I’m literally fat and I can understand that some people aren’t interested in me and that it’s just a preference. I really want people to know that a lot of fat people like myself aren’t like this girl.
No worries, I’m thinking most ppl in general are NOT like this girl- body type aside!! She’s just an attention-seeking, over dramatizing, & ridiculous human being who is making excuses for herself by projecting & blaming others. She is spewing a whole lot of nonsense & it has nothing to do w being overweight. All ppl have things about themselves they don’t like. But we don’t make videos about them saying that others are judging us for those flaws…no, that’s exactly what YOURE doing to yourself. Well this girl is anyway! God bless! ☺️
They turned don't be fatphobic, which would be like being an ass to someone for being fat just because you feel like it, which is something id be in support of into "If you don't have sex with me or date me your fatphobic"
🙄💯 TikTok clowns are, legit, one of the most ignorant clout chasers the globe's ever seen! tbh I'm thankful nobody's ever seen my name and face embarrassing myself by spreading ignorant gossip like this! As an overweight person reacting to these videos, I couldn't be any more baffled and embarrassed!
I’m a fat dude, and I’ve been told that I’m not attractive because of my weight. Honestly? That’s totally valid. I worked my way to fatness with beer and hot wings. Now, I’m in a happy relationship with somebody who finds me attractive. Furthermore, I’m losing weight so I can live longer and be more fit.
I'm very glad that you found somebody that loves you 4 you. And I say congrats and gudd luck with your weight loss journey. I, too used to think that I wasn't attractive because I was overweight. I thought that in order to be loved by any guy, I had to be skinny even at a young age. I don't feel that way anymore and I'm glad that u don't either. I've lost alot of weight and I feel more confident in myself as well. I don't know how long you've been 2gether or soo becuz it's none of my business, but I wish yall a long and happy life 2gether!! ^v^
@@leshaangton118 Update, a year later, we are no longer together. I developed subacute degeneration of the spinal chord, was paralyzed for months, treated my condition successfully using my own knowledge of biochemistry, went from 290lb to 220lb by means of appetite suppressants, and found out that a woman I’ve been talking to for years is the love of my life. She’s moving in with me in a year, and I couldn’t be more blessed.
Man, I am 100 lbs 5'3" and I was accused by some of my family members for being anorexic in middle school, and now I'm 32 and STILL to this day my family continues to point it out everytime they see me. If I could gain weight easily I would have because I think curves are beautiful and womanly. It goes both ways y'all. You can't pick your body, just treat the one you got right.
@@sachimi_ggz I mean I eat a lot already, I'm just naturally small. And yeah I guess I could lift weights but I'm not at all interested in that.. life is just full of what-ifs I guess!
I'm fat. But I'll go out on a limb and say that if someone doesn't want to date this chick, it's because she's a horrible, tedious, condescending, elitist person and not because of her weight. I'm happily married 26 years now.
yep agree, I am not really attracted to overweight people, but met two women who were, but took my heart haha, they were super sweet people and the weight issue, was no longer an issue.
If you're grossly overweight and happy with yourself, I'm happy for you. Just don't demonize people like me that don't find attraction in a woman who weighs twice what we do.
I was overweight for a couple years which made my heart condition more severe. I’ve lost 40 pounds which has helped me IMMENSELY with recovering and healing from my condition. Wanting better for yourself is not “fat phobic”.
The only person torturing me when I was fat was me, the only person to blame was me, then only person that fixed it was me, the only person who projected self hate was me. The only person living my BEST life now is ME!!
❤️ your accountability and ownership 👍. Social Fatness Warriors exist because they refuse to accept blame for their food choices and consumption. S/he who indulges, bulges.
Agreed. I recently lost 125lbs. I did it for me. It was my fault for letting myself go and I was me who got healthy and I did it for me and no one else.
I'm currently overweight, and I've been underweight as well. I've been on both ends of the spectrum as far as weight goes. This shit is insane to me! These people will go to great lengths to demonize every single person and business that doesn't support them in overeating and not getting enough exercise. They are looking for any and every excuse to feel ok with killing themselves. They want so bad to seem empowered and strong, when they are literally proving the opposite by claiming victimization by any and everyone.
