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How Can A Mother Lose Custody Of Her Child? 

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As mothers in the middle of custody battles, it can be easy to be overconfident and think you'll win. But this is not always the case - mothers can actually lose custody of her child. In today's episode, I am joined once again by Sid, as we discuss four points that mothers do that costs them custody of their child!
00:15 Child custody cases
00:50 Recent case involving a mother who lost custody of her child
02:32 Co-parenting
03:30 When the mother is hyperfocused on the father
06:15 Not accepting feedback
07:52 Don't use child/ren as pawn/s
11:30 Obey court orders
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@LiveOnPurposeTV
@LiveOnPurposeTV 3 года назад
What If My Child Just Doesn't Care About Consequences - ru-vid.com/video/%D0%B2%D0%B8%D0%B4%D0%B5%D0%BE-Eu9_EXaVzOo.html
@claudiacoury1558
@claudiacoury1558 3 года назад
This works great if you’re NOT dealing with a Narcissist!!! You guys have no idea how hard it is to work with them. They are impossible!!
@LiveOnPurposeTV
@LiveOnPurposeTV 3 года назад
Claudia Coury, I do feel your pain, I have worked with narcissists in my practice. Hang in there for the kids.
@eudanielesouza
@eudanielesouza 3 года назад
exactly. My husbands wife is a narcisist. OMG it's impossible. They suck your energy and they are never satisfied
@sharinmythoughts2510
@sharinmythoughts2510 3 года назад
@@eudanielesouza STAY STRONG, STAY CALM AND WITH CONFIDENCE. HAVE GOOD BOUNDARIES! TREAT THEM FAIRLY REGARDLESS OF HOW THEY ACT. YOUR KIDS ARE WATCHING 💖💖💖🙏🙏🙏
@jimenahernandez7645
@jimenahernandez7645 3 года назад
@@LiveOnPurposeTV I get you. I’m going CRAZY
@bluebird6300
@bluebird6300 3 года назад
@@LiveOnPurposeTV have you worked with Covert Narcissists? So baffling...
@s1ke6
@s1ke6 3 года назад
I’m going through this right now. 100% spot on. Mother constantly accuses me of disgusting things. It’s so sad that good dads (or moms) have to go through stuff like this.
@LiveOnPurposeTV
@LiveOnPurposeTV 3 года назад
Ernesto Moraila, it really is. It just makes everything more difficult for everyone.
@s1ke6
@s1ke6 3 года назад
@Mister Incognito attack after attack, I stay strong for my baby
@s1ke6
@s1ke6 3 года назад
@Mister Incognito always man. Thanks for the advise 🙏🏼
@hiaslayer
@hiaslayer 3 года назад
Then recommend a change in custody, problem solved. But you don’t as it’s “traumatic” for the child. It is only traumatic if the decision would be in favour of the child father relationship. Who snatched away the child first and makes accusations and establishes a new status quo “wins”. You (custody evaluators) could change it but you don’t.
@Lynn-ml7nn
@Lynn-ml7nn 2 года назад
I’m sorry you’re going through this. My son is going through the same issues. My son doesn’t even have his name on the back and the woman is stating my son is abusive with no merit.
@micfail2
@micfail2 4 года назад
This is an excellent video, far too many parents in this situation are more concerned with "winning" than they are with what is best for the child.
@LiveOnPurposeTV
@LiveOnPurposeTV 4 года назад
Alex Magnus, agreed. We don't want to be keeping score with our children.
@googleuser7126
@googleuser7126 3 года назад
That's because we have a antiquated judicial system.
@dc3011
@dc3011 3 года назад
I’m sincerely dealing with that mess . First court date Wednesday
@robynedward125
@robynedward125 3 года назад
Alex your so right in my case the other parent lying manipulation just to win I have been honest from the beginning and will fight for the best interests of our kids Emotionally abuse is not whats best by any child their not a trophy to win our actions effect our children. Your so correct I'm sticking with facts honesty and truth and facts and our kids are all that matters in all this
@wills.4013
@wills.4013 3 года назад
@@dc3011 hope it went well. I am 2 days away from round 2. Stay strong either way. I’m a father and this sucks. Children always loose in this crap.
@hopesanderlin
@hopesanderlin 2 года назад
We give God all the glory. I have gone to court on two other different cases without a lawyer and won. There are times when a lawyer is needed, so let the Holy Spirit lead you. Prayer and fasting always work for directions. You never, never assume anything. Always seek the Lord's face before you do anything legally. Chaplain Hope
@LiveOnPurposeTV
@LiveOnPurposeTV 2 года назад
Thank you.
@OH-vh6vi
@OH-vh6vi 2 года назад
Amen .
@studentberry3131
@studentberry3131 2 года назад
Yes!
@hallelujahjesusisloveandpo9771
@hallelujahjesusisloveandpo9771 2 года назад
I agree Amen!
@sophiabayusie8024
@sophiabayusie8024 Год назад
Amen
@nickywaggs8672
@nickywaggs8672 2 года назад
I’m am a father with residential custody. I went to pick up my kids for my parenting time and their mother had moved out of state, 1,250 miles away from me. So, it can be done guys. Document everything and follow the court order to a T. I even went as far as completely quitting drinking. Also, hire an attorney! Focus on your kids. They’re only kids for a short time. Good luck guys!
@LiveOnPurposeTV
@LiveOnPurposeTV 2 года назад
Thank you for encouraging others. Glad it worked out for you.
@1700tums
@1700tums 11 дней назад
Were you completely dependent on drinking? Like were you sick?
@brb72
@brb72 3 года назад
I have a friend and her ex-husband who honestly handled custody of their daughter better than anyone! These two despised each other, their divorce was a nightmare. Then came custody, they turned into very different people. Dad stayed in the home, Mom moved two blocks away. Their daughter was 14 at the time of the divorce, at the time it was safe for the child to walk between the two homes. Basically the child lived with Mom, but could go to Dad's anytime and often stayed overnight at Dad's during the week or weekends. Both parents were able to constructively talk to each other when it came to their daughter. When it came to money again no issues, Dad offered to pay support but Mom was able to take care of her own bills. In the end both patents just equally bought things as needed, paid fees or whatever again somehow both parents were able to communicate. I believe they both understood they were equally responsible for paying their daughter's bills. If my friend had unexpected bills, her ex had no problem paying for things that my friend usually paid. Weirdest thing that they could make parenting work but not their relationship.
@LiveOnPurposeTV
@LiveOnPurposeTV 3 года назад
Melissa Now, this is a rare story in the world of divorce and parenting. It is wonderful to know the adults are acting mature and working together. Think of the lesson their child learned.
@rachelabate2401
@rachelabate2401 11 месяцев назад
Great point. More situations would be easier if the parents put their children's needs first.
@aojathotmail
@aojathotmail 6 месяцев назад
unfortunately the state is incentivized financially to put one of the parents on child support regardless of what the parents agree on. also in many states, the judges are also financially incentivized to do this. CSEAs have been turned into money farms for the state... policy has supplanted morality
@kingsagenda
@kingsagenda 4 года назад
There are parents who are highly manipulative; I'm dealing with one. All custody evaluators and GAL's should have extensive trauma and psychological abuse training.
@LiveOnPurposeTV
@LiveOnPurposeTV 4 года назад
Von, agreed. Over time most learn to see the signs. Good luck!
@coltonbrown3282
@coltonbrown3282 3 года назад
I know how you feel. My ex is narcissistic and lies so much to make everyone else to be the cause of all problems. Never received my day infront of the judge and now I've given up all rights to them to rid myself and my future of the ex and her destructive nature.
@lydiahubbell6278
@lydiahubbell6278 3 года назад
@@coltonbrown3282 nobody should have to do that, but sometimes it is the best decision.
@eudanielesouza
@eudanielesouza 3 года назад
@@coltonbrown3282 omg! My husband is in the same situation with his ex wife
@St4rQu3st
@St4rQu3st 3 года назад
@@coltonbrown3282 I'm about to do the same. Really sucks.
@osmanvincent1975
@osmanvincent1975 3 года назад
I know several instances where older children, usually around twelve, decide to go live with the other parent, usually dad.
@LiveOnPurposeTV
@LiveOnPurposeTV 3 года назад
Osman Vincent, it happens.
@MariaMaria-zx9if
@MariaMaria-zx9if 9 месяцев назад
Nope, my boy is almost 14 and he wants to stay with me. We are moving six hours away and the biological father is upset even though Visitation isn’t changing much and we meet halfway he’s being ridiculous.
@MariaMaria-zx9if
@MariaMaria-zx9if 9 месяцев назад
Nope, my boy is almost 14 and he wants to stay with me. We are moving six hours away and the biological father is upset even though Visitation isn’t changing much and we meet halfway he’s being ridiculous.
