He's the most patriarchal man. I've met world Best king. [Hello Counselor Sub:ENG,THA/2018.07.02] 

Wait, everyone is talking about how handsome he is. The girl is 37 years old, had 3 pregnancies and she is crazily beautiful looking like she is in her mid 20s. Why everyone talks about how lucky she is. He is by far luckier having her by his side. He isn't respectful at all.

He literally just looks like any guy you see on the streets, while she looks like a model, gurrrlll, it's time to leave him

watched this with my dad and he got so angry at this dude that he had to leave. my parents split all work and he is such a good cook so he came back when this was over, gave me selfmade popcorn and said: if you ever marry a guy or girl like this i will have to kill them behind your back. just sharing this cause i'm so damn proud of him

So girls, be careful when a guy is raised by his grandmother, he's gonna be so spoiled.

Girl don't take him to this show, take him to the court house to sign divorce papers lmao get rid of him asap

That face he made over her pictures....what a jerk.

When I heard him describe the 5 virtues of women, it sounds like describing a slave

so the wife's virtues are: 1. Make my favorite food every day 2. See me off to work 3. Look after the kids so he doesn't have to 4. Do laundry and organize my clothing 5. Take care of me .... sir you're describing a maid, she is a mother of 3 kids and has a job?? imagine how tired she is

"After you got married there's no need to be nice to her anymore." Seriously? This dude is really something

I don’t find him attractive at all she’s the one that’s beyond beautiful tbh

Wife: i take care of household chores, cook meals for him, take after of the three kids, do job till 11 pm Husband: i take out the trash

10:33 Kudos to that man for speaking up for the wife, and asking some serious questions. The other ladies guests on stage didn't seem to take the matter really seriously.

The wife looks more refreshed and nicer than the husband tbh.

The fact that he loves his daughter and doesn't want her to be treated the same way but continues to treat his wife like trash baffles me. Like they said, his wife is also someones daughter. I'm so frustrated AH

He acts like his heart didn't grow into adulthood This man-child is pathetic, but his wife and children are well-spoken and nice.

To those people who didn’t vote that this was a concern, you are horrible people

Divorce him and let him find the five virtues of women that he keeps talking about

Tbh if this was an american reality show they wouldn't be so civil with him, the hosts would've finished him off and there would be A LOT of screaming

He isn't that good looking.. He looks like any typical Korean middle-aged man. I would divorce him so fast!

When they were strangers, he treats her as a human. When she became his girlfriend, he still treats her as a human. They got engaged, still treats her as a human. Then they got married. Now, he treats her as one of his own property/personal slave.

UGH I'M SO ANGRY 1. He's not handsome he loos like a muppet 2. the wife is incredible beautiful and looks STUNNING in the beauty awards 3. Cinic, hypocrite, entitled brat 4. Is it manly for a husband to let his wife do literally everything while he's useless and kind of just a money source. 5. You don't get married to have a slave 6. TRUE, you're not on the same level, she's waaaaay superior

I was genuinely blown away by the wife's looks, for someone who's 37 with three kids she looks absolutely gorgeous!!! Seeing him was such a let down. The female guest's behaviour really disappointed me!

She's too pretty for a 37 year old mother of three...absolutely gorgeous

The dude wearing red keeps talking about how his looks can offset his deeds, and honestly it’s just a reflection of the patriarchy in his mind. Looks don’t matter beyond a point.

The funny part is that he isn't handsome at all

This is actually a really abusive relationship.

It's something that happens over and over again in this world. An amazing woman with great qualities who deserves someone who cherishes her settles for a douchebag like this. He may be good looking but he is the ugliest type of guy out there. Any decent man would kill to have family with someone this caring. She just wants an equal whom she can love and loves her back unconditionally. So many women are ruined because of men like this. What a sad state we live in :( Real men will step up and make their partner feel safe physically and emotionally, not tear them down because of their own issues or insecurities.

I am a guy but I don’t think he is handsome, not even close to “handsome”.

Can i slap him. 🙄 He's treating his wife like a slave. Not as someone he love 😑

“I love my daughter very much, but my wife is just my wife.” ..there are so many things wrong with this and nearly everything he is saying women should do.

이걸... 웃는 낯짝으로 말한다는게 진짜 신기하다 ㅋㅋㅋㅋㅋㅋㅋㅋㅋㅋ 진짜 웃는 낯짝에도 침뱉을 수 있겠다는 생각이 드네 ㅋㅋㅋㅋㅋㅋ

that handsome card is being wildly thrown around

Just throw the whole husband away

“Do you love your wife?” “Sure. That’s why we have kids together” The amount of times I wished I could’ve jumped through my phone screen like goddamn 😤

I wish that they wouldn't compliment the husband and stuff, calling him "handsome" and make it so that it looked like all the girls around were fawning over him. All they were doing was making his ego become bigger. Why not just skip the complimenting him and get to his actual problems. He wasn't even all that handsome. I don't understand why they had to inflate his ego before telling him the actual truth.

