Honest Q&A: Do I Miss Being Shredded? All In Haters? Cheat Days? Digestion Issues?

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1. Do you miss your skinny body? Do you miss being shredded? 0:32
2. Would you ever do another fun Cheat Day video? 2:47
3. Do you ever feel like you need to binge? Like your body is still testing you? 4:19
4. Do you feel psychological (mental) hunger? 6:58
5. Why do you think men specifically had such a bad reaction to your “All In” journey? 9:08
6. How do you deal with the fact the fitness industry/society preferred you thinner? 11:38
7. Would you feel the same about your journey if your set weight landed higher? 13:41
8. If you had to do “All In” again, would you change anything? 16:54
9. Did you struggle with digestion issues? Or notice a change in digestion? 19:11
10. How has your mindset change towards the gym/lifting from pre-All In Steph? 21:42
11. Do you still have any “food rules” you have trouble letting go of? 26:09
12. What is the favorite part of the journey so far? 27:59
13. Given your family commitments, will Jeff move to Florida? Long term relationship plans? 29:12
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@StephanieButtermore 3 года назад

I hope you guys enjoyed the longer video! 🍿♥️ Timestamps for every question is in the description box. Please keep in mind a lot of these questions are very nuanced and might have required more clarification, but I did my best not to be too boring and trimmed it down so I didn’t ramble 😬 Let me know if you like Q&A videos and I can continue doing them every once in a while. Love you guys so much! 😘

@blakelylarsen5893 3 года назад

I watch your new video and its awesome and I love it.

@-amosc.presley-7192 3 года назад

Sure? Please, make Some more Questions & Answer video's for Ya' subscribers. . .

@jakeslater5005 3 года назад

Of course we enjoyed the video 💛

@mmajois 3 года назад

About the cheat day video : if you want to make one, make the second option you talk about in the vidéo please :)

@leibeasley8536 3 года назад

I’d love to see both of those new videos BUT only if you feel like it would not effect you negatively mentally 💕

@mdrb823 3 года назад

Some men think that women only change their bodies to be more attractive for them. You made it clear that wasn’t your goal and NOTHING triggers insecure men more than a woman who doesn’t care what they think. Particularly when that woman is smart and successful.

@sabrina05xoxo 3 года назад

And beautiful

@larissaeliason6036 3 года назад

I really do think this is the reason more than someone wanting to fix or help someone.

@marandapoe3474 3 года назад

YEP. I think it’s definitely something like this.

@itzelramz 3 года назад

Couldn't have said it any better !

@gloomydaysunshine8656 3 года назад

👏👏👏👏👏

@sophiaestrada9336 3 года назад

I hate how everyone is treating her like she isn’t knowledgeable (literally went to school for half the stuff she is talking about) and that she isn’t fit anymore. She’s stunning and clearly in great shape?

@ItssKimberlyy 3 года назад

Lol forreal

@gabrielasolorzano2382 3 года назад

She looks amazing!! I don’t get the hate either, whatever she did obviously worked to bring her back to health

@KenWang2 3 года назад

She lost her fitness credibility. She knows nothing about being shredded. She only did it to get followers. Fat people always have excuses to stay fat. School teaches you main stream fitness and it is not the ideal way to eat and train. Calories in calories out is a lie but you sheep keep following Stephanie Fatmore i dont give a shit

@allisonblack62442 3 года назад

@@KenWang2 clearly you do "give a shit" because you took the time to rant about it. If it upsets you this much that a stranger is happy and healthy then you really need to look into getting your mental health in order. I really hope you find a doctor to help you with your own self esteem.

@arissa341 3 года назад

@@KenWang2 you sure spend a lot of time getting worked up over someone who has no idea who you are loll

@luciarodriguez2836 3 года назад

I wonder if you really realize how many people, young women specifically, you have helped by sharing this journey. thank you

@namjuice3231 3 года назад

she inspired me to finally get rid of my restrictive lifestyle :D shes a life saver

@brittanymiller7155 3 года назад

Me! I had so many food issues in my life. Shes been a breath of fresh air after teen years in the age of the size 0

@Sofia-jx5sv 3 года назад

To be honest I feel like a lot of people hated your “All in” journey because they also felt the pressure to be lean, fit, shredded, but didn’t have the confidence to heal their bodies. Like I think those people refused to accept that they were too focused on their fitness and Stephanie starting this amazing journey just triggered them.

@eff0_o 2 года назад

yesss i think a lot of it was jealousy rooted

@KimikoMaui Год назад

Wow I never realized this was a thing. I found her all in vid quite liberating. Many friends did body building and I had no desire to do it even if I was pretty lean because it seemed way too strict. I thought it was so nice to see her let go of her fears and controls.

@Sofia-jx5sv Год назад

@@KimikoMaui I agree with you!

@Lunatic108 Год назад

I think a lot of male haters only did that because the All In process says "eat at a comfortable level" which can mean to gain weight and not be slim or lean anymore i.e. in their eyes getting "fat". They obviously dont like "fat" women, so they hated on the All In process solely because they want women to be slim and lean... its pure sexism and misogyny, because they dont care about the womens comfort, they only care about their looks.

@ninafugmann573 3 года назад

who tf cares about abs and being shredded really when you're 30 and fit and you can eat freely... the quality of life is what matters and eating guiltfree is what's making people happy!

@GarrettMusic1 3 года назад

I agree, I'd rather live my life being healthy that going too far and being too skinny

@Ninashalawa 3 года назад

EXACTLYYYY

@wistfulsighs7791 3 года назад

To the question, "Why did men especially respond negatively to your all-in?" I have observed since my 20s (and I am now in my 50s), that anything a woman does that affects her appearance that has nothing to do with what men find appealing, invokes hostility. Now men make decisions all the time about their appearance that have nothing to do with what women find appealing. But somehow when a woman cuts her hair because it's easier to take care of or to look more professional or even in support of a relative going through chemo, I have heard relentless hostility. It's as if, "How dare she have another priority besides looking good for us men!" That said, I also noticed that men's idea of what is appealing varies. But guys into fitness seeing a girl choosing to gain weight might find her less appealing and feel slighted that she dare to have some other priority than wanting to be pleasing to them.

