Ok... I LOVE how the woman in the first concern spoke unabashedly about their first night. Not condoning nor passing judgement. Simply saying I appreciated her honesty. Also, she was so freaking entertaining... haha.
Happy Martini and not just her but the other two mothers as well, the one in the second concern talking about how she goes out to have sex with her husband and the last wife admitting they got married cause she got pregnant, also not passing judgement, but i was surprised only because i thought Koreans were really conservative, but they were hilarious every time one of them blurted something out
P0tat0Nati0N YESS very much! She was very apart of the conversation, very good empathetic skills too and she wasn't just another guest that sat there prettily silently and listened
The first concern, I sincerely cannot understand how a husband and a father can be such a dick. The woman has had 10 surgeries and he has the audacity to call her to come to work, because he is going to the gym. She is not his wife, she is his slave. As a woman myself, I hurt so much for woman that are so abused like this. I was literally crying for her that is how angry I was.
Me too. 10 surgeries! I haven't even had one. I can't imagine the other hardships we don't know about going on in her life. That poor woman. I wanted to jump into my computer screen and hug her.
RainbowKelly Lol. I have had those same thoughts myself watching this show. To just crawl through the screen and give the abusive person a good thrashing.
Lmao going to the Gym every single day of the week for that many hours??? His body surely doesn't seem like it, lmao miss me with this bullshit i personally think either he's doing other things behind his family's back or he's cheating. She really seems like such a sweet lively lady, she surely doesn't deserve this treatment.
Same thought! I definitely think he is cheating. No one go exercise 2hrs everyday exacting at a specific time. He also seems to prefer it when his family is away.
Michelle Ofoegbu thats actually a valid point . I've never seen a full on 200 vote on ANY concern (and honestly this is not the worst concern I've seen here , at least here he realized he's in the wrong and apologized ) Getting kinda suspicious that we even have 200 people . *somebody count the audiance or something *
Different people have different perspectives. They know that a button is not going to solve the problem per se, and this is an entertainment show, so they must be going by how they feel about each concern. It's how much impact it has on each person, and if it can be SOLVED or not. If it can, certain people won't press the button. Also, the connection it has with the person or the lack of it. The level of impact a story has on someone is also different, and some people want a certain level of impact to press the button. For you, the severity of the issue can be small and you see it as a huge concern, but it might not have the same level for other people. Some may know people who have had it much worse or they went through something horrible and don't see this the same way you see it. To some, someone would have to die or be in a life and death situation for them to press the button. Or they can actually feel the same as you, but they must be reserving their vote for the other concerns, since they don't know what's coming next. A lot of factors come into play. Also, I think the show wouldn't want people who would vote for every little thing. They must vote as honestly as possible, and the votes are anonymous for the most part.
They seem like they took the second concern light-heartedly but it's actually quite serious. The dad doesn't respect his daughters needs and privacy, he doesn't even consider the individuality of the twins and their need to have their own separate lives and personalities. The way I see it rather than being protective he's being very obsessive considering he used to do that to his wife as well and it's really scary since he talks about his girls to his friends in a very creepy and unhealthy manner imo and he didn't even listen to what others were saying, his expression literally says "u're all idiots and I know better"
Yes but isnt it better if u just respect what your dad says (like nit wearing short clothes) so he wouldnt watch u all day...? And it's better to have a loving dad that cooks for u than a dad that doesnt care about u (like in 1st concern)
@minari ri the problem is that he is controlling and obsessive which is not good he should respect his daughter like a human being not just something he owns
mamichan mj emotionally neglecting your kids IS abuse, letting your wife work until she fucks up her health IS abuse! there are worse dads -sure. but that doesn't help this poor lady
The first lady had me tears. Especially when Park Miseon said this and that to the husband. But I also smiling when YeongJa trying to cheer the mood. Srsly HC must invite Park Miseon again
Fujoshi Chan I was wondering if he could be a select mute and he also seems very shy. I agree that they shouldn't make fun of him. I'm really shy and it becomes harder for me to talk when people make fun of me or look surprised because I said something.