@BibleMarriages
@BibleMarriages 3 дня назад
@@MariaMaria-zx9ifthis is called an anecdote, you can’t simply say “nope”
@ellismaytham456
@ellismaytham456 4 года назад
A woman is not necessarily the best person to look after a child. Sometimes the man is the better parent
@LiveOnPurposeTV
@LiveOnPurposeTV 4 года назад
Ellis Maytham, I agree. The child needs to know that both parents love them and are there for them.
@tecumseha
@tecumseha 4 года назад
@Nikki Bentley Is My Angel I sincerely am sorry that is your experience. I personally know so many wonderful fathers - hundreds of men that love their wives & children. This world would crumble without good fathers; they are so necessary.
@KOLYNandKYLYNN
@KOLYNandKYLYNN 4 года назад
@chuck wood exactly Chuck and I'm one of the unlucky guys who ended up having to deal with one of these crappy individual's I've been taking care of my daughter also since birth since you was born December 13th 2019 currently going through the process now I was trying to establish paternity and get some kind of custody
@toughgirl6837
@toughgirl6837 4 года назад
Ellis Maytham Amen. My son is going through this now. He loves his daughter. His ex won’t let him see her. She has been abusive to my son. She can’t see denying her daughter contact with her father. Is abusive to their daughter.
@toughgirl6837
@toughgirl6837 4 года назад
chuck wood Yeh. That’s mean. I think you meant men can be good parents too. Stop saying things that are generalized judgements and can be viewed about you too. Please. This isn’t about which gender is better. It’s about being a good parent. Your children are half your partner. If you hate women you will be destructive to your children. They are their mother too.
@mangalisoxaba498
@mangalisoxaba498 3 года назад
Love your channel, it is absolutely purposeful & necessary. As for these 2 guys right here (a Physiologist & an Attorney) you guy's are intelligent both emotionally & cognitively. Thanks a lot and God bless you.
@LiveOnPurposeTV
@LiveOnPurposeTV 3 года назад
Wow, thank you!
@themetatruthengineer1442
@themetatruthengineer1442 9 месяцев назад
My in-laws are acting so much like that mother, who is completely obsessed with what I do. My inlaws reach out to family members of mine that don't like me, and they have made 10+ CPS complaints, etc and have made many threats to take my child away. This anxiety inducing behavior is very bad. They are so focused on ruining my life and relationship with my child that it has cost me so much money and time away from my child. I have struggled with work and keeping up with my life. In addition, the damage they have done to my family is irreparable. They were granted visitation even though they are the step great-grandparents, but they are given many decision making rights over my child. My child is being used as a pawn, and then this is corrupting our lives. I am appealing this order, but I am considering suing my inlaws for all of this emotional and mental anguish.
@LiveOnPurposeTV
@LiveOnPurposeTV 9 месяцев назад
I can't believe CPS hasn't caught on to what they are doing. Having no finding in the 10+ incidents will help you.
@bosston4467
@bosston4467 3 года назад
I'm such a fan of your content! While I'm a father going through a divorce/custody battle, I truly just enjoy your content as it is furthering my education as a parent. Regardless of any outcome, I believe in progress not perfection. So any knowledge to help me better coparent is more than welcome
@LiveOnPurposeTV
@LiveOnPurposeTV 3 года назад
Wow, thank you! I think you will have a fantastic relationship with your children, Boss Ton.
@vinceocratic
@vinceocratic 2 года назад
The “expert,” opens up with “almost unthinkable for a mother to lose custody…” Absolutely perfect opening because it exposes the bias towards fathers. And this is coming from an expert who’s a man. God bless you for your inadvertent transparency.
@LiveOnPurposeTV
@LiveOnPurposeTV 2 года назад
Just my experience working in the court system.
@davidroberts9099
@davidroberts9099 Год назад
That’s what makes it remarkable. The fact that it is so rare speaks volumes about how sexist the family court system is against men. I say this as a man that has 100% custody of my child.
@eastaustin1able
@eastaustin1able 2 года назад
I have binge watched about four of your videos about now. I really appreciate the advice. Happy to know I’m actually doing pretty well. Thanks DrPaul.
@LiveOnPurposeTV
@LiveOnPurposeTV 2 года назад
You got this!
@candicejaid6107
@candicejaid6107 3 года назад
You two are way better then any professional iv met, help wise... For my whole proceedings currently two and a bit years..... very informative
@LiveOnPurposeTV
@LiveOnPurposeTV 3 года назад
Candice Jaid, thank you.
@Asriel821
@Asriel821 3 года назад
Son's father has focused on me, it's just the beginning of my battle, my ex has just trashed me, and hasn't thought about our son, he abandoned me, took all the money and I absolutely don't know what to do, he's alienated me from our son and has the courts on his side, I have no attorney and he is just trashing me all over to get our son
@LiveOnPurposeTV
@LiveOnPurposeTV 3 года назад
Silver Seraph, this is so sad to hear. There is not reason and in the end, usually it hurts the one doing it when the child grows up and begins to see what happened.
@hinatahouga
@hinatahouga 3 года назад
I'm somewhat in the same boat any advice?
@dc3011
@dc3011 3 года назад
I’m going to court to battle my husband Wednesday. He is an evil person who just wants to hurt me. It’s maddening because I know he can charm and talk his way out of anything. First time dealing with anything like this and I’m terrified because of all the allegations he’s made
@izabelamajkowska4620
@izabelamajkowska4620 3 года назад
@@dc3011 how did it all go in the court please? Did the judge saw through his lies?
@kristlonloves
@kristlonloves 3 года назад
I’m so cordial with my sons father! I’m so accommodating for him to even see my son. And now out of no where he isn’t allowing my contact w my son and texted me that he isn’t coming back and that he has a protective order for them! If he wanted to get custody why didn’t you just go thru the court? But your sole focus is to keep me out his life! His mom that has been raising him his whole life! I’m so lost and scared that I will never see my baby again
@LiveOnPurposeTV
@LiveOnPurposeTV 3 года назад
I am sorry you are going through this, it is so painful not to be able to see your son. I hope you can work through this.
@Lisa-ub6zl
@Lisa-ub6zl 2 года назад
I am going through the same thing right now! My ex called DFCS and falsely accused me of things and with no investigation the case worker awarded him custody and gave him permission to leave the state with my daughter! Now I have a court date in a different state scheduled in October and I don't even know what the accusations were to defend myself! I didn't find out he did this until I went to the sheriffs Dept to press charges for him taking her out of state and only then did I learn about the custody change with DFCS that I never seen signed by a judge but the investigator said there was nothing he could do! I feel so violated! How did they arrive at such a serious decision with only half a story? I wasn't given a fair or much less a chance at all! Nothing! I'm learning how to file a law suit myself for the emotional distress this has brought both me and my daughter because of their grossly negligent decisions mine and my daughters relationship has been damaged and sabatouged! I am pissed at all the lost time wasted of mine and my daughters life we can never get back that was so unnecessary. Only when they are made to be accountable will they learn to stop making these mistakes that are so damaging to the mental health of children for an indefinite amount of time. If they can accept appreciation then they should be able to accept criticism as well. I get so mad just thinking about it!! How dare her take away my biological rights without discussing it with me, notifying me, nothing!!! And then turn around and give him the go ahead to take off with my little girl out of state.. what in the hell was she thinking? She knew I was around my daughter because in the parenting plan it clearly states that if she leaves with me to call law enforcement. She believed every filthy word he said without batting an eye and fell hook, line, and sinker. These people need some serious training! If a child has two living parents discuss situation with both before you make a decision!!!!! Accept they're are liars in this world that unfortunately made it to be parents!!! It is the case workers responsibility to make the best decision for the child and if you can't do that well get someone that can! Don't just go out on a limb and hope for the best! Don't believe they have a goat just because one says they have a goat. Go look for yourself!!! I'm sorry for going off on a tangent but it frustrates me to no end and how such ignorancy there still is with this matter. New policies should have been made yesterday to stop this yet it keeps on and on and there is just no excuse for it. We're supposed to be smarter than this and more caring about human life than this yet we keep pussyfooting around like it's not important. I don't get it. When did teaching kids to hate their parents become acceptable and okay? And we wonder what has happened to our society? Why kids act out.. with the arise of narcissism now more than ever. The abuse from them is serious and some will go as far as murder. With over 158 million Americans effected by their abuse why is the effects on children being ignored and taking up so much time in our family courts? We don't turn our head on our veterans do we and pretend they don't need help? We don't turn our head on animal cruelty and pretend they don't need help? Foreign affairs? Why our children? Please someone help me understand why we haven't done one thing to stop this?! To prevent this?!