@nicolew7818 3 года назад

The book The Beauty Myth talks a bit about the societal "ideal" that women have a very specific line to toe and the backlash that can be received from doing anything outside of that ideal. It's a great book, if you haven't already read it I highly recommend it 🙂

@wistfulsighs7791 3 года назад

@@nicolew7818 Yes. It was Naomi Wolf's book, "The Beauty Myth" that I had in mind when I wrote the comment. I read the book when it was published. While I agreed with her description of the result, I disagreed with the source. I appreciate your recommendation. Recommending books that help to hone, evaluate and broaden our opinions on any matter of political relevance and open forums of political discussion, are key elements of creating a better world! Thank you for responding :)

@jl4260 3 года назад

This is so true. I don't even know if those men are consciously aware of it, it could be coming from an unconscious place, but they are definitely guilty of this. My whole life I've had men try to control my appearance and get hostile when I wanna make a decision that they don't approve of lol. One of those things was getting into distance running like my mum, so I could complete my first marathon by 22. My own dad scoffed at me and said I'd lose all my curves in my "prime years". I just said I can't lose what I never had in the first place lmaooo. But it's sad he couldn't be proud of his daughter for wanting to achieve a goal. Men do the same with female body hair and just all sorts of things. I think it's because they're conditioned to associate a woman's intrinsic value with her appearance. The men with status get the supermodels...it's a power fantasy.

@wistfulsighs7791 3 года назад

@@jl4260 Such a shame! My dad once told me not to get too muscular because muscular women are unfeminin looking. I suppose they meant well. That is, he knew I was hoping to one day attract a male love partner and so in his way, he was letting me know because he felt that gaining muscle could pose an obstruction to that objective. I suppose your dad had the same intentions.But sometimes a girl has other goals (like health and fitness). Sigh

@esmeraldahernandez1018 3 года назад

YESSS! I went through this recently but this was about my breasts & how they’re causing me physical pain that I’ve considered getting breast reduction. As soon as I mentioned it, ALL the men in my comments were guilting me saying “you shouldn’t get it, it won’t look good” “you shouldn’t get a breast reduction, many women wish they had your size breasts” as if my priority was beauty rather than health , i also was disgusted how they tried making me feel guilty for women who do not have large breasts. I also went through this when i chopped my hair off into a pixie to start my hair journey, & for some reason those same men flooded my messages telling me that i shouldn’t have cut it, that they had a solution to getting my hair healthy that didn’t involve cutting it, JUST so that i can fit into their standards of what I needed to look like. I will never understand why some men foam at the mouth over women have agency over their health, fitness, & overall body.

@allisonjohn6389 3 года назад

Not me just thinking about how nice her arms look the entire video 🤦‍♀️

@leratoslittlecorner 3 года назад

I literally can’t look away😅

@mariaLOVE1212 3 года назад

Omg me too! She looks so good

@hannah-rf9tq 3 года назад

me with my spaghetti arms: 👁👄👁

@Ferngullies 3 года назад

Same

@katrinajenkins1762 3 года назад

Right?!! but also just thinking about the freedom that comes with not being so concerned about food.

@katielange4052 3 года назад

The fact that she was able to defy what society told her “fitness” was and redefine it to actually fit a healthy narrative is amazing. She truly is inspiring and deserves to be at the very top of the fitness industry.

@halleallsop5200 3 года назад

Because of your “all in” video, I decided to calm TF down with stressing about food and have never felt better! I don’t constantly crave random food and eat a whole bag of chips in one sitting.

@sierraloghan6097 3 года назад

Omg congrats!

@jackslime___2651 3 года назад

Same

@Kelly-mq8ud 3 года назад

Same, its long journey but same

@katieb3929 3 года назад

Your current confidence makes you look that much more attractive.

@brabbit548 3 года назад

You look so happy and gourgeous. You have always been but now girl ✨THE CONFIDENCE ✨ I admire you.

@nannoreul 3 года назад

I don’t think most men realize that leanness happens way less easily on women than men. I think they think we just “don’t work hard enough”

@sueblack5794 3 года назад

When we are designed to hold onto more fat and they are designed to hold onto more muscle.

@zyaicob 2 года назад

people need to get out of the idea that lean = "good" shape the human body needs fat, it needs to have not to little and not too much because both are bad obviously, but the human body needs fat as much as it needs muscle

@susanjane4646 3 года назад

Okay so your eyeshadow matches your leggings and that's more put together than my entire life hahaha Edit: Also you’re a rockstar 💕

@PeteOnPurpose 3 года назад

Haha that’s possibly the greatest response I’ve ever seen 😂

@ladonnamendoza2297 3 года назад

😂😂😂

@mary17ify 3 года назад

when she closes her eyes, I thought she got patched by someone.

@yudehdee 3 года назад

Dead!

@saraazizam4519 3 года назад

I Love her style 😍

@Coffee384 3 года назад

I have immense respect for the way you take care of your mom. So many people just leave their aging parents because it’s too much trouble, their life is more important and truthfully it’s damn hard to make those sacrifices. I admire you most for that.

@mbw365 3 года назад

I'm a man, but I have enough life experience ( a nice way of saying I've been around the sun a few times) to know that I make plenty of mistakes. I'm always happy to change my mind in the face of a better approach. Between your "all in" video and Jeff's interview with Eric Trexler, I managed to figure out that I was undereating tremendously. I didn't go "all in", but I started eating when I was hungry, and eating to satiety, and over the course of a couple weeks, I saw and felt dramatic improvement. My experience almost certainly pales in comparison to what you went through, but I would like to say thanks for posting it. It really helped me to see my problem, and that change has made my life a lot better.

@margotttttt 3 года назад

The level of self control that Stephanie had before her all-in journey (and still has!) blows my mind. I can’t imagine being that hungry all the time and maintaining that level of self discipline.

@titapirec 3 года назад

It's called an eating disorder. Not something to be proud about:)

@megan5495 3 года назад

"Men just wanna help women". No, men just wanna correct women. Jeff gave a perfect example, where he said that if he has a butt wink when squatting, men won't comment as much correcting him. Why? Because men will look at Jeff, know his channel and content, and know Jeff knows what he's talking about. But the men commenting about Steph's butt wink are assuming she doesn't know... because she's a woman. Women in the fitness industry STILL have to deal with people assuming they just don't know that much about weight lifting. It's still seen as a men's thing, and even though there is far more acceptance of women, the acceptance tends to come from women who are heavy lifters. Women who don't body build aren't accepted easily by men within the industry; and that's fine. We, as women, shouldn't strive to be accepted by men. But it explains why men are more critical of women, particularly in Steph's case where she moved away from the extreme body building community

@kailamcd 3 года назад

Absolutely all of this. What's crazy is that it's well documented that women have an easier time with mind muscle connection and form correction. We've got accuracy built into us at a higher rate than men. If a women has a baby issue in her squat form, chances are she can still get a better workout than a man because her body will tell her something isn't quite right eventually (especially on leg day, Jeff has a video on the difference between the sexes that demonstrated this).