I'm socially anxious and have always been shy so I totally get you. People asking why you're so quiet and if you can even speak and then getting all this unwanted attention the second you open your mouth. I thought I was selectively mute at one point during high school because I could only communicate through writing lol. I can't say I've "grown out of it" but it got better. I think for me high school was the main thing that 'triggered' it so now that I'm done with it I can see things more clearly? I guess. It gets better just hang in there cx
Introverts do not act like that. I'm a friggin' introvert and every other introvert I know - you can speak normally with us = =' what I felt is that he can be on the autism spectrum. The nervous eye-blinking, the way he was talking, also the things he said themselves ("it's easy to talk about my work because it's something I know") and the way he reacted when he frist saw his new-born son, they all indicate that he can be slightly autistic. And it's a shame that Hello Counselor doesn't put more importance to the cases where the guests can have mental illnesses/disabilities etc. That's only a guess, of course, but no matter what he's struggling with, he's definitely not a bad man. I actually felt sorry for him for all the attacks...
Ida Staszczuk I think you might be right. I like watching this show because it shows how shitty humans can be but I really hope or wish the people who come on these show get real professional help because I really don't see the point of making promises and apologizing.
Claire Duval//// Agreed. The first thing I thought of with his problem is Selctive Mutism. If his dad is like that, it’s definitely hereditary. Select Mute is also hereditary.
The third concern is clearly not a bad guy and obviously cares for his family but he should seek out some help on overcoming his difficulty. He looks like he has a talkative person inside him that wants to say a lot of things yet can't.
First concern: [incoming comments telling the lady to just divorce] There are some marriage concerns that could be solved through better communication but this guy...he's beyond help lol Second concern: the mom is adorable haha Kinda reminds me of a nicer version of the kid who also talks to stuffed animals 3rd concern: The last couple was cute The husband was just shy :p
KBS if you ever see this.....PLEASE RECRUITE THE FIRST AHJUMA AS AN ACTRESS OR A VARIETY MC!!!! she dont even need to act ..you wont have to make a script for her either just PUT HER SOMEWHERE ON TV I'D WATCH THAT!!!!!! Ahjuma you're amazing!!!!!
1st Concern made me so angry. He says he loves his wife. This is not how you treat the woman you love or the mother of your children. Love is making sure the people you love are cherished & being there for them. He better change his nasty ways or she needs to Divorce him. He is deeply hurting his children right now.
I think they missed the real problem in the second concern. It is that their father does not trust them. He does not have enough confidence in his ability to instill moral and social guidance to enable the kids to have a normal life. He, of course, should follow-up and enforce rules; however, it should be an interactive experience that respects both the kid's privacy and allows them to make small mistakes for learning and growing. His sneaky behavior will cause the girls to be even more secretive and possibly entice them to make unsafe decisions, just to hide actions they do not want to be discovered.
i completely agree with everything you said, but i feel like miseon and tae joon took the concern pretty seriously and gave very convincing arguments, the problem is mostly in the fact that the mcs usually try to dismiss these kind of concerns instead of giving it a piece of their mind , but i feel like they're getting better at dealing with these concerns lately
Michelle Ofoegbu not AS big of a fan as I am of the 2 others but I definitely sometimes tune in for clips/episodes from tros :D! Like I was watching wanna one on it just yesterday !
Well we just get married but aren't ready for it.. We only like good things.. Thats why when something happen.. We just seek divorce.. And make the relations vulnerable.. Ppl should do counselling before getting married and not just get in relationship or pregnant just for some different experience
najmi shah, u can say, that is in developed country we have a hard time, but in my country we rest when we have to. Actually, u can say, that we have a relax lifestyle, not because we can afford life, but we grateful enough with what we have. I think, Japanese and Korean is too much work, that they forget how to have a meaningful life
Little strawberry toys n friends I can guarantee that Koreans don’t find working hard meaningful but since the society is so competitive, it’s inevitable for us to be like that. For instance Korean high school students hardly sleep in order to go to prestigious unis. They only sleep for 4,5 hours maximum. Plus they would study apart from the time they eat and sleep. It’s compulsory for most of the high school students to attend schools till 8am and study there till 10pm. On the other hand this is obviously not the case in Australia England etc. I know it sucks but since the system of the society has been like this for a long time and this is why we became a developed country in a short period after the war, i guess it will take some time to be changed.