Body shaming is a real thing, it applies to being overweight AND underweight; muscular vs skinny, men and women. Height, etc. These women seem to be actually promoting their own problems. They aren't helping anybody and least of all, themselves.
I just wanna say as someone who works out, it doesnt always make you LOSE weight. I went from 140 to 160 by muscle gain and weight loss and honestly have never felt better. It really helped me realize a lot about my body and made me appericate it a lot more. With that being said, ive cared less about the numbers and more on how I feel. Eating better and working out really inspires you to be the fullest you can be. :)
As someone who has thought themself too fat my entire life, thanks mom, I can identify with the fat ladies. I happen to have a thyroiditis disease that is trying to kill my thyroid gland and my metabolism. Unlike these women it didn't kill my personality. They need to stop looking at other people and blaming society. I had to learn weird foods not to eat, thank God, Kale is on my don't eat list. Sadly, foods I love like broccoli and cabbage are also on that list. Stop blaming others and figure out your own kale. It might be as simple as pushing away from the table. It's still my favorite exercise.
Again I will say, I find the people that promote "fat acceptance" cannot simply just accept preference, and are super closed minded. And no I'm not "fatphobic".
I'm an ER RN and last year a patient tried suing me for discrimination, for fat shaming, all because I tried explaining that his knee problems were from his 480+ weight. While discussing what he could personally do to help ease the pain his weight was of topic. Of course, he was actually upset bc our hospital wouldn't just give him more narcotics. Needless to say it was thrown out.
They hate within eachother, and forget when one of them starts losing weight successfully! They get massive hate from the people who are "fat/body positive", the people who supported them before turn on them once they start doing what they wish they could all that love and support is taken away and turned into hate
People like this can’t ever seem to realize it’s just them that people don’t like or want to date and it has nothing to do with how they look. It’s their horrible excuses for a personality and their backwards hatred that pushes people away from them
I was 233 pounds and went down to 165 after a year and a half and being diagnosed as diabetic. I guess I should have embraced my obesity and lived with ever worsening diabetes and raising blood pressure (it hit 210 over 110 at one point), and just died free, instead of just being a fat self-hater who feels ten times better physically.
I'm sort of sick of the "-phobics" in todays society. Far too overused. I have an actual diagnosed phobia, and it isn't that "I have a horrible irrational fear of seeing overweight people". Having a true phobia is terrifying. You know it's irrational but it overwhelms you with a visceral, mental dread that leaves you shaken and miserable. But in today's society the meaning is bled out of the word. "Oh, you disagree with me, or my choices? Ahhh, you're AFRAID of me." ...no?
A phobia is an irrational fear- I'm just gonna say I have only met one person who is irrationally scared of obese individuals and that's just because she's super small and is scared of big things-
@@bombdotcom2168 Exactly. Mine leads to panic attacks, hyperventilation and loss of consciousness, but apparently just "oh noooo, someone has a different body type than me" means I get diagnosed with some nonsensical new phobia 🤣
@@emilyb5307 People like you and me have legitimate phobias that cause real panic when we're exposed to them - People just need to grow a tougher skin and learn that not everyone hates them -
"The reason the weight loss industry doesn't wanna convey that, is because they profit off that"- This is actually very true. Not many people know this but most fast food franchises(such as mcdonalds, kfc, and pizza hut to name a few) are actually all non profit organisations that are both honest, humble, and would never want you to spend too much money in their restaurants.
@@bananawammabama baby fat is something different. It actually goes away very quick when growing. My sister was a fat baby. We called her sumo. But she has become a beautiful woman. And skinny.
I was 220 lbs at Thanksgiving last year. I’ve lost 60 lbs and I’m not done yet. “How” you say? Cutting sugar, unhealthy carbs, eating clean, a gallon of water a day, and walking. Simple. Having been in that fat world, I still cannot possibly comprehend the entitlement and arrogance they exude! I was not at my best at that time in my life…made a change and am getting what I wanted. Healthier, happier, able to haul my 14 grandkids around easier, really enjoying my life! To me, they’re trying to cover up the fact that to the core, they are totally completely and utterly miserable!
