How To Be A Kind Perpetrator In Relationships 

Sometime I think it better to just be alone.

Best way to start off 2023 - thanks for this

I am half way into this video and had to comment. Thank you again for sharing your wisdom with others. It is a pleasure to watch your videos as we all want to be better. Much love.

Hi Noah! Miss your videos man! Obviously it’s been about 3 months since your last post. I am still happy with all your hard work over the years, and I believe that everything you have done has been healing for thousands of people, myself included! I believe you wouldn’t care about me saying this, but I aspire to be like you… I can hear your voice saying “ don’t follow any teacher” or “ learn to insource” haha … anyway love you forever man take care

Another great video, thanks. 🙏🏼 I laughed most of the way through it… because its so true and humbling ❤

Always appreciate your videos Noah! 🙏 They have helped me out for years, helped me to learn to meditate and to overcome my fear of not falling asleep.

Thanķyou Noah ! I love you! So glad your back. I just got a random thought thinking about you and you actually have recent videos!

Happy New Year, Noah! May you have a productive and meaningful year.

Thank you for another great video with wisdom from heart❣

I took lots of notes. Thank you.

Happy new year Noaaaahhhhh!!

Be Wise, Keep Quiet One of the best things to do in a senseless argument is to not let your adversary have someone to quarrel with. Sitting your pride to the side is a hard thing to do, especially when you know you're right. But don't let the satisfaction of being right to a fool, take away the energy you have that could be used for doing more productive things. When we stoop so low as to argue with people who don't care about us, and want nothing more but to see us break, we lose anyway, no matter how right we may end up being when all is said and done. Take the high road, it probably won't look like the coolest or most popular thing to do by those who don't really understand. But it will be well worth saving that energy and putting it to use in an area of your life where you could be a lot more productive.

This was so helpful and really powerful:) thank you!!

So far: it feels eyeopening. I failed in a discussion with my daughter! I am ready to commit to never doing it again. So well explained! So helpful! Thank you so much!

Excellent video brother!

Wow need this right now-great explanation of those little subtleties

Noah,,as always you uncover the reality,,I’m so full of wishes,,you are the truth,, and I understand you very much,always have,thank you so much for your time

New year, new video!

Wish You A Happy New Year.. !!

Hello Noah, I just found in my experience something that’s blocking me from healing any emotions and I don’t really know how to take care of it, I watched your “Are you rejecting your negative emotions?” Video and at first all made sense and it is beautiful to want to connect to that part of one’s self but part of me began to think “is healing just rejecting your emotions because I don’t want it?” as if healing my emotions always meant that I rejected my emotions and hated the pain. Kind of comes from “if I can be okay with all these things then why would I even want to change them/heal them, etc” if you could help me that would be extremely appreciated 🙏 Thanks for listening and have a great rest of your day!!

Life is pain. Why are we here in the first place just to suffer. Don’t tell me suffering is a choice. I’m not the most caring person. When I did something wrong like not give a shit. I don’t get love. I’m not allowed to feel tired or overwhelmed where are you Noah 😢

What do you think of the world transformation movement?

Noah, hello I hope you're well. I need your advice man. I live with someone who doesn't have very good hygiene. I have asked them several times to improve it. Wash their hands after using bathroom to urinate etc. But no improvement. Last time they got really angry and shouted head off me, told me to f**k off. I suppose they thought I was mocking them. What do I do man? I guess ive no choice but to let it go.... it's driving me insane, ive been overwashing my hands, washing anything i think may have touched with sanitizer. It harps backs to what you said years ago. You only suffer when you know about it ha. I know that 4/5 people in the world don't even have access to sanitation. And our ancestors certainly didn't. So maybe i'm too privilaged.

After doing this and hearing their side, they say they don’t trust or believe what you say and now you are stuck in a bad way wondering how to fix things and they don’t want to hear anything or try with you. They say they don’t want you to talk and that they can’t get past what you said. Is that the end of it? Do you allow them time to come to trust you again? What if that trust is broken? How do you forgive yourself if they don’t forgive you?

Are you working on a new course Noah?

How can I be a kind parpetrator with a narcissist?

Where did I go Noah?

I don't agree. Many times people with trauma SEE agression where there is not due to the trauma

very nice post

HEALING IS HARD. 🌐WHOLENESS AND BALANCE 🙏