The first lady's husband is just flat out an irresponsible A-hole who puts everything to be of higher importance than his own family. I was surprised that she didn't divorce him sooner... Granted, he would probably be too busy to sign the papers too.
the third concern was for some reason frustrating yet lovely. i hope they husband improves because they have so much to talk about, so many first times to explore and everything. i really hope and i think he will too because he seemed so determined to want to talk. when suggested to call his wife's name, he said he wanted to try out everything! he wants to improve. he's such socially awkward and being a socially awkward person myself, i could understand him well too!
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Yeah, scripted. Like where Hong jong hyun said "do you want to see my friends ?" but it's just a script, already planned to do that. It was so obvious. And then Yura suddenly takes out a big bowl containing flour, sugar, butter, sugar powder, sugar icing tubes, everything in one big bowl just perfectly ready to make cookies and said "i was thinking i could make cookies for your friends" lol !!! I was like "WGM ! Who are you trying to lie ??" I was a little bit sad to find that out but so funny.
the guy from the last concern obviously has some form of an anxiety disorder. i hope they recognize what his issue really is and help him. some cognitive behavioral therapy can be very useful and i can tell that he'll progress really fast since he seems truly brave and really willing to change. i'm an occupational therapist btw, trust me.
His name is actually Peter Han!!! He's from Austria and was on Kpop Star 3. Peter Hyun is a different Korean celebrity. That one's from Australia and is in the group One Way.
when i was in kindergarden, my mom asked the principal not to make my sister and i in the same class so we don't only depend on each other and make new friends to depend on and have better social skills
I feel like the last concern is not just about him being shy , is more like he can't talk and accepted that fact so he didn't make an effort to change , like it or not you need to communicate with people for work, personal relationships... everything,i think he should visit a psychologist , sometimes we have traumas and we don't even know, talking with a professional would help him to undertand the reason he is like that .
Watching this truly makes me respect park miseon more , the fact that she calls out the first guest for what he had done.... as far as the episodes I’ve seen , shes the first to call out as she cries....
You have to understand Korean to understand how funny the first lady was toggling between standard Korean and thick Chung-Chung dialect. My favorite episode of 안녕하세요 lol!
I honestly stopped watching halfway of the third concern because I felt so sorry for the husband. Don't get me wrong, I felt sorry for the wife as well. But I just felt frustrated with the way the hosts and guests handled the situation. When I watched the guy, I could spot signs of anxiety disorder, and them making fun of him and attacking him was not helping. But I don't blame the hosts/guests though cos they probably have no idea about anxiety disorder. Hence it would be nice if they could include a professional on stage with them to hear about all of the concerns. I was diagnosed with minor anxiety disorder when I was young, so I knew how the guy would feel and that just made me feel even sadder for the guy :(
daneelee i watched till the end but yeah I agree, he seriously needs help, he should see a doctor or therapist or psychologist or wtv people call it. I also have anxiety but not to that extent, I seriously wonder what made him that way, there must be a reason. I'm so sad for him 😣
Bruh they're 'counselors'. This program is not there to diagnosed people. It's just to talk about the problems. You gotta have an in-depth conversation one by one with the patient to really know the problem. It would be insanely terrible to bring a doctor here as it is being broadcast to the whole world. You say you were diagnosed with minor anxiety disorder. Imagine being told that on TV, how would you feel? If they really need a diagnosis, it should happen outside of the show. Not while 300 thousand people are watching.
I actually don't think he has anxiety? because if you see him talking about what he does for a living, he'll express himself clearly because he knows what he's talking about I think his issues are more to do with self-expression
He ignored family responsibilities at a funeral. He ignored his wife's heath. His wife is working more than him. All these things should have made a record score on the show.
Third concern is really cute😂😂 i liked this couple. Yes, man is shy but really clear and he has nice and pure heart😊😊 it's hard to find that has pure heart man. So i like him. If he speak a lot of his wife, this couple can be very happy and lovely🙈🙈🙈 And first concern; i really mad that man. I hate like this people. He just think himself. For me, like this men are unnecessary for world...
