without these spineless individuals, please.
We live in a time now. In the western women can get away with anything all they gotta do is hit 911 even if it's a lie the man goes down. Marriage divorce a man goes down. Many have degrees which are the worst ones. Because they make there own 💰. They will give u there a** to kiss in a NY min. Stats don't lie my guy. Good News fellas the Wall will eventually hit. 😅
took me 10 years and at 32 i think i finally found true love, after awfull heartbreak after my ex killing my baby without even having chat with me first and i cold dumped her right after and for 10 years i had massive trust issues with women utill she found me and proved me wrong with my view of all the women are like. 1 month together, and close friends for 3 years and i couldnt find a red flag, she has some problems of her own, same as i do, no one is perfect, but recognising each others weaknesses and being together we are becoming best versions of ourselves and our love for eachother heals our traumas.
Omg you’re completely spot on cheers sir they will all hit the wall eventually modern woman have been ruined from celebrities and social media absolutely disgusting
I'm 37 and was always single. Sometimes I think about getting a gf but is it worth it? I'm not experienced in this field. The only thing I know for sure, when comparing the relationship of friends, is, that I was spared from a lot of drama....
I totally agree with you dude. Social media has been so toxic for relationships and women have become so high maintenance and are so needy and expect a lot. I watch a lot of videos and I see what you’re points. I watched were women have expected a dinner date but the restaurant isn’t classy enough.
There's a theory that you attract people based on where you are in life. Like attracts like. If you want a particular type of person, become that person and you'll attract that type of woman. And you have a social media presence so you'll attract social media people.
it aint just that man,every holiday is a womans holiday,then anniversarys like oh its our 6th month ann buy me something,they expect you to be a some weird form of a slave and when they arent happy its your fault,let me ask you, how in the world is it possible to keep another person happy 24 7? YOU CANT MAN .i would love to have a woman but the woman that i have in my head ,the woman iv been told all my life,the good woman, DOESNT EXIST .IM NOT DOING IT BRO
I am so grateful I ended up with a woman that was raised in the country like me, with the same values as me. We’re best friends, neither of us are at all concerned about the other cheating. I’m sorry for everyone out there that can’t find the same. Been married for about a decade and wasnt aware how bad things were for guys dating until recently. Keep your heads up boys, you’ll eventually find a good one.
I'm 22 and I use to believe that older woman 30's might have it together but I realized they don't either and it made me understand that it's all about control cuz if you don't do it who will and it's not just for yourself but to save her from herself because women lack honor and morality but are very emotional and instinctive so as men who have said morality and honor have to set the standard of putting a woman in her place not through physical abuse or yelling but by manipulating her feelings into unconditional submission through absolute dominance by leading while she follows you control the path she walks
We lack honor and morality?And who made you God? Women are people, not objects. Are men people? Because if you believe women aren't autonomous beings, neither are men.
Your gonna do just fine bro ! Keep paying attention. Control is what it's about..at least to them😂 We already have one over on them being Men. Whereas w them they seem to want to only compete for control thru means of many forms of manipulation. Guard your heart and give it to Christ first. GET IN THAT BIBLE
@@annmarieknappthat’s not what he’s saying. Honor and morals aren’t women’s priorities that’s for men that’s why women are cuddled by society a woman don’t have to be honorable and of valor to get what they want (vanity). The same why women are more in their ego because they have to be to some degree
I’m 25 years old, I’ve never had a girlfriend in my life. And hearing others guys negative experiences with women, I tell you, I’ve lost interest in having a girlfriend, and I’m not interested in having one, at the end of the day we’re all going to die, so you are better living your life by yourself and in peace.
If u are a young man between ages 18-30 it’s better not to date or take any woman seriously, coz if u do , she will be a distraction from your goal , a goal to make your money , build your career , yourself etc
You explained what is summed up in one word in the narcissistic world of this age,especially young females. That word is: "INSATIABLE" enough is never enough .SM.H. BLEZZ # KEEP DA CHANGE.
You gotta understand, women sometimes dont break up with their boyfriend or even husbands because cheating is a turn on for them because its taboo. Some women enjoy the thrill of it. Its stupid but they do admit to it
I look around at all the women I've worked with in the restaurant business, which means I've worked with MANY, and this video is so true. Just to see what society has become is awful. Luckily I met my wife 14 years ago before people got crazy. We make comments all the time that society/the dating scene is so toxic.
Bro people were as crazy 14 years ago. Even 20 30 40 50 years ago it was bad. Cheating always been a thing now its just getting covered more often because of the internet
I feel the same way. I go fishing by myself, I go to the museums by myself can't find anyone to go with me no one's interested. I blame it on cell phones, the internet, social media. It has ruined us . No one reads no one enjoys nature. It's extremely sad
It’s hard for me to put in to words how I feel about this topic. Dudes waste a lot of energy, time and money on basic women! I been with my girl for a year now and sometimes I’m like what am I doin here.
I learned this a few years ago. Took a break from dating for a few years. Then I decided to start dating again. From January to mid-May I dated 3 women. All three were just like this. Broke up with them. Happy being alone. I mean REALLY happy. Too much energy to be in a relationship today. Always have to worry if they are talking to their exes and other guys. A woman cannot be trusted. Thanks social media!