@dnd1007 3 года назад

Agree. And I think Jeff answered diplomatically, which is good. But yes, I agree that the word 'correct' is probably more accurate than 'help'.

@donna8904 3 года назад

mansplaining 😑

@rendangtok 3 года назад

Brings me back to the time when a random guy came over to offer me unsolicited advice on my dead lift form. Dude was talking out of his ass since his advice would definitely screw up my back.

@irmanaranjo755 3 года назад

That’s literally what Jeff was trying to say without being too aggressive about it and Stephanie knew what he meant to

@sophieg8522 3 года назад

Also, honestly, it is a loud minority who preferred you as thinner...MOST thought and knew you were sick and too thin. You are beautiful no matter what but a healthy body wins everytime.

@ninafugmann573 3 года назад

the bodyshaming during your journey was UNBELIEVABLE. almost like men can't let a woman LIVE

@Luxmundee 3 года назад

It's actually not a surprise especially once you see the (real life) sh*t men do and say to women in gyms/posting fitness content reported by @youlooklikeaman on instagram. Men's ego is bigger than their brain. Truly.

@megan5495 3 года назад

I STILL see people attacking Steph for not saying she had an eating disorder. Maybe she did, but she also might not have been professionally diagnosed so I actually appreciate that she didn't self-diagnose.

@CreativeCookie94 3 года назад

@@megan5495 exactly! I've talked to my therapist (he also specializes in eating disorders) about my struggles with eating that I had 13 years ago because I wasn't sure if I could have been diagnosed with anorexia at that point. He said he would have diagnosed me with it but he can't do it now because that was almost 14 years ago; but that's fine because I didn't want a diagnosis now, I was just curious. So when I tell someone I simply say that I've struggled with disordered eating.

@ninafugmann573 3 года назад

@@CreativeCookie94 see, and even if steph did struggle with some kind of disordered eating like psychology sees it, she wouldn't be diagnosed with an eating disorder now. Also, she doesn't need a diagnosis i think

@CreativeCookie94 3 года назад

@@ninafugmann573 totally agree. It also takes some time to fully realize what you've done to your body and use those words out loud. Maybe she's just not at that point yet and that's ok. But she also doesn't have to comment on it.

@vophie 3 года назад

Recovering from an eating disorder was crazy because I realized that hunger doesnt just literally mean your stomach feeling completely empty. It's always when you want to think, thinking about a food, wanting a food, feeling shaky, feeling naseous, and more. And regular people just eat when they experience these symptoms. I am so happy that we've both overcome extreme hunger because that was a horrible way to live! I still think about food but not all the time. Only half as much. So I've got my life back in a way.

@amayathomas1476 3 года назад

It’s crazy because you don’t realize before what she looks like compared to now it’s a whole new person

@nicollydalpra6030 3 года назад

It’s the fear of being fat. No girl wants to believe that gaining weight is the way out of this, we all want an answer that doesn’t “require” gaining weight.

@KisDraga 3 года назад

I think that's also why men attacked her. I think they have a similar fear not just for themselves but probably for their actual or imaginary partner "letting themselves go" and respond in a rude and aggressive manner even though she never did that. She continued to be healthy and active.

@nicollydalpra6030 3 года назад

@@KisDraga 100% agreed. I’m pretty sure 1 out of 10000 guys out there would be supportive like Jeff is (at least what we know from the videos).

@kailamcd 3 года назад

Agree! Fatphobia is at the center of so much of the accepted fitness and nutrition advice in the industry and in society at large.

@melxcdy4779 3 года назад

Exactly.

@scarletstonem3233 3 года назад

if u start eating what your body ask for you are not gonna gain weight and if u do you are allowed to

@icecat4823 3 года назад

As a normal weight girl, I finally get over the "constantly want to lose 10 more lbs" mindset lately. It's the same as "we will never feel like we are making enough money", the beauty standard in this society also makes us think that "if we lose that extra 10 lbs, 20lbs, then we will be hot and sexy and whatever". The goal of losing weight and get fit should be all about making us feel good! (unless you need to be fit for your job) I would say that as long as we eat good, feel good, look healthy, that's all it is the matter!

@lifesoundscape2746 3 года назад

I’ve never been a RU-vid commenter but You talking about your mom made tear up. I’m experiencing the exact same thing with my mom. Keep taking care of mom. You’re doing a great job. Remember you can only do what is within your control.

@ozfrankie 3 года назад

i consider you guys lucky to have moms to take care of...

@Oyuki-Mayonesa 3 года назад

@@ozfrankie sorry for your loss

@a.nonymous2089 3 года назад

ME TOO!

@mozanmohamed2332 3 года назад

girl you look absolutely gorgeous and what matter the most is that you're happy now that what matters

@sportybeth 3 года назад

The whole “fitness is leanness” is an issue in itself. Because fitness isn’t leannes. CrossFit proves that, we actually test fitness and you can’t be that lean and actually perform. We need to encourage more people to focus on what their body can do rather than what it looks like.

@sophiestephen370 3 года назад

AMEN ❤️

@emilylaronde872 3 года назад

Hey Bethany, great comment!

@naimadelafeunte9165 3 года назад

Exactly

@zvezdoblyat 3 года назад

Callisthenics

@luna_belle5029 3 года назад

When there are no forbidden foods, there's never "cheating"... it's always just eating.

@alexiahahah 3 года назад

True! I wish Stephanie would call it something other than "cheat days" because I feel like it feeds into diet culture and perpetuates to idea that she is "cheating" on a diet

@laurenmcarthur8688 3 года назад

Alexia Hyde I think she is calling it a “cheat day” because she was referring to her cheat day videos and what she used to call a cheat day

@leapoffaithh 3 года назад

@@laurenmcarthur8688 its not healthy language. she doesnt have to call it anything. if she wants to be a good role model she should just say "what i eat in a day"

@Angelcatsun 3 года назад

Love that

@kailamcd 3 года назад

Petition to call them party days

@missmadmadmadi 3 года назад

IM JUST HAPPY TO NOT BE HINGRY ANYMORE!!! Girl YES! I did an unintentional “all in” in college when I was finally so sick of trying to be skinny and what finally pushed me to make a change was the fact that I didn’t want to obsess over food anymore! I literally had the thought “I want to use this brain space for something other than food/calories”

@erinmurphy5036 3 года назад

I have had this thought before too!! Imagine all the other thoughts that could be had!!