@Heartz_ash
@Heartz_ash 2 года назад
@@Lisa-ub6zl omg I’m going threw something slightly similar my heart is broken into pieces the system has failed me and my babies and idk for how much longer can my heart take 😔
@gigglekeyon
@gigglekeyon 2 года назад
Same situation Sus
@gigglekeyon
@gigglekeyon 2 года назад
@@Lisa-ub6zl same sus
@vannettamsnatural
@vannettamsnatural 2 года назад
Everything you’ve said is happening to me and I’m the mom. His focus is me and not the child. But they gave him physical custody of my kid
@LiveOnPurposeTV
@LiveOnPurposeTV 2 года назад
I am sorry you are going through this. I hope you still have time with your child.
@ClaireWill71uk
@ClaireWill71uk 4 года назад
I’m one, separated from my children, court supported my estranged husband... 2001 gained temporary sole custody. He had immigration pick me up, processed and then took my kids out of state...even refusing to pay for court ordered guardian ad litem, and counsellors for my kids. We divorced in Dec 2006.
@LiveOnPurposeTV
@LiveOnPurposeTV 4 года назад
I am sorry for the tough time you endured, Claire Will. I hope you will be able to see your kids again.
@sadrinamota12
@sadrinamota12 4 года назад
Not only that they moved so that way I couldn't find them or find out where my son is
@LiveOnPurposeTV
@LiveOnPurposeTV 4 года назад
sadrina mota, does your ex have family or friends that would be willing to help you locate him?
@MrFox-ip3jf
@MrFox-ip3jf 3 года назад
In my situation, me and my ex-wife agree. That the courts took advantage of us. She was coached in the decisions that she's didn't want to do. In return she lost rights. Not only had to jump through hoops of life. But jump through someone else's hoops that has no connection or understanding. Child support is a corporation. By law and actually has nothing to do with the quality of life of the child. The House Always Wins
@LiveOnPurposeTV
@LiveOnPurposeTV 3 года назад
Mr. Fox, I am glad you and your wife agree and hopefully you are working everything out.
@MrFox-ip3jf
@MrFox-ip3jf 3 года назад
@@LiveOnPurposeTV I appreciate the videos, research is the key to understanding situations.
@OLIVER949OC2
@OLIVER949OC2 5 месяцев назад
Mother of my child left home and took my child to a guys house that lives 5 hours away and put child support on me while we are pending a child custody court case
@LiveOnPurposeTV
@LiveOnPurposeTV 5 месяцев назад
I hope you can see your child and continue your relationship.
@Asriel821
@Asriel821 3 года назад
I watched all the way through, my ex is the one I have to worry about this happening, he's wanting to battle this out
@LiveOnPurposeTV
@LiveOnPurposeTV 3 года назад
Silver Seraph, so much is lost, money, time, relationships when we go to battle. I hope he changes his mind.
@paulphillips5747
@paulphillips5747 3 года назад
I was always video recording at every meet to get my kids. So one day my ex went ballistic, so I tried using the video footage in court, but later found out that its illegal in PA to record at the meet place.
@LiveOnPurposeTV
@LiveOnPurposeTV 3 года назад
Rip Van Winkle, I wasn't aware of that. I wish you luck.
@ronniemartin6942
@ronniemartin6942 4 года назад
I have full custody of my Daughter and I was awarded supervised visits at my discretion because my ex wife was on drugs and abandoned her and left for over 9 months and now is trying to get visits without paying child support or doing the required classes for visiting and is very verbally abusive so in that aspect what do I do
@LiveOnPurposeTV
@LiveOnPurposeTV 4 года назад
Ronnie Martin, I appreciate you watching Live On Purpose TV; please know that I cannot give specific legal advice. You can watch more of my child custody videos on this playlist: ru-vid.com/group/PLq2mRDkHEBPBhTE4dbqLMBrRk8Uop0jgd, but that is all I can say. For more in-depth help, you would need an attorney to assist you with your case. Best wishes.
@jeannettemiller1188
@jeannettemiller1188 3 года назад
So grateful 🙏 for both of you. Thank you for putting in the time to I form us, as we navigate this painful valley.
@LiveOnPurposeTV
@LiveOnPurposeTV 3 года назад
Our pleasure! Jeannette Miller, honored to be on your team.
@kx80moto
@kx80moto 4 года назад
Thanks again fir all your good advise guys xxx
@LiveOnPurposeTV
@LiveOnPurposeTV 4 года назад
grey wold, you are welcome.
@merncat75
@merncat75 4 года назад
Thank you so much for making these videos!!! They are very helpful for those of us who are new to this horrible situation.
@LiveOnPurposeTV
@LiveOnPurposeTV 4 года назад
You are welcome, merncat75. It's an honor to be on your team. Thank you for watching.
@lydiahubbell6278
@lydiahubbell6278 4 года назад
I think using custody to enforce court orders when it is detrimental to the child is wrong. I think the proper way to deal with disobedience of court orders is with a contempt petition. In my case, from day one my daughter's dad lied and also asked for court orders just so he could claim I was violating them. He actually filed a petition for contempt which was totally bogus, but within a few months I was violating orders. So he supplemented the contempt petition. I got some gag orders overturned on appeal, but you are supposed to follow them until they are overturned. I cannot follow a court order if it is going to hurt my daughter mire in the long run. Sometimes having custody is not the most important thing, protecting the child from additional trauma is. The courts really failed us, but I trusted the system at first and was compliant and cooperative. When I figured out what was going on, I had to push back. In my case, we had never been married. We worked from an agreed order until our daughter was old enough to go to school and then he decided to cut me out of her life. I could not afford a lawyer and he had one that lied with impunity. I always supported my daughter's relationship with her dad. He completely erased me. I am appealing the latest custody modification order. I can see very easily why some parents walk away. I have known many parents whose children were torn apart like a piece of meat two dogs were fighting over. Some kids committed suicide or ended up in mental hospitals. It is so sick.
@LiveOnPurposeTV
@LiveOnPurposeTV 4 года назад
Lydia Hubbell, I hope you are able to prevail, I know this is a tough time for you and I sympathize with your plight. You are right that our children need to know that we love them no matter what.
@LibertyMadison
@LibertyMadison 3 года назад
Im so sorry this happened to you. I appreciate your recognition of “what is best for the child”. It’s like the old bi me tale of the women who said “cut the child in half” . The king knew immediately she was not the mother. A mother will walk away before inflicting more pain
@itsjess93
@itsjess93 3 года назад
Very helpful and assuring. Thank you.
@LiveOnPurposeTV
@LiveOnPurposeTV 3 года назад
Glad it was helpful!
@chayukykenig3055
@chayukykenig3055 4 года назад
Very helpful tips! Thank you
@LiveOnPurposeTV
@LiveOnPurposeTV 4 года назад
You're so welcome!
@isosoriharrison9556
@isosoriharrison9556 9 месяцев назад
Thank you so much, my brother is going through something similar and I think this is encouraging.
@LiveOnPurposeTV
@LiveOnPurposeTV 9 месяцев назад
Hope it helps. Glad you are there for him.
@isosoriharrison9556
@isosoriharrison9556 9 месяцев назад
@@LiveOnPurposeTV Yeah, he is having a very hard time and I hope my brother definitely makes good improvements.
@gabriellad3757
@gabriellad3757 3 года назад
This video was nice but it just makes me mad that I'm even here, I just wanted a family. It's not that hard to just be a decent person. I just got this overwhelming feeling to have things be simple and normal because this is just too much. Together and happy it seems so simple.
@LiveOnPurposeTV
@LiveOnPurposeTV 3 года назад
Gabriella D, I am sorry for you disappointment. I always say simple is not easy. We can't control or dictate what another person does. I hope you find peace.
@msatkinson07
@msatkinson07 2 года назад
I feel you
@donovancarney
@donovancarney 2 года назад
@gabriella d man you just don’t know I want my family too and I’m the man and most men just leave I didn’t I stayed and I tried I did everything I could and now I’m dealing with allegations of physical abuse of her and our son which is so untrue I love them both
@two9s649
@two9s649 2 года назад
@@donovancarney dam g , u tripping
@lukeo8196
@lukeo8196 4 года назад
I really appreciate all the great content! Thank you guys!
@LiveOnPurposeTV
@LiveOnPurposeTV 4 года назад
Glad you enjoy it! Luke O., honored to be on your team.
@geehill9323
@geehill9323 4 года назад
I'm going through this right now my son is 4 years old and it sucks when they focused on you
@LiveOnPurposeTV
@LiveOnPurposeTV 4 года назад
Gerald Hill, it is a tough situation no matter the age. Stay strong, you can get through this.