He's the best dad in the world because he cooks dinner? Well just call my father grand jujube of all dads then he often cooks three meals a day, does laundry, cleans the bathrooms and makes us French toast and pancakes on the weekends while we sleep in. All my life I thought both parents do the house work equally and kids start helping as they grow up but apparently dads elsewhere do things a bit differently.
Patriarchy is a bad thing. I'm just glad my dad's (entire paternal side tbh) different even though I'm in Southern Asia where patriarchy is the first thing children learn.
well, that's yours so you feel like "hmm ? that's normal for me" but not for everyone else kid !! Not every helps like that !! Not my dad and a lot of husbands don't help at all !!!! So shut up and go live your perfect life
That first concern is really annoying omg You can always make time for the people you love and care about. Of course it'll be hard to rearrange schedules sometimes but it' not like you're CONSTANTLY going out. Saying it's impossible is bullshit to me. My late grandmother lived in Cambodia and she ALWAYS asked my mom "when will you come to visit" and my mom always said "I have no time" and it's true, she had to work and she has three daugthers so finding time to go all the way to a different country was hard. Her mother then passed away in November 2015 and every day my mom regrets not making any time to see her again. The last time she saw her in person was in 2007.
As a twin, I can 100% relate to the second concern. My dad is just like hers; wanting us to be together 24/7, doing the same things, having the same friends, wearing not revealing clothing, etc. These kinds of things are cute and convenient when we are young, but we are adults now and we are two different people with different personalities and preferences. Not to mention, in my case, we don't get along AT ALL. In her case, her and her sister seem to get along fine but they need to learn how to do stuff without each other - which comes to my next point: whether they are twins, triplets, quadruplets, etc, they need to branch out on their own and figure out their own identities or it will eventually lead to having an identity crisis and learning to be way too dependent on each other (it's good to be dependent on each other sometimes but it will start to become a nuisance down the road). There are many examples of twins where this has become a problem (just look up the Australian plastic surgery twins) and I know that there are some twins that are just fine being with each other all the time, but this isn't the case for most twins. It's fine that the dad is doting and wanting to know where they are and whatnot, but what he is doing is stalking - even if he's the dad - and is not ok. And honestly, the dad is sort of contradicting himself - he wants his twins to be together all the time, but what about the third daughter? She gets to go out on her own and be herself, meanwhile, her twin sisters must be glued together. As a twin, I find this unfair. Everything else about the dad is just fine, though. If he could change his values about twins and tone down his watchful eye, he'd be even more of a great dad.
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I'm so happy the husband in the first concern realizes what he did wrong and agree to talk things out with his wives and change his behavior. The way he says he loved her at first sight and still do is soooo cute omg TvT and how he said his value changes. I think he realized that his family is the most important thing in his life now, not his restaurant nor customers :)) god bless you first lady
no, he's too selfish to think about anyone else; he won't change. people like this will only change if it affects THEM. he said all that stuff only because he didn't want to look bad in front of others. everything he said was to make himself sound like a hard worker, but his daughter exposed him.