@jabberwockylove 3 года назад

Imagine a world were we would learn/teach that food is energy for our brains (and other organs) to function properly 😮 instead of being 'a way to control your physical appearance/level of attractiveness'🙄

@aviewer8209 3 года назад

Duuude she looks so good. When she was super skinny she didn’t look this good. Kinda looked skeleton-like back then. But now she is so strong and is still very lean. Also happy people always look better! I am so happy for her and I relate because I am on a similar journey.

@ninafugmann573 3 года назад

even if gaining weight didn't have this whole ass purpose, why can't people just leave you alone

@brill34536 3 года назад

because unfortunately people have opinions and this is a publicly posted video

@CassieTranthesuperfitbabe 3 года назад

Perhaps people feel angry if they're uncomfortable, and those who looked at Stephanie during the middle or beginning of her "all in" journey that felt uncomfortable, so they took it to social media and started barking up that tree :/ it's one thing if Stephanie did indeed make all in up and not base anything off science, but she studied so many papers and spoke with dietitians and other specialists in the health space before embarking on her journey! Seriously, people need to get a hobby

@tal4976 3 года назад

omg literally RIGHT like I'm in All In now and I always feel like I have to explain why I'm 50 pounds heavier, like I can't just be this weight and not have anyone say anything

@ninafugmann573 3 года назад

@@tal4976 omg i wish you all the best and i hope your all in is going well! don't let people judge you for the struggles you're going through and how you chose to fix it!

@tal4976 3 года назад

@@ninafugmann573 thank you I've been getting a lot of support from my friends and family and people on RU-vid so it's been really amazing!!

@jordyn3638 3 года назад

I think men also feel a sort of "entitlement" towards women and their bodies - so ofc it makes sense that they have to get in there and provide you with their unsolicited opinions.

@TheMightyOdin 3 года назад

I think you are wrong.

@vagabond4576 3 года назад

Most women have their requirments in terms of what they want in a man. Like them being taller. Nothing wrong with that. But it goes both ways.

@TheMightyOdin 3 года назад

@tjašika Unless you are a man who has done this to women how do you know anything about what it’s like or what we think? I’m not pretending like I know exactly what women are thinking.

@sammyz4eva 3 года назад

@@vagabond4576 it’s fine to have your preferences but not to feel entitled enough to tell women how they have to look

@hannahwalmer1124 3 года назад

TheMightyOdin same goes to you then.

@camiladubon1602 3 года назад

PLEASE RECREATE YOUR CHEAT DAY!!! It would be so interesting to see the difference now!!

@jasonrios3120 3 года назад

I think it would be great to keep her old unhealthy habits in the past

@bridgetl5904 3 года назад

Yes

@VJ-gx7zd 3 года назад

It was and is an eating disorder so probably not a good idea.

@theresa1817 3 года назад

@@jasonrios3120 Oh hell yes!! I can' t see any sense in " secretly promoting" these disordered behaviors!

@littleflor2975 3 года назад

Why would anyone want to watch that?

@HaHaLooLoo 3 года назад

stephanie youre too nice, it's called MANSPLAINING honey. the bane of every woman's existence

@marinamarinamarinaa 3 года назад

“Honey” 😂

@HaHaLooLoo 3 года назад

sorry :( I hope honey doesn't come off as condescending!! I meant it with love!

@jasonshmummers8911 3 года назад

@@HaHaLooLoo They don't have women splaining because women can't explain anything.

@marinamarinamarinaa 3 года назад

@@HaHaLooLoo haha no you're fine i just thought it sounded ironic to me because i dislike that word, but no hate, I agree with you!!!!

@esmeraldahernandez1018 3 года назад

@@jasonshmummers8911 are you the person she’s talking about?🤣

@bucklau 3 года назад

Hey yo shout out to the homie Jeff for being so supportive of you, your mother, etc. Weaker and more selfish men would leave, or force you to make a decision. Happy for you two, don't listen to the naysayers who try and direct your lives!

@timothymorgan8140 3 года назад

hey yall, I wanted to put in a perception of a guy. I am a huge fan of Stephanie. After waiting some while to see the comments of the other viewers, as well as, forgetting to make a comment due to COVID. I wanted to address this question from the seemingly lower level of male followers. The question of "Why did men especially respond negatively to your all-in?" My answer: The initial idea of going all in I had a natural jerk of like "why?!". Once I saw that she was happy, I did not care too much after that. Now seeing how she fluctuate her body weight down to a natural set point, it obviously was the best decision for her. The reason why I had a natural jerk reaction I think was this "against the standard" like "who gains weight? Like why?". It was so against the social norm for not just women, but for the fitness community. It was shocking. Personally, I also was thinking about myself. I have similar problems of mass hunger and body image issues. So when this skinny, intelligent, and social media popular person took the jump to not care what people thought, was internally difficult for me to understand, due to my own issues. I do want to say from anecdotal conversations with friends who do body shame women or did take this idea of a women gaining weight negatively - the comments about how men think women dont know anything about nutrition and fitness is very true. There is a huge double standard ESPECIALLY in the gym culture of Powerlifting and bodybuilding.

@dwjamaicamakeupandmusings6222 3 года назад

We love this introspection and honesty👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽

@boyleboy12317 3 года назад

Thanks for the insight!

@33Lauramusic33 3 года назад

seeing you taking care of your mum makes you respect you even more. huge respect.

@otomenotiming 3 года назад

She's like: Here is me, no longer shredded and fit. And I'm like: What's she talking about? Where is she not super slim? Her earlobes?

@beautifulbrittany1868 3 года назад

Otome no Timing Exactly what I said! She looks almost as thin as before!

@noursaleh5171 3 года назад

@@beautifulbrittany1868 but even better now!