@ellenhenderson6865
@ellenhenderson6865 4 года назад
This works in reverse too. Men engage in this alienation conduct. They are describing parent alienation with calling it that.
@LiveOnPurposeTV
@LiveOnPurposeTV 4 года назад
Ellen Henderson, parental alienation is wrong, no matter who is doing it.
@spoonspoon3826
@spoonspoon3826 3 года назад
I would pin 📌 this comment.
@ThatGuy-en2nn
@ThatGuy-en2nn 3 года назад
You can make that argument for anything. That does not mean It's done equally between the sexes. It's disingenuous to comment in such a way that makes it seem like that is the case.
@JustTiyo
@JustTiyo 3 года назад
Man stfu everything works in reverse when talkin about women 🤦🏾‍♂️
@kathleenmonahan1315
@kathleenmonahan1315 3 года назад
You guys are awesome, I wish I could find a professional in my area like you gentlemen.
@LiveOnPurposeTV
@LiveOnPurposeTV 3 года назад
Thanks 👍
@Mother.in.the.Jungle
@Mother.in.the.Jungle 5 месяцев назад
I represented myself both times I was up against the fathers of my children-I couldn’t afford an attorney, and wound up doing it myself. What I learned is to win, which I managed each time, considering ANYONE’S benefit other than the child’s will not serve you well, and it shouldn’t. In the state of Utah, women rank in the bottom 5 states even it comes to having rights. This isn’t a discussion point, we’ve ALL seen it, unless you’re blind. However, when responsibility is sought for the child, irresponsible parents, whether female or male, will more than likely have a selfish glow that’s nearly visible. Occasionally, you’ll meet a parent whose ONLY interest is claiming something meaningful from the other person. With the most meaningful right being the children, unfortunately, this needs to be factored in. With one of my exes, that was the ONLY reason he fought for custody. Needless to say, the judge picked up on it. That ex hasn’t laid eyes on his beautiful daughter, living half an hour away, in over a decade. He hasn’t called for holidays or written cards for birthdays, because he’s selfish. Thank god that glowed! Remember, put your own differences aside for the interest of your child-not for custodial reasons; because that’s what your child deserves!
@LiveOnPurposeTV
@LiveOnPurposeTV 5 месяцев назад
Thank you for sharing and helping us remember what is important.
@a.americandad3885
@a.americandad3885 2 года назад
Thank you both for the reassurance this is only a common sense process. You do make it a little harder for me to follow when you go in to detail on examples.
@LiveOnPurposeTV
@LiveOnPurposeTV 2 года назад
Warren Houser, thanks for the feedback.
@jeannemarie3704
@jeannemarie3704 4 года назад
Being humble to feedback is hard for all of us but it's true.. You need to focus on self a bit. This is great content. I was a guardian ad Litem for a time. So get this..the kids need to not be put in the middle of the parents.
@LiveOnPurposeTV
@LiveOnPurposeTV 4 года назад
Jeannie Salinas, that is my wish, kids not to be used as pawns. Happens way too often. Thank you for your work as an ad Litem, not an easy job.
@JesusrevealedGlorified35
@JesusrevealedGlorified35 4 года назад
Thank you for this video
@LiveOnPurposeTV
@LiveOnPurposeTV 4 года назад
Chefiatou Falana, you are welcome.
@CarolDudeck-bl7kz
@CarolDudeck-bl7kz 3 года назад
Here in Canada I have now witnessed two cases where the father got custody and both these men were having affairs around they’re children, the court knew full well and so did child and family services they did nothing!😂🇨🇦
@LiveOnPurposeTV
@LiveOnPurposeTV 3 года назад
Carol Dudeck, affairs don't seem to be taken into consideration the way they once used to.
@CarolDudeck-bl7kz
@CarolDudeck-bl7kz 3 года назад
Live On Purpose TV Absolutely but I’m “OLD” school and you screw with me that’s it!🥶
@weknowcomputertech
@weknowcomputertech 3 года назад
@@LiveOnPurposeTV not true. North Carolina your spouse can do jail time for putting your sexual health at risk. Same with New York.
@curlew-3592
@curlew-3592 3 года назад
So much sense spoken in these videos 👍
@LiveOnPurposeTV
@LiveOnPurposeTV 3 года назад
Curfew, thank you.
@jesslivin_xo
@jesslivin_xo 3 года назад
Hopefully, it’s not too late for me to fix these mistakes in my custody case!! Great points. 👏🏾 First time in front of a judge next month! Hopefully she just gives me a stern warning to stop my bad behavior towards the dad. 🤞🏾
@LiveOnPurposeTV
@LiveOnPurposeTV 2 года назад
Jess H, be calm and respectful. You can get through this.
@jesslivin_xo
@jesslivin_xo 2 года назад
@@LiveOnPurposeTV Thanks for the advice and all the helpful videos. It all turned out in my favor! 🙌🏾🙌🏾
@cheyennemccune7111
@cheyennemccune7111 2 года назад
Going to court scares me so much. We have an injunction right now and he has supervised visitation but they keep saying he’s going to go for 50/50 and it really terrifies me that he’ll get the kids more than I will. I love my kids with all my heart and I try my best to be an amazing parent
@shirleyarmani7714
@shirleyarmani7714 Год назад
@@cheyennemccune7111 Why does it scare you that your children can possibly share equal time between both parents. This is why a lot of mother's are loosing custody or visitation time being leesen. You can be a perfect parent both the child still desrves to be equally with both parents as much as possible. A mother's love for her children does not superseide a father's love they are both equally important and needed. Mother automactilly feel like because we birthed the children well always deserve more of the child's time and love and thats not fair. I'm happy some court systems are finally starting to open their eyes up.
@yungkaos3500
@yungkaos3500 Год назад
@@shirleyarmani7714exactly
@shornandkenny
@shornandkenny 3 года назад
What if you have spent the last 8 years watching your child be endangered and your self being controlled with allegations stolen from cheated on and lied to? I struggle to treat my co parent with any respect after the treatment I have received from her and her parents.
@LiveOnPurposeTV
@LiveOnPurposeTV 3 года назад
mr machinist, I get what you are saying. You are also never wrong about how you feel, you are responsible for your behavior. It is natural to feel hurt when someone has lied and hurt our most precious relationships.
@weknowcomputertech
@weknowcomputertech 3 года назад
It happens to Moms too. Some people really know how to work attorneys like this who aren’t trained to work with those who undergo significant trauma and abuse but have remained the pro facia parent. But the court sure as heck better perform their due diligence and have all the necessary evidence in hand before making any assumptions.
@mensafamilyhustle3356
@mensafamilyhustle3356 3 года назад
In my case all talk no evidence
@allisonzimmerman6077
@allisonzimmerman6077 2 года назад
Thank u guys so much for taking ur time to do this I have a daughter I lost years back turned my life around and got my children back its been 4 yrs so my oldest lives with her dad she calls her step mom mom and called me allison for a while she still calls her step mom mom im trying super hard to be supportive for my daughter but I will admit sometimes its super hard to not let my feelings get in the way but I dont know what to do she completely ignores me when we are all together. Itd total heart crushing can u please help with some advice
@LiveOnPurposeTV
@LiveOnPurposeTV 2 года назад
We are honored to be on your team. It may take some time, be open and loving, always. She is testing to see if you are going to be there for her.
@sle7886
@sle7886 3 года назад
Thank you . This is very helpful
@LiveOnPurposeTV
@LiveOnPurposeTV 3 года назад
So glad!
@Mimixo421
@Mimixo421 6 месяцев назад
I’m dealing with a narcissist and an abuser please I need help I wanna get child support and get full custody of my child my daughter dad can’t even cook for himself let alone feed my child he would rather spend money on beer than buy food for my kid and it’s his kid too he doesn’t deserve her at all I tried my hardest to keep him happy but he’s a narcissist and emotionally abusive I need help what can I do ?
@LiveOnPurposeTV
@LiveOnPurposeTV 6 месяцев назад
I don't know your situation, it would be best to work with someone who is familiar with your court system.
@ir7862
@ir7862 3 года назад
Thank you for the information. So helpful. Being humble and improving myself. Such good advice
@LiveOnPurposeTV
@LiveOnPurposeTV 3 года назад
You're so welcome! Honored to be on your team, I S.
@Maimuna_joy
@Maimuna_joy 10 месяцев назад
Yes, I needed to see this 💗Thank you!
@LiveOnPurposeTV
@LiveOnPurposeTV 9 месяцев назад
You are welcome.
