These are perfect!! So many sleep affirmations are about self concept “I am beautiful,,I am confident” etc but they don’t get to the ROOT CAUSE of insecurity. Yes I had a father who never made me or my sisters feel “good enough” to be loved. This recording is right on target. “I AM good enough to be ACCEPTED and LOVED just the way I am!” Thank you so much for these, you are changing my life every night!!
Abandonment issues are also a part of self concept formed when you were young. If it’s part of the old self concept then affirming the opposite is so important to work through and get over that block
The peope i want in my life stay in my life The people that i want in my life always stay in my life They stay because they love me They stay because im special They stay beacuse im one of a kind They make an effort with me They always make an effort with me They make me a priority They always make me a priority I know that im deserving of love I know I'm worthy of amazing relationships I love everything about me I love everything about me I am not my doubts and fears I have never been my doubts and my fears Im too special to loose Im way too special to loose People love me for who im Im love me for who im
I’ve always felt like everyone I love leaves me. I’ve never had a long term relationship I had a really bad friendship breakup and haven’t made close friends ever since and my relationship with my parents have always been on and off. Shit hurts so bad I just want to feel safe knowing I can trust that someone won’t just up and walk out of my life once I let them in. It’s always made me so deeply insecure feeling like I’m not good enough for anyone to stick around. It’s such a deep wound for me. And maybe subconsciously I push people away but I’m tired of never being able to get close to anyone and feeling unloved and unimportant
I know, I had long relationships, but once I am the most secure on me, but sometimes I get again on the fears and push people away, my advice, love your inner child, and make sure you feel protected within you, some people will leave even if we don't push then away, but our love should be enough and make what others give as a complementary thing, then it doesn't feels so scared to lose people, and it's easier to trust people too, because you don't need them to stay, you love freely and when someone feel free, they usually stay.
You can Practice self love meditations and a technique called Hoʻoponopono for yourself. Start with loving yourself and then you can work on relationships.
Bring your inner child outdoors for a walk...woods hike and stop at a stream to listen to beautiful...lay on spring time grass and gaze up at the clouds shapes as they change...sit on the back deck watching fall colors as leaves rustle in a cool breezes...peacefulness in being centered and grounded.
I have been listening to these for the last week and these affirmations have made me more peaceful and not so anxious in relationships or making connecting with others so difficult for me. I will keep listening to them 100%
Listened to this in the morning. About a hour later one of my friends called and asked if i wanted to hang out with him and our friends. I said sure I needed some cheering up too because I was in my feelings this week. He said they were the right people for that. 😅
Your whole life isn’t down the drain, you can make changes now. Please know that you have the opportunity to better your life but only you can make those changes xxx
God hearing this makes me so uncomfortable but I know this means that it’s the right direction in my healing journey. Thank you for making this! ❤ I read a comment about how it gives them anxiety, and someone responded saying it’s the subconscious battling these new beliefs/ self concepts. I totally agree. My issue with it was “people stay because I’m special”. But isn’t being someone’s daughter or family already special in itself? Yet people still leave. My thought was it would make more sense if people stay because they are simply good people. But we can’t control their actions or what they value. I guess all we can control is to believe that we are inherently valuable and the right people will see that and stay. It’s difficult to open up and trust people but I want to. I pray that everyone listening to this finds what they’re looking for ❤
Hi - insightful comment, and I think your conclusion is correct regarding discomfort. I have to remember to just treat it like learning a new dance or yoga position, and it will be natural over time. Hope you're making the progress you're looking for! Also - regarding your question about family, imagine the particular person saying this to you: ru-vid.com14mBvaolEBc?si=CR-tXzMWiRxyDWng&t=1360
@@Ihavemadeit999 I have healed from a lot of my trauma on my own. I believe in using affirmations but it's a tool and not an end all be all from not doing the work.
So I was listening to Quadible Integrity’s root cause formula while doing yoga, and in the middle of it I noticed this video was right under it. I thought “hm I should check that one out.” Then I turned up the volume and “accidentally” touched the screen and this video got clicked. Meant to be! These affirmations are perfect for me. And I just love that I went from general root cause to specific root cause 🤓
Prayers for everyone listening may we all find our peace we are connected by our healing journey these sleep affirmations truly help us heal i love the "you are" ones too but i digress our openness to believe and the faith we have we are a collective growing and flourishing ❤🎉 This is my second night listening plan on listening 21 days will come back to reply to this comment to give my feedback as ive been feeling lonely unworthy and unlovable for a while now so i am so grateful an appreciative for these videos also the creators voice is so soothing blessed night soul family lets drift off repeating these allowing them to soak through our soul as we dream beautiful dreams or if you're like me have a wonder trip on your austral travel ❤😂
Your subconscious tries to reject the affirmations so can project dreams reminding you of when you were abandoned to ‘protect’ you. It’s just the old beliefs
Decided to listen to this conscious for a change and burst into tears multiple times. Only made it 36 before calling my mom to talk lmao. Very powerful, thank you 🙏🏽
This made me a lot more anxious. Not sure why. It feels like forcing a reality that you never know if people will comply. I’m learning to let go of expectations and be okay if people leave. My abandonment issues are strong so I don’t know if this video is helping me. I know I deserve love but to say that people this or that is like attaching to the outcome or expectation. Is anyone else having issues with these affirmations? Why am I so anxious about it? I love all other videos. Maybe I’m just that damaged that im scared to say these things?
Anxiety is because your subconscious is fighting with those new and good beliefs to survive. Persist and it will go away. I had it also. Not with this particular sleep affirmation video, but with Dylan James's. I have listened to it for almost 3 weeks now and all this initial anxiety has gone away and I actually feel much more calm and confident. Just persist, you've got this!
@@luminouschild thank you. I am persisting but it still feels somewhat forced. I am getting more comfortable with the idea that people stay although that hasn’t really been the case
@@Kindred04 thanks. That wasn’t the issue for me. That actually feels good. My biggest issue is People always stay in my life like that’s almost going against peoples will. People come and go and you never know what they’re gonna choose so that part makes me really anxious
Hi, I know what you mean about the 'force' thing. But if you have good genuine relationships with ppl you like (and good ppl who deserve you), there isn't much reason to assume they would go anywhere. friendships do have to be equal-ish, you can't always expect them to call you.but if you are making an effort with them and being consistant then they'll expect that consistancy of friendship from you and mirror it back and enjoy being with you... Does that make sense?
Looks like you’ve got things to figure out. For me, I’m perfectly fine with people leaving, my issue would be people not paying attention to who I am, I cut many people off when they’re playing games and siphoning my energy. I got that alienation, black sheep abandonment, where i am persecuted for my difference and I got comfortable being alone, avoidant attachment. I trouble allowing people in, no problem letting people go lawl.
Your voice is soo soothing and these affirmations are lovely! Thank you for sharing💖💖Can I also ask , if I have to go through the list of affirmations in this tape where can I find them?
Ps: i actually didn’t think I needed this until I accidentally clicked on the video and felt huge peace/warmth within. And now, really glad I did. I’m wondering from your experience how abandonment affects/impacts manifesting process?
Is there any chance you could put this on your Spotify? Which I love btw and your channel ❤ Even if it's a shorter version. It's easier to have it on repeat that way I do alot of my affirming when I'm walking about or when I'm doing chores.
Good luck to you all. If you love somebody. Tell them. If you don’t, tell them.. god isn’t going to help you so unfortunately your on your own in this life..I’m sorry if you are an empathetic person who feels others emotions too easily.. it’s a curse in this human experience