@radhahaunaa5491 3 года назад

@Eriicaa yesss that’s it, she doesn’t want to live in order to look shredded or fit anymore

@gaiapicchetti8557 3 года назад

I think the idea of attenpting an old cheat day would be super interesting! but only if you feel comfortable doing it

@zippytippie453 3 года назад

Sending you ALL the LOVE!! I am 42. When I was 30 I was heavily involved in the fitness modeling industry. I’d been a “gym rat” since I was 15. 5 days a week 2 hrs a day weight training to maintain “industry standards of female fitness.” Working out through both pregnancies and even hitting the gym hard 1 month after brain surgery because I feared weight gain and muscle loss. I had a breaking point a few yrs ago and just didn’t feeling like it was the best thing for MY body anymore. So I stopped the crazy diet and scheduled meals and portion controlled eating. I fell out of the “fitness community” that I’d been heavily involved in, but found a new positive me, and happier me, and a healthier me. YOU are AWESOME. Thank you for sharing your ALL IN journey and showing both sides. You are absolutely beautiful inside and out. Anyone nay saying your methods are not living in your body!! People love to preach to other people, but we are all individuals and no one thing is right for everyone. Love you girl.

@nickyduvall414 3 года назад

Honestly I think the reason why SOME men had a problem with your all-in journey is 2 fold. 1. I think they see a beautiful woman and assume you’re less intelligent or capable than they are, they perhaps see you as a little princess who doesn’t know what she’s doing and needs help/needs saving 😂 and 2. Just straight-up fat-phobia. They see a beautiful woman gaining weight and fear the idea of you “getting fat” because they don’t find larger bodies attractive.

@EmilieDoeringtheDashboardDiva 3 года назад

Re some men: I think there’s this internal/mental struggle to be both a “good person” and simultaneously be allowed to view women as a sexual fantasy for them. For instance, part of the fit-girl fantasy myth is that it’s “good for the woman’s health” to be at certain beauty/body standards. When someone draws attention to the fact that at times or in some cases, the sexual fantasy they want to see is mutually exclusive with the health of the woman at the other end of that fantasy, they find it personally insulting or threatening to their worldview. They can no longer have it both ways. They either have to admit they want to feel entitled to have the women they “consume as media” at a certain level of visual fantasy at the cost of her health, or that maybe their fantasy isn’t realistic and this person isn’t “their fantasy” but a person. Ie, if men saw previous “you” as “proof” that there exists the ‘perfect smart and thin and sexy and sporty’ woman out there (and maybe someday they could be with someone like you, if not you), then your honesty that you were unhappy at that time and it was unsustainable shatters the dream. Or, as that famous book “Ways of Seeing” puts it... “Men act and women appear. Men look at women. Women watch themselves being looked at.” This dynamic is the traditional set-up, and as we move away from this into more self-actualization for all people, it’s going to upset some people to have to recognize what we used to consider “normal” between men and women is pretty messed up. Aka you’re killing their dreams. 😂

@katiakozielly9221 3 года назад

“You have to be ‘just right’ for society to accept you” this resonated with me

@cassandrajames4541 3 года назад

Attempting an old cheat day would be so cool! A lot of people struggling w restriction feel like once they start eating a lot of food they're just gonna keep eating that much forever (like you said in the question about binging). So seeing how you feel now vs. when you had extreme hunger would be really insightful. you're journey has been so inspiring, thank you for making videos

@thestarswillshineagain1824 3 года назад

As someone constantly falling in and out of ED habits ive started this all in diet and for the first time ever i dont feel guilty! I have been having nutritious food and also my mom made banana cake and I ate 2 slices with no guilt. If i want something, im eating it! I feel so much better already, i usually feel like im starvimg all day and wait til im in pain to eat🤦🏿‍♀️ thankyou so much stephanie❤

@dianak2452 3 года назад

I nearly cried when Steph looked like she was gonna tear up talking about her mom. Sending u guys lots of love & strength♥️ xx

@emel3925 5 месяцев назад

Not being hungry all the time really is SO amazing, and i have you to thank for getting there myself. I also had to do an “all in” year, completely listening to my hunger cues, and it was seriously rough mentally…but OMG was it worth it. I literally never would have believed it was even possible to just casually have chocolate in the house and forget about it. The peace is invaluable 🙏

@EmBurglar 3 года назад

I believe that men with control issues and poor relationships with the opposite gender often feel like telling women how to live, what to look like, what to eat, is them “helping”. It’s often just a narcissistic fantasy and they have zero self awareness. They don’t understand that their opinion on someone else’s life (mainly women’s lives) doesn’t matter. You’re doing so great and are such an inspiration! Add on: I also wanted to mention that there are many men out there who LOVE to talk about the differences between male and female anatomy. They love pointing out the differences. But these same men can’t have an adult conversation about female anatomy, menstruation, pregnancy, or anything to that affect without cringing. Some people don’t want to learn they just want to teach, even if they know nothing about the subject...

@catherinewilson8896 3 года назад

Yes, my dad kept telling me how "concerned" he was that I'm not doing enough exercise. and then when i said it's not his business he said: "i know you said it's none of my business but I'm concerned you're not getting enough exercise". sheesh.

@jamieg4440 3 года назад

"men don't think women know anything about nutrition".....She literally has a PhD in science....

@msmilano7091 3 года назад

She said in an earlier video that she knew very little about Nutrition.during her very lean days. Her area of study was in cancer research/ biochemistry To be fair, even Medical doctors aren’t given much information on nutrition during their time at university. Surprising, but true.

@weshervey2202 3 года назад

Facts, although the degree if I’m right is in kinesiology which is the body mechanics / exercise science

@shleedimes 3 года назад

I get what you mean!! That was my first thought too!! Gotta love mansplaining...

@TheRedChai 3 года назад

@@weshervey2202 Let me set you straight - she has a BS in Molecular Biology, two Masters, one in Women's Health, the other in Pathology and Cell Biology, and a PhD in Cancer Research. All of that subsequently in her twenties - quite impressive. However, note - none of it is nutrition or kinesiology. Take care

@weshervey2202 3 года назад

@TheRedChai thanks

@sophiareigh 3 года назад

I was at the fittest I’ve ever been before quarantine started, and I beat myself up SO much for gaining weight and not feeling like working out. I was extremely hungry all the time and felt guilty after consuming any food, but I just couldn’t stop, and I hated myself for it! Your story has seriously helped me so much, thank you for sharing your journey!

@dietitianandreaurizar 3 года назад

Who’s scrolling through the comments like 👀

@jenniferlopez6839 3 года назад

Yes gurl

@transformxruby 3 года назад

hahaha i always do with stephs vids

@mariangiecabriles5548 3 года назад

I can only sit and watch your Q&A because of how amazing they are edited. You include so many visuals that it is such a pleasure to watch. You are stunning inside and out!

@trinale7562 3 года назад

note to self: over disciplining yourself leads to a faster bounce back. eat healthy yes, but also allow yourself to live your life and enjoy the delicious food life has to offer. you can still be healthy amidst all this, but be happy.