@AnwaarsTarot
@AnwaarsTarot 2 года назад
My daughters mother is a heroin addict / narcissist and has been keeping my daughter away from me the past month so that she could take me to court for not seeing my daughter. We split the driving 50/50 for the past 6 years and in January she lost her ability to drive so instead of finding another way to transport, she filed a restraining order to keep me away so that she could say I'm not around. Court is next Wed. None of her claims on the order are current. All are from our past relationship back in 2013. This is her claim for me not to be around. My daughter 10 year old doesn't agree. I have physical evidence of her heavy drug use, a CVS clerk where she left my child at the counter for 15 minutes while she went and got high in the car and video evidence of her boyfriend assaulting me. Any advice you can offer for the hearing next week?
@LiveOnPurposeTV
@LiveOnPurposeTV 2 года назад
Have your information showing that you are available and she has withheld the daughter ready to go.
@lovelywalks4270
@lovelywalks4270 4 года назад
If you find yourself being consoled by your child or ostracized because of the other parents actions or hatred. How should the consoled or ostracized parent approach that with their child?
@LiveOnPurposeTV
@LiveOnPurposeTV 4 года назад
Seeking Justice, if I understand what you are asking, look at this situation as an opportunity for your child to use empathy and kindness, don't bring them any further into the situation or have them feel responsible in any way for what is happening. You can let your child know how you are sad and tell her hugs make you feel better. For a small child, this is enough.
@lovelywalks4270
@lovelywalks4270 4 года назад
@@LiveOnPurposeTV great advice, thank you.
@sherrikins3557
@sherrikins3557 3 года назад
What happens when the other still pursues a relationship with you when you don't want them back because they cheated.. They come by without calling, etc.. No boundaries..I get worried about stalking and them not having anything to do. When does the court see this for what it is and could become? And that they talk bad about your family, too.
@LiveOnPurposeTV
@LiveOnPurposeTV 3 года назад
Sherri Kins, if you are afraid you should get a restraining order so you have protection and it is documented. See an attorney for advice on this matter. Your safety is paramount.
@sherrikins3557
@sherrikins3557 3 года назад
@@LiveOnPurposeTV thank you..I did one. He was served, already violated it.
@rochelleauge6734
@rochelleauge6734 3 года назад
This where I am. Custody battle in progress. I am tasked with developing a phased step up parenting plan. Meanwhile, the father is 100% on the smear campaign...
@milmedic81
@milmedic81 2 года назад
Very knowledgeable information. Thank you
@LiveOnPurposeTV
@LiveOnPurposeTV 2 года назад
night_lightTV, I wish you the best.
@Lovely_Jay22
@Lovely_Jay22 2 года назад
I’m currently going through a custody battle and due to the fact I have a criminal case pending to an alleged battery on an officer and my daughters dad, although I have no recollection. And him not knowing where I was but appeared there with a camera recording already. I honestly think someone roofied me & it wouldn’t surprise me if my daughters dad got someone to do his dirty deed. Now, he’s blackmailing me saying if I file paperwork I will lose all custody, in which I’m terrified. My daughter has always been with me since born, i breastfed for 3 years, and now she’s 5 and because I missed a court she was taken away from me over night and she is autistic. He doesn’t allow me to talk to her for weeks At a time. And now I only see her twice a month. I have filed numerous police Reports online of him violating our court order, I have a letter from his older sister stating My daughters best interest is with me. He’s had our autistic daughter hold a gun and So much more…I need help and I feel like mo one is hearing my cries for help!
@LiveOnPurposeTV
@LiveOnPurposeTV 2 года назад
I am so sorry. Do you have an attorney? They would help you to navigate the system.
@Orophile_303
@Orophile_303 2 года назад
Well, sometimes the father is the BETTER parent. My bf is alienated from his children because his ex wife is angry that he didn't want to work out things with her. She would hit him etc. Days before the actual incident his oldest child was saying he was going to miss his side of the family and it's been almost 2 years he hasn't seen them and she talks ill of him on Facebook
@LiveOnPurposeTV
@LiveOnPurposeTV 2 года назад
Agreed. Children should have access to both parents.
@mariesmith8547
@mariesmith8547 3 года назад
Thank you my son has 2 baby moms that treat him this way one constantly wants to arrest him for kidnapping on his weekends when he takes his son around family member she don’t like... well the son told his father all what mother was doing and his mother has mental abuse him he is 12 and wants to go live with his dad and well I have had to fill child abuse charges on her cause my grandson texted me and begged me to please make mom stop hit and punching me and calling me names...Mammoo make her stop!!! My heart drop I had to send the police for a welfare check!!! My son can’t afford a lawyer DCH finally got involved and we are working on trying to get him
@LiveOnPurposeTV
@LiveOnPurposeTV 3 года назад
Marie Smith, I wish you luck. I hope things work out for you.
@queenlove7912
@queenlove7912 3 года назад
I have a detention report of verbal and physical child abuse against the mother of my kids who were took from her custody,, I want to know why if there is enough evidence to take our kids from her, WHY WAS SHE NOT CRIMINALLY CHARGED 🤔
@LiveOnPurposeTV
@LiveOnPurposeTV 3 года назад
Queen Love, I don't know, I wish you the best.
@nickalenaramos5981
@nickalenaramos5981 2 года назад
wish the internet, social media, etc, was around or more vocal about this issue during my situation😔🙏🏼
@LiveOnPurposeTV
@LiveOnPurposeTV 2 года назад
I wish you the best.
@bobhope7364
@bobhope7364 4 года назад
How do you deal with a mother who withholds the child from visitation and won't obey court orders? Does it hurt your chances as a father if your child has been away from you for a long time? My ex even tries to say that "Our child can't find peace, is struggling and has a very bad reaction after visitation (which is a lie).. but everything is "perfect" and our child is striving when only mom is in the picture"..
@LiveOnPurposeTV
@LiveOnPurposeTV 4 года назад
Bob Hope, thank you for watching and being involved. Unfortunately, I am not able to give specific legal advice. However, my first thought is to remain positive through it all; easier said than done for sure, but remember you do have control over your emotions and actions. If you are worried about not staying involved in the child's life, try to work out with the mother if you can speak with your child over the phone and/or send cards or birthday gifts in the mail. As for the mother not obeying court orders, that is something the attorneys and legal system will need to work out. I would love to help where I can... I have a Child Custody playlist, if you want to check that out for more ideas: ru-vid.com/group/PLq2mRDkHEBPBhTE4dbqLMBrRk8Uop0jgd. A couple videos that may be particularly relevant in your situation are "How To Have A Peaceful Joint Custody Agreement," and "Child Custody Mediation Strategies".
@robynedward125
@robynedward125 4 года назад
In my case my ex has put the kids in the middle he's been telling the children to keep secrets against me and continues to say negative comments I have not said anything about their father in front of them I rose above what has gone on he has been dishonest in court. I don't claim to be perfect I went through parenting classes and communication workshop with the court he hasn't been honest through the entire process unfortunately my ex has used them as pawns. I don't say anything to the children he's doing it unfortunately on purpose I haven't said anything unfortunately in my case there's conjugal abuse It's very difficult the court here doesn't look at it as a pattern of abuse I find it very difficult I'm being the better parent I'm legally not allowed to say anything in front of the kids I can't even say when they look unbathed and nails dirty and uncut I'm not even allowed at all I've been keeping a journal for behavior I've noticed, but say nothing to them of what I observe. My ex hasn't paid any child support hasn't brought them to doc appointments or dentists me and my parents it has fallen on our plates as extra responsibilities and expenses unfortunately It's documented in a binder for court I find the system here is very difficult he's stolen from me and has gotten the kids to steal and hasn't been honest I can't even ask the kids about the items I will not put my kids in the middle I love my kids with all my heart and will fight for them.
@LiveOnPurposeTV
@LiveOnPurposeTV 4 года назад
Robyn Edward, I appreciate you watching, however there is not much we can help you with in terms of legal advice. We have several videos on our Child Custody playlist - ru-vid.com/group/PLq2mRDkHEBPBhTE4dbqLMBrRk8Uop0jgd, and I hope you can find some value there. Being a single parent is so hard; we also have a Positive Parenting playlist to help you out with that: ru-vid.com/group/PLq2mRDkHEBPCclxt6agg3wrLBRkL7CCwU. You may particularly like "How To Be A Single Parent After Divorce" - ru-vid.com/video/%D0%B2%D0%B8%D0%B4%D0%B5%D0%BE-G4hjN5B1-AE.html and "How To Make Ends Meet As A Single Parent" - ru-vid.com/video/%D0%B2%D0%B8%D0%B4%D0%B5%D0%BE-btNvSj7fOxQ.html Best wishes.