As soon as I saw Kim Jong Min's name I knew I had to watch this episode of Hello Counselor but I will be watching the latest new episode of 2 Days And 1 Night first, right now ahahaha❣️💕😍😊🤣
The father in the first concern reminded me of my bestfriend's father he was a workaholic that worked non stop not allowing his family to go on trips and have fun with their father, he umfourtently died 5 months ago 😔 We need to enjoy our lives because we never know when we will die 😣
thAT DAD IS FRIGGIN HILARIOUS HE ALWAYS THOUGHT OF THEM AS ONE HUMAN BEING AND HE EXPECTS ONE OF THEM TO BACK DOWN IF THEY EVER FIGHT OVER A GUY BC THEYRE ALWUAYS TOGETHER IM SCREAMING HES FUGNJKFD HILARIOUS
Real life Korea is so different from the Kdramas and kpop we see! Not saying that it's bad but so many people have come on here and just by seeing them, i have noticed that Koreans are either way too extreme or way too mild! Especially when it comes to love and work! The husbands lately have been driving me nuts and so are the woman who stick around with a man who doesn't give two shits about her or her kids! I understand that they stick around for their children because it's harder as a single mother but man! I would never have gotten married in the first place! Majority of the icky husbands who have come on this show showed signs of being irresponsible while dating but the women still agreed to get married to them! Don't do that for God's sake! You can't change a man who's so strict about his own set of rules, and who eats and drinks the way he wants to! Sheesh! I just don't get their thinking process and it pisses me off so much! These men are a disgrace and shouldn't even call themselves men. Irresponsible, egoistic and male chauvinist pigs. For once, i wanted an episode where my blood wouldn't boil but husbands and fathers like these make me go nuts! Major reason why i'm scared to marry anyone myself! (Edit) On a lighter note, i have loved misun and Yeongja's relationship ever since Mamma mia, and they really match each other well! Always made me laugh so i missed seeing them together :)
I can relate to the guy from last concern.. I dont talk a lot and when i do i dont talk loud like the extroverts ppl and i think he really gave a lot of thoughts before going on tv and he did👌👏 if i was him i wouldnt have gone
Idk, I feel like this show shouldn't as funny as it is. At least, not all the time. Some of these problems are too sad and scary. I believe if everything is taken to light hearted, it'll encourage the trouble person even more or simply not changed.
SuperBlueRock K-POP's Top Ranking I do agree with you but keep in mind this is a variety show meant to entertain people. It's not good entertainment if it's always serious with no lightheartedness. I'm personally just glad that they have this show and that its been going on for so long T^T I've read that a lot of people in Korea don't go to get help when they need it because then their employers or potential employers have access to that info. With that info, the employer can choose to fire the person or not hire them because they're ...... Not 100% I guess? For lack of a better word. Some of the concerns that have been on this show have been absolutely frightening and if not for this show those concerns would have never seen the light of day. Sorry for rambling though I'll stop now DX
that first concern...................dude, i should've known. at first i was thinking "oh, working is important, maybe he just needs to learn to balance his work and personal life....he probably feels pressured/responsible to provide for his family" yea, right..................smh, people who come on this show 99.99999% of the time have a valid concern............poor woman :/
The third guy seems fine. All he needs is to know the importance of communicating with his loved ones. He's doing great at work and clearly seems to be a man of actions more than words while the rest are all words and little action.
Not sure how many times i came back to this video for the women in the first concern! Honestly if she did not get married, she would have led a better life! I mean she is funny and cheerful, she could easily succeed as a comedian!
I supported their father he is the best father i come across girl should be liked they hv to be under control untill they become matured can't be compered boys and girls...!!!
idk how i feel about the last concern. on one hand it must be extremely frustrating to have a spouse who hardly speaks a word to u but on the other hand, it's not like he's a bad person. he's nice, just nervous-ish and quiet.
The dad in the second concern is so freaking scary, I would leave. What kind of father puts surveillance cameras to monitor their own daughter? It's like a saesang fan that watches a person's every move because they 'love' him/her so much. He literally stalks their every move and has no trust in his daughters. He also keeps saying that it's because he loves them and he doesn't even understand what he is doing wrong nor does he say that he will change for the better. Also, her curfew is too short and there are too many restrictions on the type of clothes she should wear. Like he won't even let her wear a skirt??? He had so many issues that needed to be discussed more. Extremely disappointed in the way the second concern was handled.
I feel bad for the man in the last concern. I can relate to him but my selective mutism has improved quite a bit nowadays. I hope his wife, sister in law and (hopefully) a therapist help him to continually speak more. The problem isn't that he's quiet, it's that he's so quiet he feels awkward all the time. I hope that he can be able to loosen up and be himself at home one day. Fighting! 💪🏾
i almost throw my coffee at the screen at 13.10 The husband is soo irritating providing your family with money doesn't magically qualifies u to become a Father , when he gets old and his kids grow he will realize the importance of the precious time he wasted
he DIDN'T put work first; he put himself first. that was just his go-to excuse to make himself sound good. he was actually going to the gym and hanging out with his friends.
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