@TeeakaGigglez 3 года назад

Men like to mind a woman's business period. They love to constantly "help" us meanwhile you're a doctor. You have spent years in the health community and doing the research and putting in the work. Also I think men just hated that they can't enjoy you the way you looked. Men have an issue with us having autonomy.

@chiledawgg 3 года назад

PREACH

@Luxmundee 3 года назад

Men are just huge egos wrapped in skin. Periodt. 😂

@GardenGuy1942 3 года назад

*she has a doctorate, is not a doctor

@GardenGuy1942 3 года назад

Nah, nothing about Steph putting on weight was wrong, the problem was that she DOES care what other people think. She has anxiety issues and is now dependent on social media for a career (rather than her PhD work). Unfortunately, it’s just the nature of the internet for it to bring out the worst in people (aka comment section). She is far too emotionally raw in videos, and this makes her vulnerable. Being easily provoked by comments incites more nasty comments. I’ve never seen male fitness channels get so emotional ab what people think, video after video after video. Other female fitness channels on YT aren’t as raw. Steph needs to work on herself or upload vids somewhere else than YT bc anonymity element won’t change.

@nicolecaban2226 3 года назад

Right?? It’s like, “yeah Stephanie has a PhD and Jeff has exercise science expertise, but go off random gym bro you must be the one who is right”

@amelia2449 3 года назад

Stephanie is so real and genuine, and I love how she just shares so much with the internet about her journey

@blynnslife646 3 года назад

I’m not on any kind of fitness journey or trying to figure out my health. I’m just another woman who understands everything you are saying! It’s been a joy to watch your videos and even greater joy has been watching you being who you need to be for YOUR OWN HEALTH. Good job Steph!

@laurenadler4727 3 года назад

I feel like someone has to point this out.... your editing is so fire !! always get hyped when you upload :)

@kelzirbel 3 года назад

and the camera quality is always fireee

@pinkflower6010 3 года назад

everything is fire:-)

@MB-yj4nn 3 года назад

I think the idea of “losing control” by “letting yourself go” is what drove a lot of men to have that visceral reaction to your journey. But rather than it coming from a place of “men losing control over women,” I think it was more men’s insecurities and fear of “losing control” over themselves if they just ate (no preoccupation with aesthetics/being super shredded or jacked etc). And they were projecting that onto you, because they saw it as you having a lack of self control, no willpower, etc which a lot of men, especially those in the fitness industry, pride themselves on. They want to believe that once you do something like “all in,” you’re just gonna be a fat, lazy, unhealthy blob confirming their own biases about what it means to be “healthy vs unhealthy” and “disciplined vs weak.” And then of course all the other stuff such as not fully understanding how women’s hormones come into play, following only snippets of the journey before commenting, underestimating women’s knowledge on nutrition, etc probably factored in as well.

@wooof. 3 года назад

Adding from another comment from a previous man who was a hater. Jealous that she was reaching acceptance and happiness doing the opposite of the normal suffering you are 'expected' to endure. Why do I have to starve myself to be ripped and work so hard while others don't have to? Really questions your core values. Misery loves company.

@rachelfirst8621 3 года назад

I have been struggling a lot with my arm size since gaining back healthy weight - my husband always pulls up your videos to remind me that I’m OKAY and I can’t thank you enough for all you do🖤

@jewelsbarbie 3 года назад

That’s amazing that your husband is so loving and supportive.😌💞

@postgradisrad 3 года назад

The last question hit me🥺 I love how committed you are to your mom and i love how Jeff loves her just as much. I know you guys got everything under control. Love you both so much❤️ sending you so much love and light ✨

@ludovicadigregorio6310 3 года назад

I really think that the role Jeff had in that journey was SOOOO important and ammirable! Not everyone would have been so comprehensive! Good job girl!

@celineanagarcia 3 года назад

I love you Stephanie ! Thank you for being my light throughout my ED recovery ❤️

@StephanieButtermore 3 года назад

I love you too!! I'm happy I can help!! 🙏😘

@selenetorres8228 3 года назад

Tbh your “fit version” seemed to me under weight. Even though you looked muscular. I’m so glad you did this and it worked. Even though you went through a lot. You look healthy now. And I 👀 some muscle now your arms look great. I’m so happy you feel happy 😃

@MelB868 3 года назад

She looked awful and annoriex and gross she is still too skinny she needs to gain some weight

@pseudonym5577 3 года назад

@@MelB868 lmao ok sis

@kikko422 3 года назад

@@MelB868 Umm... don't body shame her.

@colleenkensey2580 3 года назад

@@MelB868 I agree. She was SCARY SKINNY!!

@miabrock1457 3 года назад

I am so glad she has a platform. She is so real and open about her highs and lows and its honestly just great seeing someone on social media being so personable!!

@thaterinb245 3 года назад

I have such respect for you, Stephanie. I was crying through your ending because you’re just a truly good person ❤️ God bless you and Jeff and your wonderful relationship!

@nikkyhoulihan7187 3 года назад

Men’s negative reaction to your all in journey is pure sexism: assuming you don’t know what you’re doing, not catering to the male gaze and everything else echoed in the comments

@nicoletinkham7298 3 года назад

You could be right about that. I'm also wondering if men struggle with food/craving/hunger as much as women? Maybe they just don't understand why Stephanie started this journey? 🤔

@nottheone582 3 года назад

ding ding. misogyny for the win. the kicker is that women can perpetuate it as well - sometimes even worse than men because it's a projection of our own self-hate

@adk5997 3 года назад

bex0r hardly. I truly don’t care what fat mam got shredded, and would not go to comment section to talk them down... what for??? Never thought of that. If I watched any man losing weight video if I ever commented was well done. If they got fat again I did not feel urge to tell them they are loser and look bad or should do this or that.. zero interest in that. By the way, men should leave this lady to her capable boyfriends hands! These videos are relatable to us ladies. You men are not getting it at all. Is not for you to tell her what you like her to look like! No one cares! (She hopefully gives 0 fucks) she finally reached her perfect weight as opposed to her skeletal muscly past self. (And it was hard to transition)

@ashleighleigh6328 3 года назад

When you hit play on this video thinking you were going to hear a couple answers about being all in but are shocked that Stephanie lays it all out there about the darkness and real ness that is the super fit fitness industry! 👏🏼 I 👏🏼 Am 👏🏼 Here 👏🏼 For 👏🏼 This!!!! Stephanie you look so dang good and so happy and healthy! I’m so happy for you and so grateful you have shared and continue to share this journey with us.