@t.c.2402
@t.c.2402 4 года назад
Women tend to exaggerate
@robynedward125
@robynedward125 4 года назад
@@t.c.2402 I told the truth in my case my ex didn't tell any truth he's the man It's been very difficult he said I left for 3 months and willing left him the lease in reality he changed the locks and booted me out I had to go buy shampoo and other items and stay in a hotel and buy clothes for court I have a bank statement to prove other things about what happened at the time. It was very difficult at the time we were one week custody and I'd leave when it wasn't my week he didn't care if I was homeless and lock the door handle to the handle I didn't have keys for preventing me from entering when we were both on the lease and yeah it wasn't good long story short he ended up stalking me and harassing me and ended up threatening me in the end I was able to get a restraining order and he's continuing to put the children in the middle on a brighter note I was able to get a lease in my name. I have to prove that the kids are in the middle on his side he wasn't honest to the social worker from the court and they believed him the problem with the system they aren't trained to deal with narrascist he's basically a Trump bullying and intimidation tactics I got stronger and didn't let him bring me down
@robynedward125
@robynedward125 4 года назад
@@t.c.2402 your probably right
@edwin768
@edwin768 Год назад
I’ve tried time after time after time to repeatedly try and get my daughters mom to try and be close to my daughter she gave her to me a little over 6 months ago but she ultimately doesn’t want anything to do with my little girl so I pretty much give up on that we have court in about a month so fingers crossed I’ll get custody of her
@LiveOnPurposeTV
@LiveOnPurposeTV Год назад
Edwin, I wish you and your daughter well.
@vvnano
@vvnano 4 года назад
what can my mother do to win? what should i tel her to do and not do. i need help court starts in 6 hours..
@LiveOnPurposeTV
@LiveOnPurposeTV 4 года назад
n, thank you for watching Live On Purpose TV, and I am sorry that I did not see your comment in time. I cannot give specific legal advice, however we do have a child custody playlist that your mother can view for general tips: ru-vid.com/group/PLq2mRDkHEBPBhTE4dbqLMBrRk8Uop0jgd. Best wishes to you.
@denisehuerta2626
@denisehuerta2626 3 года назад
I’m so scared. We are going start mediation next week and I’m hoping and praying for my stbx to come to this with an open mind, willing to compromise, realize that me and him are the parents (not the grandparents), and most importantly that it’s not about winning it’s about the kids (not what is convenient with him). He is trying to get full custody, majority parenting time, his mom as the babysitter/teacher because he doesn’t want them to go to school. And even if it hurts I want to do 50/50 with him because it’s what’s right for our girls.
@LiveOnPurposeTV
@LiveOnPurposeTV 3 года назад
Denise Huerta, I hope things go well for you. You are the mother your children need.
@annaclusker2261
@annaclusker2261 2 года назад
Yes I do 50/50 0 I have my son Friday Saturday Monday morning to but dad stops me as he lied used my past against me..an£ he got temporary primary Carrer ,.
@sorad5791
@sorad5791 2 года назад
I understand what you're going through.❤
@jrmaxon1593
@jrmaxon1593 3 года назад
I'm dealing with parental alienation RN. This video helped.
@LiveOnPurposeTV
@LiveOnPurposeTV 3 года назад
I am glad the video helped. I wish you the best.
@h0llyw00dhoward7
@h0llyw00dhoward7 3 года назад
Good luck, I'm going through the same thing.
@OUstillSUCKS
@OUstillSUCKS 3 года назад
I am to but stick with it there is light at the end of the tunnel. My sons mother believe it or not told me if I didn't marry her when I was 21 and now I'm 34 I would never see my child. Im soon upset but I know god knows the truth but I just got 50/50 custody of him few weeks ago. He is 13 now and I have missed everything. I wanted to learn to change diapers and feed him when I was younger and she always gave me broken promises about seeing him and then denied he was mines which I showed the judge. She showed her ass in court and argued with the attorney and the counselors advice. She even got mad about my wife's friends speaking about if my wife were around my son what they think. My sons mother thought they were trying to take my son from her but she don't even realize what is going on half the time. Here's the worst part every time I ask bout my son she always switch convo or flirts with me out the blue and she is married!!! She even ask me meet her at hotel and stuff. They tried to get me to pay $70k in back child support but it didn't happen and she denied all my help.
@TheBmmd321
@TheBmmd321 3 года назад
Me too. 30 days today no contact and she changed all there cell phones when I was paying or all the phones.
@narcissisticvictimsabusetu5077
@narcissisticvictimsabusetu5077 3 года назад
My husband is too but she messed up big time, now we have a very high chance of FULL CUSTODY 😭😭❤️😭❤️❤️❤️😭❤️
@channiceclark231
@channiceclark231 3 года назад
What if the other person that has my daughter is not a family member on my side or her dad side and she is refusing to let me see my daughter or talk to her
@LiveOnPurposeTV
@LiveOnPurposeTV 3 года назад
Channice Clark, is there a court order? Does she have guardianship. If not, it seems like you could call the police.
@AmaPurinsesu
@AmaPurinsesu 3 года назад
I have a case where my stepson keeps telling us he gets hit by his stepdad and whenever my husband brings it up, mom says dad is making up things because he is jealous of her new relationship. We’re currently dealing with cps because my stepson came with shoe imprints on his bottom and mom keeps saying her son is lying and that dad is putting things in his head. Her husband did admit to hitting him right in front of her but every time her son, 4, asks why do you let him hit me? Mom keeps calling him a liar. My stepson even told me once he knows his mom doesn’t like his dad but he does. So I’m sure there’s some parental alienation going on there. Any advice for us? We’ll be going to court as mom wants to modify a court order on his visitation being supervised because cps is investigating her husband and her for child abuse.
@LiveOnPurposeTV
@LiveOnPurposeTV 3 года назад
DuJoJo Eslie, it sounds like you are handling the situation. Good luck with your court date.
@mattcardenas8473
@mattcardenas8473 3 года назад
Update??
@SublinkK34
@SublinkK34 3 года назад
I have domestic violence being victim 4 years ago after 2 years fighting in the court the father win after that I lose my daughter get kill by his father none believe if my ex is violence thanks for the justice of getting making wrong choice
@LiveOnPurposeTV
@LiveOnPurposeTV 3 года назад
MOnica Rante, I am sorry to hear what happened. We are here for you.
@weknowcomputertech
@weknowcomputertech 3 года назад
I feel your pain. Constitutional law is dead.
@tammyguessbeckham2212
@tammyguessbeckham2212 3 года назад
My husbands ex wife did everything she could to try to make him a bad guy. She lost custody and visitation.
@LiveOnPurposeTV
@LiveOnPurposeTV 3 года назад
Tammy Guess Beckham, Some men do win custody. Thanks.
@sheriffofrockridge9095
@sheriffofrockridge9095 3 года назад
Nice I don’t have kids but good to see it does happen
@fatimaguzman9826
@fatimaguzman9826 2 года назад
Why did she lose custody? If I may ask?
@fatimaguzman9826
@fatimaguzman9826 2 года назад
Im stepmom
@wanderingjooh6843
@wanderingjooh6843 3 года назад
Thank you 🙏.
@LiveOnPurposeTV
@LiveOnPurposeTV 3 года назад
You are so welcome
@pjschillchannelxoxo
@pjschillchannelxoxo 3 года назад
I live in nh my mom accused me of things that never happened all she has is hearsay but i have evidence she is lying? How common would a judge decide to not give my daughter back?
@LiveOnPurposeTV
@LiveOnPurposeTV 3 года назад
Pj Gage, I have no idea of the specifics of your case. Please talk to a licensed attorney.
@monajones6748
@monajones6748 4 года назад
I love Sid! So much great information complete with real-life stories.
@LiveOnPurposeTV
@LiveOnPurposeTV 4 года назад
Sid is great, isn't he? Thank you for the positive feedback, Mona Jones.
@sadrinamota12
@sadrinamota12 4 года назад
What should I do I really need help
@LiveOnPurposeTV
@LiveOnPurposeTV 4 года назад
sadrina mota, I do appreciate you watching, but there is little I can do. You would be best off finding an attorney to help you with this situation. We do have a free coaching call available, if you would like to try that. It won't help you with your case, but possibly the way you are dealing with it internally, psychologically. You could try to schedule a call with my guest in the video, Sid Unrau who is an attorney and a coach. Here's the link: DrPaulJenkins.com/breakthroughcall
@semi-plays7771
@semi-plays7771 3 года назад
I absolutely agree.
@LiveOnPurposeTV
@LiveOnPurposeTV 3 года назад
X-kitbot9000 OWU, thank you.