남편 그닥 훈남도 아니구만 초반에 다 수긍하는것처럼 분위기 몰아간것조차 분노스럽다!!! 둘다 일하는데 미쳤네..

i literally rolled my eyes when they introduced the husband's face lmao wtf ... he looks like any man off the street with the most basic looks ever. literally so disgusted at the female guests' reactions towards him and making him feel and think that he's seriously handsome or something. he is sexist, patriarchal, irresponsible, ignorant, arrogant and self-entitled. this is ridiculous lollllllll

*WTF THE GIRL DESERVES SO MUCH BETTER AND SHE IS SO STRONG 😭😭❤❤❤*

He doesn't love his wife at all, If he did he would fell the same way he feels towards his daughter

after watching this, it made me more grateful that I married a good husband... my husband is 7 yrs. younger than me. I started to date him because he's good looking & I thought we're of the same age. though he's younger than me, he's responsible and doesn't treat me like i'm lower than him. we already have 3 children and he still always say he loves me with all the wrinkles and stretch marks on my body. we are not a perfect couple, we also argue a lot. but we manage to get through it all because he knows how to listen to my concerns... that husband should learn how to listen to her. she's a very patient wife. he should not push her to the limit. once a wife is push to the limit, nothing can stop her to leave a husband like him..

Me: Wow 😲 the husband must be really handsome. *husband face revealed* Me: 😑😒

She’s so much prettier than him lmao

He thinks so high of himself. She's just too in love with the guy. You really have to check your future partner and discuss extensively regarding family

pls send him to the therapist, he’s living in the past and it’s irking me

One thing about Korean culture that I detaste the most is that a value of a person is always measured by their looks but not by their deeds

Ahh he doesnt deserve her. Shes really strong. Really really strong. I salute her

What do these people see in this man?! He is not good looking, and he landed a literal GODDESS, he should be on his hands and knees thanking God for allowing someone as beautiful as her to bat an eye at him!

Anyone else would have left also she’s stunning and deserves so much better

"I married her so that she can do the chores and I can live comfortably" what did i just heard? *Edits* *okay so the "what did I just heard was also in the subtitle lool*

The counselors didn't grill this guy enough.

The wife doesn't look like a forty year old. I'm sorry you got stuck into this awful marriage you deserve better.

It’s ridiculous how even though his grandma always followed whatever the husband asked for, he just assumes that his wife is going to be the same. And to call his daughter is someone he loves but his wife is his wife is seriously upsetting, she’s still human and has feelings too. I really admire her for taking care of 3 kids, going to work, doing housework, taking care of her self minded husband, and taking care of herself as well.

the saddest part is, men like him aren't a minority :-) this is one of the reasons why I'm hesitant to date and get married in the future, bc sometimes you can't tell till very late

He is so brutal when he say "I married you to do the chores for me" Man, you're useless!

Watching this motivates me to become independent and start my own company. And I'm 15.

Big thumbs up to that only man in the audience that actually felt outrage...

omg my dads exactly like this. he’s also always making false promises of changing. my mom did the right thing in leaving him

I wish they had a follow-up episode to see if he tried to change. Honestly, he doesn't deserve her. She is strong, beautiful and patient. I really hope he tried to change because they are a cute family. She deserves better

My Boyfriend was also raised to be very patriarchal. But he was listening to my concerns and changed his behavior since I wasn't okay with it. I was raised in a household where both parents did the same amount of work and split chores between them, naturally that's what I wanted in my relationship as well. We came to an agreement that works with the both of us and makes it easy for us to live together. Therefore I really hope that those two also found a way of splitting work equally, especially since they have kids.

I'm addicted to this show I watch 5 episodes every single day

just divorce him ...this is a toxic relationship

She is much more prettier and beautiful . And to mention that she is a mother 3 and in her late 30s. I don't even get what so handsome about the face of his

This show always make me think "Korea is not a place of fairy tails that we all foreigners dream of. We are far better at our own places"

She’s so amazing, beautiful and kind! She’s out of his league. Probs doesn’t tell her she’s beautiful cause then her confidence higher & she find another man who’d appreciate & love kids

Does anyone know the adress of the 37 ppl who didn't think it was a concern? I promise i just wanna talk

Situations like this motivates me to buy a house for myself before marriage for the assurance that if ever I confirmed that I had problematic husband, I can go whenever I can. thank you

I'm so angry towards him. What kind of husband he is? And for the wife. Really impressive. Incredible. Salute you sis

I literally clap my hands when she said that she wants to kill him, I really hope that there wouldn't be anyone like his husband anymore, it's stressful just by listening to it

That man is an abuser. He keeps belittling her and says she's inferior to him. She should leave him.