@geebatart 3 года назад

girl you look so amazing. and I don't mean "you look skinny" - you look healthy and strong!!

@charlottebasile3631 3 года назад

My personal theory as to why people had such a reaction to your All-In journey is that we as a society have spent so much time idealizing the exact, shredded physique you had that all of those people probably wish they had what you did and couldn’t fathom there being any negative side effects, or something that would possibly make any of that ‘not worth it.’ In their eyes, it would be like winning the lottery and then donating all the money. I’m so glad you’ve finally found peace with food, though, and that you aren’t letting all the negative voices wear you down!! :))

@candaceellison7147 2 года назад

Prayers for your mom. It’s amazing how you and your sister care for her.

@pinkflower6010 3 года назад

it isn't selfish, that your family takes presidence at the moment! i respect you with all of my heart for helping your mom with everything you have💕 you're a real angel!

@atelierfrost 3 года назад

I don't really understand how a cheat day would even figure into being "all in" or intuitive eating--there's nothing to cheat on, right? There's no such thing as cheating when you're just eating as your body is signaling you should.

@marinamarinamarinaa 3 года назад

She should just call it an adventurous day of eating or something lol

@josiedurruty6457 3 года назад

I liked the idea of repeating an old "cheat day" she did before......she probably couldn't finish all the food because she isn't that hungry anymore

@azicat1459 3 года назад

What like wasting enough food to feed a village in the third world?

@colleenkensey2580 3 года назад

I agree! "Cheat" implies she's doing something bad. Allowing yourself to eat what you want when you want is NOT cheating.

@fomalhauto 3 года назад

@@colleenkensey2580 I like to use the term "Treat Day"

@kayleigh2632 3 года назад

you and your sister are doing an incredible job with your mom, you should be proud of yourself. and jeff is great for supporting you and understanding your commitment to her through it all!

@olivegreenwell6752 3 года назад

Yooooo can we talk about how cute steph and Jeff are. I mean, i loved the video-but those are two are adorable.

@marydaugherty2581 3 года назад

Hi! I'm not sure I understand the concept of a "cheat day," when my understanding is that you've been eating what you want, when you want, to satiety, for months. What is there to cheat?

@TheRedChai 3 года назад

For the youtube monetization, of course. Money money money Unfortunately for Steph, she is out of ideas for quality videos, that is why she is talking about herself for hours on end.

@Luxmundee 3 года назад

@@TheRedChai bitter, hateful people are so amusing to watch. From a psychology standpoint, it's almost always because they are unhappy and discontent with their own lives. Hope whatever's making you act like an ass will go away soon and you'll find peace, which will make you be a decent human towards others. Amen.

@caitlin329 3 года назад

@@TheRedChai What the hell is the point of spending time complaining in the comments of a RU-vid video you 'don't care about'? There must be some personal problem there, I'm sorry. Envy maybe? Wanting to feel superior? Oh so many potential causes, I hope you grow from this nonsense.

@caitlin329 3 года назад

To answer the question- she does eat the amount that her body wants in terms of hunger cues. But she also eats generally healthy. It's less eating everything, but more fulfilling her hunger signals in a healthy way. I think if she did do a version now, you'd probably see how like half a donut would be enough whereas previously she'd want multiple, for example.

@silenceofthepams 3 года назад

@Kendra Mullen but what would even be the point? why force yourself to overeat and waste food? I used to struggle with stress eating and I would never purposefully force myself to binge to "prove how far I've come." It's like having an alcoholic do a bar crawl to prove how much they've recovered. It's totally nuts and irresponsible. Idk how she has the audacity to even consider it.

@perryyylovato4937 3 года назад

I saw ur cheat day videos & all in experience and got inspired to eat more. because of my eating disorder, mental health and especially drug addiction, i lost alot of weight & i was rlly unhealthy & unhappy. Right now i'm 5days clean from drugs & im eating more. Im allowing myself to eat the food i love and enjoy! I missed the feeling of being "hungry" and being strong. Im gaining my weight back, kinda scared but i know my body needs the nutritions... I am also lifting weight again, it helps me to controll my addiction and mental health, i feel ALOT more energized. Im so happy that i finally can say "hey i'm gaining weight but i look healthier than before"! thank u so much!💜🙏🏽

@chloea4323 3 года назад

On men's reactions: I'm sure you're right. Also -- and I've seen this idea echoed in other comments, too -- but I think it has to do with men's perceived ownership of women and their bodies. When they see a woman who fits in with culturally accepted standards of what is attractive -- thin, beautiful, or intelligent -- and she pushes back against any of those, it's a threat. Like, "how dare you not comply with my expectations of you?" When I got my nose pierced years ago, it wasn't *quite* as common as it is now. I got a huge hoop put in to protect the tissue in my nose. I would get weird, unsolicited reactions from men to the effect of, "I wouldn't have expected a girl like you to have a piercing like that." Backhanded compliment if I've ever heard one! It seemed like they were simultaneously attracted to and repulsed by me. After years of letting that marinate, I've come to think it's this sense of entitlement and ownership that makes men feel they even have the right to comment in the first place.

@audreystarr6166 2 года назад

I don't know how I haven't found you before now, but I'm so glad I did. My admiration for you is through the roof and I just have no words. This is by far the most thorough, well thought out, candid journey and expirament of the refeeding and restoration process. I was in a treatment facility for eating disorders and I went through a similar process physically after beginning to weight restore. Thank you from the bottom of my heart for the bravery it took to share this with us. You're amazing 👏

@practicallybalanced7749 3 года назад

Who else started their all in journey because of Stephanie? I'm almost a year in and can't even express how much this channel has helped me

@franzi4723 3 года назад

I don't know you, but you can be very proud😊❤ You got this!

@practicallybalanced7749 3 года назад

@@franzi4723 Thank you!

@thecosmicnaturopath8498 3 года назад

Absolutely! The fitness industry is vast, some of us are holistically minded and do not chase a muscular ideal! I am very into fitness and it is more about a balanced ratio of fat to muscle rather.

@БорянаИванова-ь8р 3 года назад

The part where you talk about how committed you are to taking care of your mom just makes me cry of happiness, because I am going through something similar with my mom and I know how much strength it takes to do this! I really love you and you are literally my role model and a reminder that me, you and everyone going through things like weight problems or a sick relative or anything else are not alone ! Thank you!