@LivingBGLegend
@LivingBGLegend 3 года назад
I have trial on a couple months, haven t been allowed to see my daughter in nearly 1 1/2 years. 5 years old. I have done no wrong and me and my daughter had a great relationship. I’m subbing because I need all the help I can get. Can’t afford a lawyer
@LiveOnPurposeTV
@LiveOnPurposeTV 3 года назад
Living Legend, I hope you are able to see your daughter. Thank you for watching.
@crockpot5194
@crockpot5194 3 года назад
You know in some states parental Alienation is illegal
@strickenbaseballseries6894
@strickenbaseballseries6894 3 года назад
"It would be best if they could co-parent or parallel parent" Yeah no duh. But if the two people were capable of cooperating, they would still be together.
@LiveOnPurposeTV
@LiveOnPurposeTV 3 года назад
Stricken Baseball Series, not always. I have seen people who can't get along being married, but are able to successfully co parent. They have to be mature and focused.
@lydiahubbell6278
@lydiahubbell6278 3 года назад
Lots of people successfully co-pparent. I did with my ex-husband.
@renskedj
@renskedj 3 года назад
No that's totally different. We're not married anymore, so he may treat me like crap and I stay friendly and obedient, as long as I can see my kids. When we were married I would get mad. Now I say yes sir. What do I care? Over the years he started to treat me quite normal.
@googleuser7126
@googleuser7126 3 года назад
Justice! That's how! Not all women are made out to be good mothers, same goes for fathers!
@LiveOnPurposeTV
@LiveOnPurposeTV 3 года назад
Google User, at the channel we seek to empower parents who want to learn how to be better.
@hannahgrahamcracker8207
@hannahgrahamcracker8207 2 года назад
I hate that I have tried my hardest to get along with the father of my child and his wife, I have been vulnerable, apologized when I was in the wrong, and not given into their drama as much as I could with nothing in return… no child support, nothing for our child, and no apology(which is the least of my worries)… we haven’t been to court yet because he said he was going to settle and sign the order but he hasn’t… but even though he hasn’t signed the order I still give him visitation…. I have been dumb and went like a month without letting him see her, but again, no order hasn’t been signed…. He has been getting visitation now and I’m trying to do everything I’m supposed to do even though he hasn’t given me any support wish me luck on doing the right thing… yes I still mess up and feed into the drama and get annoyed at them because of all the stuff they say, but I’m trying to work it all out and I think it will get better after the court date next month.
@LiveOnPurposeTV
@LiveOnPurposeTV 2 года назад
I am glad that you have tried. I do wish you the best with your court date. Hopefully that will wake them up.
@adelinafarias5554
@adelinafarias5554 Год назад
Thank you .
@LiveOnPurposeTV
@LiveOnPurposeTV Год назад
adelina Farias, you are very welcome.
@suddenlyhope
@suddenlyhope 4 года назад
My ex has alienated my children from me and used the courts to take away my visitation. It is heartbreaking. I want a good relationship with my children AND my ex husband. I left him because we had a toxic relationship. He believes that because I’m an ex wife, I should be an ex mother. I haven’t seen my boys for a year and my daughter for 4 months. I have done all in my power including $30,000 in legal representation to try and get some visitation and am now waiting on reconciliation counseling. My ex has sabotaged it up until now.
@suddenlyhope
@suddenlyhope 4 года назад
Nikki Bentley Is My Angel My children are 24, 19 and 14. I moved next door so they could go back and forth. It is very hurtful to have people say things about circumstances they know nothing about. The trauma is bad enough that to be re traumatized again trying to explain is a huge trigger. When someone asks, how can children turn against a loving parent? Or what have you done that your children want nothing to do with you? Is heartbreaking. I love my children with all my heart and had a beautiful relationship with them up until I left my abusive spouse. He then used them as pawns.
@tecumseha
@tecumseha 4 года назад
@@suddenlyhope Not everyone believes as this other viewer does. I am very sorry to hear about your situation. I can't imagine the pain your heart must be going through. I sincerely hope that you can reconcile soon and be in your children's lives again. Despite evidence, the world isn't all bad. I love this channel, & hope you feel supported by Dr. Paul & his team, as so many of us do. 💚
@suddenlyhope
@suddenlyhope 4 года назад
Tecumseh A. Thank you for your kind words. Love and Kindness goes a long way in this world. I am grateful that God has got me this far. And I know he will be with me and show me how to reconcile and renew relationships with my children. I am praying for them daily.
@tecumseha
@tecumseha 4 года назад
@@suddenlyhope I love your attitude & faith. 🙂 Please don't take this as being preachy... think of it as a friendly reminder, as I'm sure you've heard this before. Remember: God's timing is not our timing. I prayed for 12 years to have children with my husband. Finally He gave them to me, & I spent the next 8 years praying for help to be a good parent! 😆 Then He directed me to Live On Purpose TV. It's so hard to be patient when we want good things, but the Lord's timing will serve us best in the end. Merry Christmas to you. 🎄
@LiveOnPurposeTV
@LiveOnPurposeTV 4 года назад
SuddenlyHope, it sounds like you love your children very much and are trying to have a positive relationship with them. That is great. Keep that up, even tough it's hard. I have a whole Child Custody playlist; if you want to see if there is anything more helpful, please check it out: ru-vid.com/group/PLq2mRDkHEBPBhTE4dbqLMBrRk8Uop0jgd Thank you for watching, and best wishes.
@matt071482
@matt071482 4 года назад
Wait! They "rehabilitate" mom and throw dad under the bus?!
@LiveOnPurposeTV
@LiveOnPurposeTV 4 года назад
matt071482, don't read too much into one conversation. There is a lot behind the story.
@matt071482
@matt071482 4 года назад
@@LiveOnPurposeTV thanks for replying! OK. I'll try not to. Thanks for the videos. I'm trying to learn
@prfu1222
@prfu1222 4 года назад
My daughters mother took her to buy drugs. And she gets wonderful treatment. And me. I am put under the bus.
@experimentalgroup9473
@experimentalgroup9473 4 года назад
Well yeah. The world is unfair and the court has bias. Toward mom
@anelatea-anac2978
@anelatea-anac2978 3 года назад
No the other parent dont want to participate or play the game
@angusgow1887
@angusgow1887 3 года назад
You should start addressing the real problem which is the system that creates a situation where only one parent can win and they other has to pay
@LiveOnPurposeTV
@LiveOnPurposeTV 3 года назад
Angus Gow, there are problems in the system and imperfect people.
@annoying3boys
@annoying3boys 2 года назад
So I don't know if anybody will read this, but in the divorce my ex-wife claimed 100% physical custody of my kids, and then my middle son told me, that Mom will spend two or three nights at a time, away from home. Should I see about getting the court to intervene? As a follow-up, a private investigator confirmed that she would spend two or three days away from home at a time.
@LiveOnPurposeTV
@LiveOnPurposeTV 2 года назад
Get the evidence and calmly approach the court if that is what you want to do.
@annkogut6268
@annkogut6268 4 года назад
It’s ok for dads to alienate kids from mom , not, it works both ways!
@LiveOnPurposeTV
@LiveOnPurposeTV 4 года назад
I wish there were no alienation, ann kogut. It would be wonderful if both parents loved their children, and the children loved both parents, and the parents were respectful. Even after divorce, there can be love. Thanks for watching.
@groovynipple7092
@groovynipple7092 3 года назад
This breaks my heart to hear. I just want to parent my children and he wants them to feel sorry for him and side with him and be loyal to him. My kids father is a terrible narcissist and it breaks my heart to see the troubles my children have due to his and my dealings.
@LiveOnPurposeTV
@LiveOnPurposeTV 3 года назад
GroovyNipple, I am sorry, it is difficult to navigate. I really wish both parents could put the children first.
@MH-pc2ky
@MH-pc2ky 2 года назад
The court sees it as you chose to have a child with this person. Just because you split up or get a divorce you're never separated your linked with that other individual for the rest of your life. A lot of shity men out there think it's over when the child is 18 but that's not what about when the child gets married or graduates college or has children and then there's grandchildren involved the garbage last forever. I mentioned it to someone the other day when you took your palette until death do us part for Mary folks anyway till death do us part that's exactly what it is you will never be able to remove that person completely out of your life until one of you passes away
@steelgoodwin17_nyc65
@steelgoodwin17_nyc65 2 года назад
My baby mother is a deadbeat who doesn’t provide fir our daughter whatsoever. My daughter is 2 years old and she’s never had a job until now, only because the government provided her with housing so she has to pay rent. I have my 2 year old 24/7 and she comes to look at her like she’s a damn doll rather than a child. She has abandoned our child with me over 10x to where I had to put out missing person reports... I’ve been holding off for a over year not taking her to court for full custody just for the hope of her being here fir our daughter. In the end I still feel like a single father on the daily. It is definitely time for me to go to court, not for me, for this little girl
@LiveOnPurposeTV
@LiveOnPurposeTV 2 года назад
I wish you the best. Glad you are there for your daughter.