If they're so culturally enriched for fat acceptance they probably have seen the 1000lbs sisters on TLC, true fat people, no disrespect. One of the sisters wanted to lose weight to have one child. And the other wanted to lose weight for better health but decided not to because she's not motivated enough to not die because she was being unhealthy.
Yeah but one of the sisters started dating a guy who was obsessed w/her being big & gaining weight so she’s still not doing good bc of ppl like in the videos smh
Bruh I’m barely scratching being overweight on the BMI calculator and I still feel like absolute shit and want to lose weight lmao… I can’t even imagine how fatass people feel physically compared to me
@Quaid Patrick Howard Johnson no we cant!! Youre right. Regardless of if we want to or not. I dont want to but I can promise you that back in the day when black ppl were mùřď3r3d they hoped they could change to save their lives... if someone started mùrd3ring big ppl bet you they would lose weight.
You don’t need to pay any company to eat healthy and lose weight. You don’t even need to pay for a gym membership. Encouragement of, and desire to, achieve weight loss is not all about “the weight loss industry profits”. That’s just absurd.
Once when I was in grade 9 (and extremely stupid and yet to develop as a human) I said to a friend of mine "the women in this school are so shallow" he looked at me and said "maybe they just aren't attracted to you" nuff said bro. That interaction changed how I view the world.
@@killapicklepiratepanda7373 Exactly, we like what we like and that's OK. Also some slim people can't gain weight ((that's the issue I have)) The same way thicc people have trouble losing it. It doesn't make us "fat phobic" If I have tbh I'd love to be bigger, but they don't believe us when we say that xD
Someone should put 3 pictures of a dude side by side, one dude being really fit, the other being average & the other extremely obese & see which one she picks & then ask her why she didn't choose the other ones.
That would be very interesting ( based on her own preference) but a lot of what she states in her video has zero logic and her reasonings are beyond my comprehension. Just wish 'large people' would help themselves. Lots of people succeed and they they always say they feel much healthier, fitter, energetic, sleep better, fulfill much more in their lives because of it. There is only good things that can come of it but these people think society is against them. It is not true. I have friends of all shapes and sizes and most people do not discriminate against size. It is personality that makes people like you after all. What is on the inside is so much more important.
I'm physically disabled, I weigh 140 lbs stand at 5'7" & I've lost 3 inches in height because my advanced scoliosis & degenerative bone disease is literally making me shorter. I had to buy my own wheelchair so I can go shopping with my hubs, I can't walk for long periods of time, 15 minutes would be long. Everytime I've gone to the store in hopes of getting one of those ride on electric carts, none are available EVER. The only people I ever see in them are FAT people, rarely an elderly person has one, they instead struggle with the shopping cart as their "walker". I don't have a motorized wheelchair, I prefer to use my upper body strength to make my way around the store. When at home I use my walker to get around because I'm not stable enough on my feet & can't risk another fall. So next time you go to a food store please take notice of who is using the electric carts ..... that's my rant. So fat people spare me your comments, you have control over what you eat, I've seen what's in your shopping carts.
Ok, the person at 3:29 seconds that’s reacting to the possibility that science may be able to turn off or reduce the hunger hormone for people is absolutely amazing for folks who have hyper metabolism/metabolic conditions that revolve around an over production of the hunger hormone(including the possibility that it could aid in weight loss centralized goals as well as food additions and other possible applications). Additionally if science can figure out how to turn off or reduce the production of the hunger hormone then they equally could turn it back on or increase production of the hunger hormone thus making it possible for those who struggle to gain/keep weight to be able to eat more and retain at least some of what they need. Just because something is discovered because of one intended use doesn’t mean that at least in this case that it’s the only possible application said discovery can be used for.
Thank you!!! It's like the term "off label use" didn't exist. While I'm sure the weightless industry is paying for this research, it has legitimate standing for people with medical issues. I absolutely appreciate this science. I have a condition that causes my hormones to not work properly, my ghrelin and leptin have NEVER balanced properly. I can go weeks with no desire to eat and drop 20 lbs then I can eat non-stop for days and gain it back. This would be a godsend for me if they could flip those on and off like a switch.