@fotinidimou5829 3 года назад

You look so incredibly beautiful and healthy! Your skin is glowing! Such an inspiration for girls these days and developing a healthy relationship with our body and nutrition.

@Blackonyeko 3 года назад

Yesssss she needs way more recognition!

@hjt5894 3 года назад

I think men's reactions are made up of four things: 1.) Men generally aren't taught about female reproductive systems or bodies. So I think the reaction is partly men genuinely not understanding the impact that consistently low body fat has on the female body 2.) So many female beauty standards are based on women with lower body fat. I think some men struggle to conceptualise that just because Western societies says that being thinner is more attractive and there is an assumption that attractive people must be healthy or they would not be attractive, does not mean thats true. 3.) I think they must also think that if this was a serious problem how come there are so many low body fat women walking about not talking about it - though in my opinion there are, its just they are talking to other women about it not men. 4.) And then just a sprinkle of misogyny and women not knowing what they're talking about on top of that.

@ZoeViola5353 3 года назад

Reading this comment section as a man has helped me knock off a few unintended biases I have towards women. Thank you ladies for that.

@erykalepper 3 года назад

Stephanie, you look so beautiful! Now and then. You inspire young girls like me to be healthier and stronger. Thank you for all that you do! :)

@ericanorton71 3 года назад

I recently watched the video about your year long journey because I've had insatiable hunger most of my life. I wanted to see how you made yours go away.... I tried eating what I want for a year and I just got obese, so that didn't work for me. What surprises me the most is that so many people are being negative about the way you look now. You look AMAZEBALLS. You look HEALTHY, happy, and super fit! My husband even agrees, you didn't look healthy when you were "shredded". You looked emaciated, sallow, and way too thin. It was a little alarming to see you like that (I've obviously only just recently discovered your channel). Thank you for sharing your journey, we really enjoyed your video. Please ignore the haters, you are beautiful and your size is perfect.

@UncertainlyJess 3 года назад

I would like to know how you feel about people saying you promoted eating disorders in other women. Do you think you influenced your audience negatively when you were shredded and sharing 10k cheat day videos?

@Tallimme 3 года назад

Nah, lets ignore that inconvenient little detail.

@VJ-gx7zd 3 года назад

She never will nor will she admit her eating disorder because then she'd have to take down her highly monetized binge videos.

@TheRedChai 3 года назад

She will either never answer this question, or the mental gymnastics (that she will employ to make it seem like that is not at all what she did) will give you a brain stroke.

@UncertainlyJess 3 года назад

"I didn't prescribe anyone else follow 'all in.'" Nah, she just made and sold t-shirts with the phrase written on it.

@Tallimme 3 года назад

@@TheRedChai Or that she somehow ends up as the victim anyway.

@tankyuwu1596 3 года назад

I'm currently in the hospital as an inpatient for annorexia recovery. I'm finding my love back for food and now I finally realise I don't eat to live, I live to eat. Hope I'll recover soon so I can get out and eat whatever I want :D.

@BabyMitsukai 3 года назад

Sending you well wishes for your recovery!

@PrincessOfTheYew 3 года назад

Wishing you well, love! You're so brave and strong!

@katBerk 3 года назад

Sending so much love!! How are you now ???

@saskiafinnan4216 3 года назад

i hope you are doing well, but you don't 'live to eat' either. There is so so so much more to life than food!

@TravelsWithLari 3 года назад

I love you Stephanie!!! ❤️❤️❤️🥺 I cried during your answer to last question where you mentioned how it might seem selfish prioritizing family over your relationship. It’s totally NOT selfish. You prioritizing family, is the most selfless thing to do. It’s family but not everyone cares after their family. You have a beautiful soul Stephanie. Thank yo for being you and sharing these honest Q&A’s with us. ❤️🥺

@sophialarae8289 3 года назад

Can you talk about your digestion now? Like do you digest everything the same day right after you eat? May be TMI but I don’t know what a normal digestion is.

@ab-mb8nq 3 года назад

I’m surprised men would criticize your transformation. I think the main critics are hardcore fitness dudes who are only into ripped women. Most guys prefer women in the shape that Stephanie is in now. Being lean is mainly attractive for men, but for women it’s actually better for them to have a moderate amount of body fat.

@katrinaasmrr 3 года назад

Stephanie has *such a vibrant personality.* She helps me with *my own body image....*

@Priyablasterfy 3 года назад

The cheat day video would be so interesting to see!!!!!

@jennadequesada 3 года назад

can everyone just agree that she is beyond amazing.. seriously such an inspiration in this community

@icantspell210 3 года назад

I think the reason people reacted badly is because they held you up to their standard of perfection, you had the discipline they were looking to achieve. When you decided to let go of that and be intuitive (something they are struggling/struggle with) they think their own work will fail or they are working hard to achieve something that is maybe not possible. It is more a reflection of their own stress, pressure than necessarily you as a person testing out your eating habits.

@merrybrigid6842 3 года назад

Men are socialized to be leaders and knowers from a young age. They are taught that explaining things to women, and defending those explanations no matter what, is what makes them valuable, important, and worthy of love. No surprise they don't see the harm they are doing in assuming knowledge they don't have when there are such powerful emotional motivation.

@happylife5654 3 года назад

I used to "fear being hungry" for years .. which makes it even worse. I totally get your opinion..

@Ieticia848 3 года назад

I appreciate all of your candor in sharing your all in journey. I would love to see more food videos from you, but they don’t have to be cheat days, just you enjoying good food! Your reactions are always the best!

@giorgiamariahritcan3421 3 года назад

I think that the thing about men "continuously correcting you during your All In Journey" is, honestly the fact that society suggests that women should be small, eat smaller portions. Therefore when a men (some men, I don't want to generalize) sees a woman trying to find her way out, going against what society imposes, is shocked, maybe a bit botherd, and so he tries to put that women on her place again. I think that the negative comments came mostly from men and not women, because even for the thinniest and smallest woman you definetly rappresent a change and what you do a "sort of revolution", while for men (again, some) it could reppresent something negative, because we, women, have to be small, eat little. That's my tought, I hope I made myself clear and I didn't mean to offend anyone. Peace✌🏽 BTW: i love and admire u

@samanthaheinz8888 3 года назад

this really helps me get over the fear of weight gain in recovery. like i look at stephanie bloated and gaining weight and i believe she still deserves happiness and living life to the fullest. now it is easier to feel that for myself too!