@jessiessweetangel
@jessiessweetangel 3 года назад
My teens were use to have me falsely arrested to never seeing them again in almost 16 years this July. 16 years later my ex brought me back to court saying I wanted nothing to do with them and are seeking money. Trial set for December in Ontario Canada 🇨🇦
@LiveOnPurposeTV
@LiveOnPurposeTV 3 года назад
Mary, I wish you luck with the trial. I hope you can be reunited.
@jessiessweetangel
@jessiessweetangel 3 года назад
@@LiveOnPurposeTV thank you
@icbratbrattz7909
@icbratbrattz7909 4 года назад
How about a narrasitic dad that even has they judge fooled..
@LiveOnPurposeTV
@LiveOnPurposeTV 4 года назад
Icbraz Brattz, I wish I could help you, but I cannot give specific legal advice. All I can say is stay honest and keep your children's best interest at heart. I hope you are able to find an attorney to help you with your situation. Thank you for watching.
@chriswade225
@chriswade225 4 года назад
Most people who claim narrasitic or sociopath actually have the issue's they claim the other parents have.
@deathcharge5468
@deathcharge5468 3 года назад
It’s funny how the court naturally chooses the mother as the base parent and paints the father as an evil being
@LiveOnPurposeTV
@LiveOnPurposeTV 3 года назад
DEATH CHARGE, there is cases where the father gets custody.
@jeremymenning56
@jeremymenning56 3 года назад
@@LiveOnPurposeTV about 10% 9f the cases. Not very equal.
@mensafamilyhustle3356
@mensafamilyhustle3356 3 года назад
I have the opposite situation and I'm the more stable parent
@SACRAMENTO_916
@SACRAMENTO_916 3 года назад
My girl wants to move out of town with her mom because shes going to be lonely and also takes my kids away from me. We dont have problems at all but what am not agree on is that my girl choose her mom 1st instead of me. I mean we have a family we supposed to stay together and not living with their parents but she dont want to leave her mom... What you guys think i need a suggestion???
@dannyboytruckingadventure5415
@dannyboytruckingadventure5415 3 года назад
@@SACRAMENTO_916 if she quick to leave without worry about u leave her she’s not the one for you
@ray2k105
@ray2k105 3 года назад
I have a child that has just turned 8yrs old. I have him on Fridays after i finish work until Sunday then he goes home to his mother. A few weeks ago my son told me his mum sold little white bags out of her car. I took my son off her for a few weeks and then I tried to work things out because she had denied any knowledge. And now my son is back with his mother he is sleeping at her house, stays at her friend's and new boyfriends house. My son told me that he had stayed in his mums friend's bed with him and his mother but my sons mother stayed in the next room in the house.. my sons school phone me up whilst I'm working nearly everyday asking why my son is not in school. My son does not eat much or wash at home because his mother does not prompt him to. What should I do? Should I take his away from her and make her go to court? I am stressed everyday worrying where my son is and I have spoke to the social services, they just keep saying they think I should do what I think is right for my son they can't tell me what they think I should do. It would be really helpful for some good advice I don't really have anyone that can talk and help me out.. the social services have been on my sons mums back for a few years now and I have no bad records at all. Help me out please
@LiveOnPurposeTV
@LiveOnPurposeTV 3 года назад
I know you don't want to hear this, Ray, but you are the one that has to make the decision. What is holding you back if you are stressed or concerned? Figure out what that is and deal with it first so that you can decide and move on. You may need some help and can schedule a call with one of our coaches to help you, www.drpauljenkins.com/breakthroughcall.
@jaszzy26
@jaszzy26 4 года назад
I want to work part time so I can focus on my kids and don't have to pay daycare when they are with me , we have shared custody, is that I can do ?
@LiveOnPurposeTV
@LiveOnPurposeTV 4 года назад
Evolution-Starts With You, unfortunately I cannot provide specific legal advice here. I can make videos with Sid because he is an attorney and I have some experience with child custody, but as far as advice for you as an individual, it's not within my realm. My apologies.
@johnhamilton6205
@johnhamilton6205 2 года назад
I fought and won full custody of my son! She was stripped of all rights but to advise me of his best interest! Couldn’t come within 500 ft of us unless it’s supervised visits at my discretion and in a public place!
@LiveOnPurposeTV
@LiveOnPurposeTV 2 года назад
John Hamilton, I wish the best for you and your son.
@annaclusker2261
@annaclusker2261 2 года назад
Wow how did u do it as my violent ex won't let me see my son for 7 months..and he's on drugs .
@johnhamilton6205
@johnhamilton6205 2 года назад
@@annaclusker2261 I had documentation and a great lawyer! I dug in deep and took all the mental abuse my ex gave out! My circumstances was on my side from the get go! She abused her oldest son and was caught by a tenant and was reported to cps and after their investigation they declared her unfit but I didn’t know that at the time! I had school records of sons absentees and they were overly excessive (28 days or more). She scheduled an mhmr (mental health evaluation) for her oldest and she was a no show and got documentation on it! She just flat out told me of her and her boyfriends sex life in detail! I caught her in lies and also she never appeared in hearings nor did what the judge ordered us to do! I went very deep into that rabbit hole to ensure I got custody of my son and still paying the price of the mental and emotional abuse I endured and this all happened in 2009! I would do it all over again for my son cause he has grown into an awesome man and is going to have a great career ahead of him and we both know that he wouldn’t have had that with her! Wish you luck
@johnhamilton6205
@johnhamilton6205 2 года назад
@@LiveOnPurposeTV thank you! We are happy and doing great! He’s about to turn 20 and still ticklish and I’m still enjoying being his father! Lol
@johnhamilton6205
@johnhamilton6205 2 года назад
@@annaclusker2261 if he is not allowing visitation I would follow what the decree says and document several times he has failed to appear with your son and then seek help with legal counsel and action!
@GLAMTHATFACEWithLALAxoxo
@GLAMTHATFACEWithLALAxoxo 3 года назад
I’m watching my husband and I are looking for lawyers to get custody of my stepdaughters. The mom displays all these things.
@LiveOnPurposeTV
@LiveOnPurposeTV 3 года назад
All Things Tanya, good luck.
@weknowcomputertech
@weknowcomputertech 3 года назад
Stay out of it.
@wills.4013
@wills.4013 3 года назад
Don’t listen to the negative comment here by Katheryn Wilson. My fiancé is a better mother figure than my child’s mother. If you are anything like my family you have every right to be doing what’s best for the children.
@jaynecassidy3651
@jaynecassidy3651 2 года назад
My daughter lost her children to grandparents for no real reason. It was an a used assault against an aunt that took one of the children. I haven’t been allowed to see my grandchildren for 8 months and my daughter is distraught. It’s been very unfair what social work and court have done. 😩
@LiveOnPurposeTV
@LiveOnPurposeTV 2 года назад
I am so sorry.
@bellgomez5634
@bellgomez5634 3 года назад
What can be done with a child who suffers from anxiety, speech delay and learning disabilities? His father has been keeping child on school days and it’s every week and he has no valid reason to why child didn’t go to school
@LiveOnPurposeTV
@LiveOnPurposeTV 3 года назад
Bell Gomez, talk with your school about what they can do to encourage the child
@createbje8627
@createbje8627 3 года назад
I feel two- faced story in this interview
@LiveOnPurposeTV
@LiveOnPurposeTV 3 года назад
Thank you for watching.
@DragonsGaura
@DragonsGaura 3 года назад
Wait so mom called put all this abuse that might have happened at dads and the judge gave custody to the dad wtf
@LiveOnPurposeTV
@LiveOnPurposeTV 3 года назад
Amanda Beltran, the stories Sid and I could tell...
@godssoldier3319
@godssoldier3319 3 года назад
Thank you
@LiveOnPurposeTV
@LiveOnPurposeTV 3 года назад
Gods Soldier, you are welcome.
@JCollex
@JCollex 3 года назад
My divorce was final last week and my ex moved across the country 2 days later even though we have a joint custody agreement in place. She got married over the weekend. she's unstable never worked and is constantly making decisions on emotion. She also knows that it's not my desire to pursue legal matter and she doesn't think that I will.
@LiveOnPurposeTV
@LiveOnPurposeTV 3 года назад
Justin Stanton, that is tough. I am sorry, I hope you are able to see your children.
@JCollex
@JCollex 3 года назад
@@LiveOnPurposeTV Thank you I'm working with a lawyer now and feel I have a good case against her based on her actions.
@hiaslayer
@hiaslayer 3 года назад
She will go to prison then I suppose as she is breaking a contact order.
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