@@kindelderson9838, not so much think they think about much. More saddened that they aren’t willing to think critically and beyond their distorted and excessively narrow view… Sadly yes they are much too focused/worried about their next meal(s), and they claim to care for themselves yet can’t at all list even one thing about themselves they genuinely love about themselves which then leads me to question just how much of what they say(in excess in many cases…lots of repetition) is just bluster/poor attempts at convincing others to their views…sadly I think they’re trying more to convince themselves of the lies than nearly anything else…which leads to their issues over all abuse they are using food as their means of self soothing/self medicating…. All and all I just find this all very deeply saddening and frustrating because like most things in life things aren’t as clear cut/ cut and dry as it would appear on the surface.
I was thinking something like this too. And this science could definitely benefit people who suffer from conditions such as Prader-Willies (probably spelled wrong) syndrome where the sufferers cannot control their hunger and it can make managing their lives very difficult.
@@IloveColgatebreathstrips many medical things are "unnatural" if you think about it. hawing surgery, getting medicine for an infection. I think this medicine for reducing or increasing hunger would bring people to a more natural/normal state, where they get hunry to a degree that would be beneficial to their lives.
To me it looks like she wants other people to date her no matter what, you cannot force someone to be attracted to you that is actually disgusting and shows so much insecurity in your part which contradicts her point about her wanting everyone else to be ok with fat people, nobody by their own decision would want to be overweight because nothing healthy or good comes from it
it is more difficult for some to lose weight or maintain a healthy weight, keyword being "difficult" as opposed to "impossible/improbable". Folks like those presented here are prime examples of unnecessary people, who's absence would probably improve society. So coddled and entitled, imagine wanting to make obesity your personality because you're too lazy to change.
The Harry Potter ride one kills me. That worker was just trying to save your life and do his job. If I’m ever too big where my life is at stake, please stop me! Thank you!
Girl at 7:30 knows a boy just died on a ride for being too fat right? It's for safety reasons, that boy would I'm sure rather be embarrassed instead of dead.
As someone who’s underweight to an unhealthy level; I can understand that some people aren’t going to be attracted to me. That’s ok. Nobody is attracted to the same thing, including the people making these videos lmao
@@gothica3605 I don't. I want a normal man and I have one. Yes he's muscular and tall, but he ain't no Chad, fuck Chad type dudes.. their also called douchetubers on RU-vid. I like a man that isn't obsessed with popularity or being the top one, or the richest one. I like my man for who he is as a person, I'm glad he's tall and handsome, but who he is as a human being is what brought me to him. He was attracted to me for who I was, not because I'm attractive.
It's actually pretty sad. Being obese used to be a sign of wealth, because sugary and fatty foods were over priced. Now it's completely switched. Obesity is now the face of poverty... no not everybody who is poor is fat, and not everybody who is skinny has money to spend, but the percentage has gone up drastically. It's ok to love your body... but that should come with loving to better yourself, mind AND body. I myself am overweight and understand it's not healthy for me. Even though it's hard to get to where I wanna be, I'm not gonna stop and tell people they have to like me as I am or they're fat phobic 🤦🏼♀️
That any when you're poor it's kinda hard to afford healthy foods. And of course how much sugar and crap is put in processed food cause it's easy to sell.
@@mikehuff9793 well if you haven't noticed.... everything pertaining to this video is mostly an issue in only America. I wasn't referring to any other country lmao, sorry if you felt excluded.
@@Deuteromis Beans, rice, eggs can easily replace any junk. I can buy 30 large eggs for 3.99 which is around the same price point as chips. A small bag of rice has way more servings than a pack of Nissan ramen. If people would learn how to budget and use coupons, they wouldn’t have to be forced to eat junk 24/7. I live off of $50 a week on food.yet I still manage to buy fruit,vegetables, meat and seafood. While going without takeout for a whole year. On another note, just because a loaf of white processed bread is cheap, doesn’t mean you have to eat the whole loaf. I think these people are obese because of binge eating.