Wow ngl I HATE how the MCs handled this. for half of the concern they were literally complimenting him on his looks and making a joke out of the whole situation, and they kept implying that most women would be fine with living with him because he's "good-looking" (???). I know this is a show hosted by comedians and they need to keep it from getting too heavy but I found that REALLY disgusting. And i think they weren't nearly as hard on him as they were on some of the other abusive husbands on this show, probably because he's young and supposedly attractive. I feel so bad for his wife, I hope she finds the courage to stand up for herself but given what she said at the end about him being a sweet husband if he feels like it... she'll probably never leave him. I don't skip these frustrating concerns because I enjoy seeing these dudes being yelled at and given the third degree but this left such a bad taste in my mouth

i would literally leave in a second. she's beautiful and hardworking, don't settle for less!

If I could press that button , I would have pressed it like a million times

I Just HATE HIM.he is lucky to have a good woman,pls treasure her before she really fed up.

He doesn't need a wife. He needs a maid 😤

"There's no need to be nice to her anymore" WAHHHHH HE GOT TO BE KIDDING MEE THEN GO BACK TO THE JOSEON DAY SIRRRR I AM REALLY MAD, THIS GIRL HAVE TO LEAVE HIM

I’m Korean. He’s the reason why I’m married to a wonderful white man. I’m not saying all Korean men are this way. But this is something I would not put up with. My husband is the most kind,caring and thoughtful man. My father was the same way. Thank you next

The girl is not AT ALL lucky to have the guy as her husband. What fits more is that the guy is MORE lucky to have the girl. She is such a GODDESS! If it were any other woman she would've divorced the husband by now but the woman actually still loves him and came to the program to talk and have an understanding relation with him. Wow! SHE NEEDS AN AWARD BIGGER THAN WHAT SHE GOT IN MRS. UNIVERSE!

This dude ain’t even cute... like not in the slightest. She need to leave his funky ass. Looking like the damn muffin man.😂😂😂😂

My father was worse than this now that I think about it. He was an alcoholic and didn't even work. He'd verbally abuse my mom almost every single day and sometimes he'd passout on the roadside. My mom had a very low paying job. She single handedly brought up 4 kids. She's the strongest woman i know.

he is just a narcicssist but Korean society is still unaware of the symptomology

And that everyone, is called a sexist in his purest form. Also the way they handled this..not enough.

this is actual pure sexism in the year of 2018 lmaoooo oh my god

This makes me so mad. I’m so happy to be born in a country where equality is almost given

Yo. If I was in the audience I would’ve leapt out my seat and thrown one. I’m gobsmacked at how composed everyone was. I know this is a talk show but dammmmmm...

he should've hired a maid if he wants someone to take care of the chores for him and if he wants to live comfortably w/o doing anything

Just divorce him, even for the kids is not healthy to live seeing a father like that. :(

This guy literally wants a mother not a wife. The '5 virtues' he is talking about are literally the qualities of a mother. What a spoiled and dependent person he is.

big props to the hosts/judges. knock the sense out of him.

If I was her I would given him divorce papers after and put his ass on child support cause he's never gonna change and that face that he made when everyone was saying that his wife is pretty and he's the only one showing that face of it's ok instead of smiling like a normal husband and saying his wife is the most beautiful and also he's not that handsome she's way more gorgeous

6:18 Y'ALL I HAD TO PUT MY GLASSES ON ARE WE LOOKING AT THE SAME MAN??? WHERE IS HE HANDSOME I--

남편이 돈을 엄청 잘 버나? 무시하는 발언을 입에 달고 사는데 헤어질 생각을 안하는게 신기

I can't consider him as handsome even he is. It just annoyed me that he married his wife so that he can comfortably live his life. If he really love his wife, he should think his wife is he's soulmate than a slave. This really frustrating.

There's no sugar coating it, this relationship is toxic. He expects her to do everything for him as if this is the Joseon era, he constantly puts her down by calling her old, telling her she has wrinkles, and trying to make it seem like he's doing her a favor by being with her. And it's just going to be a sick cycle; the kids are going to grow up thinking that it's normal and acceptable to act this way. If they are going to split, it's honestly better to do it when the kids are still young so that they can adapt. Because even if he can be a good father, it doesn't make up for being a shitty husband.

The wife was smiling and laughing throughout but I'm sure she just wanted to appear half-decent/strong and is really hurting inside

As a person who understands people well, this man is not going to change. I seriously suggest the pretty lady to leave him. I'm a bit worried as to how she'll handle all 3 of the kids though...

I relate to this so much because my dad is like this. Although he is slightly better. He does the dishes sometimes but then talks about for the whole day, as if he just saved the world or something.

Dude you should have found a maid not a wife damn

They went easy on him because he’s “handsome” smh

심각하다 뭐 남에가정에 끼어 들기는 싫은데 오늘의 교훈 "외모만보고 결혼하지말자 내면이 중요하다"

The males in the panel were furious 😂🔥🔥🔥