She labeled me a narcissist. Told her brother. Haven't talked to my wife in a year, I love her and trust in God for the future. Helped start a non-profit reuniting kidnapped children using DNA kits. Its a global endeavor, I'm using my time wisely following marriage helper information available. This was helpful as all the videos are. I waited so long to say marriage vows. I still hold them closer then any other promise.
But I DID pre-diagnosis my husband's cognitive decline. The physician who tested him also agrees with me. I am age 72, intelligent and savvy. I've lived with him for 27 years after all.
I don’t know how to talk to my spouse anymore. We lost a child at birth in 2014. Then after that my spouse was soliciting other women for sex online through social media and in person because he says I was withholding from him. He was also complaining openly at public events and with our friends. I told him I was feeling mistreated and disrespected by him. We have both publicly shamed each other. Him by shaming me in front of friends and I shamed him on social media and to our friends. I also had an affair years later that is no longer happening. There’s so much disconnect and information discovered by my questions to him about our relationship and goals that I found out was a lie and he said he was only doing it to please me and because he had other motives to get what he wanted which was sex. We have been married for 23 years and this is just now coming up. We are currently living apart with teenagers that we currently do a joint custody agreement as far as living arrangements and visitation. I’m confused and don’t know how to deal with my husband and our marriage. Can you please help?
Marriage Helper has many resources that can help you. There are many articles and free information on hope when your marriage is in trouble. marriagehelper.com
YES! There is hope! Are you familiar with the Save My Marriage: A Marriage Helper Community? You can look into it here: facebook.com/groups/783603618395431/. I found Marriage Helper almost six years ago. Today my marriage has been reconciled and is better than it was. You can also call the office and ask to speak to a Client Rep that can help you find the right tools for your marriage at this time. The office can be reached at 615-472-1161. Meanwhile, check out the first thing to do when saving your marriage here: marriagehelper.com/first-step-podcast/ Since I found Marriage Helper, I completed their online course and have attended their workshop. Today, I volunteer with the organization to help others find hope, like I did.
That's a great question Kimberly Murphy! For specific situations like this, you may want to consider giving us a call directly. We can help guide you to the best resources that can help turn your marriage situation around and answer specific things like this. You can call us directly at 1 866 903 0990, or schedule a call directly by following this link! marriagehelper.com/marriage-strategy-call/
You can reach out to the office at the phone number I shared below for Kimberly. You can also use the Contact form on the website: marriagehelper.com/contact/ Consider joining the free facebook group, too: facebook.com/groups/783603618395431/