@@theofficialalaekatt2399 think for two seconds… how I would know this is only a reality IN AMERICA? I would probably have to be a well traveled American. So, nobody feels excluded. Obesity was “a sign of wealth” back when gout was also a sign of wealth….like, 500 years ago. Obesity has been a sign of bad health since like 1812….LONG before the food trends you spoke of took heed. The BMI was developed in Belgium in the early 1900’s (that would be 1801-1900.) They do not correlate historically the way you claim. I’m sorry. Kings had gout long before the colonizers ever showed up on these shores. My ancestors are from here. America is “where I came from.” So OBVIOUSLY I don’t “feel excluded.” Your scope sounds very narrow and limited. Just by the rhetoric you use, you sound as though you’re young, or like you are just now learning about life.
I think rapid weight loss is still an unhealthy thing, my sister who I’m really close with suffered from anorexia after losing weight too quickly from over exercising and not eating. It was terrifying to see that she couldn’t walk from being too frail and tired, she was fading to nothing and I couldn’t bear to lose her. But these people are hurting themselves almost as much with their extreme delusions of fat phobia. I’m definitely obese by health standards from my bad habit of comfort eating my feelings away, but even I know this ain’t right.
@@minnie5301 She wasn't eating enough to have the calories to burn by exercising as much as she was. Starving people and forcing them to work is how the Nazis killed a lot of the victims of concentration camps, they literally worked them to death. The amount of exercise that is healthy for a person depends in part on their diet and how many calories they are taking in to burn.
@@memawknowsbest4978 just saying. I am ex PT and know you can do a lot of exercise per week but not on a 600 kcal per day diet! Obviously you have to build up exercise and cut out mainly 200-300 kcal per day and gradually lose about 9Lb per year. It will come off faster if junk food is dropped. Many people feel so much better once they exercise that they naturally want to eat more healthy. In my experience, my really over weight clients problems were really created by lack of any activity, let alone exercise. They never even used to walk anywhere
as someone who is unfortunately overweight, this pains me to see this nasty creature compare two different things for no reason and thinks it's in the right.
I recently lost 30 lbs by changing my diet and working out 5 days a week. I feel so ashamed right now.......even though my blood pressure is great now.
I'm an overweight female heterosexual who is attracted to men who have a dad bod and I have been inspired recently to go back to a healthier lifestyle to drop my more recent weight gain that I caused myself with poor diet and lots of sugar out of pure laziness, lack of motivation, and just overall not giving a f*@%. ACCEPT ME AND MY PREFERENCES!
If we all just went back to the simple "if you don't have anything nice to say don't say anything" or "treat others how you would want to be treated" we would be fine. We've gone too far lol.
Soo, I'm just wondering. Those ladies are calling out people who doesn't find fat people attractive, calling them fatphobic, right ? They claim the preferences are just a sign of fatphobia. Well, here is the thing - I don't find skinny people attractive. I prefer big guys. And I just wanna know - are those ladies gonna call me out for being eeegh... "Skinnyphobic" ? People have preferences, what the hell is wrong about it ? By the way, I love you, Xenoshot. Skinny, fat, black, white, blue, I don't care. Anything you say is pure gold and I just love that.
Some people also just straight up don’t want to date fat people. I did it once. My ex was averaging 300lbs the entire 2.5 years we were together. He couldn’t keep up his stamina during sex for more than 5 minutes, he couldn’t fit on any rides when we went to amusement parks, he was too lazy to go on any waterslides because he thought he would pop the tubes or fly out the slides, he didn’t want to do shit but play video games and eat a shit ton of food. He’s the reason I’m just hitting overweight now. He made me a lazier person. And I have every RIGHT to have a bias against someone who’s that unmotivated to be healthier for the sake of our potential future children’s health and enjoyment of their own childhoods. They shouldn’t have a father who can’t get himself to do anything fun with them. If other people don’t mind this about their partner, good for them. But I have PLENTY of reasons to be biased and I’m not even a fatphobic person. My current partner’s just a bit less heavy than I am and we’re both a little chubby. It’s not much to desire a partner who has energy and has confidence in himself. And if you’re heavier than I am, at least have some kind of drive to keep yourself energetic and healthy like I have for fuck sakes. Being like this honestly just feels like shit. I don’t think my expectations are that high considering I even dated a fat guy to begin with lmao
I'm just shy of 6ft, I hit 280 and saw a picture of myself at Christmas & was disgusted with myself. I Changed my diet and started walking 1.5 miles a night in January. Just over 2 months later I'm down to 258 now, if I keep it up I should be down to 200 by Christmas. I was in 2 car accidents and have chronic pain daily, but if I can do it then so can others...
@@Kurious_Kiwi THANKS! I have a weakness for ice cream, but I figured out that yogurt hits the sweet tooth just about the same way, especially if I put fresh strawberries in it. 😋yum....
My siblings and I were fat for most of our life because my parents decided when we were full and were forced to eat everything on our plate every time and got punished when we didnt want to.... now I let my kids decide when they are full and don't care if they dont eat all of their food and they have always been normal in the weight category 👍
My mom was just like that except she did the opposite and would take our plates before we were done eating. She also got upset at us for eating snacks and tried to get my dad to put a lock on the pantry door. I turned out underweight because of it, and when I was given access to food without being limited to how much I could and couldn't eat I became overweight because in my mind I wasn't going to get any more food that day so I might as well eat as much as I could. Parents who pick and choose how much their kids eat shouldn't be parents. It causes unhealthy eating habits and even disorders and illnesses later on in life. For me it caused chronic acid reflux as a side effect of eating disorders.
I am on the heavy side but no one has every treated me different or said something mean to me. If anything they are nice and understanding. We all have our little vices and my only vice is I like to eat. I never smoked or used alcohol or drugs but I personally know of many people who abuse these things without criticism. There is a bar on every corner along with a CVS lol. People are people so let them live the way they want to.
Serious question, did your parents decide when you were full and force you to finish your whole plate every time? I am pretty sure that is the reason I was so big as a kid I even remember getting spanked for not finishing my plate and it's not fair for a parent to tell a kid when they are full or not
I was also never shamed for being overweight ever. I also have never had trouble with men. My husband is definitely good looking and I wonder often why he picked me.
Was a fat kid, got bullied and picked on for it. Complained to my parents and got golden advice. "If you dont like it, change it." Went on a diet, started weights, got into jogging, dropped over 100 pounds. People need to stop being so soft and weak, just handle the problem, whatever it is. If you want to be fat then go for it, but yes some will pick on you for it, if you were skinny as a toothpick people would also find something to pick on you for. Get over it, stoo being such a marshmallow. My last bit of advice is when you learn to not let it bother you, most bullies will stop doing it.
I’ve seen plenty of fat women put down young, thin and pretty girls. LOTS! They’re mean and rude to them. Just because of how they look! You have to accept yourself. And give other people a chance before you discount them.
I used to be fat and not once have I ever felt torture. I lost all the weight and still in good shape plus my clothes fit me loosely. Lol am I racist or fatphobic or whatever phobia that these people that will come up with, that I feel much better and healthier? Great video bro
I'm so fed up with the constant blame shifting, if you're big, then that's on you....when my wife passed away in 2016, I hit rock bottom, just let myself go and ended up being between size 20-22....after a huge turn around and love and support from some very true friends, I managed to pick myself up and start living again, I'm now a lot healthier mentally and physically thanks to these friends but most of all, I've lost the weight and my clothes shopping is done in the kids section as I now fit into size 13yr old track bottoms/trousers and on top I'm wearing 11-12yr old jumpers/t-shirts etc...and being only 4ft 11inch, that's better than what I was before especially for my height, so enough of the bs and the "you're fatphobic", my wife was a size 22 when we first met and she was a size 22 when she died, I'm not fatphobic and because I lost the weight does not make me fatphobic either...I was big through my own actions and now I'm not, also through my own actions, because only I can make the difference to my body whilst my friends helped make a difference to my mind 💖
I’ve gained a LOT of weight from being mostly home/bed bound. I’m down 24 pounds but still trying to get back in shape. It never makes sense to me when someone is able to be active etc and they chose not to so.
I’ve come to a point where my brain just shuts off when someone throws “fatphobic” at anyone. I more than likely just can’t take them seriously on any subject.
I AM Fat phobic because its unhealthy & therefore speaks volumes of someones self discipline level Plus there is a huge difference between voluptuous body And fat
Wow, lady really complaining that Universal or the like isn't going to accommodate EVERY body type. Engineers would have a field day with how entitled AND stupid this is, because while there should be a wide range (unless that affects efficiency and such), there's such a thing as being TOO accepting, not unlike the tolerance of paradox as relates to fascists and how that ends up with the fascists winning when you have absolute tolerance.
It's 10 pm at the time I'm watching this video. I'm overweight, and since I was feeling with too much energy my brain jumped straight to eat. This video inspired me to exercise instead. So now is 10 pm and I'm exercising like a madwoman.
I'm a bisexual guy and I love fat men and fat women to to me if Britney Spears showed up at my door and and Melissa McCarthy showed up at my door I'd tell Britney Spears to take a hike because I'm more attracted to Melissa McCarthy. I guess that means I discriminating against skinny people. I'm so sorry Brittany that I discriminated against you that day that you showed up at my door with Melissa McCarthy and I choose her over you. It really breaks my heart that I was such a horrible person to choose a fat girl over you and discriminate against skinny people like that. I hope you will give me a second chance but know I'm only going out with you to show the world that I'm not discriminating against skinny people not because I'm really attracted to you.
@@killapicklepiratepanda7373 you don't know how happy that makes me because the whole point of making up jokes and putting in stupid comments is to make other people laugh even if I'm unsuccessful 99.9% of the time
Same thing sort of thing happened to me ! I had Nikolaj Coster-Waldau come to my door and I said gee wow big fan of Jamie Lannister but golly you can't come in cuz I am waiting for James Gandolfini and Nikolaj told me James is dead and I closed the door in his face and cried in grief for 3 months and then moved to an isolated forest .....I mean my apologies to Nick for discriminating but no man comes close to my dearly departed James
I learned in class that there are people who are on the heavier side because of their genetics. It makes me wonder if some 'fat' people genuinely cannot lose weight healthily. Still doesn't mean you have to date an overweight individual to avoid being called fat phobic.
I’m one of those people. It’s generally hard for me to lose weight without starving myself. I was anorexic when I was younger, and it severely screwed up my metabolism. Now I’ve been in medications and have medical conditions that both cause weight gain and make losing it harder. It’s super fun 🙄
I’m body shamed on a daily basis by my husband… I’m fat but I try to eat right and work out but due to hormonal issues it’s very hard for me to lose weight quickly… I was thin when I met him but after aging and having a baby changed my body and it’s hard to get back to that body image again… it’s depressing and makes me feel so ugly because I wish I was thin…
I've gone up and down as I've had children with very high risk pregnancies, so bed rest caused a lot of weight (I'm an Endomorph, so I work hard at keeping fit as possible) I've also been an aerobics instructor, body builder etc; I feel it's all in how you care for yourself. If you are overweight and just have the attitude "except me while I couch potato and eat fast food" IT SHOWS. If you are overweight but you are trying and working at health, it will show. One of my daughters takes after me. She stays updated with her doctor, tries long term ways to loooooose weight and has a realistic view on weight issues. Slowly but surely she is finding all the pieces that she needs to do to keep her weight down. It may take work..lots of work for life. But she doesn't want to just be excepted. She wants to be healthy and knows that for some it takes work . Example: She can not have milk products..she is both intolerant and allergic. So she does not eat it at all. She doesn't say "I should be able to have ice cream like everyone else" . She wants to be healthy thin and just healthy. WORK AT IT. DON'T BLAME OTHERS IF YOU DON'T.
that third lady made me genuinely mad lmao. I think that the first two ladies had a half-argument underneath all of the stupid shit they were saying, and I’m willing to give them the benefit of the doubt, but that third lady genuinely makes me upset because she just doesn’t know what she’s talking about and has a really spiteful attitude lol
